Are Tongue Rings Sexy or Freaky? (Suck It or Not)

0 Posted by - July 6, 2009 - Real Life, Real Talk, Relationships, Love & Marriage

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To put it bluntly, any time I see a girl with a tongue ring or face piercing I think of oral sex. I’m sorry, in my book that’s just a clear sign of freakdom. I take one look at that silver stud (or any other color) in a woman’s mouth and I imagine her being down for some Lil’ Kim action where she’ll “throw lips to the shit and handle it like a real b*tch.” Sorry, I think you’re a freak—Not that there’s anything wrong with that.

No, I’m not saying all women with piercings are loose or anything like that, but I just get a strong feeling that they’re more in tune with their sexuality. The same goes for a chick with that little spot underneath her lip (what’s that area called again?) pierced. Seeing that makes me think, “Uh, huh, she’s a freak. Shit, she might even like girls.” Sorry, I think you’re a freak—Not that there’s anything wrong with that.

Tongue rings raise even more freak flags for me. I’m sure I’m not alone when I say this, but most men probably think the same thing when they see a woman playing with a stud in her tongue: If she was wild enough to get her tongue pierced, she must plan on using it in some “fellatious” way. Sorry, I think you’re a freak—Not that there’s anything wrong with that.

Why is it that women with tongue rings can’t resist playing with it in public? Come on, you know every man within eyeshot is watching. Do you really have to sit there twirling it around like that? You must get off on the attention or something. Please don’t say it’s for show because any woman with a tongue ring and says she doesn’t use it is a bald faced liar. Sorry, I think you’re a freak—Not that there’s anything wrong with that.

Now dudes with any of the above piercing are just as bad, if not worse. The only difference is I don’t think you’re a freak; I think you’re gay. Far be it for me to be homophobic or a homoaccusiastic, but oral piercings look suspect on guys. Remember when Tyrese first came out and had that under-the-lip piercing like Ne-Yo? Sorry, homie, that shit looks mad gay—Not that anything is wrong with that.

I gave crazy side-eye to my twin Malcolm Jamal Warner, who had a tongue ring a few years back. FAIL! It gave him a real heavy lisp that sounded and looked like Antoine Meriwether and Blaine Edwards from that In Living Color skit, Men on Films. Basically, if you’re not a male stripper, escort, porn star or gay man, I don’t think any dude should have oral piercing of any kind. Sorry, homie, that shit looks mad gay—Not that anything is wrong with that.

If you or your friends have an oral piercing and wonder why I keep staring, now you know. Maybe I’m wrong about my assumption. Perhaps you’re just an everyday person who has normal missionary sex with the lights out, but as long as you have that metal stud in or around your mouth I’m gonna think you’re a freak (or gay)—Not that anything is wrong with that.

Honestly, what’s the first thought that comes to mind when you see someone with a tongue ring? Have you ever dated someone with a tongue ring or had one yourself? Did it enhance or hinder kissing? Was there a difference on oral acrobatics? Ladies, do you find tongue rings on a guy sexy? What would you do if your boyfriend came home with his tongue pierced? Fellas, do you think women with tongue rings are sexy? Do you think girls with tongue rings are freakier? Would you approve of your wife getting a tongue ring?

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  • Beth

    Wow you’re on a roll..for getting things wrong. I personally have a tongue piercing and definitely am not a freak. I got it during my freshmen year of college (18 years old), just to get something peirced because I could….not because I felt the need to deep throat a guy. It was an act of independance, not an act of my inner freak.
    1.No I dont have a lisp (only until the swelling went down).
    2. I dont think about or care how guys view me.
    3. I don’t play with it in public
    4. Half the time people dont even notice I have one.
    5. Guys don’t even notice
    For further reference don’t judge a girl by her peircing.

    • rachel

      This is dead on. I was 18 as well when i got mine done (as an act of freedom and a celebration of my independence also) and had absolutely nothing to do with me trying to please men in any fashion. I got it done with one of my good friends who has one too, and hardly anyone notices mine or hers. This article only further promotes the falsehoods of tongue piercings, or any piercings in general. Way to clump us all together. 

      • kirstie

        lol me and my best friend got ours done together out of freedom too, but we were 16. i know more whores with no piercings at all than ones with them :P

    • Andooooo

      Weellll first of all (coming from a guy, drunk I might add) guys do notice but a lot would rather not say anything. Having a tongue pierced is very noticeable, unless you rarely talk. I think out of the hundreds of people I’ve met with one, only like 5 or so I didn’t notice the first time I met them. However, I think they are nice :)

    • M.18

      i got my tongue pierced because it looks cool not because im dirty or a freak. i also live at home and have had my tongue pierced for 8 months and my mom has no idea i have it.

    • Teagan

      About four months, I decided to get my tongue pierced because I liked the way that they looked; straight up. And to be completely honest, unless I make a very obvious show of it, no one even really notices that I have it done — hell I don’t even think that my boss knows I have it. I for one, happen to love my piercing. ‘Cause hell if people like yourself look down on a tongue piercing, imagine what those in the corporate world would think if I got half of the piercings that I would LOVE to get — I wouldn’t even have a job. Thanks so much for lumping us all together — piercings and tattoos are signs of individuality, perhaps you need to learn to accommodate a little easier. Not everyone with piercings are ‘freaks’ or ‘hooligans’ or whatever other word that you want to use.

  • ms.nina

    I have a home girl that got her tongue pierced when she turned 17, but had never given head until she was like 24, (she had never even really given her man a hand job either) she thought me and the rest of her girls that were openly in love with our mens’ dicks were crazy and freaky (but not in a good way) For some the tongue ring is about appearances only, I myself would never do it because have beautiful full lips and straight white teeth that get a whole lot of unnecessary attention…

  • toya

    I was telling my friend earlier that I wanted to get my tounge pierced but she quickly shot that idea down and cursed me out…so I changed my mind I will just keep that as a fantasy unfulfilled …however I don’t think I would openly date a guy with a tounge ring we can just be buddies

  • Spinster

    Wanted to get a tongue ring as a teen but my mother would’ve killed me. :-| Now as an adult, thought about it off and on but more than likely wouldn’t go through it. Not for any reason in particular, just don’t see the point anymore (for me to get it).

    Never dated anyone with one. Wouldn’t be sure what to think of someone (trying to date me) having one.

  • http://thoughtsof100k.blogspot.com 100K

    I fully agree with NWSO.

  • http://myspace.com/nexus_da_underdawg da ThRONe

    There are going be a few people who its only a fashion statement too. But for most people its a sign of freakdom(and a real turn-on IMO).

    Im with you 100% Ans when I see a chick with any oral piercing im think oral sex and when i see a dude im thinking this nigga gay*Riley Freeman stlye*

  • Elle

    Back when I was a teen, piercings were the thing to have, just like those kinds of tatts that are nowadays called “tramp stamp”. Having one or both was more of a fashion statement than it was a form of expression. And if it wasn’t a fashion statement, I’d venture to say that many folks got it as a form of rebellion.

    I wanted both, but didn’t get either. And I am glad I didn’t because both seem corny to me now.

    Maybe this is a men’s thing, but I don’t think women or men with piercings are freakier than others. Actually, it’s always the quiet and conservative ones who have whips and chains in their closet. The folks who appear freaky or supersexy for whatever reason tend to be completely average in the bedroom.
    Ok, wait: People who have pierced nipples or clits/penises seem more freaky to me.

    Oh yea, and men with tongue piercings = suspect. Back when I was staying in Cali everybody and their momma was getting their tongue pierced and used neon colored piercings at that. WTH? And the dudes thought it was sexy. I shot down quite a few egos in 2000.

  • July Got Nairas, Pulas, Rands

    I have a tongue ring and honestly when I got it the last thing on my mind was giving head. I did get it as an act of rebellion more than anything else, I would have gotten a tattoo but I wasn’t brave enough for something so permanent. I don’t think I am any freakier just coz of a piece of metal in my mouth.

    I have to say that when I was getting the piercing done the chick who did it kept repeating like a broken record that I had to wait X amount of time for the piercing to heal before giving any dude head or else my tongue would fall off LOL. Guess she has seen some rather interesting things to keep repeating it over and over again to me.

    Oh and I do play with my tongue ring but only when I am nervous or thinking hard about something and I do it unconsciously, same as somebody would bite their nails when they are nervous. It isn’t an advertisement for Superhead treatment.

  • http://www.intromagonline.com aaviana

    I once dated a man with a tongue ring. He got it after lost a bet.I liked kissing him cause I loved playing with it. I still thought it was gay. The thought of sexual things that can be done with the ring will always be someones first thought when they see or meet someone with a tongue piercing. Its a natural reaction. If you have one you use it in pleasuring your partner no matter what you say. I still think that a man with one is suspect. I’d rather see women with the piercing because they look sexier.

  • Karmaizadiva

    I also have a tongue piercing…and when i got it done giving head was the farthest thing on my mind. I actually did it because i was idle one day and needed somthing different. Yes persons do look at me weird eventually when they find out but frankly i dont care about what other persons think as persons without oral piercings are doing the same freaky things or even worst so who is anyone to judge me…and even if i was a freak i dont do it in public.
    Some persons didnt find out until months or a year after i got it done so this proves its not a public show when i speak or play with it.
    To men who think that its an invitation to treat they are always in for a rude awakening when they realise i dont get “down” like that.
    SO NWS dont be so quick to judge females with them as some only do as a fashion statement.
    As for dating a man with one…naww dont think i would…only because i normally go for the introverted type.

  • http://mzvirgo.com/ MzVirgo

    I have one, it hurt like hell for a few weeks and it sounded like I had a speech impediment lol!

    But seriously, people who think that girls who have tongue rings are giving all this head must either not be receiving enough head or not performing it often for them to judge other people.

    Some people barely notice my tongue ring and when they do, they just ask, “why?” it’s because I wanted to. It had nothing to do with enhancing oral sex, etc.

    As far as men with tongue rings or lip piercings, or even a nipple ring, that is questionable though.

    This also reminds of when nose rings were in, if you got it done on the right (or left?) side, you were gay, etc.

    Great post!

  • Ms. Royalty

    I use to want to get my tongue pierced but for the reasons you mentioned above, I decided not too. Also because I work in a professional setting. It’ just not appropriate. For me, whenever I meet someone with an oral piercing, I find myself staring into their mouths and not listening to what it is they have to say. Another reason why I decided against it.

    I dated a guy who came home one day and had his tongue pierced. This was a while ago and when I wanted to get mines pierced as well. I thought it was sexy. I don’t now. It took some getting use to with the kissing at first but you get use to it. When used in other places, it was a turn on. It was a different sensation than I was use to.

    I think that having a tongue pierced is like openly sayin or giving the impression that you like giving head. Regardless if you do or not, it’s the sterotype that has been assigned to it. Hey, it’s life.

