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What’s Your Fantasy? (Sex in Public)

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A couple weeks ago I had to troop out to Queens to deal with an issue at my rental property. I hadn’t been around the old way in months so there were bound to be some changes but it’s always weird adjusting to shifts in the terrain of an area I called home for several years. I noticed a few new stores popped up, the super market around the corner got an extended storefront, and apparently a hotel replaced this empty lot up the block (I wondered what they were building).

As I was strolling down XXXXX Blvd., reacquainting myself with the neighborhood, I looked up at this apartment building across the street that always used to catch my eye. It’s the tallest structure in the area, standing at about 20-something stories with various balconies protruding from the top floors. Every time I look at this building I think about one of my fantasies and that day was no different.

I’ve always wanted a balcony, because not only does it provide a great view and the chance to barbeque from the privacy of an elevated perch, it could give me a chance to have sex in the rain. I don’t know why but there’s something about the idea of having gentle drops (or a torrential downpour) flowing over my lover’s body while we made love that turns me on. I could just imagine our bodies gliding across each other like a pair of oiled down anacondas in heat, while I synchronized the power of my stroke with the thunder strikes as if the Mighty Thor himself was cheering me on. Plus, doing it from a balcony’s edge, where any nosy neighbor or passerby on the street could see, only adds to the thrill for me.

While the imagery of fornicating in the rain is exciting, outdoor sex is a fantasy all its own, so if I had a balcony (or the hood of a car) it would be christened in a heartbeat. The rain would just be an added bonus. Unfortunately, I’ve never lived anywhere that had a balcony or dated a girl with one. The closest I’ve come is a few hotel rooms with beachside views, but I was missing a willing partner to partake in any midnight marauding over the edge. As for the rain, a few episodes in the shower (see “I Found Love In This Club” and “Cougar Chronicles: Me & Mrs. Jones”) will have to do until I can get some summer lovin’ in the rain. Despite my desire to experience this fantasy one day, I’m far from an exhibitionist but I did almost do it in Central Park one time.

It was the middle of summer and my girlfriend at the time, Melinda, and I wound up at Central Park on a whim. After strolling the grounds for a bit we grabbed a seat on a secluded bench and took in the sunset while talking. We were still in our honeymoon stage so we generally couldn’t keep our hands off each other. As the sky got darker, our bodies got closer. It wasn’t long before Melinda was straddling me and we were engaged in heavy petting. I’m not sure why this part of the park wasn’t lit, but I recall us being pretty much in the cut and away from prying eyes—well, so I thought.

As Melinda and I continued our make out session, my hands worked their way up her shirt as I cupped her breasts and caressed her back, while her tongue worked its way though my mouth. I was turned on like I don’t know what and was thankful that I had a pack of condoms in my back pocket. Melinda and I were about to become one with nature and there wasn’t a soul in sight. That’s when I heard a rustle in the bushes a few feet away. I turned my head to see who was there and it was a homeless man carrying two shopping bags full of junk. He walked right past us without saying a word and drifted off across the lawn into the distance, with my eyes firmly on him the entire time.

By this point, Melinda was refocused on getting our groove on but I was totally unnerved by our homeless intruder. Although I watched him walk away, I had a strong feeling that Hobo Bob was still there in the bushes watching us. It was too dark to tell for sure but I swear I could see the outline of his two white shopping bags in the distance by a tree. Even still, Melinda was gung ho about getting our freak on but I just couldn’t do it. An audience might add to the moment, but the last thing I wanted to do was get caught with my pants down—literally—with Hobo Bob lurking in the darkness ready to slit our throats while we were, uh, distracted.

So I tapped Melinda on the ass and said, “Babe, I think that guy is still there and I ain’t trying to give him no show. Let’s just take this back to my crib.”

“Damn, you Hobo Bob,” she yelled out with a laugh. “I was gonna tear your ass up on this bench.”

“I know, babe, I know,” I sighed. “You’re such a sexy bitch right now.”

“What did you say?”

“Sorry, that just slipped out, I didn’t mean…”

“No, that’s okay. There’s something about how you said that that made me even wetter.”

“Oh, word. Say no more, we’re gonna try something different tonight. Let’s get out of here.”

“Anything you say, daddy.”

Fin.

So, what’s your fantasy? Have you ever had sex in the rain? Was it as sexy as it sounds? Have you ever had sex in public? Did you ever get caught in the act? If so, were you embarrassed or more turned on? Would you watch someone else have sex? Have you ever listened to your neighbors getting it in? Did it turn you on? Would you have sex on a balcony if no one could see you? Where’s the wildest place you’ve ever had sex?

Speak your piece…

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  • shante

    lmfao... That is all

  • Shulkie

    Open stairwell, parking lot, porch swing...given head in an open parking lot (I was so drunk), and head in several different cars both moving and parked. I don't have nearly as many crazy sex stories as I would like but I'm working on it!! I have a lot that I would like to accomplish sexually.

