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There’s Something About Remy (Lick Her, Pt. 4)

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I hadn’t seen her in years and if it were up to me, it would have stayed that way. Fate, however, had other plans.

Of all the clubs, in all the cities, in all the world, she walked into mine. I saw her as soon as she sauntered through the door, wearing those damn red heels I love and a form-fitting black dress that stuck to her hourglass shape like a label.

“Who the hell invited her,” I thought to myself.

Truthfully, it didn’t matter. She was here now and there was nothing I could do about it.

Her name was Remy. She and I had an on and off relationship for a few years. We always had a good time together but she was bad for me. Real bad.

When Remy got in my system, wasn’t no telling what kind of trouble we’d get into. I always found myself doing things out of my character when in her presence but the sex was amazing and kept me coming back. She was my addiction and I finally kicked the habit.

She was out of my life and I was better for it, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t miss her.

Remy was a big part of my life. Back when I was hitting any and every party, she was always by my side. We’d club hop until the wee hours of the night and ravage each other’s bodies before we even got home.

I can only imagine how many cabbies witnessed her sucking me off in the backseat of their cab or listened to her moan while I finger fucked her. This became our ritual. Remy stopped wearing panties altogether so nothing could impede my curious fingers from exploring her throbbing clit as we crossed the bridge back into Brooklyn.

All these memories flooded my mind as soon as I saw her.

She looked good. Real good.

But I knew she was bad. Real bad.

Still, I indulged her.

Our eyes had locked across the room a while ago, and she finally made her way through the sea of people towards me.

Keep your cool, man, keep your cool.

She arrived at my section and I extended my arms to welcome her into my embrace.

She smelled amazing.

I didn’t stand a chance.

We exchanged pleasantries and kept things PC, but then came the million-dollar question: “So, what are you drinking?”

“Just pineapple and orange juice,” I replied.

And…,” she asked, inquisitively.

“Nothing, I’m keeping it light tonight.”

Remy had other ideas.

She ordered round after round and it wasn’t long before we hit the dance floor. We slow grinded to “Murder She Wrote” and she had me hooked.

I palmed her ass in a darkened corner of the club and she liked it.

I pulled on her hair in front of the bathroom and she wanted more.

She kissed me and I dropped my drink on the floor. I didn’t even care, I was all into Remy.

We danced as if we had the club to ourselves. My hands found a familiar place at the small of her back and worked their way down to her ass. I quickly discovered that some things never change.

She wasn’t wearing panties.

Remy looked up at me with this seductive gaze, before leaning up to my ear and whispering, “Do you miss me?”

The question alone made me hard, but I wanted to be good. I wanted to say no, but Remy discreetly grabbed my dick and had her answer.

She kissed me again. Deeply. Passionately. Intently.

I did miss her, but right now I wanted her.

It wasn’t long before we were exiting the club and hailing a cab back to my place.

It was just like old times. My rock hard dick was Remy’s plaything. She sucked me off from the Chelsea to Crown Heights, while our audience of one listened intently from the front seat. When we arrived at our destination and I tossed the cabbie $40 for his troubles.

Remy and I clawed at each other’s clothes all the way up the front steps. By time I got the key into the lock I could barely contain myself and pressed her against my hallway wall. I hiked up her dress and dropped down to my knees so I could taste her love.

She was sweet.

Welcoming.

Amazing.

Although every part of my being knew this was a mistake, I was too weak to resist Remy so I fucked her.

I fucked her for old times sake. I fucked her because she looked good. I fucked her because she wanted me to. I fucked her because I wanted to. I fucked her because I could.

It wasn’t until the next morning that I realized how fucked up I was as I woke up alone with an empty bottle of Remy by my side.

Fin!

Have you ever had a lover you knew was wrong for you but you just couldn’t resist? Have you ever made out in a crowded club or room full of people? If so, did the audience turn you on? Would you take an old lover up on their offer for one last night together with no strings attached? Why or why not? Do you think sex is better or worse when you’re drunk?

Speak your piece…

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  • Mark B. Esq.

    Brother this was dope...many a night have I woke up and Henny hopped off, Belvey bounced, and Stella stayed until I passed out. Aint good for the kid but sometimes that moment is what it is...I say ride it out. Keep in mind this one thing however, it was just that...a moment.

  • Mark B. Esq.

    That coupled with the fact that your judgment and thinking capabilities are impaired are all the more reason to keep it at a 'moment'. When you wake up and suddenly Halle Berry last night is Della Reese this morning along with an unopened rubber still in your pocket?!? Bad business...!!!

  • DIVISION

    I don't partake in NSA because it's too dangerous in this era of STD's and major skeez....

    If 'ol girl is an ex, she's an ex for a reason....

    Remember that.

    If she's willing to push the punani on you, how many other "old loves" is she ready to hit up at the drop of the jimmy hat?

    Sex when drunk is better for the female because there's no release when you have drunk dick. Complete loss of sensation.

    If it's about getting drunk and having sex with an ex, just inviter her over to your place and get it over with.