  • Angel

    I have a tongue piercing and I love it. I got it when I was in Atlanta for my 29th birhtday. At the time I just wanted it done to do something completely unlike what I would normally do. But the response Ive gotten from men is about half and half. Half like it and the other half can do without it. One guy I dated told me that he like kissing me with the piercing but oral he liked for me to do it without the piercing. But I’ve also been told that the visusal of giving oral with my piercing is very erotic. I do play with my tongue ring but only because it’s a habit. Most people wont notice I have one. My boss just realized I had one and I’ve been with the company for a little over 2 years! Like I said I love my piercing. It makes me feel incredibliy sexy

  • MZJON3S

    Very interesting…
    I have my tongue pierced and i actually wasnt having sex when i got it.It was my first piercing and was something different at the time and the whole freakiness factor wasnt into play yet….i dont think
    Mine is not at the tip of my tongue, so i have ppl that dont even know i have it ( like my boss, my clients) i dont play with mine in public, really dont see a reason too, but i do bite down on the barbell when im nervous or pist. when ppl do see it, i have to go thru all the freak questions about it, no problem, im a freak, i’ll admit it, but thats why i got my other piercings. my tongue was just an innocent bystander.

  • k-Love

    Well when i did have my tongue pierced, I had it for one reason. And yes I was and am a freak, its just not on public display anymore. I got hella attention from me and that’s what I wanted at the time. Then I met my son’s father who was not having it. Now that I am climbing the corporate laddder, there is no place for a tongue ring, unless I want to reach the top even faster…But i’ll pass, i wont let my inner freak dictate my success.

  • BADbrownbunny

    I totally agree with NWSO…and I know my cousin’s girlfriends all have tongue rings….

    I ain’t knockin’ their style but he never keeps them for long…..Find Em’ Freak Em’ n Leave Em’ is his motto and he’s a grown man

  • MizzRenea

    I got my tongue pierced when i was 18, half as a independent thing (however the tattoo took care of that lol) and half because i am and always will be a freak. I have to add i have an oral fedish i guess you could say for as long as i could remember. Since i was a baby (and yes i’ve asked my mom) i’ve always had something in my mouth(that sounds bad but its true). I very rarely play with my ring in public and mainly cause i forget its there. The ladies at work didnt even know i had it for the first 6 months. However when i’m out (clubbin, parting or with my man) and you want that “look” then yes the tongue ring comes in handy. It also becomes part of your outfit too, i try to make sure if i’m going out or if its something special then i change the color of my ring. And yes men definately notice when you’ve change the color or style especailly when ya’ll are dating!
    As for dating a man that had one i did for a little while. The kissing was a little different and we had to get used to it because we both had one, but when i came to going down he could definately do something with it lol. So as for a man being gay and having a tongue ring, being a woman its WAY better especially if they know what to do with it.

  • Peajez

    Its funny that you bring up the tongue ring, I wanted one when I was in high school too but chickened out and I also wanted a tat which I also never got,for me I just thought it was cute, not for anything else. But I do understand the stigma. Like someone said, it’s life

  • jenda

    A lot of my friends got those piercings 10-15 years ago. I dated a few guys that had them and I find them very sexy and fun! Back in the day, I thought people with them were maybe a little wilder than me.

    Now that I know so many people who have had them for so long, I just think about their dental bills! Ha. That constant clicking on the teeth wears down the enamel. I know people with gum damage, tooth damage and tongue damage. SO. I’m glad I didn’t get one and I’m glad my husband didn’t get one; but not because of the freak factor, rather all about the dental copays and yearly deductibles we aren’t paying. None of that is sexy or fun.

    P.S. I know that not everybody has problems like this, you can get acrylic posts and stay disciplined about care and not tap it on your teeth or rub at your gums, just a lot of people I know ended up with problems a decade or more later.

  • EmotionalFunk

    I dated a used to date a guy with a tongue ring. It really wasn’t anything special in my opinion like no added extra effects because he had one. I didn’t even notice he had one for the longest time either so that was cool. I hate when people are always playing with it but I wanted on and never got one. I was to chicken to pierce my tongue. I’m glad I didn’t because of the dental damage it can ’cause too like jenda mentioned. Had a eyebrow piercing a couple of times, loved it and would love a nipple piercing too but I’m too chicken. Some areas I am just scared to pierce no matter how much I love the look.

  • ChiChi

    That Lil Wayne picture just ruined this post for me. LOL

    • me

      I agree

  • July Got Nairas, Pulas, Rands

    I know its life but I hate the fact that I had to get the clear plastic ring once I got into the corporate world to wear during the week coz of the perceptions people have about tongue rings. Just like I had to cut my locks just to be taken seriously. Having a piercing doesn’t impact the quality of my work in any way shape or form.

    Sorry for the rant but it irritates me to no end.

    • Sistren

      I work on Wall Street and rock my locs proudly. I’ve actually noticed a lot more dreads in the corporate world in the past few years. You should consider coming back ;-) .

  • in DC

    So … I actually got mine pierced years ago to enhance what I was already doing well ;)

    I actually think it worked against me so when the back came out one night I let it close up and now I work my magic with no kind of obstacles. LOL!

    And yes … dudes with it should never holla at me.

  • Avah Royal

    I didn’t even know people still get tongue piercings. When I see I tounge ring on a chick I think “Oh that’s sexy”. When I see one on a man I think “Oh that’s gay”.
    I’ve never dated a man with a tongue ring becuase I think its gay. I had a tongue ring for about 4 years right after I got out of high school.
    Nope, I didn’t really enhance kissing. I just got more kisses because I always met guys who used the line “I never kissed a girl with a tongue ring” LOL! I always feel for that! Sometimes cuz I wanted to.
    It definitely made me wilder when it came to oral. My boyfriend actually used to ask me to take it off when I went I blessed the mic. I don’t think it was because he didn’t like it. I was because he wanted a different feeling.
    If my boyfriend came home with his tongue pierced, I would make him leave again and come back with it not pierced.

    I think people with tongue piercing are definitely freakier, but it doesn’t define the freak in you. I dont hvae one anymore and I’m surely a freak. HIS freak. LOL

  • litabia

    I got my tongue pierced when I was 18 and I didn’t start giving head until I was 24 which was a few years ago. Believe me guys thought because I had a tongue ring that automatically they get head from umm no. I don’t even like to kiss let known put my mouth on your penis. I got it cause some crazy white chick paid for me to get mine done with her. So I said why not. Not saying there is anything wrong with being a freak or gay but to simply think that because a piercing is wrong imo.

  • http://www.brandonsaintrandy.wordpress.com Brandon St. Randy

    My ex had one. I didn’t even notice it for a while. As far as the head, I think the person’s ability is much more of a factor than their hardware. It didn’t make much difference to me either way. My Mom did notice though, and she started asking me all these inappropriate ass questions.

    “Is she into S&M or something?”
    “Does that do anything for you, you know, sexually?”

    Just cause I’m grown, doesn’t mean we’re buddies, Mother.

  • LondonChick

    ROFL @ Brandon St. Randy’s mum. ;-) Aaah Bless!!!

  • Mz. VooDoo

    OK…I DON’T THINK A GUY IS “GAY” IF HE HAS A TONGUE PIERCING. HE IS MORE SEXIER TO ME AND I WOULD LOVE TO GET WITH HIM TO FEEL THAT TONGUE PIERCING…:), SO I DONT AGREE WITH (IN DC). I HAVE NO PIERCING BESIDES MY EARS, BUT AM WANTING A NIPPLE RING. WOULD I BE “GAY” IF I GOT ONE? I HEARD ONLY GAY WOMEN GET THEIR NIPPLES PIERCED. I THINK IT WOULD BE FUN AND A TURN ON FOR THAT MEN THAT LOVE “BREAST”. WHAT DO YOU THINK ANS?

  • http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com miss_eboni

    this post is nothing new so im not even sure why some are acting like this convo hasnt been brought up in every locker room around america.

    I have my tongue pierced, YES! Do I give head, YES! So by many people they will find some way to correlate this into meaning that for the masses, if you have a tongue ring you are automatically a head-giver. This couldnt be further from the truth. They are completely seperate from each other. I’ve gotten my clit (well, hood) pierced before, so what does that mean? Nothing. I got both done because I am bored and love piercings. I know plenty of girls with tongue rings who are repulsed by a penis. You know? if you assume just cuz a girl has her tongue pierced that you are goin to get head, then be prepared for the consequences of blue balls– gettin urself stimulated possibly for nothing

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @Beth

    Thanx for your continued love/hate… lol

    Clearly, you missed the first line of the 2nd paragraph where I said/wrote “No, I’m not saying all women with piercings are loose or anything like that, but…”

    Lighten up, I wasn’t calling you out, and like Miss Eboni said, “this post is nothing new so im not even sure why some are acting like this convo hasnt been brought up in every locker room around america.”

    There is a common belief that tongue rings enhance oral sex, you know. Of course it’s not the case for EVERY person, but Like I said/wrote it’s what I think about when I see one.

    1. The lisp was referring to the guys, but you admit that you had a lisp at one point though. Thanx.

    2 & 3. That’s how it should be

    4&5. Guys are people too, so no need to separate them :P

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @Mz. VooDoo

    Does a nipple ring make someone a freak?I have no idea. Will I THINK they are? YES. LOL

    Yes, I’ll admit it’s a stereotype etc, but when my boy was dating a girl with nipple rings, they first thing we said in unison was SHE’S A FREAK. Turns out, she was. Does this mean anything? Nope.

    At any rate, I’ve never experienced a nipple ring, but personally I don’t think I’d enjoy it. I just see it getting in the way of the breast and nipple I’m trying to enjoy, but to each his/her own.

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @miss_eboni

    Agree with your first part, have no idea why some folks is getting so excited like I invented this MYTH/ STEREOTYPE. Don’t shoot the messenger.

  • litrisha

    Umm yeah the first thing that would come to my mind for both guys and girls are that they would be a little bit more freakier than the average person. If I see a guy I would assume that he was gay(and I might get a cyber debate on this one)because you just don’t see regular guys with tongue rings…..?????? This could be a misconception but that’s what I think. I have never personally dated a guy with a tongue ring before, though I must admit that that would be interesting……(ok now I’m contradicting myself right?)
    I think it’s just time for me to shut my trap on this one!

  • Gethsemia

    There’s is nothing wrong with a tongue ring. I had one. The only thing I didn’t like was an hour after I had it done my tongue swelled up. I actually liked it . When I see other people with piercing in my mind I’m wondering how pain they were in. I don’t about it if they are a freaky person or whatever… I think it’s pretty cool.

