Archive for June, 2009
Rules of Engagement: How To Approach a Man
Back in April, I wrote a post called “Should Women Ask Men Out? (Fear of Rejection).” For those that missed it, the basic premise was that when it comes to courtship all the pressure generally falls on men, while women sit back and either accept or decline their advances. There were varying opinions on either [...]
Hi, I Have Herpes (Can We Have Sex…Again?)
Some of you know and some of you don’t, but I wrote a story for the June 2009 issue of Essence (Jennifer Hudson cover, pg. 82) called “Gambling With Herpes.” It was for their popular “What’s On His Mind” column, where I interviewed an anonymous man (we’ll call him Mr. H) who’s had the herpes [...]
Pumps & a Bump (Conversations With a Freak, Pt. 3)
Scene 2. Act 2. Location: NWSO Mansion, NYC. Roll tape. Action! **CLICK HERE for Part 1 & Part 2** I was standing in the middle of my hallway with my boxers and shorts around my ankles. My dick was fully erect and still wet from Nicole’s blowjob. The last I saw of Nicole she was [...]
Is it Time to Replace Denzel And Halle? (Out With the Old)
For as long as I can remember, Denzel Washington has always been the man that women of color defer to. Want to tear down a brother’s ego when he’s trying to holla with no game? Reference Mr. Washington. “Negro, please, you ain’t no Denzel.” Want to describe your dream man? Reference the Oscar-winner. “Ooh, girl, [...]
Yes, I Wore Hammer Pants to School
Last night, MC Hammer’s new reality series, Hammertime, premiered on A&E (Sundays at 10pm). As part of the promo for the show, there was a crazy commercial where a swarm of people dressed in gold genie pants stormed an LA mall and danced to “U Can’t Touch This.” I first saw the clip on my [...]
Is It Disrespectful To Stare At Someone’s Girl?
I was on my way to swim class the other day when I spotted a couple heading towards me. I don’t recall much about the guy but the girl was about 5’7”, caramel complexion, shoulder-length hair and a real nice rack. Hey, I may be an ass man but that doesn’t mean I can’t appreciate [...]
Would You Go On a Date in the Dark?
I was flipping through Entertainment Weekly the other day and started reading their Summer TV preview. Amid all the returning shows and new series, there was one that stuck out to me. Next month, ABC will premiere Dating in the Dark (Mondays at 10pm, starting 7/20/09). As the title suggests, the show pairs three single [...]
The Booty Call (Conversations With A Freak, Pt. 2)
Scene 2. Act 1. Location: NWSO Mansion, NYC. Time: Late, random weeknight. Roll tape. Action! **CLICK HERE for Pt. 1** BZZZZZ!!! BZZZZZ!!! I always hated the sound of my door buzzer. It’s a shrill jolt. Not welcoming in the slightest. The shock to the system it produces is even more apparent in the dead of [...]