    I would definitely watch someone else have sex. and depending, maybe even join.

  • http://myspace.com/nexus_da_underdawg da ThRONe

    My fantasy is sex with two bi chicks for sure! Nope never in the rain. Is sex in a car "Public sex"?

    Every chick I know wanna have sex in the rain that dont seem so appealing to me.

    The wildest place was in a sex shop or in the club.

  • http://myspace.com/nexus_da_underdawg da ThRONe

    @NWSO

    Who is the chick in that pics she is crazy sexy!

  • http://myspace.com/nexus_da_underdawg da ThRONe

    She looks like Lola Angel

  • Shulkie

    @da ThRONe

    I think car sex is public. Especially if you're in a parking lot that's pretty busy.

  • http://myspace.com/nexus_da_underdawg da ThRONe

    @Shulkie

    Try parked in front of somebody house on side of the rode. It wasnt me I was already late for work but she had to have it. She was in love with my tongue game.

    Yeah I love getting car head alot. Its funny now I look over at other cars and think is he getting his dick sucked right now? LOL But its hard to drive and get blown at the same time.

  • http://myspace.com/nexus_da_underdawg da ThRONe

    Ans can you please change the picture on top please I dont wanna see her after every comment I post thank you. I know you normally dont ,but look out for ya boy! Im so serious no joking!

  • Shulkie

    I <3 Road Head!

    Good times, man, goooooooooooood times....

  • http://myspace.com/nexus_da_underdawg da ThRONe

    Girl cant get car head sucks for you guys!

  • Jennifer

    I've done it in a car, parked in an area that didn't have much traffic. It wasn't as fun as I thought it would be. I was too concerned with the possibility of getting caught by a cop car. What if a someone called them after they noticed a suspicious car parked on their block? LOL Plus my dude was tall and even in an SUV the positioning was awkward and uncomfortable. No fun at all! I've always been intrigued by sex in the rain. Never mind a balcony, I'd love to have a rooftop deck and give that a go.

  • cali sunshine

    lol... im sorry the hobo messed wit your groove...

    I am one of them females that loves havin sex in public... i think the sexiest place was in the park... me and my ex were havin one of our midnight picnics in the summer (i live in the middle of no where and sumer nights hit 70 to 80 degrees easy) so yes an actual picnic and yes at midnight... and after talkin and eatin and cuddlin... it got kinda heavy.. and he was like lets go to the car... and im like... naw lets just stay here condoms in hand we went at it.. nothin coverin us up just us hot and sweaty.. it was probably one of the most explosive orgasms ive had... so needless to say i have no problem with sex in public... the craziest place was... idk... in the back of an explorer wit 3 of his homeboys in the truck wit us... but havin ppl watch just made me more excited...

    theres such a long list of places ive had sex that i choose not to list them all but a few out of the ordinary: six flags, del taco ( i worked there lol), a trampoline in my back yard, and the mall in the food court... lol

    the list goes on and on.. what about the stuff that ppl have broken while in the act... now thats a list too... haha

  • Tiq

    My ex girl was really into role playing. One time, at like 4am, my car got towed and we had to pick it up over at the tow yard over on 33rd or something like that. The wait was mad long but it was damn near empty. She decided she wanted to play "the john and the prostitute". She came up to me like, "I'll suck ya dick for $20 daddy. My name is sasha." I gave her 20...we went in a corner passed the in take windows and she gave me a bj right there! The workers were at the window and everything. Then we went to the bathroom and got it in. If you've ever been to the tow yard in midtown, you know how nasty that bathroom is. It was awesome.
    Another time I played the priest and she was my naughty alter boy. Lol. It got real sacreligious that night.

  • Shay from L.A. (Los Angeles)

    I love sex in public places and I love to watch and be watched.

    Once I had sex on the trunk of my ex's car in the parking lot of a baseball field.

    A couple of times in the back of my Rover (couldn't wait to get home)

    My cuddy buddy lives in a high-rise so we have cut on the balcony a few times. Lives on the 18th floor over looking the city...the view is AHHHmazing.

    In the stairwell at work. Got busted but kept going, lol.

    In my office, wait is that considered public?