  • sweetsexxybrown

    This is so ironic. I just seen a chick in the dressing room on Sat and her nipple was pierced. What were my thoughts? “She’s a freak. Ok hun, do you.” Do I think someone is a freak because they have a piercing? Uuuh, yeah. All my girlfriends, college friends who did it were all definitely freaks. Is being a freak a bad thing? Uuuhhh, no-its a great thing. I’m not sure why everyone is sooo uptight about it. Its not that big of a deal. I fail to believe that some of the people who got the piercings (especially on the tongue and hood) were not thinking of sex when they got it done. Its ok. Embrace your freakdom! Is it a stereotype? Uuh yeah, who cares. You didn’t care when you got the piercing. Why start now. I do not have any piercings other than my ears. Never been interested in any of them. (Maybe only the clit for obvious reasons-but thought, I may forget I have it and snag it on something!) I would not prefer my man to have any piercings. (Except his ears-and I’d rather only one of those as two ears looks gay!)

  • http://www.ajhayes.com A. Jarrell

    I think you’re right, homie, about the girls. I never paid too much attention about guys and the oral rings.

  • rfb.

    I found this post HILARIOUS. Probably because I have a tongue ring haha. I got mine freshman year of college. Not because I wanted to upgrade my dome game, I honestly just wanted one. I don’t walk around tryna entice the male population. Most people that know me don’t even know I have it. Men I date don’t notice until we kiss. I’m not gonna front and act like it doesn’t provide some leverage when im bobble headin…but does that make me a freak? who knows lol.

    In regards to men with tongue rings……back in the day I thought Sisqo’s tongue ring was madd sexy lol but I was 11. Now a days i’d have to say that its not a good look for a straight man to have one. Only dues I know that have them are gay. And they stayyyyyy flickin it around for the world to see lol.

  • Latsyrc41

    Dated a guy with a tongue piercing. It DID give him a more “suspect” feel/look.

    I hated the way it would occasionally hit my teeth when kissing.

    I loved the oral (especially when he chilled it with an ice cube before)…I can still feel that shit.

  • CK

    It’s real faggy…When I found out Shaq had his nipples pierced I began to wonder about him too!!

  • Beth

    This is definitely a love hate relationship because we can’t agree on anything. It seems that the love in this relationship is slowly fading. First, you state, “Please don’t say it’s for show because any woman with a tongue ring and says she doesn’t use it is a bald faced liar.” The liar part of your statement is what sparked my distaste of your post.
    You state that, “Guys are people too, no need to separate them,” yet you say that only guys with tongue piercings are gay. Don’t separate people with tongue piecings yourself!
    On another note, don’t allow this to alter our blogging relationship. I don’t mean to attack you, but sometimes you make some offensive statements. I still love your blog. ;)

  • Dc Man with a Plan

    OMG……..First off, I’m 100 % in agreement with NWSO’s assessment….BUT I can’t believe that NOT one woman who has a tongue ring and has responded–spoke of being a freak. WTF? What a bunch of pussies…lol..ALL of a sudden, y’all chicks are ALL motha-Theresa’s and shyt! All defensive…” don’t judge us…we’re not automatically freaks! ” Yo, being a freak takes TALENT and skillz…don’t knock it, bcuz I can assure you…dudes are willing to go a LONG way outta the way, to get with a freak. If a dude is cheatin…betcha he got a FREAK on the side, not just some random regular azz……….A freak will make you think about leavin home..Trust.
    I totally agree you do not have to accept the view of others about YOU…..But know this: the rules and perceptions still apply, regardless of whether YOU accept them. For instance, U wearing a micro-mini or two piece bathing suit to church..many ppl, ESPECIALLY women, gonna think you’re a HO……DOESN’T mean you are…but the general perception still stands…..It is no different with a tongue ring….You’re a woman and U got a tongue ring BUT don’t use it to give head? But MOST of you have no trouble saying a GUY with one is at best ‘suspect?’ Come on now…….Stop the nonsense. U know what the perception was when you GOT the tongue ring…Don’t try to flip the script now…Karyn Steffan ALWAYS gonna be Superhead–no matter how many cookies she’s at home baking…and women with a tongue ring…no matter HOW common it was or could be….Y’all gonna be thought of as ppl who got it to be GOOD head givers, no matter the age……end of story……..

  • Dc Man with a Plan

    I stand corrected…props to ms eboni & DC for standing tall with their shyt. I’ll betcha THEY both have VERY satisfying relationships..<—smiling… Beth, on the other hand, needs to get her a lil somethin-somethin bcuz she’s definetly actin like she’s walkin around with a stick up your azz and some NEED some bumps on her face…..chill…this REALLY isn’t about YOU bcuz you’re ANONYMOUS, just like ME and most of the other ppl on here with no pic…….sheesh!

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @Beth

    I was being facetious about the bald face liar. They’re just regular liars. LOL.

    And I didn’t say guys w tongue rings ARE gay, just that the tongue ring makes me THINK they’re gay (male strippers, etc)

  • http://youspeakonit.blogspot.com miss_eboni

    @ NWSO

    THANK YOU!! I know you were just going by topics that have been brought up and simply asked a question. Its not lik you INVENTED the question (p.s I know questions cannot be invented lol)

    I know you are addressing what EVERYBODY is thinking! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

  • Lot-o-junk

    Hilarious topic! And the convo is even more funny!

    I’ve always thought girls with tongue rings were more freaky than the average bear! And I though fallatio (did I spell that right?) was the primary reason for getting one… that and it was the BIG “IN” thing for a while!

    I dont recall ever kissin’ a dude with a tongue ring… you know those drunk college days… but back in the day I woulda been hella turned on by that!

    Ummm… Now… I’d wonder why a grown ass man has a ring in his tongue… I dont know… I guess it depends how he’s showin’ it… I might just be grossed out…

    And getting tatted and pierced does show that you have this other freaky side… doesnt mean your a nasty ho or man ho (lol at man ho!) but you are just a lil more racy than the average person!

    Take pride in that… I know I do… I have a clit ring… and think I’m a hellaofa freak for that one! LOL

  • sweet shani

    I think it was freaky when they first became popular but now it seems more ordinary or less extraordinary.

  • D.S.

    I agree…I’m a female and I have both my tongue and labret pierced and there is nothing wrong with that lol. I carry myself like a lady n public but behind closed doors is another thing. Guys can think what they want as long as they treat me with respect!…I think its cool 4 dudes 2 have a tongue piercings but sometimes I do wonder if there gay.

  • neo the one

    looking @ the bulk of the responses i think of this on a personal case by case senario…. yeah you can’t group anyone as a whole cause people of any group will have some outside the bel curve… but i can say this based up on what i’ve seen and observed as well as part of obtaining my ungraduate degree: people with piercings, tend to be freakier and engage more in oral sex than those who dont have em…… based on a survey of 1200 college students. But like i said before, just because you have a piercing doesn’t mean you perform oral sex but its a higher probability you will….. as for guys with piercings like that?…. personal opinion….. gay gay gay… lol

  • Ms. Phat Booty

    Wow, reading your blog has helped me realize how boring my sex life has become. . . .I gots to do something about that. . . .anywho. The high school sweetheart got his tongue pierced during our off again on again period. Unfortunately when we were “on again” his tongue was too swollen for me to enjoy the benefits of the piercing. His mother never really liked me but she sure did not like me after he did that to his tongue: she just knew that I was behind his decision.

  • dlw_2009

    personally i do feel that a girl with a tongue ring is a freak…on the other hand one of my best friends had one and a dick hasnt come within a mile of her mouth!! She just thought it was fly!! now as for a dude…if you are straight then you DO NOT get a tongue ring because you thing its fly!! you better be eating somebody’s pussy and alot of it (like me) lol!!
    Now as for me im the type of dude that LOVES to eat pussy and ima freak and im proud of it!! Me personally i have been considering a tongue ring and i am nowhere near gay!…but i always said if i get one i would wear a clear one because it is not meant to be seen…its only for one purpose my girlfriend…or better yet… pussy!!! now a thats just my opinion on it!

    here are some youtube video about it!!

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1RSPHBqdBzU

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eeH96Q24JTs&feature=response_watch

  • R0S3R3D

    I just got my tongue and nipples peirced yesterday. I really like to get rough and got the tongue ring specifically for oral sex purposes. But my husband was mad when I got home. I kind of thought men thought they were really sexy but naybe not for wives and mommys? I am only 22.So I hope that it will work out in my favor.

  • Ms. Phat Booty

    I’ve thought about getting a tongue ring but choose not to since every once in a while I work in a corporate environment. I have been toying with the idea of getting a clit ring since I hear that it intensifies sensations . Can any one share their experiences with cilt rings?

  • dlw_2009

    i knew a girl with a clit ring and she would used to climax at random!! in class, in wallmart, in church….espically when she sat down… somtimes she could be walking along and just scream out…then he pants would get wet!! lol

  • sab

    well the whole freaky strereotype from oral piercings is so 1999. lol i dont know of any one who thinks that. well besides young immature kids. but most adults that i know just think of it as the person liking how it looks. i have my lip peirced and others taht i wont mention. and i am actually finally going to get my tongue peirced. because i like it the look of it.

  • Anonymous

    I got my tongue pierced when i was 17 and a virgin which i didnt lose till 2 years later!! I certainly was not thinkin bout givin head
    was just bein rebelious and thinking bout the attention i would get from it

    and even though im not a virgin now (im 20) i have never given head and dont ever plan to…
    but i do understand the misconceptions

  • Anonymous

    Fuk all these foo that don’t have tongue pierce I have my tongue piercing so I could lick that pussy clean shaaauuuuuu

  • ksbnow89

    ok, i have a tongue ring. actually i got it done a couple months ago. I was at the pool one day and just decided i wanted to get something different done, i dont need anymore tattoos so this was one thing i said i wouldnt do but i did. It didnt hurt when i got it done just the swelling hurt like a bitch. But as far as the slut thing goes or head thing, I hate giving head i see no pleasure in it for me.Im a good girl just with a wild side. People that think just because what i have on my body or in my mouth im a “slut” or i do special favors…first off none of your business what i do. second youre just mad because i probably wouldnt give time of day to you. honestly i dated a guy with a tongue ring and it was amazing. you dont judge people so quickly and this is why we have so many problems in the world. too many quick assumptions on people you dont know. if i want to play with my tongue ring i will , because you know i frankly dont give a damn what anyone else thinks. this is my one life and my body, i will do what i choose with it. thank you very much.

  • Bexb1002

    I’ve been thinking about getting it pierced just recently, and have to admit that although i wanted it because all my friends were getting piercings i did consider the sexual implications. So i asked my boyfriend what he thought about it and he told me that it was up to me and not to get it for his sake as he enjoys the way i do it anyway. And to be honest if he asked me about getting his done i would say the same. Its a persons personal choice.
    And i dont think that having a tongue piercing makes you promisculous or trying to attract that kind of attention because i’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are still going strong, and i was considering it for him.
    I don’t think that now i will get it done but people with piercings and tattoos are just like everyone else and we all have different reasons for doing the things we do so don’t judge a book by its cover NWSO.

