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I Have a Shiny Spandex Fetish

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Over the past few months I've realized something about myself, I have a thing for women in shiny spandex. Yeah, I know it's not a new invention but everywhere I turn I keep seeing women in this form-fitting fabric and I can't seem to turn away. There's just something about the combination of the way that skin-tight material clings to a shapely woman's body and the subtle shimmer it gives off that just drives me wild. Regular spandex has been known to amplify booties, but this shiny version is something else.

I first noticed this new fetish/obsession when this girl that I've seen a million times before wore a pair to a mutual friend's party. To be honest, I never really paid much attention to her before but when I spotted her in some black shimmery leggings, I couldn't keep my eyes off her legs. I guess the material highlighted the definition in her lower region that I had previously missed, because even girl's that appear to have no ass at all it jeans can look like they have a little somethin' somethin' going on in the back when they rock spandex. (Fellas, am I wrong?) So whoever it is that invented this wonderful material and made it a fashion trend this year deserves a Noble Booty Prize or something.

Warning: This wonderful winter fashion trend is not for everyone. While the shimmering material has been found to drive me and other men wild (I did an unofficial poll), you still have to have some sort of shapeliness to go along with it. And round is not the shape I'm talking bout. Just because something is comfortable and fits doesn't mean it's for everyone. I’ve seen a few "plus-size" sisters pull it off because the spandex tightens up a few things, but if you're working with a whole lotta something there's but so much this thin material can do. Because just how spandex can accentuate a woman's booty, in the wrong hands it can be a major fashion faux pas that highlights guts instead of butts. So please use caution when wearing my latest fashion fetish, ladies.

So am I alone in this shiny spandex fetish? Do you find that spandex does make a woman’s butt and legs look better? Ladies, do you feel sexier in a nice pair of tights? Have you found that guys come out the woodworks to holla when you wear spandex? Do you wear spandex because you know it drives guys wild or just because they’re comfortable? Have you ever seen the wrong woman in spandex and been turned off? Are you guilty of wearing spandex when you know you shouldn't?

Speak your piece...

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  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    lol @ SpongeBob ass

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    feel free to post pics or send to Nakedwithsockson@gmail.com

    LOL

    i'm kidding, kinda

    HA!

  • jsteezy

    Doesn't always look good. You have to have the right ass for spandex. Basically your ass has to be round if it ANY other shape...it just ain't right. I've seen chicks with sponge bob asses in spandex ...no good!
    Also you must have hips in order to rock spandex. If you don't have a round ass or hips, stick to jeans and sweats.

  • randomgirl

    OMFG I love spandex. They are so cute and cheap. I get them for $4.99 at conways and when i wear them, all the guys love me and buy me things. They are the best. Especially with some nice stilettos. Once you wear them guys will be all over you.

  • http://www-eyeswideshut.blogspot.com LyRik

    LMBO. SpongeBOb! ROTFL...

    Her Butt is Ridiculous.

    When I wear miine I have to where a shirt that covers my butt. I don't want anyone buying me anything.

    But they do look nice, I find myself standing in the mirror a lot and taking lots of pictures before I leave the house with different shirts....

  • http://inthesunshyne.blogspot.com yes

    I wear some around the house when it's cold, maybe I should try walking outside in some.

  • http://www-eyeswideshut.blogspot.com LyRik

    ***Wear*** How do I edit?

  • randomgirl

    I'm serious ladies get some in every color.
    Meagan has a hot body, but serena ehhh having a fat ass is not everything. something about her is NOT sexy and she looks manly. That's another thing you don't have to have a HUGE ass to look good in spandex just a nice one.

  • sohoissooverated

    Meagan butt looks deformed in the second pic.

  • sexywildcool

    I would say that the women in spandex is sexy! OMG. I can't take my eyes off a nice size booty in that. It accentuates a womans body sure enough. It is something about a curvacious woman

  • K-Love

    All women sizes 20 and up..." Please STEP AWAY FROM THE SPANDEX!" That's the problem not everyone is gonna look good in spandex. You have to have the perfect shape. Not to skinny and definately not too big. One size fits MOST not all. And a few of my fellow plus size friends are in denial, we can't wear everything that megan good wears you must wear what compliments your body and im quite sure spandex does not compliment all body or booty types...SO NWSO since you have a broad audience, PLease tell them that not all can wear spandex. "I WANT SPANDEX, ALL SPANDEX" Buddy Love in the Nutty Professor

  • sb

    serena got a donk

  • Melody

    you're alter ego Taco has the same fetish. He kept complimenting me on mine the night of your party..."Are those leather? "ooh I love shiny spandex" (Fyi...they were actually latex..lol)

  • Anonymous

    Woman should really wear shirts that come at least right below the ass. When you don't females either end up with a camel toe or a saggy crotch--so not cute. Megan's work because they are more tailored & designed like pants. Still wondering how long they will stay around, I have a shiny pair, that are comfy--makes me want to jump around & kick things when I have them on...hahaha.......

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @ K-Love

    I did give a warning. Right in the graph that starts "Warning:" LOL... Are you skimming my posts? SMH This one isn't even that long.