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @ Da ThRONe

    That's Angel Lola Luv, "famous" video model known for "allegedly" getting the booty injections.

    enjoy these links
    http://video.google.com/videosearch?client=safari&rls=en-us&q=lola+luv&oe=UTF-8&um=1&ie=UTF-8&ei=yjQWStKcOpaltge35L33DA&sa=X&oi=video_result_group&resnum=4&ct=title#

  • http://lovealwayssunny.wordpress.com Sunny Dee

    Public places are a fantasy of mine and I don't know what it is about the rain Ans but I'm with you on that one as well. I really used to have this Rainforest fantasy about being outside in the Rainforest with the rain pouring down, something about primal urges reemerging I'm sure.
    I've had sex in plenty of private places, including my balcony which is what I consider to be a private public place (as is the car, the HOOD of the car however would be a public place).
    Gotten caught? My most caught moment was when I was involved with the Bodyguard of a fairly popular (at the time) R & B group. I had gone to one of their shows to see him and while the group was on stage performing we stood on the stairwell leading away from the stage. Just barely out of sight of the 30,000 ticket holders when we got to going. It was the combination of their lovemaking songs and the thrill of my public places fantasy and we just couldn't miss this perfect opportunity. He easily slid past my thin material trappings and had me in a zone as he hit it from the back when a costume change must have been required because the four performers poured off the stage and were just as shocked as we were to be face-to-face with us in that moment they tried to use the stair case to make it to backstage. Ooops!

  • distinguishedgentlewoman

    What’s your fantasy?
    I'm with you, NWSO. There's something about sex in water that really turns me on. There are two sex scenes in the movie Wild Orchid that I would love to relive: One involves sex in a Brazilian cave with water pouring down on the two while they devour each other; the other is the scene where Mickey Rourke meets stranger Carrie Otis at a costume party, and they proceed to a bedroom window for some sweaty, tropical lovin', for all passersby to see.

    Have you ever had sex in public?
    Did it in Marine Park in a car and on one of the open lawns in Prospect Park. And, oh yeah, in a car on some street near my house. We had just ripped each other's clothes off and I was about to get me some when we noticed, peering in the window, Hobo Bob. I never put my clothes back on so quickly. Needless to say, that was a mood kill.

    There was another time when my ex was finger-popping me in the back of a cab. I got so excited I started moaning really hard. The cab driver heard me, obviously, and rolled the partition window down so he could hear what was going on with us in the back of his cab. We were so embarrassed, we paid the man and ran out that cab. Dang, another mood kill.

    Would you watch someone else have sex?
    I am a voyeur. I love to watch others have sex. My friend's ex once invited us to partake in an orgy with him, his girlfriend, and any other female that happened to accept his invitation. I told them I would come along, if I could watch. He agreed, but by the time we got there, his girl declined our offer to watch and we had to bounce. I was so turned on at the prospect, I think I would have masturbated right there in that room. Having him or his women touching me didn't thrill me, but the thought of watching them touching, sucking, and whatever else they decided to do to each other excited me.

  • Elle

    I got a balcony .... I'll rent it out to yall for let's say $60/hour. It's got a nice view over the city too.

    I'm all for sex in public places and have had my fair share of it: public pool, beach (although I think that one is WAY overrated), the docks, car in front of movie theater on a Friday night (go figure), alleyway, the movies, bus stop, balcony (without the rain), staircase ... and so on.

    I'm not the voyeur type. So I don't think watching others would turn me on. Neither do I want to be watched - at least not purposely. And hearing my neighbors get their groove on did not turn me on, it annoyed me because I was trying to sleep. I was 12 though, maybe I'd feel differently if I was to hear them now. Then again, there are nothing but old people living in this building, so I doubt I'd be turned on by the thought of them knocking boots *gags*.

    Sex during a warm summer rain sounds nice, but I would prefer a roof top instead of a balcony. Don't know why, I just do. There is something about rooftop sex I find appealing. Other than that I guess I'd pretty much like to try the cliché places like an elevator, a bar's/restaurant's restroom and maybe on the plane - although: is it just me or are these lavatories on planes getting smaller and smaller? Maybe I'm just getting fatter, who knows.

  • distinguishedgentlewoman

    To all who may find it offensive and sacrilegious: I do apologize beforehand. But I must confess, I also have this wild, delicious fantasy about having sex with a priest, in the confessional, while people are in the church.

  • DJ Stiletto

    I live near a beach, so that's happened a few times. In a restaurant bathroom, at work, in a parked car in front of an apartment building, in the backyard.

    Fantasy- some light S&M type stuff, being watched, and maybe something else I can't put in this comment box . . . Lol

  • Avah Royal

    Yea, I have a couple as well. I wanna do it in a fitting room. Al ready done it in the car and def looking forward to to the balcony in the rain action. Just need some rain and another apartment. LOL. Car head is the best, I have limo tint on my car so he gets it all the time.

  • older & wiser

    I want to join the mile high club!!! But it would have to be on a private plane b/c there is no room on public airlines to do the "do". I have done most of the other places mentioned here and the excitement of getting caught just added to the thrill of it all. We did get caught in City Park in NOLA but I think the cop waited til we finished b/c he was a voyeur and wanted a story to share with his friends!

  • trayj

    Long Island RR... the bomb!

  • distinguishedgentlewoman

    @ trayj:

    I def. cosign. After seeing Risky Business, that's definitely in my Top 10.