  • lexy

    I just got my tongue pierced a few months ago and I’ll be the first to admit my oral fixation. Things just end up in my mouth, no way around it. Oral sex wasn’t the number one reason for getting it done but… The idea sure didn’t turn me off.
    I mess with it all the time, I like guys looking. My one friend finally told me one day that everytime the ring pops out between my teeth he thinks I’m fantisizing about something. Not true, the only time guys even really notice it is when you have in a massive or vibrating tongue ring so I don’t fantisize with the little fella much.
    Sure some people get it done for looks but there are definately some girls with… Other intentions.

  • Me

    i got ma tongue pierced, and it wasnt cuz or oral sex u big mouth dude. i got it just cuz i like piercings and thtz one i can have and most ppl dunt even notice, actually i had to actually show mine to my friends for them to even notice, and im not a hoe, so ya dunt judge ppl cuz of piercings cuz if u gonna judge ppl cuz of their looks, than u might as well think tht man who have tattoos have bn in jails, i mean thtz wut ppl say ightt? well i got a tattoo too (im a girl tho) and i havent bn in jail all my life, so fuck off and stop fuckin judgin ppl cuz of stupid shit like piercings n tattoos, u make no sense! get a life!

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @Me

    Thanx for the support.

    Love is love

  • Anonymous

    I love tongue rings on a woman, I think its very sexy. I also, got to agree, when I see a female with one, I automaticly think she got a little freak in her. Its probably not the case, but hey, Im a man. That falls along the line, of lower back tattoos. Now dudes with tongue rings, If thats your thing, more power to you.

  • Anonymous

    tongue piercings started with the Aztecs. They believed that having their tongue peirced would allow them to speak with the gods. i beleive you are more wrong then the aztecs are on the meaning of tongue peircings. also i am a male with a tongue piercing. i have gotten with more women then you could ever dream of and more attractive ones than you have fantasies about. so shut ur ignorant ass mouth.

  • YoungJay

    Wow! I can see not agreeing with the man but jeez @ least do it respectfully

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @anonymous

    Thank you as well for the support.

    For the record, though, it’s an opinion. Not one I created but many people share (see above) so of course it’s not true that you would be gay just because you have a tongue ring, sir, but it’s still a thought shared by many that that kinda piercing can appear “suspect.” Do you, whatever works for you and based on the abundance of women you say you have rock on, young man, rock on.

    Do remember though quality always outranks quantity.

    With peace & love, NWSO

  • alyssa

    lol you quys are retarted each individual has what they want peirced to express their character not to show they’re a freak cause i’m fifteen && i have 20 peircinqs && not one of them is there to be a slutty trademark not my tonque lip nipples belly or the billion i have in my ears so just stop stereotypinq && qrow up.

  • Anonymous

    Uqh I SOOOOOO aqree wih the niqqa that said that said all yall is fruntin when yall said yah don’t qive head wih cha shiit . I’m 15 && I juss qot mine buh when my shiit fully heal , imma suckk a dickk wih a quickness . Before I qot mine I qave head so whyy lie abouu it now .? Lol . My father saw mine && he tole me not too wear it around him && some of my friends asked me whyy I qot it or looked ah me like they smelled somethin rancid . I DONT CARE .! I’m a liddle freak && I do wah I do . Problem .!?

  • cody

    Im a straight-man, i like sex, i like pleasing women. im in no way shape or form, gay. i have my ears guaged, getting my tongue and junk pierced within the month. and girls with any sort of face piercings, i tend to see them all to be “freaks”.. not a bad thing

  • Anonymous

    People who assume a certain sexual orientation because of a simple tongue piercing are ignorant and those are the kind of people that need to be purged from the U.S. Its like me saying that just cause you’re black I should clutch onto my back pocket and hold my wallet because obviously you’re gonna rob me. Maybe that example is risky but its the same basic concept. Now I’m not trying to be rude but that kind of thought or assumption is just prejudice again maybe not the best examples here but I think thats the best way to hit home here. If you can’t even see it from that perspective, then you are obviously a hypocrite and by that standards your opinion means nothing anyways if you can’t even back up the rest of your own opinions.

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @anonymous

    I guess you missed the tongue and cheek (pun intended) tone of the post. Of course, a simple piece of metal can’t make some one a freak or gay, but that still doesn’t stop the pre-existing stereotype. I didn’t make that one up, it’s been out there. I just wrote about it because I think the same thing. Does it make it true? Nope. Does it make it right or fair? Nope. It’s just a biased opinion. For the record, not one I hold true BUT I that’s definitely the first thing I (and some other people) think when I see a tongue ring. All that can change as soon as the person opens his/her mouth…. to talk :P

    Oh, and the only way I would be a hypocrite in this equation is if I had a tongue ring and bashed other folks for having one. That’s not the case.

    I think I know what you were trying to say though

  • Britttt

    I’m 16, and I got my tongue pierced last may.
    My mom thought it was gross, not sexual and ended up lettin me get it. My dads always asking me what the point of it is hehe.
    I got it because it’s like a surise If you kiss someone and they don’t know you have it..also to spice things up :) ha yaaa know.
    So I’d say yeaaa in a freakay way.

  • http://myspace.com/naudeinerocks official lesbiannn

    i actually have a tonque rinq. i qot it this just last month and personally qettin this done really wasnt for the oral sex iit was just for show. ive always wanted my tongue pierced but never could get one due to my mothers assumptions and rules. Now that ive grown up and im legal now,and a freshman in college so i feel a sense of freedom, maybe a little bit more of independence. Therefore i feel the need to explore my horizon and qo forth with getting what i always wanted, “A Tongue Ring.” LOL.
    p:s and to all the ppl out there probably saying im frontin and all acting like im miss innocent when it comes to having my tongue ring think what you want. i will say it does help in the b/room very much so. Giver or receiver. But that really wasnt my main focus on getting this. i just feel hey if you have one thats wassup if you dont thats fine to, juss stop caring what everyone thiinks and enjoy the new whole in ya mouth hehheee.

  • Sammi

    im 17, have my tongue pierced, play with it all the time but thats just habit. not for show. idc whos looking im not putting it out there for people to see. i just like having it. i enjoy piercings and that is one i have always had a desire to have. of course you have a lisp the first like 2 weeks. considering your tongue is now 4 times as big and there is a foreign object in your mouth. after the swelling is down, its hardly noticed. and as for guys with there tongue pierced, so what? honestly, no it doesn’t make anyone a”freak” in my opinion. Guys that i know that have it use it simply for extra sensation on the girls they are with. why would that be a problem. and also, if you know how to use it i think tongue rings can be quite fantastic. just enjoy everyone!

  • kay

    well i got mines done when i was 14.. im 19 now nd i have to say i love playin with it, half the time i dont even know i am.. i love my ring nd so does my boyfriend…in my opinion it doesnt really mean ur a freak… but thats wat pops into niggas brain wen they see a female wi one.. dnt get me wrong tho a nigga wi one is sexy azz hell it all depends on the female nd how she puts her self out there.. i got mine for me nd my boyfriend in a way to keep our sex life freaky ;)

  • Guywithatonguering

    Im a guy with a tongue ring…my gf bought it for me because her friend would only get one if I had one too. So I did it figuring I could always take it out if it was horrible. She couldnt wait to try it out…the swelling went down in 2 days on the third day she ripped my tongue by ‘accidentily’ biting it..Yea…so that took about a week to heal and eating salty or sour things hurt like hell. So about a week after it healed again I ended up ripping it on her again..just not in her mouth. It was shitty for awhile but now instead of just a 16 ga. ring I can fit 16-10 ga lol. Anyways where I live its not considered gay for a guy to have his tongue or lip pierced (I pierced my own lip when I was 15 and drunk not the best decision I dont like the look of lip rings on guys. Im guessing seeing a 40 yearold man with a tongue ring would be very strange but Im 19 and had my tongue pierced about 2 years ago. The 5 girls that Ive been whether dating long term or one night stand they loved the use of my tongue ring especially cold metal studs or the rubber spikey ones. I also love flourescent tongue rings at blacklight parties they are exciting and some girls really love them on guys. About 1/4 of my male friends have their tongue pierced and I have 3 gay friends which 2 have facial piercings and one has none but no tongue rings. Also id like to add that I like making out better with a tongue ring and also performing oral nd just being intimate (licking ear,neck,tits,etc.) Im not mad at the sterotyping about being gay though im sure at some point in my life Id call a guy with a tongue ring gay.

  • Anonymous

    lets be honest. all you chicks that got tongue rings got it so you could suck my dick better. you all love deepthroating my shit and just wanted to get your head game on point. just admit you like yourself some dick

  • Rachel

    I just got mine pierced a few days ago, it feels pretty sexy. I dated a guy with a tongue piercing, turns out he also likes men…. Oh well, I’m sure they’ll get more out of it then I did.

  • meg

    oh my….
    my boyfriend has his tongue pierced, and he’s normal, you know, not a douche bag, not a tryhard bingedrinking playa hahaha, he just has it. and it is

    the
    hottest
    thing
    ever

    the look of it i have no idea what it is but it does things to me (and it doesn’t actually do things to me!? can you other girls feel it, cause i can’t hahaha. hes done a few tricks with it…oral-wise…but i dont think he was trying very hard :P i’ll have to ask for that one again and see if it really does work, can’t feel it at all when kissing either which i thought was weird haha)

    but it just looks really attractive to me hahaha i love it, since he always takes it out, and i’m like nooo put it back in! :O
    then he does. and it looks so so hot, and i have to have him right then and there argh! where is he dammit i’m gonna go search the house for him lmao not really :) :)

    but yes, on girls i think it’s slutty, ehhhh nah i don’t like it on girls lol

  • Ligon

    I never really found toungue rings attractive. (but I am not a big piercing guy) Personaly I prefer to look at just a simple pretty toungue. Though I have never recieved head from a girl with a toungue ring, I might have to try it now that.

  • Sam.

    i have my tongue done. and i’m a man. i’m not gay i just wanted it done when i was fourteen so i got it in my rebelion stage. if all you people are in america then people see things differently in england, or at least in sheffield where i live. men with piercings for the win (:

  • Brittany.

    These people are ridiculous. Tongue piercings are fine. Ya a lot of people that get them, get them to look like a “bad ass” whether they will admit it or not.
    I got mine cuz I wanted to do something off the wall. And I love it. It’s kind of a kinky thing and it’s something I can share with my fiance and he loves it too.
    Plus most people are too scared to get it when they don’t realize getting your tongue pierced doesn’t hurt…there is nothing for the needle to hit in your tongue to make it hurt.

  • Alissa

    First of all. not all people get tongue piercings because of oral sex. I got mine done beacuse i had wanted it since i was 13… I didnt even do anything sexually with it for about 3 months. So that’s not the case. As far as if it makes oral better.. Some guys say it does, some say they cant even tell. just depends on the guy.

    && as for guys who have they’re tongue pierced, most of it is because of oral. ive never met a guy who got his tongue pierced just because. But it does make oral for the girl so much better.

  • victoria(k)

    So i have my tongue pierced, before i got it, i always thought it looked really cute on other girls, if the person was grubby id just think it made them look like a hoe..

