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Archive for July, 2009

Put Your Mouth On Me (I Think It’s Sexy)

I don’t know what it is but there’s just something about her mouth. Every time I see her I can’t help but stare at her perfectly pouty lips and wonder what they’d feel like pressed ever so gently against my own. I imagine that kissing her would be like kissing a rain cloud. Delicate. Moist. [...]

Why Do Bad Dates Happen to Good People?

I can honestly say that I’ve never had a bad date. Well… there was that one time where my date brought along two other people along for the ride but that’s a blog for another time. Aside from that one instance, though, I can’t think of a time where the lady I was with and [...]

Rough Sex (Why Are Men So Violent Towards Women?)

I realized something the other day; whenever people talk about sex they often use violent, aggressive and rough descriptions. Guys are usually the most guilty of this, but there are even a few women that fall into the same trap. For example:

2009 Black Weblog Awards (Help, I Need Your Votes)

Hey, Sock Heads. Hitting y’all with a special weekend post because I need your help. Yesterday I found out that nominations for the 2009 Black Weblog Awards is already underway. Voting for best blogs actually started way back on June 20th and there’s only a week left of voting (July 25th). Since yours truly got [...]

Black In America 2 (Did Barack Make a Difference?)

A lot’s changed in the year since CNN’s Black in America, a multi-part series designed to show the various issues facing people of color in the United States. Namely, the American public electing its first African-American president, Barack Obama. But as the old adage goes, the more things change the more they stay the same. [...]

Help I Married a Bank Robber (Would You Stay?)

I was flicking through channels the other day and somehow landed on CBS’ real-life crime drama, 48 Hours Mystery. I’ve never seen the show but something made me stop and I’m glad that I did. This particular segment was called “Stolen Dreams,” which was about a Wall Street trader named Stephen Trantel that went on [...]

Strangers in the Night (Sex on the First Date)

It was their first date, but somehow Marcus found himself back at Gail’s place. After four full glasses of wine, his head was spinning and his mind began to wander. Gail, who stood at about 5’8” with heels on, had excused herself to change into something more comfortable. She emerged from her bedroom a short [...]

WTF is a Breast Pillow? (When Infomercials Go Bad)

I’m speechless. Okay, not really, but I didn’t think it was possible. I thought there was no way someone could top a dumb and useless invention like the Snuggie. Well, once I saw the Kush on my homegirl Alyson’s blog, About Absolutely Nothing, I realized how wrong I was. The Kush might sound like slang [...]