  • MR. MADBLACK

    Sex in PUBLIC is all that and more!!! The park is the best place. St.Nicholas on 137st in Harlem is has the best view for you to watch people passing and not seeing you. Its all in the thrill of not being caught

  • Soulyn

    After watching the movie For Keeps, I've always wanted to have sex in the rain. The train/LIRR seems very tempting, especially early in the morning when the cars are likely to be empty.

  • paulette-BAJAN-gal

    I'm a little embarassed to say I've got my groove on in Prospect Park plenty of times....one time though I got so many mosquito bites...wait...that was Fort Greene Park...lmao.

    The trick though is to wear a skirt or dress ladies...cause it's harder to fuck with pants on.And much harder to pull up quickly if someone approaches.

    As for in the rain....never done it but i have pretended the shower was plenty of times.Nothing like sex in the shower.

    Parks are great though cause they're always areas without lighting...especially by the trees.Lurkers didn't bother me cause dude I was with was diesel and could take care of both of us if the need ever arised.

    I've always wanted to fuck on a crowded train....but needless to say...that will NEVER happen.lmao.

    One of my best public doings was in the bathroom at the old Guernica Club on west 3rd in Manhattan.For some odd reason the bathroom had an OUT OF ORDER sign and the door was unlocked.Me and Mr J got super busy in that joint.When we walked out folk were like...WTF...they look so happy.lol.And since the club was noisy my screamings went unheard.

  • http://www.mstrecie.com Ms.Trecie

    I have had sex in the rain...it was very nice, worth the cold I had the next day because when we got in the car he blasted the air conditioner! LOL!

    I have had sex in several public places...dressing rooms, restaurants, the movie theatre. Those were the best times...we got caught in the dressing room, but she was a freak so she stayed and watched.

    It doesn't bother me being caught by someone I don't know...I'll never have to face them again. But I have been caught by my son's father's aunt. She was in town for a funeral and was staying with my son's father and had been screaming his name, but we couldn't hear her. So instead of knocking, she just opened the door and saw me mid-ride on her nephew's peen! EMBARRASING!

    My fantasy? Sex on the beach at sunset....the waves crashing, the distant sound of voices....I have to do it!

    Would I watch? I have watched before, and actually enjoy it! To each his own though right!?

  • sweetsexxybrown

    There's just something very sensual about sex in the water. I love shower sex. The water and the soap all sudsy plus the fragrance...it takes me there. I am in full agreement with you about sex in the rain. But its gotta be warm rain. Gentle at 1st and then that HARD POUNDING rain. Mmmmmm. I haven't experienced it yet, but will definitely send you a note about it when it happens. :)
    PUBLIC SEX: I've experienced sex on the beach which was delicious. We got it in. A couple different positions a lil' head game (givin and receivin) and when it was all said and done our walk back to the boardwalk showed us that everyone who was chillin' there in the bright ass lights could see us! All I could do was laugh. I've had sessions in the car as well. Wanna try a bathroom stall.
    FANTASY RIGHT NOW: sex with a coworker in his office or my office at noon. I'm bent over his desk ever so slightly, showin him exactly what he wants to see. He lifts my skirt and slowly eases his manhood in and then gives it one good forceful push. He proceeds to grab one breast pull my head back and whisper to me "tell me how much you want this dick you dirty little bitch". I won't let him know how much I want it, it gets him bothered and he forces me forward and my face is now against the door. He continues his slow, long forceful strokes and I'm forced to yell out in pleasure and agony. He whispers "stop playin fuckin' games wit' me. When I ask you sumthin' answer me." I say "yes baby" and cum sooo hard all over his dick.