    I play with it a lot in public.

    I think a tongue piercing on a guy looks bad, and Ive never dated someone with one.

    my boyfriend loves my tongue ring, i don’t know how other people say they don’t feel a difference when kissing ? my boyfriend DEFINITELY feels a difference, like when i rub it against his tongue…

    and when it comes to giving him a blowjob, he also says he can feel it and that it makes a huge difference, and there is nothing sexier than seeing how turned on he gets when i use it, especially when i use a vibrating one.

    Im definitely a freak, i was a virgin when i got one but something inside me was always excited to do alot of freaky stuff, and my boyfriend just brought that side out.

  • Anonymous

    well im a guy and i have a tongue ring since i was 16and now im 20 and nobody ever really thought i was gay they all just asked why did i get it done and ive dated a couple of women who said they liked it and some kinda wondered about it at first so I guess its really how you carry yourself with it. Now my girlfriend she said she liked the way it felt when i kissed her so it really jus depends on the people your around

  • Alisha

    I Have My Tongue Pierced & It Attracts Alot Of Attention… Male & Female. Positive & Negative… It’s Just One Of Those Things That You Have To Be Prepared To Listen To When You Get Your Tongue Pierced….

    Its Been Stereotyped Quiet Badly But It Depends On The Person To Believe It On Not… I Personally Think Tongue Piercings (or any other piercings) On Men Are VERY Sexy. NOT Gay !

    Some People’s Piercings Are Intended To Boost Their Sexual Stimulations. Others, Not So Much…

    I Got Mine Purely Based On Looks But If It Can Help Sexually… Hey, Why Not Give It A Try ?!?! LOL

  • JOSIE

    I currently just got my tongue pierced a third time. yes that means i have a total of 3 piercings on the surface of my tonge.
    the “Viper” looked great many compliments.
    yet i wanted more so i went for a third.
    haven’t had any complaints ;P
    as for why i have my tonge pierced ya already kno the answer to that one so dont knock it till ya try it ;P

  • Melissa

    I’ve had my tongue pierced FOREVER…15 yrs!

    Most people don’t even notice it.

    I think it’s sexy and “yes” men love the way it feels! People do look at me as a “Freak”, but that’s ok…I am and my man is very satisfied. My toungue ring just enhances what I’m already very good at.

    It really is all in the way you carry yourself.
    I do not play with it in public and I don’t bring attention to it. I’ve had it so long that it is just another part of me.

    As far as it looking gay on men…we are all intitled to our own opinions. My boyfriend owns a piercing/head shop and he has everything peirced. I think he is extremely sexy and looks extremely sexy. I think tongue rings, lip rings, etc look very sexy on men. Of course that is my opinion.

  • Giz

    My boyfriend has his tongue pierced.. And he is straight as a line! I personally think that it is so much fun to kiss him because i love feeling the ring! And oral sex is better too, for me, because its a different feeling. He is sort of a ‘freak’ but not really. I myself am getting my tongue pierced here soon and I am definitely NOT a freak ;) and i’m not getting it to enhance oral sex. I’m getting it because I think its really cool.

  • Aerm

    I just got my tongue pierced this past week and I can honestly say I did it for 2 reasons…
    1. I dont wanna be 80 years old in a nursing home and wishing that I would have tried evrything that I wanted to do.. Thats why I have all of my piercings and tattoos.
    2. I AM A FREAK.. I will admit that I have a crazy mad oral fetish and I cant wait to see what a tongue ring will do.

    Granted it still hurts like a S.O.B. but its only been 2 days and I never talked funny, it idnt even swell that much.. and noone has even noticed that I have it.. I dont feel the need to play with it and as far as its sexual connotation goes the only time it will be noticeable is in the bedroom…

    And as for a guy having one, I know 3 really great guys that have them and none of them are gay or freaky.. I think that the right kind of guy with a tongue ring is amazingly sexy!! :)

  • ChaoticGyspy

    Alrighty then, I got my tounge peirced recently. And yes I did get it because I’m a freak in the sheets. For me it was an expression of my coming of age sexualy I guess. I play with mine publicaly, sometimes to get the attition of someone for a night, but most of the time I do it without thinking. And hell yes a guy with an oral peircing is hot, makes you wonder if he is a freak too or will just go down on high tides.

  • DJtrudge

    Ello , I’m a normal bloke, manager of a garage, 3 kids and married .

    I have a P.A and my tounge both done because I fancied getting somthing diffrent .

    I’m not freaky in any way, you would’nt know to look at me, and people are shocked when I tell them or they get a glimpse of my tounge bar when chatting.

    As for the sexlife side of things, it’s GREAT !!!

  • babygirlC

    honestly, i got mine to please my man. and thats that. i dont go around showing it off to people but it does enhance our sexual experiences together. i wouldnt say all women get it just for that reason.. but a large number of them do :)

  • Hotaza

    Im a guy and im getting mine done in about 2 days :)

  • bumbleybum

    i have my tongue done
    and my lip done
    and my ears
    and my nose
    i also have my hips tatted and a jessica rabbit tat on my arm
    and guess why
    yup im a bit of a freak
    i find it hard to understand how you could have your tongue done an not even think of giving head with it
    im not saying that why you get it done but you must realise that aspect surely
    well said nwso

  • mr. DGAF

    Dawg ive got my tongue pierced, my ears gauged, my lip pierced and im thinkin bout getting my nose. but straight up homie its just ignorant to judge someone on piercings, tattos, clothes, ect. im a dude and straight too. besides mah girl loves my application of my tongue ring ;)

  • April

    i have my tongue pierced and i dont think that i am a freak. i got mine done the night before my 16th birthday and i thought it was awesome. i do somethimes catch myself playing with it in public but other than that no one notices it. and i would definately date someone that has theirs done. im still trying to get BF to get his done.

  • alexis

    ive had my tongue pierced four days and i love it. it hurts to eat after a while still so its causing me to be more cautious of what im eating which is good. im taking much better care of my mouth with the help of my dental hygienist mommy who got me perscription mouthwash. also good.
    reading this has made me really question why i did what i did. i wanted it for a while but when i actually went to the studio it was on a whim. i cant count all the reasons i got it. the reasons i give all depend on who asked.
    1. it looks cool
    2. i found a bunch of really cute rings
    3. im hoping to find a chargers ring
    4. i am a freak not gonna lie
    5. i felt like it
    6. it closes fast if i ever decide i dont like it
    7. i had to do something by myself (i have a fear of being alone)
    8. i wanna surprise a friend thats been deployed since september
    9. said friend needs to teach me how to use it. he used to have three tongue rings in a triangle. two french ticklers and a vibrator
    10. i get a kick watching my parents faces whenever i do something of that nature
    ill stop at 10. 10 is a good number. i really need to get a shorter bar soon cause this is amazingly uncomfortable

  • mz CASTRo

    i want to get my tongue pierced so bad and its bcuz i cant rebel in any other way i totally would beileve that a guy would think im a freak but thats kk

  • Adrienne

    I had always thought tongue rings were kind of trashy until i met a guy with one. from the first kiss i felt like i was in heaven… i couldnt figure out why it felt so amazing but it did. oral – the same way. theres just something about an extra something being there that feels amazing (to me anyways). also this guy is not GAY obviously as you think. he also plays with it frequently.. and me seeing it all the time just made me want one so bad to feel that in my mouth all the time. so i got one. and no i am not a freak or a whore. so if people are playing with it, i dont think they really care if other people are watching or not it just feels good.

  • http://www.nakedwithsockson.com/2009/07/06/are-tongue-rings-sexy-or-freaky-suck-it-or-not/ Car

    Im a guy, i have a tounge ring. I got it after a bad break up because i felt i wanted something new, differant. i am far from gay, and when i see a girl with one, my first thought isnt head. I really enjoy mine. kissing is fun and differant, but i have yet to try other things. I do catch myself playing with mine, but mostly when im bord or nervous. i disagree with the notion thatchicks with them are freaks. I dont think im too freaky either. I was quite fascinated by others opinions! this was a neat idea

  • kayla

    i had a tongue ring when i was 16 but had to take it out a year ago when i had a emmergancie op i loved my piercing and im hoping to get it done again in a couple of months i dont think girls or guys that have them done are “freaks” at all i had mine done purly for the apperance of it but i did notcied that when i was bored or nerovus i did play with it but i never did for the attention just a habbit like playing with ya hair or somthing.
    i do think it brings a lil spice to the bedroom department tho aswell ;D

  • Danielle

    Oh my god, guys with tongue rings are amazing.. i dont think its looks good, but its ok. But oral sex with that is the best. The first time i had a guy with a tongue ring lick me i never felt that way that i did with a guy with no tongue ring.. if you truely want to have a “fun time”. Please every guy think of getting one cause believe me ITS GREAT. and if your a girl and have never experience it do it before you die you will not regret it at all!!

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  • Amanda

    I am 25 and I have my tongue pierced. I absolutely love it! The attention I get and the questions I am asked about it. I absolutely LOVE giving head and I am a freak. NWSO you are right on that part in my opinion. ;) My view on guys having it, I love it. I love tattoos, piercings, all of it. It is such a turn on for me. Never been sexual with a guy with a tongue ring, would love to be though. I would love to know how it feels to have a tongue ring rubbing against my misses (if you know what I mean). ;)

  • ducker

    many people have done and still do think having a tongue piercin means you are gay or give head all the time…these people are idiots in my view….my friend she has her tongue pierced….and dosnt like giving head so she never does…my other mate, he like 3 years older…and he’s had a misses for the past 5 years… iv known him since i was about 3 and im now 17, so he not gay and my “girl” friend dosnt give head…. just 2 examples….let alone with every elses, ye if either a guy or a girl has a tongue piercing, and i realise….i look every now and then…some look really kool…and i think their quiet interestin. and hey, if i went out with a girl with any puercing…anywhere from ear to genital, course id be interested in the piercongs, it natural to be curious about things that are differant to wat we used to

  • Michelle

    Well I have a tongue ring. I’ve had it for about 3 years. I got it when I was in the 12th grade. My choice was strictly fashion. They just interest me. I didn’t even tell people that I got. It took most of them a long time to notice it because it didn’t effect the way I talked.Guys I’ve dated say they like how it feels when we kiss. As for oral, I’ve only done it once and I don’t care for it.

  • robert

    thats true. a girl gave me head before and that feels great i like a girl that play with it.

  • BMW

    I agree!! i didn’t do it to be slutty! i did it cuz my mom hates it! and what can i say…i enjoy to irriate her cuz we don’t get along! and i’ve never used it for that ever!
    And ya half the time when i’m playing with mine i don’t even realize it! i do it a lot on tests when i’m trying to think…i used to chew on my pencil but the tongue ring seems easier than my pencil!

