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Doctors Say Oral Sex Can Kill (I Demand a Recount)


Last week I posted an article that spoke on the potential health benefits for women to perform oral sex called “Can Head Save Your Life.” In response to this wonderfully inspiring post, fellow bloggers April from AroundHarlem.com and Selly from The Fountain Flow sent me separate counter articles speaking on the potential dangers of fellatio. Yeah, I know, fellas, that news ruined my week (and possibly my life) too.

While the previous article proclaimed that giving head could decrease a woman’s chances of developing breast cancer (I was later informed it was a prank news story, but I still have hope), the latest article from the ladies says that doctors have found a possible link between oral sex and throat cancer. Ouch! I’ll just pray that this one winds up being a prank as well, but I felt it was only right to share.

Either way, I feel like more research needs to happen to prove or disprove either article. Who’s up for a little “research?”

I kid, I kid, in all seriousness, check out the article below and be sure to always make wise decisions when you pick your partners.

Sincerely yours,

NWSO

The Oral Sex Cancer Connection
Doctors Say There Is a Link Between Oral Sex and Throat Cancer
By CATHY BECKER
Oct. 15, 2008

Teresa Dillon was surprised to learn four years ago that what she deemed as an average sore throat actually was stage 2 cancer on her tonsil.

"People think the face of oral cancer is a 70-year-old man who's been chewing tobacco and drinking whiskey all his life," she said. "But the face of oral cancer now is — it's me, a young woman, healthy, nonsmoking, fit."

But what really shocked the waitress and then 38-year-old was that the human papillomavirus may have caused her illness, a illness that is often sexually transmitted.
"It was a virus that caused my tumor, the HPV virus, which just knocked me over," Dillon said.

The HPV Cancer Connection
Dillon is part of a new trend that's puzzling scientists. While most HPV infections clear on their own, there is an alarming surge of oral cancers linked to the virus.

Johns Hopkins researchers reported in a study published in February in the Journal of Clinical Oncology that between 1973 and 2004 the incidence of HPV-related oral cancers among people in their 40s nearly doubled. Today more than 34,000 people have oral cancer and 39 percent of those cases are related to HPV, according to data from the American Cancer Society.

"These are patients that are young. They are in their 30s and 40s. They are nonsmokers, and they don't drink alcohol excessively. And every time we look we are able to find HPV-16 in their tissue, in the biopsy specimen," said Dr. Robert Haddad, a Dana Farber Cancer Institute head and neck surgeon.

High-risk HPV strains cause cancer by using special proteins to disrupt healthy cells. It makes cells unable to repair themselves and unable to control how they are duplicated.

The virus is transmitted by direct contact. You only get HPV in the location it attaches to, so it never travels through the bloodstream.

So just exactly how it gets in the mouth may stun you.

"There is absolutely a link between oral sex and oral cancer," said Dr. Ellen Rome, of the Cleveland Clinic.

Although no proof exists yet, there is a chance that HPV can be transmitted mouth to mouth.

"We can't rule out the virus could be transmitted in saliva by other types of contact — like for instance sharing a drink or sharing a spoon," said Dr. Maura Gillison, of Johns Hopkins Kimmel Cancer Center.

And once the virus is in your mouth, you can't just wash it out. The only way to get rid of it is extensive drug treatment.

HPV Oral Cancer: Who's at Risk?
Men are 35 percent more likely than women to develop HPV-related oral cancer, according to the study in the Journal of Clinical Oncology. But both men and women are susceptible.

While scientists don't know yet how sexual orientation factors into the equation, they know the No. 1 risk factor is a high number of sexual partners. So straight or gay, the more partners, the more risk.

"That doesn't mean it's a magic number. Unfortunately, it only takes exposure to one infected partner to actually acquire the infection," Gillison said.

Infection with the virus usually happens in adolescence. And while oral sex today isn't necessarily more prevalent than it was in the past, it certainly is more accepted. And some often presume it is free of risks.

A 2005 study in the Journal Pediatrics found that teens think oral sex is less risky to their health than vaginal sex.

"I think it's obvious right now to really say that oral sex is not a safe way of having sex and it could have consequences," Haddad said.

"The risks associated with it don't get as much press as the risks you can see with vaginal sex," Rome said. "You don't see someone pregnant after oral sex."

And many don't even know they've contracted HPV and Dillon was one of those people.
"You'd be hard-pressed to find anybody," she said, "who would say that I'm promiscuous, because I'm not."

Dillon, who after six months of grueling chemotherapy is now in remission, said she wishes she had known the risk as a teen.

"You have to be careful. Know who you're with and you have to take precautions. You need to educate yourself. You need to know what's going on," Dillon said.


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  • IMJUSTME

    damn this is some real insight a guy ive been talkin to but havent taken it that far has made a comment that he thinks i will do it to him the first time we have sex after this the third thought in mind is HELLZ NA

  • salathia

    wow. srsly? pretty messed up, as it should be a regular part of sex.
    *shrug* ... ladies under 27, get the gardasil vaccine ... helps protect against 4 types of HPV (obviously, i've done a little research lol. i'm getting the vaccine soon ... and not because of this LOL :)

    anyway though ... that sux

  • aroundHarlem.com

    LOL @ i'm willing to risk death. hell I'm going to die anyway.

  • http://nwso.net Naked With Socks On

    salathia,

    lol at "that sux" funny choice of words... LOL

  • Jonathan

    Well, i say be selective before "eating out" anyways.

  • AroundHarlem.com

    Anonymous, I don't want to sound harsh, but is you life worth sex?

    Statistically speaking, the #1 cause of cervical cancer is multiple sex partners and HPV.