  • Dc Man with a plan

    Sex on the beach is one I need to do. I can tell you sex in the ocean (salt water) is NOT good for a woman............but I have enjoyed being in public and getting head while driving on the highway enroute to VA beach....people do that double look like: WTF? lol.....So me and my baby-girl were at this place next to National airport where you can watch the airplanes land. Limo drivers and cabbies hangout here, resting or before going to pickup passengers...so me and baby-girl were hanging out, watching planes land and she starts giving me head...Then I'm like: I need to hit that, cuz I'm super horny now. Note to self: Having your lady put the condom on with her mouth--is da-bomb! We parked in the back..the last car but, the first one you see when you round the bend in the road. One way in and out. So her and I are on the passenger side, door open, and I have her bent over the passenger seat, waxing that azz...I was supposed to be the lookout too, becuz I'm facing the inbound traffic....buterah, I got focused...next thing I know--a light beam is shining on my truck........I'm thinkin one of the cabbies is trying to be funny..I look up and hear over the speaker: The park is closed...you have to leave now! Ohhh shyt, officer friendly just popped up on us and informed me that the park closes at 10 pm, ..Yeah, we were the last ones there...I hadn't noticed everyone else had left..........but the park police was cool.......He didn't get out of his car, didn't make a big scene...
    another time, me and baby-girl were at this park watching a football game and then stayed after everyone else left.....we ended up going at it in her car....Both in the passenger seat...she riding, I'm bumpin hard...next thing I know--BRIGHT azz spot light hits me. The police says: come out of the car slowly.........ohhh, shyt. She has on a dress so it is easy for her to get up and out......But my pants are down around me ankles...Yikes! In my haste to get decent, I heard this big rippin sound....I get out and have my shirt sticking out of my zipper....lookin all disheveled...pants ripped from the crotch to the back pockets...and I'm standing here, with this cop interrogating me......U been drinking or smoking pot? I'm thinkin: I'm standing here with my clothes all crazy and you wanna play the stupid question game? Dude was like: we've had a lot of complaints about people smoking weed over here and someone called in a suspicious car call. Let me see your license and registration..Fuck! Are U kidding me? Finally, he says, you can leave but don't let me catch you here again...NOW, I'm all nervous and shyt if shortee wanna get busy in a public place....But I'll still go therere!!!...lol......Yeah, public sex is awesome....when it doesn't involve the cops! But I will say, cops can be cool, cuz I coulda been busted on several occasions and they didn't take me in....lol.....

  • Dc Man with a plan

    @ Sweetsexxy brown...What time you go to lunch--and where the hell is your office! Sheesh, u got me wonderin WHY am I here 2day! Damn that was vivid.........Ima need a smoke and a shower in a minute...and I don't even smoke!

  • J Will

    The wildest place I've ever had sex was in the parking lot of a mall on a hot summer day after work. We were like two teenagers in heat (we're both over 40). We tried to go to a secluded area but cars kept driving by but we didn't care. What a rush. After that episode, we had sex on residential streets, in kiddie playgrounds, in the parking lot of bowling alleys and restaurants....Damn, I'm gettin wet just thinking about it....oh the balcony, we did it there too. I didn't care that my balcony faced townhomes that were less than 100 yards away with the family sitting in the family room watching t.v. - maybe or were they watching us????

  • Righteous Mama

    Forget the fantasy...with the right steady partner I am a regular offender! Got keep some secrets too myself tho. ;)

  • sohoissooverated

    I had sex at Coney Island beach..on labor day the official end of summer. We first started off cuddling on a beach chair. Then as I turned around two Mexicans were getting it in by the shower. Further up front was a black couple gettin said in their crevices. So me n my boo decided,Why not? So we did funny thing was I took off my shoes and it was pretty dark outside. After we did the do. I was feling so nice I was paying attention and stepped right on the used condom! Cum and sand stuck to my foot! YUCK. Went down to the shore to wash it off and the black couple from before were 69'ing Wow! Payed me no mind. As me and my bf got ready to leave I realized I lost my shoes. We searched for them but to no avail by flip flops were gone. Thank God we drove otherwise I would've gone home barefoot.

  • sohoissooverated

    I had sex at Coney Island beach..on labor day the official end of summer. We first started off cuddling on a beach chair. Then as I turned around two Mexicans were getting it in by the shower. Further up front was a black couple gettin said in their crevices. So me n my boo decided,Why not? So we did funny thing was I took off my shoes and it was pretty dark outside. After we did the do. I was feling so nice I was paying attention and stepped right on the used condom! Cum and sand stuck to my foot! YUCK. Went down to the shore to wash it off and the black couple from before were 69'ing Wow! Payed me no mind. As me and my bf got ready to leave I realized I lost my shoes. We searched for them but to no avail by flip flops were gone. Thank God we drove otherwise I would've gone home barefoot on the Train

  • Keisha

    I was in at home in miami with my ex at the beach one late night (maybe 1 or 2am), and I was cussing his butt out over something... I was pissed!...At first he tried to argue back, then he just stopped, and started rubbing the shit outta my clit through under my dress... One thing turned into another and the next thing you know I was facing him riding the shit outta his dick.... Me being me, decided to turn all the way around without getting off his dick.. before I could even start bouncing here goes this police officer.. I was like shit, me and my ex stopped immediately. My heart was beating SUPERFAST!! The police officer just looked at my ex and starting smiling, then said, "ya'll be careful out here.. have a goodnight"... As he walked away we fell out laughing, and got the fuck outta there! Looking back, it was scary... yet I felt great! lmbo

  • http://www.myspace.com/kobe81fan Shay from L.A. (Los Angeles)

    @ DC Man

    Sex on the beach is WAY over rated. Sand gets everywhere and it is uncomfortable. You should try the lifegaurd stand...much better.

  • http://myspace.com/nexus_da_underdawg da ThRONe

    Honestly I think public sex is overrated. I like to do stuff get wild and rough. And when you have public sex(unless your on a porn set) you kinda have to tone it down. IMO the level of excitement is enhanced but not enough to make up for the options you lose.