  • Lnd George

    im a guy and i have mine pierced and everryyyyyyyone thinks i go down on girls, its wrongly assumed.
    i do lol but i didnt get one mainly for it :)

  • Lily

    I personally think that tongue piercings on a male are VERY sexy. And can be on women too…but many women who get them are already trashy so it just enhances their trashiness

  • Kendra

    That was really annoying to read. Just let people do what they want. k cool

  • I just got a tongue piercing two months ago. at first, when it was swollen, i had a minor lisp. after it completely healed, i went back to talking like i did before the piercing. and its not too noticeable, seeing as i dont play with it often. when i got it i had in mind that it was an expression of individualism and that it just looked cool. it didnt considerably help the oral (in my case, on women) but that wasn't difficult to begin with. I do get some people questioning whether i'm homosexual or not, but people with tongue piercings have been hetero and homo, so im not offended by the speculations.

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  • freaky nay

    I got my tongue pierced simply because I AM A FREAK AND I LOVE GIVING MY HUSBAND HEAD WITH IT! PERIOD

  • Tanya

    I got my tongue pierced for my 19th birthday, mainly as a rebellious act just to piss off my mom, but i also did it because i thought it looked really cool and i had wanted it for a while. I wouldn't call myself a freak but i do think i have generous sex drive(lol idk how else to put it ). from what I've been told, 'its mostly just a visual turn on and gives a different sensation that's not necessarily better or worse, just different.' I do play with it a lot but its mostly subconscious, and out of habit but most people don't know i have it and sometimes people i've known for years will be like omg you have your tongue pierced?!?

    as for guys with it, i know a few, and they are extremely heterosexual. I do think it looks sexy on certain guys and i have no problem with it. =)

  • in the know

    lots of lying going on here! thats not going to get you very far in life!

  • Ss

    My boyfriend has a tongue ring and I love it. He is straight, and it makes him look cool in a way. Plus it’s great for kissing, and he plans on getting a vibrating ring soon enough ;]
    Don’t be so judgmental.

  • Jess

    HOLY SH*T DUDE! YOU ARE ONE STUCK UP, STRAIGHT EDGE HOMOPHOBE TWAT!
    some people get oral piercings to enhance their sex life, does not mean they’re are gay, guy who have them tend to get them for the sake of their female partners, alot of other people, including my self get tongue and lip studs because we like the look of piercings, for many its just a fashion statement. STOP BEING SO CLOSED MINDED AND JUDGEMENTAL

  • Samantha

    Wowww…I’ve had mine done for about 2 years, since I was 20. I asked my BF what he thought before I got it, and he said “its your body.” I got it done, and im still on the fence about it. It’s deffinitely harder to really mack on someone .. I’ve gotten my ring stuck behind his teeth before, and DAMN that shit hurts .. ALSO .. when I’m blessing the Mic, I find it much harder to keep the suction because I cant get my tounge to stay firmly on his penis. Sometimes I end up taking it out half way if I know I’m going to be down there for the finale… If I know its just to get him going, I leave it in. I asked him a few times what he thinks .. and he said he doesnt really feel a whole lot of difference.. Soo who knows. I know I wont be leaving it in forever .. thats for sure. But I wonder what it would look like to be an old lady with a kick ass tounge ring?

  • rMyles

    I consider myself a pretty normal straight guy and I have a tongue ring… maybe a little “freakier” than most but for me it was only partially sexual. I just like the look of it. People were a little skeptical before i got it, but i havent got one bad comment about it so far. Stereotypes tell us that “if a guy has a tongue ring then he must be gay”. wrong… I just think people need to open there minds a little. And you might like it ;)

  • mzshadie

    I totally agree with you, i am a girl nd my babe got his pierced ndi like the way he lick and im not bein nasty nasty or nuthin but i love it and it gets me n the mood faster and wheneva i c him but do i think he’s gay…NO!!!! he likes 2 please his woman

  • Jeriann

    Im a freshman in high school and I just got my tongue pierced and like the whole male population at my school wants me to suck them up even the boys that actually knew me. Its cool but my problem is before I got it pierced I wasn’t a freak so why would I just up and decide that I wanted to suck every dick in the school now!

  • mommy t-rex

    @ the 15 year old, please slow down and don’t burn urself out. Please also find your self worth, piercings ok, giving random head not ok I’m 40 and proud of it but @ 15 you have the world @ your feet, spreading yourself thin is not the thing to do. Take care.. Please

  • destini

    ii liike iit to mii bf now has iit an he iis puerto riican iim 15 an iive had sex wiit hiim s0 manii tiime ii l0ve hiis t0ngue ii dont thiink iits gay at all cause alot of his frens have iit to an there boys an one girl bt she is gay so wateva ii thiink iits sexcii an who ever says diifer u jus a skeez anyway
    # jus keepiin iit real

  • Derek

    I got mines done a couple weeks ago and it was aggrivating the 1st couple of days because i couldn’t talk or really eat and the constant pinch under my tongue was irritating.After that though,it was game over.My girl says it makes kissing 10x better and i have yet to try it out during sex but she has bought me a vibrating tongue ring for when i can use it during sex.lol

  • Kayla

    I would just like to say that who ever wrote this should be a comedian. This was the most entertaining and completely true thing I’ve ever read. Anyone who says different is crazy and, obviously, insecure. Bravo, buddy, bravo.

  • Kayla

    I’m sorry to be judgemental, but who the hell raised you? You’re what….fourteen? I will await your apperance on the sixteen and pregnant show.

  • Kayla

    One more thing, anyone who’s saying they did it for fashion is ridiculous. First off, YOU are DEFIANTLY a whore. The sad thing is, it would be less gay to just admit that you did it to please your partner then say you did it because it looks cool. HELLO! It’s in your mouth. The only way people are going to even know it’s there (unless you’re twirling it around, like the guy said) is if you’re giving some guy head…..this is sad. And I’m not saying theres anything wrong with having one. I have one. I got it, because I, obviously, give my husband head…..simple…come on people.

  • Mindy

    Guys that have their tongue pierced doesnt mean they are gay. My boyfriend has his tongue pierced. And personally, I think it’s hott. And whoever said girls with tongue piercings get it for oral sex, that is entirely not true. Well, at least for some people. I have my tongue pierced and I didn’t get it for that reason. I got it cause it looks sexy. So please people, stop with the stereotypes!!!!!!

  • VV

    What is a freak to you?
    I don’t understand the terminology…
    Like…I’m starting to surmise that it just means that someone is good in bed, and is creative enough to try new things?
    Is that what it is? lol Kuz if so, why call people “freaks”??

  • VV

    I think I agree with you. I think piercings in general have become more popular. And tongue rings are really the one facial piercing you can get but still be able to hide if you have to.

  • VV

    HAHAHAHHA really?!?!

  • peppermint.patty

    lol thats crazy

  • Elle

    BAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!

    OMG this made me laugh soooo much xD
    how pathetic and shallow minded can you get!?

  • Anon

    Way to contradict yourself on every paragraph. You call them “freaks” yet you say there is “nothing wrong with that.” If you truly believe that then you wouldn’t call them freaks as you do. Stop trying to fence-sit and come up with a real opinion you pansy ass fuck-knuckle.

    Secondly, I can tell just by skimming over this abomination to literature that you base you’re entire view of the world on stereotypes you most likely picked up from some pretty rainbows and flowers tween movie featuring the living fuck-doll known as Lindsay Lohan. In the real world we use things called experience. Instead of just providing a biased point of view (which is what i am guessing this is, it’s hard to tell though…..) you should try providing EVIDENCE to back up whatever bullshit you’re spouting.

    Jealousy gets you no where in life. Please learn to write beyond the level of a 5th grader, learn how the real world works, stop watching shitty movies, get laid and kindly GTFO my internet. You’re wasting space which could be used for other things. (Same could also be said of your very existence, but hey, I’m not that mean….. I am however that suggestive…..)

  • http://nwso.net/ NWSO

    How is that a contradiction? Who said being a freak was a bad thing. I’d rather a freak than a prude. What the hell is a “fuck-knuckle?” LOL

    And now not into tween movies (and who’s Lindsay Lohan?), just keeping it real about what I think about when I see certain things. Does it mean it’s fact? Nope, not at all, just my opinion. As much as we’d hope the world doesn’t, people judge books by their cover until they’re proved wrong.

    Anywhoze, appreciate your contribution to the convo. Have a good one…

  • RJane

    I agree it surely is not attractive on a man to see a tongue ring, and I automatically think the guy is down for oral. And he better not say he isn’t because then I’m going to think he’s gay. Not that there’s anything wrong with that… lol.
    As far as girls having tongue rings being stereotyped as freaks, is why I would never get one. I’m a firm believer in “A lady in the streets and a…” well everyone knows the rest. But surprisingly I know women who have tongue rings and don’t go that extra mile. Personally if I was a male I wouldn’t be having that… lol.

  • Kayla Tucker

    For someone who likes to rag on people for not always using correct literature, you sure could use a punctuation lesson. He said freak, as in crazy in bed. He didn’t mean a circus freak. You’re an idiot, and you are obviously one of those gay men he was talking about.

    P.S. How does anything he said relate to a movie? You can try to use what you think are “big” words, but you should probably learn what they mean. You sound like an over aggressive homosexual.

  • SJK

    I would love to get a tongue piercing, but I think everyone would freak. Especially my family. But I think they look cool, it would feel cool, and obviously pleasure my BF. I gotta think about this long and hard. (No pun intended. Haha!)
    If it wasnt for my family, and the fact that I sing alot, I would do it right away. I dont wanna take the risk of actually having a permanent lisp ( I know most people talk basically as well as they did before the peircing, but WHAT IF!?)Andddddddddddddd, what if I get an infection!? Yikes.

  • Danielle

    I think a “freak” is just someone fun in bed and isnt afraid to try new things in bed. I have my tongue pierced and I fully admit to being a freak in bed (; Not saying that everyone with a tongue piercing is, but Im sure some people are. I’m just not afraid to admit it!

  • Matthew Shaver

    Fun article, I’ve never been with a girl with a tongue piercing specifically, I don’t think this makes every girl a freak & I run a blog about piercings, check it out.
    PiercingInfo has the info you need to know about piercings

  • Troy

    Can I just say one thing? People who turn around and become furious when people make assumptions about their piercings are just as bad as those making assumptions. I’m getting a tongue ring within the next week. I am an openly gay man, and I am more in touch with my sexual desires. However, I do not act on them often. I find that people who have the mindset that it requires to get a piercing do tend to be a little more in touch with themselves, both mentally and sexually. And there is nothing wrong with that. But, those people (myself included) should be prepared for the criticism that’s going to come with out. Albeit it really ISN’T anyone elses’ business. But people tend to make things their business. I do not think people with piercings are whores. I do think that they may be a little more open to the kinkier things than those who are adamantly against body jewlery, but there is nothing wrong with that. So yes, people need to mind their own business. But people also need to not be so touchy when it comes to their piercings.

