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Archive for May, 2009

Loose Threads, Vol. 4 (Best Blogs of Nov. ’08)

It’s that time again, Sock Heads. Time to dig in the vaults and unearth some of the best blogs from the archives. It’s a monthly series I like to call Loose Threads. Basically, it’s my way of letting new readers catch up on a few good posts they may have missed and a chance to [...]

Do You Use Condoms in a Committed Relationship?

Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t see how sex without a condom can even be an option. Unfortunately, I grew up (and continue to grow) in an era where HIV/AIDS and other STD/STI are gruesome realities. As far as I’m concerned, wearing a rubber is just part of the process. No glove, no love [...]

Do You Ever Question Your Religion?

During the course of last week’s discussion about virginity, a smaller conversation got started about religion, which always seems to be a hot button subject open for debate and conflicting opinion. It reminded me of an interview where rapper Ja Rule said he didn’t believe in religion. About a year and a half ago I [...]

Broken Promises (An Incomplete Strip Tease)

Tanya stood in my kitchen with this devilish look in her eyes and asked, “Do you have Ciara’s ‘Promise’ in your iTunes?” “Yeah, why?” I asked inquisitively. “Just put it on,” she replied. I walked over to my computer, selected the song and hit play. I returned to the kitchen to find Tanya in nothing [...]

The Rape of Shaniqwa Jenkins (What Can You Do To Help?)

Last week was a good week on NakedWithSocksOn.com. The discussion board was crazy and I scored my highest comment total for a single post to date—200-plus comments on “Do Men Really Want to Marry Virgins? (The Purity Myth).” While the conversation spiraled off in several different directions, there was one comment in particular that stuck [...]

What’s Your Fantasy? (Sex in Public)

A couple weeks ago I had to troop out to Queens to deal with an issue at my rental property. I hadn’t been around the old way in months so there were bound to be some changes but it’s always weird adjusting to shifts in the terrain of an area I called home for several [...]

Do Men Really Want to Marry Virgins? (The Purity Myth)

If you read yesterday’s Hump Day post and the one from last week, you can pretty much tell that I enjoy the art of sex lovemaking. (But really who doesn’t?) Now, I’ve never claimed to be the best you ever had (cue Drake’s record) but I definitely try to make it do what it do [...]

You Wouldn't Wanna Be My Bitch? (Pillow Talk)

Being that it’s Hump Day, I figured I’d take it there…again. Last week it was all about my fertile pen game (CLICK HERE for flashback), this time I just have a couple questions that I hope someone out there can answer. You wouldn’t wanna be my bitch? Really? Not even in the heat of passion as [...]