  • SunMoonStars

    Sex in the rain is my ultimate fantasy as well - specifically in the rain on a roof of a building.

    I've done it on a hotel balcony overlooking center city Philadelphia. I've also done it on a balcony overlooking the ocean in Aruba.

    I've given and gotten head while parked in Fairmount Park (if you live in Philly this is not unique) I've also given head in the movies. And one wonderful time, I got head while I was driving. This dude was crazy creative.

    I'm determined to make my fantasy come true.

    One thing I have realized is that I need a sexually adventurous partner. I need that dude that isn't afaid to pull my hair and spank it. Talk dirty to me. My last boyfriend said he wanted our lovemaking to be romantic and didn't like it when I verbalized my desire to have sex. "It should just happen naturally." He said. I appreciated that and I'm all for lovemaking but sometimes a chick justs wants to be fucked. Hard.

  • http://myspace.com/nexus_da_underdawg da ThRONe

    @SunMoonStars

    I stand corrected I said females couldnt get head while driving.

  • SunMoonStars

    @daThrone

    Trust. It happened. Its been years but I still have dude's number :-)

  • Cali

    Now you hit this one right on the money, cause it just so happens that my ultimate fantasy is to have sex on the hood of the car, in an open grass area, bucket naked, with the rain pouring down my backside and running through my hair. That's what the hell I'm talking about. As far as being a peeping tom that's not my thing. But wildn out being adventurous now that I can dig. I had sex in a public park, on the golf course in the grass, while it was daylight outside. No we didn't get caught but the idea of the possibilty gave me a straight up freaky HIGH! So it was on and poppin after that. The only thing is we were damn near butt naked and my ass got bit up with mosquito bites. So next time I know to bring THE OFF! (lol)

  • Mimi in the OC

    @SunMoonStars: I am with you, I don't even think I like lovemaking (that much), it's overrated. I love foreplay and everything it includes (kissing, sucking, licking and so on) but when I'm doing the do, I need to (be) fuck(ed) (hard), I need to feel like we put some energy into it, it must almost feel like after a workout (with a bonus orgasm lol)...

    Definitely sex in the park (on the grass) was a usual with my ex, in the car, on the hood of the car (in the parking lot, in some random neighborhood), on the patio (with people inside the house and also walking by the patio), in the stairway, in some neighbor's living room (lol), in the pool and I definitely wanna try some new spots...

    But as of now, I am somewhat in a "THRONE" mode (...except I probably don't watch porn nearly as much haha)

  • paulette-BAJAN-gal

    one of my biggest fantasies is someone kissing my mouth...a mouth on one nipple...a mouth on the other nipple...and another mouth on my clit.all at the same time. And I'm not touching anybody.All the attention is on just sucking ME.All over.

    I know ...selfish...but its my fantasy.lol

  • paulette-BAJAN-gal

    I just wanna say...UPS....lmao.I wouldn't mind a dude that drove one of those trucks.but they probably have cameras so employees don't have fuck breaks in the trucks.lmao

  • http://myspace.com/nexus_da_underdawg da ThRONe

    @paulette

    thats might be to many heads too close together! lol

    1 mouth
    +
    2nipples
    +
    1clit
    =
    4heads

    How tall are you?

  • Righteous Mama

    @ paulette

    Now that didn't have nutin to do wit public places but HOT DAMN chica...that's a dope one.

    Me too. It'll NEVER happen for me though. lol

    Some things just gotta remain a fantasy in my book but damn girl that's one I love to dream about. ;)

  • http://www.myspace.com/kobe81fan Shay from L.A. (Los Angeles)

    @ paulette

    - I'm now stealing your fantasy of mouths all over :)

    - I haven't had the UPS guy, but it did go down with the water delivery guy. Something about the big muscles holding two five gallon bottles.

  • paulette-BAJAN-gal

    who said anything about it being indoors??...;-)... a beach has plenty room to accommodate 4 tongues.lmao

  • JDUBBFMDC

    1. IN DA HILLS LOOKING OUT OVER L.A. SKY LINE...
    2. THE BALCONY OVERLOOKING OCEAN IN MEXICO
    3.IN MY NEPHEWS WORK VAN IN A PARKING LOT WIT SEVERAL SPECTATORS LOOKIN ON.....WE WERE BOTH THERE FOR HER PLEASURE...SUM DAYS R GOOD DYAS

  • Ameretta

    Again

    @ paulette-Bajan-gal

    YOu are my SHEro!! You go girl

    Have you ever had sex in the rain?
    I have had sex in the rain, in the back seat of my Jeep!! Just Imagine the LL Cool J song "Back Seat of my Jeep" I was soooooo sexy, but soooo uncomfortable!! I had to bend over my arm rest so he can have the space to grab my hips and for him to give me the business!! Now that leads to the next question:

    Did you ever get caught in the act?
    Almost!!