  • bigivory

    Im a guy, i had my tongue ring for 10 years . all girls be ask me do u know have to use it. then i tell them do u want to find out they like when i put my vibrate tongue ring in

  • eliza

    i’m a 17 year old girl and i got my tongue done purely because i wanted it and i like them, hey it may enhance certain “activities” but why the hell does anyone else have the right to say that i must be a whore or anything of that nature simply because i have it?
    by saying that about anyone is being biased from noticing that people who usually bring attention to the fact that they have it done more than others do, are more promiscuous.
    i mean a piece of metal does not mean i engage in sexual activities with multiple partners!!

  • Melody

    Fly that freak flag loud and proud!
    It just means you have a happy sex life ;)
    I love my tongue ring and I love using it on my hubby.

  • honey

    i have my tongue pierced twice … i have two tongue rings in at th same time and have never done anything sexual with it at all … boring? i also have one lip piercing and im thinking of getting another

  • wtfbabycakes

    What’s so wrong aboout tongue piercings. I’m 15 and I have one and love it. I don’t give give oral sex or have sex with anybody because that’s just wrong. I just have one because I think it looks cool and I’m not trashy. I’m not influenced by friends either because they’re against piercings. There is nothing wrong about piercings, it’s just that people are so narrow minded and stereotypical.

  • Babycheeks<3

    Honey i totally agree with u!
    I have had my tongue done just over a month, i get accused of doin all this shit.. Like they need to open the eyes and smell the roses,
    as for them saying that its prob them doing it..
    1… I got mine done for fashion.
    2… I didn’t do it so i can please a guy, i did it for myself..

  • Babycheeks<3

    Why is it that everyone thinks a tongue piercing is used for oral sex???

    Open ur eyes and smell the roses..
    Not everyone has there tongue done to have oral sex!
    I have my tongue done. I can say straight up, i haven’t used it in oral sex, i haven’t even kissed a guy… I got it done because i love piercing’s…

    Some people get it for “fun” “fashion” maybe some got it done for “oral sex” maybe not !!

    What are they gonna say next? Belly piercing’s are stupid, ” You have to be skinny” to get it one?
    Nose piercing’s are ” Only for the girls with natural beauty”?
    What they gonna say about tattoo’s? There only for dikes?
    As most of u wouldn’tve heard, the tattoo on the lower of you back gets called a ” Tramp Stamp “.. Like co’mon guys.

    Do use get my drift?? :)
    I seriously hope you all get water im talking about and none take offence..

    Babeyycheeks. <3

  • http://www.divahlashes.com Latesha

    Hey everyone. I wasn’t going to comment bc I’ve never been the type to follow the crowd, especially a stereotypical one. True, opinions are like ass holes-everybody got one, but its so pathetic to say that every single person with a tongue ring is a freak or gay!! Its pure ignorance! Though some women may get it for that particular reason (just to give head/be freaks), others don’t. I’ve have my tongue pierced for 5 years (though I don’t wear it often), I did not get it pierced just to go down on a guy! If you got yours pierced for that reason alone, in my book you are truly a professional lame! I got mine bc I thought they were cute and sexy! It was something different. I’ve never been a trasy chick or what some would call hoochie, however I love to carry myself with class, spuck, with a touch of sex appeal. That’s just my swagg!! I’m now married with a 4 year old son. I still wear it from time to time, but my view has never changed about tongue piercing. Ppl should stop stereotyping and let go of the ignorance. Ex: All black ppl are from the hood, blondes are dumb, all white ppl are prejudice, females that love sports are gay, ppl with gay friends are gay, etc… I could go on and on! Its just stupid and ignorant! Grow the hell up!!

  • Sierra Robertson

    I recently got my tongue pierced. I don’t have it for to please anyone but myself. I could careless about enhancing my oral sex skills because I’m already good. That doesn’t make me a whore because its only with one person and for those who say it does .. you’re ignorant. Having a tongue ring won’t get me pregnant. I have control, but I’m a bit of a freak & don’t mind displaying it, but once again being a freak doesn’t make you a slut it only means you’re willing to be creative and have fun. My tongue piercing is sexy to me & its a personal decision you have to make. So don’t let insecure people convince you to take out a unique piercing based on stereotypes and generalization that boring/ignorant people make. Be yourself & have fun. If you got it for oral sex then Hey! Have fun doing that to.

  • ms. Nae

    i totally agree i just gt my pierced its still swollen but i cant wait to put it to action

  • taustin

    Hey, first off I would like to say your a dumb ass. Ever think that a man with his tongue pierced maybe did it so its even better for his girl when he goes down on her? I am definitely not gay and I have my tongue pierced.

  • taustin

    Exactly. It just gets girls off is all. I’m a guy and have mine pierced too. It doesn’t mean you are gay.

  • taustin

    If you follow proper aftercare instructions and have it pierced professionally you will be just fine.

  • big

    i got myn done im 18 and a virgin and getting it to please some1 else played no part in my decision to get 1 thank you

  • JoJo

    So, I got my tongue pierced a while ago, I didn’t get it for oral sex or anything (considering I am a virgin) but I always had the tendancy to have something in my mouth at all times (no pun intended) so I got it pierced and now I really don’t have that problem anymore. So I don’t think that it is true that it’s only for sexual pleasures. I am pretty sure though it feels good. I will try it sooner or later.

  • Joslynn

    I got my tongue pierced because I like piercings and tattos, Self expression type stuff. Yes, I use it, But only for my long-term boyfriend, And the only time I ever twirl it is to mess with him:P But I dont consider myself Trashy, I mean I wear Comfy stuff like loose jeans, sweatpants, tee shirts. And, In my opinion a tongue ring on a guy is lil bit gay.

  • KidBoyd

    Well I’m 18 and personally I really wanted a tongue ring for a while now. I’m still a virgin and I plan on being a virgin until I’m married. However just because I want a tongue ring does not mean I will go use it. Getting a tongue ring will be the most extreme thing I would do in my life. I guess you could say I’m a “Good Girl”. I decided to get a tongue ring when I graduate from school just to show my parents respect because they do not agree with me getting a tongue ring. In fact my mother told me what she would do to me if I did get it…However I still decided to get it just not in her house so really don’t be so judgmental although you are open to your opinions.

  • Charlenetaylor47

    Being truthful , I have a tongue ring . (:

  • ???? <3

    i went out with a gut with a tongue ring was a little wierd tbh ut it suited him as the way he dressed and looked ect …. really depends on the guys appearence i think but oh well each to their own :L

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  • 69xD

    wooow ii juss qot my tonque pierced && ii aiint thaa much of a freak meaniinqq ii dont qiivee headd ii was readiinqq thiis bloqq && was sooo surpriisedd , ii dont miind tryna qiivee head wiit iit but ii dont thiink ii wuld .

  • Lorrainebosibori

    i havent gotten my tongue ring yet but im planing on getting one soon…though after reading all the comments, think imma pass,after all, i am about to join the corporate world.
    p.s   i still find them cool.

  • BriDances

    I recently got mine and its because my female fiancée. (Yes I am a lesbian) wanted to spice things up in our sex life. I know that I am a freak and my friends that have had it done for years are also freaks or openly sexual. I love that I got it done and think that guys that have it done just know what a girl is going to enjoy and that just happens to be a small metal or plastic ball on her clit. :) just saying.

  • BriDances

    I recently got mine and its because my female fiancée. (Yes I am a lesbian) wanted to spice things up in our sex life. I know that I am a freak and my friends that have had it done for years are also freaks or openly sexual. I love that I got it done and think that guys that have it done just know what a girl is going to enjoy and that just happens to be a small metal or plastic ball on her clit. :) just saying.

  • BriDances

    I recently got mine and its because my female fiancée. (Yes I am a lesbian) wanted to spice things up in our sex life. I know that I am a freak and my friends that have had it done for years are also freaks or openly sexual. I love that I got it done and think that guys that have it done just know what a girl is going to enjoy and that just happens to be a small metal or plastic ball on her clit. :) just saying.

  • Dooda912

    As a guy whose had a tongue ring for two years now I find all this “suspect” stuff rather amusing. I’m 6′ 2″ with a very deep masculine voice, and never had a problem speaking clearly with my stud in. As for the sex life I’ve been told it’s a huge turn on by plenty of girls I’ve been with, granted they were all freaks… not that theres anything wrong with that. Anyway thought I’d put my 2 cents in and you really shouldn’t judge anyone by there outer appearance but I do see how piercings, tats, and other body mods could earn you the label “Freak”. Deuces!

  • Alkura

    What I really dislike about this is after every paragraph you say “Not that there’s anything wrong with that” It sounds like you’re covering your butt because you know you’re being offensive and want to seem like you aren’t trying to be. But honestly You Know You Are And Obviously DO NOT Care. Just annoying.

    To be honest I got my Tongue AND Lip pierced as an action of Exactly how much of a Freak I am. I DO play with both the Straight Barbell in my Tongue and the Circular Barbell tipped with spikes in my Lip CONSTANTLY, but it’s really just out of a need to chew on something which is a compulsion I’ve always had (Pen Caps Beware). I’ve never noticed anyone watching me but then again I’m usually too entertained by whoever I’m out in public with to notice.

    Guys with Oral piercings are NOT always gay. The Oral Piercings feel AMAZING to a woman on the receiving end of Oral Sex. There’s a lot of straight as straight gets guys who just get the piercings to fit in with a certain social group or to stand out from the crowd.

    • Anonymous

      Honestly, the “Not that there’s anything wrong with that” is a Seinfeld reference from one of their classic episodes and because the entire post is meant to be tongue in cheek. But you probably never watched Seinfeld and just took the whole post too personal to just let it be what it is: a lighthearted post with my snarky undertone. We’re all free to have an opinion on a topic even when it’s not rooted in hard facts. I (and many other people) see tongue rings and think “freak”. Does that mean every individual is a freak? Of course not, but the metal studs do set off freak alarms. #NotThatAnythingsWrongWithThat 
      :P

  • Me

    Lol I like tongue rings on a guy. It’s sexy. It doesn’t add anything to the feeling I just like the way it looks. 
    I wouldn’t go as far as to say tongue ring=freak. Maybe she does or doesn’t give oral but either way that doesn’t mean she does it WELL and that’s how I define a freak. 

    And I definitely don’t think it’s (always) to get attention. Men need to get over themselves. Not every woman’s choices about her appearance are driven by men. Hell, some women don’t even like men!

  • Wulfie the Phrenic

    Well, I don’t have a tongue ring.. I have venoms. Two, one on each side of my tongue. And yeah, I’m probably considered a freak :P tongue piercings on guys though… I dunno, it doesn’t seem like they’re gay to me, mostly because all the guys I know who got theirs done, got them cause their female friends made theme because it makes oral wayyy better :P One thing that is interesting though, I didn’t get mine done because I like giving head. I got them done because they were part of my piercing project, and they felt *right* on me, making my body look the way I want it to, etc. All my piercings have been like that, and I have thirteen of them as of right now, so… yeah. (With quite a few more planned)

  • SosoBeautiful

    I would think he was hot, and yes pussy does come to my mind when I see tounge rings (on boys). It make me want to talk to them more. So therefore, I disagree with your “being or looking gay’ statement because I love it. My current boyfriend now has a tounge piercing and I’m also thinking about getting one myself. However when we kiss I always play with him piercing by using my tounge to push, pull and suck on it. It turns him on so bad! As for our oral sex, it really didnt feel much different, but I could feel the piercing, barely though. In all, my boyfriend fully supports my idea on getting my tounge pierced and even encourages me to. Oh and yes I do suck dick and enjoy doing it, but thats not my reason for getting it. More like i just want it.