    @Melody,

    I have no recollection of said conversation, please cease and desist such slanderous accusations before I am forced to file cease and desist papers with my lawyer. I have him on speed dial. Don't test me. LOL

    @Chuck

    Homie, you were supposed to make the call, send a smoke signal something. Greedy ass. lol

  • sweetshani

    Being a plus size woman myself, I think everyone can wear spandex but it is extremely important to cover what should be covered, accessorize and carry urself with confidence.

    I wouldn't suggest a plus size woman wear that ensemble that Megan Good is wearing but it can be pulled off with a cute sweater or long shirt and belt.

    Jennifer Hudson is smaller than me but I can handle what she has on in that pic. I can throw on a longer top to cover a little more of the booty and thighs and strut it like I am on America's Next Top Model.

    The only problem is when plus size women think they can wear exactly what a smaller/skinnier person wears. They need a reality check so they can know/learn how to flaunt without looking like a hot mess!

    I understand what some of you are saying because I have seen some big girls wearing some inappropriate and they are spilling out all over the place and they look like they can't breathe....lol.....wow! That makes me want to put on the police siren and haul them away to the fashion police precinct.

    @NWSO
    I will email you a Halloween pic of me in spandex and heels. How I rocked it, is appropriate for my size and I had plenty of men trying to get at me FYI

  • Mark B. Esquire

    Ladies a few guidelines however...

    1. MUST be curvaceous, 'overly voluptuou' or way too slim aint workin in spandex. Either it only accentuates how skinny ya ass is or just looks like stockings with cuffs.

    2.Good shoes are an absolute value. Variables such as flats, or skips bring the wow factor down a couple notches.

    3. Lastly, just cause you know we love it, don't overdo it. You know niggas...we get over things faster than trackstars and hurdles.

    Holla...

  • Chuck Donald

    I still love white pants.... But them Spandex are crazy... I went to a spandex/legginzzzz party in BK... Good Lord, it wazzz all shape and sizzzzeeesss.

  • La Professora Hielo

    @Mark B.
    "3. Lastly, just cause you know we love it, don’t overdo it. You know niggas…we get over things faster than trackstars and hurdles."

    HAAAAAAAA!

    I'm a leggings girl. They're simple, sexy but not overly (welllll actually if you got that type of ass where you can see it from the front...anything tight is overtly sexy but that ain't me), comfortable, sleek...

    They do draw attention to the humps but in the same fashion draw just as much attention to the bumps (in allll places)...Haven't quite gotten into the whole shiny thing Megan got goin on here (very John Travolta and Olivia Newton John-Grease) but if you can rock it...rock it and do it well!

  • Da bidness

    It is something about shiny spandex that will get a girl Dinner and Drinks. lol

  • Da bidness

    nice article.. Keep it up mane

  • PreZZure

    iAgree...But girls w/ no ass in spandex...ugghghghghgh

  • J-Tall

    "we get over things faster than trackstars and hurdles."

    that's what's up....lol

  • Hope2Star

    I like the whole, leggings-spandex-dancewear-shiny pants look. They are super cute, comfy and fun. I must admit its getting a little over played as with most fads. I like to catch trends at the beginning. Yeah I was the lone girl at the club with skin tight leggings that looked like leather. People looked at me like i was crazy. Well not so much in nyc but back home in dc. Now ladi-dadi and everybody have them on with a pair of ankle boots. Good blog NWSO!!!!

  • ahahai

    i love spandex and think it looks great on most women skinny thick and n between. When they came back in style in 2005, i went crazy over them... now Im sooooo over it. yet again. I will say to this to women of all sizes. "Rock them with stylish caution" Its the equivalent to guys with guts wearing "wifebeaters" who wants to see all that?...

  • Emotional Funk

    I've tried the spandex the 2nd time around last fall but I can't do it. I too tall and slender and to really and to really rock them with heels is a little to much attention for me. But I like to see girls who know how to rock them they're cute.

  • righteous mama

    LMAO at Mark. Yeah, I won't be rushing to the mall to cop some spandex.

    Megan is such a cute little lady isn't she. I don't think her ass looks deformed in the 2nd pic. The pants are just a tad high above the waist. J Hud better work! And Serena's booty is RIDICULOUS! A man had better have his skills up to even attempt that mountain. LOL!

  • P. Lynn

    LMFAO @ jsteezy.

    It's true though.You can't have a deformed looking ass and wear spandex. It aint workin for ya honey!
    I think thhe pants are a great buy and for us women it's the closest we can be to naked and still have on clothes. I have guys saying to me dag I didn't know ya ass was that fat. I'm like uh yea it's cause some pants and jeans help to shape or they just flatten out the booty, with spandex pants you just let it all hang out. The style however is a fall, winter, and semi-spring look. One should stop wearing the spandex pants by mid march. It's so last season. Lol. Time for lpastels and inens.

  • P. Lynn

    dag messed my spelling all up..stupid keyboard. Sorry you guys.

  • Soni

    Umm..hmmp..spandex. I just can't get it! I have a pair of liquid leather leggings and thatis as far as I will go. Some women need to realize that you can't wear what everyone is wearin..and for real tho..you have Megan Good as an example..I'm no lesbian but that bitch is hot in anything!