    There was this asian guy taking a jog at (1:00 a.m.)!!! I was parked on 104th Street and 5th Avenue and I noticed him jog by, I thought nothing, then I noticed the same guy jog back past the car in no more than 30 seconds later!

    Remind you the windows were foggy, my back seat partner's shirt was off! I had on only a bra!! The jogger slowly stopped and took a peak in the car!! "Jesus! New Yorkers are nosey!!" He must have relized what was goin on, so then he jogged off!!!!! But that did not stop our flow!!! I was soo turned on!! I wanted to do it again!!

    And I did! Near City Island in the Bronx!

    Back Seat lovin is alot of fun!!!!

    Have you ever listened to your neighbors getting it in?

    YESSSS!!!! But I was kinda grossed out because this couple was in there 60's and they lived right above me! But my goodness! They had sex like jack rabbits!

    Not very long, like give it 6 minutes and the banging from the bed stopped and the moans stopped!!!But they were constantly getting it in! They reminded me of the Bernie Mac comedy skit from the "Kings of Comedy" "I'm givin you 3 minutes, Im gonna get mine, you better get yours!!!"

  • litrisha

    It was one night when me and my Ex was so drunk after a night on the town in San Francisco, and yall know it's hella Asian people out there, so I had to go pee, so we went into some Chinese Food place and when I went into the bathroom I didn't know that my Ex was behind me. He followed me into the bathroom and had me up against the wall in one of the stalls........IT WAS AMAZING!!!! I don't think no one was in there, but the thrill was good......LOL
    I would watch a couple have sex because that would turn me on, but I would have to admit that I get a little jealous when I hear my neighbors getting it on and I don't have anybody, it's like shit.......IF I AIN'T GETTING NONE, AIN'T NOBODY ELSE GETTING NONE-LOL

  • paulette-BAJAN-gal

    I was dating this guy whos grandmother was spending a few months at his place from Guyana.So everytime i went over while she was there we did it on the couch while she was asleep....lmao...his bed made too much noise.There was always someone on the look out...lmao.

    My nickname for him is "Prospect Park" cause that's where we ended up most of the 2 months she was around.lmao.I endured some mosquito bites but it was so worth the sex.Dude was amazing!!! ...in bed.I broke up with him cause he was VERY corporate and the conversation outside of bed was VERY BORING!!!

  • I got secrets

    I got it in on the rooftop the other night under the stars. My homie/lover/friend leaned me over the edge of the building and said go ahead, scream my heart out, let it out he said...and I did. happily!

    I'm so glad summer's here. It's ON!

  • Ameretta

    I heart Paulette-BAJAN-gal

    Damn!!

    Her stories turn me on!!

    And I'm a female!!

    Damn!

  • paulette-BAJAN-gal

    shoot....all i got is memories.lmao.I started peaking in my 30s and still going strong...will be 33 in august.I had so much wack sex in my 20s...and A LOT of it too.Now my sex drive is off the charts I'm lucky if i get it once a month.I am living vicariously through y'all. lmao

  • Ameretta

    Tell more!!!! paulette-BAJAN-gal!!

    Tell more!

  • paulette-BAJAN-gal

    I had a rude.com profile for 3 months.Dudes from all over the world was sending me messages.This was the "web cam" stage of my life. My ex-hubby and I had sex with a chat room audience of 60 viewing one time.People were commenting while we were doing all types of stuff.I gave him head...then he gave me head...then we fucked for 60 internet voyeurs...it was a huge turn on.

    I didn't realise how much ish I really did in my 20s.lmao

  • sweetsexxybrown

    @DC Man W/A Plan
    You are crackin' me up ova here! I can only speak it how I visualize it. If you worked here it could be our dirty little secret.

    I just read your post and it seems like you have not had the luck with the public sex. Maybe this summer it'll be different. Good luck wit' dat.

  • NOTSOINNOCENT~

    me+him @ CONEY ISLAND under the boardwalk summer of 2007, while listnin to sum bangin house..ooh ahhhh.. hundreds of peeps dancing overhead...my screams were never heard. neither were his as i licked and sucked his brains out..

  • kees

    I got caught just yesterday in the mens fitting room at Macy's...OMG...but the thrill!!!!!

  • http://yahoo.com Nurse K

    My husband and I was on our way home from the movies and I decided to give him head while he was driving. Hate the new trucks with the console in the middle, had to have my ass up in the air, but since we were in a truck I thought I was OK. Well I was going at it while he was egging me on talking shit. I look up and there's a 18 wheeler truck right beside us. The driver tooted his horn and My husband tooted our and I kept on going. My husband still says to this day that that was the best head he ever had.

  • I Got Secrets

    Nodding @ nurse K. Giving ur man head while he's driving is the best, especially when u get caught. Dudes love that for some reason.