  • Rollerchick321

    I got my tongue pierced a couple days ago, but I got a venom piercing which is 2 piercings. Honestly I got it so here in a month I can get two vibrating tongue rings for my man. Now I have wanted a tongue ring for 5 years, and no when I was 13 my first thought wasn’t giving head I thought it was cool. I agree. I see people with tongue rings and I think cool, I wander if they are good with it.

  • kelseyyyy

    I got my tongue pierced to enhance the head I give my boyfriend. Sorry to all the girls defending it.
    I don’t personally enjoying going down on my boyfriend, but when I see how much he enjoys it, especially with the ring in, it makes me want to do it because I know how happy it makes him (and he’ll do lots of things for me to make him happy…)

  • Yara_Blair_Hitzig

    I can’t really remember what prompted me to pierce my tongue, but it surely wasn’t an act of rebellion; my mother took me to get it done. I don’t have an overwhelming amount of piercings and I don’t have any tattoos either. I just wanted one; I liked how it looked, and the idea of having it seemed cool to me. I like having my tongue pierced, it keeps me busy when I”m nervous or thinking; like during tests at school, kind of like some people like to chew on a bit of gum when they have to wait and sit still for a while; it just gives you something to do. However, I admit that I like the idea of piercings, they looks sexy and it tells how adventurous a person is if they’re willing to adorn their body with metal rods and jewels.

  • IM_MY0WN

    I disagree bc I have one but I dont wear mine anymore. I got it when I was 18. Its been 4 years and most people dont even know i have bc I dont flaunt it in front of people. Now I think that girls that get them to play with in front of people want the attention but I doesnt make them freaky. Ive never used mine durind sex. Hell, for what!? Its for me not for my boyfriend nor was it for past sexual partners.

  • Johnson_chantellem@yahoo.com

    i got my tongue pierced when i was 16. i got it cuz i wanted it now im 23 n still have it in i dont regret gettin it done. n ima straight up freak suckin dick is like a hobby of mine i luv giving head.  i would not mind if my man came home wit his pierced i would actually luv it. would be very interesting 2 c the difference in the feeling when he is eating me out. i dont judge ppl they get tats n piercings 2 express themselves in there own way. so stop hatin on the ppl who get stuff done. IF YA DONT LIKE IT DONT LOOK AT IT.

  • Jdsproat

    I think most of these posts sum it up. When your young and “stupid” you do “stupid” things. I personally don’t think any of the above. “Anyone who would knowingly put holes in their bodies for what ever reason, is stupid” Sorry, but when you eventually grow up,(and you will). Your whole idea of what is “cool” WILL CHANGE” Trust me! Then what are you going to say to your kids when they look at your saggy butt or what ever, and they ask you “What is that” mommy or daddy?” Thats yukky! You WILL wish that you never had decided to make that stupid decision to mutilate yourself for a passing fling or strend.

  • Ghowell18

    Thats bullshit dudes having peircings does not make them gay , I have my toungue peirced and i am as straight as they come.

  • Griffin_ebony

    II jus got mine done. Theres been tha sayin that having a peirced tongue means yu perform oral sex. I honestly believe it a sterio typical thing. Wat about all the ones who does perform oral sex and they dont have oral peircings?? I got mine because i liked how it looked. Ive thought long and hard about it. And mostly because of wat it suposedly meant. But im a grown ass woman and decided i didn care about wat ignorant comments or self entitled opinions others might have. If yu don like it fine. To each its own, but i will not be direspected because of my freedom to express. And i dont think that i will be disrespected becuse i carry my self with dignity and respect.

  • Guest

    Ffs you are a judgemental prick. People with piercings are not freaks, or gay. Stick your ridiculous views where the sun doesnt shine.

  • Asdfjiamkdsfasdfasdf

    my ex girlfriend had a tongue ring, she was 13 at the time but could pull off being 17 if she wasnt so short. it turned me on so much, i was 15 at the time, but we never did anything sexual. i noticed A LOT of other guys hit on her and wanted to hook up with her due to the tongue piercing. that was the first thing one of my friends noticed about her, he thought she was hot as hell. although she was trashy as hell, she was pretty dam good looking for a white girl. 

  • i am me

    i just got my tongue pierced (im a freshman in college)  ive always wanted one (even when i was little and didnt understand the oral sex part of it), but  yes i plan to use it wisely ;) am i a freak? yes.  easy? no

  • Cyockerman

    I am gay, Im female.. I do have a tongue ring, but what you said about a man having a tongue ring makes him gay is dead wrong lol maybe he just really wants to please his woman in the bedroom cuz I dont see how the tongue ring feels on a mans penis, but I do know that it feels amamazing when the tongue ring hits your clit.

  • Jehosh

    Freaky sh-t right there. I can’t shake the notion that the thing has been used on some other dude’s peen, yaknowatimsayin. I can’t.

  • Holly

    I am a 21 year old girl and I have my tongue pierced. I think its hot. My boyfriend also has his (among a few other piercings) and I’m sorry if you say you don’t use your piercings for extra pleasure, YOU’RE LYING. You might not buy vibrating rings, but unless you’re a virgin you used it for sexual reasons.

  • Chick

    seriously people? its 2012. everyones doing all kinds of crazy shit to their bodies… get out of rock age, sometimes people do things just because. they dont care if it looks bad, or if you dont approve of some imaginative underlying psychological deep hidden meaning…. lol, its a piercing through the tongue. thats it.

  • Theonlyhitone

    Personally, I’m not a freak, goth, grebo, emo or anything else. I’m a guy with a tounge bar, and I think girls with tounge BARS are quite sex, but defo not rings, there just weird.

  • Kelsi 12

    wow i got to say that i believe in a persons right to think what they want but that was low. i was young when i got mine. 16 to be honest i had no thinking about having fun with a guy with it nor am i really all that sexual. I have 4 other lip rings and they do not do anything to a man that i know of they are there for mostly my fashion scene and for that i love them.

  • Leah

    I don’t see why it’s bad to get men’s attention with one. Why is oral sex something so freaky? I think it’s awesome! I’m a girl and I’ve been considering getting my tongue double pierced, partially for giving oral. I just don’t see why it’s a big deal.

  • Lalala

    Not that anything’s wrong with that lol. I pierced my lip (snakebite) because i checked it out and thought it was really pretty. It is my only piercing and i don’t consider myself a freak because i know otherwise. dated 2ice in my whole life and never really done anything. I gess it’s just the judjement that what you have or do is who you are and i definantly don’t live by that rule, But everyone’s different.

  • Frances_colomb

    i have one and i am not a freak i am over 26 and just got it done about 2 months ago just to do something new it dont mean because were freaks

  • Allison Demaio1

    I agree with Beth. I’m 17 and I have my tongue pierced. No I do NOT play with it in public and I don’t have a lisp. I didn’t get it to be a whore, I honestly got it cause of all the cool looking tongue rings. Also I don’t give a shit what guys think. If they think I’m a freak then whatever at least I’m not boring ;P

  • Lilmike823

    Having a tongue ring doesn’t make you a freak or gay. It’s a way to express your independence as an adult, just like any other piercings. Coming from a male perspective, I do not find it trashy that women have it. Having one myself I don’t think its trashy or freaky. Also im not gay, I love women and they don’t seem to mind that my tongue is pierced. It doesn’t hinder any form of kissing, and it definitely doesn’t give you a lisp. Most people actually don’t notice, they only notice when you play with it or blatantly show it off. And quiet frankly most women actually like it while kissing or other various acts of passion.

  • Ozbyrd69

    Coming from a guy with a tongue ring, it is not gay at all. As a matter of fact men were the first to have such piercings for pleasure(toward women)

  • Misterwaffles389

    I am a female with both my nipples and my tongue pireced :) I love sex. And I love using my piercings to enhance both my pleasure and my partner’s pleasure. And my piercings do not mean that I am a whore and will sleep with anybody. But I am a woman with a very healthy sexual appetite… and there’s nothing wrong with that. And it is not “gay” for a guy to have they’re tongue or nipples pierced. Some of the best guy’s I have ever been with had their tongue pierced. And let me tell you… tongue ring’s feel AMAZING ;P 

  • Mrz.Sexy

    i have a tongue ring and i am 14. i got it done a few days ago and i got because i thought it was cool…i love mine and no one noticed it.i don’t talk funny although it is still very swollen. i think that a tongue ring is just a way of showing individuality. i got mine done because i really wanted it. i had no intention of using it for oral sex. yeah i know guys may think of it as a oral thing…i have never had oral sex with my new piercing. yeah i do play with it in public and anywhere i go…i mess wit it all the time…if im going some where i will play with it bite it stick my tongue out…i just want ppl to know i have it…i got it as decor and no one would ever no i had it if i didnt play with it, and its really fun to play with. i do not think a guy with a tongue ring is gay. he may have done that for the same reason i did…just to do u because you can..i love mine and i always will

  • Jenelle

    I know this post is old, but I just had to comment. I’m 18 and like most the other girls who have commented , I got mine as an act of freedom, rebellion, and a bonding experience with two of my best friends. The extreme stereotypes are horrendous. I do not play with it in public, only time I do is when I’m home and bored. Most people don’t even know I haveit especially since the color of mine is close to my tongue color. I do not use it for any type of oral pleasure for anyone since my main focus is school and work and I stopped talking to my boo well before I even decided to get it. I don’t even see how a random little ball would be pleasurable, seems like it would get in the way like a tooth. And also with guys, I know three guys who have one and neither are gay. They got them simply to please their girlfriends.

  • Jenelle

    For those who say “people who say they don’t uses their piercing for oral pleasure are liars!!!” Are idiots. I mean I’m sure some people lie because THEY DON’T WANT YOU IN THEIR BUSINESS. They obviously didn’t get it for you so don’t worry about their sex lives. Their obviously not promiscuous or slutty. I for one have refrained from any sexual activity well before I even considered getting it. Now, it does make tongue kissing more exciting but you can make it more exciting without it. Other than that unless it’s for oral pleasure for a female, there is no affect.

  • Cameron

    To me it all depends on if you know how to use it and how you accessorize it. Personally I think that guys with tongue piercings are sexy as hell. Of course I am also thinking of the physical benefits of it as well. But it depends on what kind of ring you usually where. If its just a barbell and its like a nuetral color thats perfect. But anything else makes you look a little wild.

  • Hannah Shu