  • da ThRONe

    dont matter if your shape well doesnt matter what you wear! So hit the gym Ladies!

  • da ThRONe

    Better Yet you ladies should wear spandex while you guys work out @ the gym! =p~ makes your mouth water!

  • Ms.Mpho

    I myself have a shape more like a pear. Nice and thick I must say. I wouldn't dare wear spandex because I don't like how huge my ass looks. I know that sounds crazy, but I wore it before and actually got too much action. I thought I was up for auction. Therefore, as much as I would love to wear this form fitting attire I will pass.

    If you wear any size bigger than a 16 in pants you should not be wearing any kind of pants that are form fitting. Unless you were just blessed with amply supply of ass and not the gut, thighs, and cellulite that normally goes along with it.

  • Chic Spandex

    Most shapes can use some spandex. Most look better with a tunic/minidress top to cover the most common extra lumps, but they still make the legs look good. I think leggings are more attractive and chic than bare legs. Leggings are generally a little better than skinny jeans because they stay smooth. Only the goddesses should wear a unitard, but what a fantastic sight! Spandex should be done with style; I never liked the ragged jean skirts or torn anything.

  • http://www.spandexstar.com Sarah

    Spandex rocks!

  • stephanie4bnd

    I know that pain - I have always felt that spandex clad legs should be an industry standard. That is what I wear, regardless ofd my gender identity.

  • Sane

    Spandex makes a lady a "super sheroe"

    Wearing spandex is a way to a mans head!

  • d

    i love the shiny leggings / i also just bought a liquid black catsuit i wear with a studded belt and a choker with 6 inch heels and i get all the looks and sometimes when im horny i wear a vibrating thong then go out its alotta fun

  • claude

    J'adore un gros cul en pantalon ou legging brillant et moulant xxx wow

  • Anonymous

    iany woman can look better and sexier in lycra spandex. just beware of the false advertising, because underneath might not be so pretty

  • spandexslut

    I have had an intense spandex fetish since around 10 years old (currenty 27). Got a pair of shiny blue shorts for soccer practice. I will never forget that first feeling of putting on tight shiny silk-smooth spandex. And at that age sexual arousal was on a hair trigger. I wore them as often as possible until they wore out. Took me a few years to summon the courage to purchase my own pair at a local sporting goods store. Of course seeing females in shiny spandex gets me VERY excited, but it happens so rarely that when I do see it in public I often find myself intentionaly looking away for fear of being caught staring; that, plus the last time I became so excited that I thought I was having a panic attack.

    As for myself, an overweight lazy pothead, I would never go out in public wearing spandex; afraid of negative comments, which would be inevitable with my body.

  • Bob

    I have the biggest fetish for spandex i agree it should not be made over size med just the other day i seen a women in spandex in walmart white leggins and blue bikini panties was very sexy dont think she knew they were see through soo hottt

  • Bexx

    I think I have a fetish for them too !!! I wear them all the time, hopefully I look ok in them. I just love the feel of them against my skin and think they look soo sexy!
    Heres a pic! What do u think?

  • Shinyspandexlove

    This material has been around since the disco era (circa 1975), I have always loved it, I missed it when it seemed to have disappeared from the fashion world after the mid 80's.
    Thank god I saved some for my own enjoyment, yes I am a man & I love it, I even have to wear it regularly.
    I saved from those days my "Olivia Newton John's" type black disco jeans.

    For about 4 years now the material is everywhere to my great pleasure, I have bought since 34 sets of leggings, 8 catsuits, 14 tops or shirts, in all colors, but they have to be super shinny. Lately those disco jeans are back in stores, I'll be getting several for my own enjoyment.

    Yes I am a man, I'm 52 y.old, I wear all sorts of mixes of spandex ( black leggings with a silver tank top, for example) You wouldn't believe how excited I get when people look at me, I can tell they're getting aroused just by looking at me, often gay men flirt with me, witch is ok, but I politely let them know l'm not.
    Here's the best; every once in a while a girl will come & ask if she can touch, I answer, touch and even rub the part you enjoy most, or the part you're afraid to caress, guess what???
    One out of 4 can't stop rubbing & touching, they're getting off, after a while they go for my ass, even my groin.
    I buy them a drink so they stick around a little longer, by the time they've finished said drink, either they had me cum & know they did, or they want to take me home, or I ask them if they want to come to my place, they all go for one of these options, except for the ones with a boyfriend waiting, or that are married.
    This of course doesn't happen every time go dressed in such, some times I all I get is looks, finger pointing & giggles, but it's all worth it for those 3 out 5 times I go out & get off, get someone else off, or we both get off.

    I also can affirm that if she's wearing spandex and sees me (a man) in it, she's going to come, and start a conversation about how sexy she thinks spandex is, and thinks I'm a daring person to go out as a man dressed this way.
    But sooner or later she'll want to touch, and cop a feel, I love it, I make sure I let her know I love it, then she usually will ask me to do the same to her, that is sure to get nasty, provocative, and steaming hot, especially if in public view.

    I am an exhibitionist obviously, but you'd be surprised by how many ladies are just a much.