    One night after a mag release party in NYC my ex and I were very intoxicated and sitting in traffic trying to get to the Linfcoln Tunnel. I was driving but in between stopping and going and leaned over and sucked him silly. I had NO tint on my windows and everybody around us saw. I saw women with the boyfriends covering their eyes. Some dudes cheered my ex on and he gave them the thumbs up sign. It was hilarious and he LOVED it of course. I figured who cares...I don't know any of these people.

    I also gave a guy head in the back seat of a taxi. The cabbie coukdn't keep his eyes on the road. Lol. It was great.

    I love giving head while my guy is driving, especially when he tries so hard to keep driving but he can't and has to pull over.

    I think I'll try sex in a restaurant bathroom this summer. F--- it, why not. :)

  • yellow currie

    Yes i have! in front of my residence. on the hood of the car down pouring rain neighbor's house across the street oh weee

  • LaLa

    @ Paulette

    I feel you! Sex in my twenties was wack so I just stopped for 4 years. But when I started up again (I was 30) OMG!!!! I've been like a wild animal ever since! My homie is a happy man! Lol.

    Sex in public...sexy, yet to experience it...the closest thing I got to it was on my terrace...But I will complete my mission one day! Lol

  • LaLa

    And the rain...Man that is my biggest fantasy...except I want it on the top of the Eiffel Tower.... or the Brooklyn Promenade...yeah man...

  • Ladie Luv

    If you haven't done it in the rain you don't know what you are missing. I got caught in the park by the police it was scary but invigorating at the same time. I thought I was going to jail. He told us to just get a room next time. I have had sex in the front yard, in the car in front of my house, on the hood of a car, in a swimming pool in the middle of the day with other people in there and they didn't know, and also I have had sex on the side of my house. I think that I have had more sex outside in public than I have inside.

  • cali smiles:)

    i might be late on the comment tip...but hmmm...i see a theme of cali women [let me add myself to their number]

    well i won't give a list of all the episodes. [not one to kiss and tell]

    but the most recent: my love and i were on the train platform waiting to transfer to the E train. it was one of the first warm weekends this year...there were people around...i was in a dress...i bent over slightly pretending to adjust a fixture on my sandals and he got 5 strokes in before our train came [booooo@trains coming on time when you don't want them to]

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  • Ms. Phat Booty

    I've just discovered this blog let alone topic so sorry for the late entry.

    In high school we had to get it in where we could get it in (my high school sweetheart and I). We've done it in the building garage, his momma's car, the building stairwell (of course we set off the roof alarms many times) the movies, the bathroom stall at his summer job, in the room while his friends were there ( we were under the covers) the back of the bus (the ones that have a bathroom). . . .Lord I forgot about all of our escapades! We once was going at it on the rocks by the side of the highway of Bronx Park East and some dude walked past us, then came back around 5 minutes later and had the nerve to step over us. Thank God there was snow outside otherwise my cloths would have been missing.

    I was messing around with this dude in college and I would give him some serious brains in empty class rooms, the vending machine room, the ladie's & men's rooms and the stairwells. We never quite got caught however this one old man would always pop-up in one of the empty classrooms we loved to go to when we wanted to get it popping, in mind you there was no class scheduled to take place in there. . . . .hmmm

    Thank God Camera phones were not the rage then otherwise some folks would have footage of my big ass.

    I am dying for my man to hit me off in the rain, in an alley, on the beach, the roof top or perhaps I hit him off at the DJ booth while he is spinning. My dude is kind of shy but I'm hoping he will discover his wild side one day soon. I'm thinking of taking a trip to Hedonism with or without him!

    Off topic fantasy: To seduce one of my college professors by showing up to class with a short skirt, no panties and no bra on a cool day and take a seat directly in front of him. . . .I'm getting moist just thinking about that.

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @Ms. Phat Booty

    Interesting list of activities.. lol

    what the heck does the snow have to do with finding your clothes? And wouldn't you be cold with no clothes and snow?

  • Ms. Phat Booty

    It was too cold to take my cloths off due to us laying in the snow. I'm sure it was cold outside but I was hot due to obvious reasons.

  • Freak Diva

    Being a Scorpio (water sign), having sex in or around any type of water setting is my fantasy. I would have to say that my ultimate sexual fantasy would be to come in the house from a hard, pouring down rain, wearing a white t-shirt,plaid skirt and what I call stripper heels(shoes with straps crossing my legs).Wearing no bra or panties, my man already knows what time it is. So I mercilessly tongue him down while he hikes up my skirt and I undress him....I think you already know what the deal is after that. Also, I have seen someone having sex and hell yes the shit has turned me on. I'd have to say the strangest places I've had sex were in a park and an old house on a college campus.

  • Freak Diva

    Hi! I know you don't know me but I have to say you are my shero! Get yours!