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    Public Service Link of the Day --- http://www.cdc.gov/STD/HPV/STDFact-HPV.htm

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    Having sex with one STD increases the likelihood that you will be reinfected with a different strain of the same disease at best --- and --- HIV or something else in a worse case scenario.

    Stop having sex and go see your doctor.

    (Who knew all that pre-med stuff would come in handy in a blog comment?)

  • http://nwso.net Naked With Socks On

    Anon,

    Thanx for sharing your story.

    I don't have as much background info as Harlem, but all I can say is when and if you do have new partners you should tell them beforehand. People that knowingly have something and neglect to inform people is how it spreads and causes a chain reaction. I can't even imagine the fear of rejection you may have to deal with moving forward when people find out, but I hope in your heart you'd feel better about giving someone the option that you didn't have in deciding whether or not to be with someone with HPV (or any std for that matter). Just my 2 cents

  • AroundHarlem.com

    From Anonymous: "aroundharlem.com, actually i've only had unprotected sex with only 2 people. not a lot of people can say the same. of course my life is not worth sex. i think my numbers are still very low. it's not something that i planned on. and i was always in committed realtionships with these guys. i was responsible. we discussed it. we both claimed to get tested before we had unprotected sex. see, they can't test men for HPV. the only way that we check for it now is when women go to get their PAP smears. men may show symptoms if they get genital warts. And another thing, since all of you are doing your research, they do not claim that condoms protect you from HPV 100%! which means..........LISTEN CLOSELY....you can be wearing a condom, and still get it. any contact with the genital area, you can get it. skin to skin contact honey, that's all it takes is a little heavy petting, and that's it."

    Hello Anonymous,

    I'm sorry if my statement came across as if I was attacking you for your sexual behavior. It was not my intention.

    I'm glad that you responded with more details. You expressed the point I was trying to make.

    Your health can continue to be compromised if you continue to have sex or near sex (heavy petting/masturbation) with the people that you are already having sex with.

    My point is you don't know what other people are doing or who they are with. You are correct when you say that men can carry diseases and pass them on to women without their knowing.

    The men you were with may well have had negative tests. I'm not saying that they deceived you in any way.

    What I am suggesting is that you refrain from all sexual activity for awhile and talk to your doctor about future precautions.

    You said "i think my numbers are still very low". I put up the link so that people would be more informed. This statement is proof that STDs have nothing to do with promiscuity.

    I'm just trying to get people to realize that unfortunately, having sex can be detrimental to your health these days. (I hate that I had to write that last sentence but its true.)

    The link talks about immunity and susceptibility towards future illnesses. I would suggest that you really work on making sure that you are healthy (again, work with your doctor) so that this incurable disease that you do have does not cause any further damage to your health.

    I don't want to scare you or anyone else out here, but a large percentage of people with HIV had a prior STD. Once your immune system is compromised it's easier to get other diseases.

  • http://nwso.net Naked With Socks On

    Peace Anon,

    I'm not a doctor and don't know the specifics, but to my knowledge HPV affects women more than men, but the article does say "Men are 35 percent more likely than women to develop HPV-related oral cancer, according to the study in the Journal of Clinical Oncology. But both men and women are susceptible."

    Either way, unprotected sex always puts you at risk for something. So best to be careful and wise in whoever you choose to share you bed/life with. Talking openly with your partner about their past and sexual habits is phase one of protecting yourself, two is actually using protection.

    But again, I don;t have a specific answer for you, i'd speak with a doctor for the answers you were looking for regarding the same holding true for cunnilingus or not

  • Deka

    DAMN DAMN DAMNNNNNNN!!!

    lol nah for real safety first. so much to loose these days.

    heads up eyes open... ahem

  • anonymous

    I dont care. i'm willing to risk death. hell I'm going to die anyway.

  • fayemi

    yeah, we all die from something lol, i agree, I'll ride out with you on that one but seriously the medical community is always coming out "research" making us fear one thing or another. I swear these doctors don't even know what HPV is and they want to vaccinate women for it?! I don't think it's necessary. However, choosing your partners wisely is.

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/03950062655380880200 Perfect Storm

    Damn!! Are we left with anything??! Everything is bad for you. It brings a whole new seriousness to the pre-inspection!

  • anonymous

    i just found out about 6 months ago that i have HPV. i'm 30 and i've only been intimate with like 4 people. i feel like my world has ended. and i don't really want to have any other partners, i'm afraid to tell them that i have it.

  • anonymous

    to aroundharlem.com, actually i've only had unprotected sex with only 2 people. not a lot of people can say the same. of course my life is not worth sex. i think my numbers are still very low. it's not something that i planned on. and i was always in committed realtionships with these guys. i was responsible. we discussed it. we both claimed to get tested before we had unprotected sex. see, they can't test men for HPV. the only way that we check for it now is when women go to get their PAP smears. men may show symptoms if they get genital warts. And another thing, since all of you are doing your research, they do not claim that condoms protect you from HPV 100%! which means..........LISTEN CLOSELY....you can be wearing a condom, and still get it. any contact with the genital area, you can get it. skin to skin contact honey, that's all it takes is a little heavy petting, and that's it.

  • anonymous

    Thanks Naked. there's no doubt that if i choose to be intimate with anyone else, that i'll tell them. i don't want to do to anybody else, what someone did to me. and there's always hope. there's no cure for HPV, but God willing, your body can sometimes naturally fight off the infection. the average amount of time is 2 years, in most successful cases. They say that every woman at least once in her lifetime is going to come in contact with HPV, if she hasn't already. Read as much as you can on the subject: http://www.cancer.org/docroot/CRI/content/CRI_2_6x_Thinking_About_Testing_for_HPV.asp

  • anonymous

    Question - I am a male & was wondering if the same would apply to my female counterpart since I love giving oral?