  • Dc Man with a Plan

    Good flow, Brotha man. U going out on Wet Wed Hiatus with a BANG! Pun intended.....I don't know what Division's abbreviation for "NSA" represents, but I'd do ALL the shyt you wrote about to MY Remy....lol......STD's, walking across the street, driving--all are fraught with challenges and dangers, and the possibility you could get killed or maimed in the blink of an eye, but I don't let that paralyze me from doing "ME" while taking prudent precautions. Any "EX" I might be enticed to get with would be a woman with the nature and appeal of a LADY, not a slut, so the concern that ery "EX" of hers might get some play is a non-issue, however, I do not like to go back to what was. BUT, there are a few ladies that have crossed my path that I'd likely hit off if the perfect storm occurred. Other than that, I'm like most opinions thus far: Ex's are Ex's for a reason, might as well keep it that way and keep it moving forward...

  • MizzRenea

    Definately had a lover that was bad for me.... I stayed around for a few years cause the sex and fun was amazing but the relationship itself was horrible.....

    I've started having sex in a club before, the crowd was definately a plus but when your actually in the act itself its like no one else is there or even matters. Its just you and that person and the craziness ya'll are making....

    Sex is definately better for me when i'm drunk :) .... For a woman i believe i can push the limits on pain and getting just a little bit more relaxed and crazy cause the incredible feeling between your legs is all you think about when impaired......... No past feelings, no "love" just pure wild and crazy sex.. It is what it is...
    But i do agree an ex is an ex for a reason... Make sure not to open an old wound that might burst open and stay open for a minute. If you already closed that chapter leave it closed!

  • Tonya

    Very sexy..this brought back memories..but I have kicked my habit. Old flame of mine walked into the club just like that and when I saw him I was like damn. Lol..started to walk out the club But he caught me and pulled me in a bathroom telling me how he wanted me right there. I was seriously turned on cause I had never seen him this desperate for me. Grabbing the hair, the breast, the booty, but when he unzipped my pants that's when it hit me I can't do this. Sorry guys, not a tease, but some things you just gotta' say "NO"! That was a relationship from the past and needed to stay in the past. But sheesh..you got me running that scene through my head now. Sex in cars, bathrooms, crowds of people, the rush of getting caught, love it, but with the right person.

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @ Division

    Yeah what's "NSA"?

  • Mz. Ashley

    Oh goodness Ans! Gonna miss these Wet Wends...but totally worth it. I agree with everyone else about "Ex's are Ex's for a reason" BUT sex is sex and if i had an ex in my past and we had good sex and i was single...i might just let them CUT. Audiences do turn me on...dont know why but its just tiggers something! I dont make out in public...but to go meet someone in the bathroom at a public place and get it on...IM DOWN! I rarely ever get drunk...but sex is better when drunk....alcohol just helps die down the tenion and helps LET LOOSE!!!

  • Rastaman

    Sex with an ex is the best thing ever.
    You might say no but you never say never.

    The best sex I had in my life was probably with a woman a liked the least but she was GGG and would indulge my every whim. Yes, my every whim, a stone cold freak. Outside of the bedroom, I could not stand her though but given the chance to hit that again, hell yeah...just as long as we parted ways right after the act was completed.

    My elixir was JWB, gave me the tonic to ride them hard and put them away wet. We called it "whisky dick".

  • M A R C R OO S E L E R

    @ DIVISION

    All that and a bag of chips dipped in ...you know!

    Yes to all the questions. Public places, planes, theatres, beaches, clubs, whatever, life is for the living.

    I hear ya on the STDs division.
    Ex's are such for a reason, but sometimes sex wasn't the reason. If it's too emotional, don't sell them an ounce, tell 'em bounce.

    Maybe I'm a different kind of man, but I've had drunk sex, and there's definitely sensation...in fact if I'm doing the do, that actually tends to decrease my drunkenness. But to each their own.
    No shame in my game.

  • Dc Man with a Plan

    To the other questions, drunken sex is cool, especially if both parties are buzzing....lowered inhibitions and an understanding we gonna fall out as soon as we both have busted a few off--works for me. When you drunk, nobody's expecting a sexual marathon! lol.....I have found myself in a few public locations like a busy parking garage and outside of the car, both doors open, close to dusk, but I'm not really an exhibitionist, I was just super hyped up and horny as hell AND evidently, so was she. lmao....My younger years are the reasons I no longer drink Long Island Ice teas, hurricanes and other mixes that sneak up on you, but back in the DAY, it was on and on, until the break of dawn!

  • P.Lynn

    I loved the story!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    I do think that drinking b4 sex does give off a better sexual inuendo. It makes more sense to have a reason to do things you don't normally do while feeling loose. I have to say that with me I am more aggressive when I drink, and much more intense with my man. For lack of a better phrase, I hop right on it. I take control of my man and demand that he take me on in full force. Its very exciting for me but it shouldn't be done all the time, lol...the drinking. Sex and drinking would only happen with my man, I been gave up one night stands, that is for the birds, they can keep the transmitted diseases.

  • Duchess

    This one definitely made me smile! I have my very own Remy. He is unresistable. He calls I jump. The sex is blazing everytime and we both shake our heads and smile. Sober, tipsy or flat out drunk, we get busy. He is the only ex that stiill gets to pull my chain!
    Never had sex in a club with him, but I have enjoyed those pleasures a time or two in my younger days, Stone Love bustin de dance was the start to those experiences! Nothing like a thumping bassline to get me hot and ready.

  • P.Lynn

    Oh I didn't answer all the questions..
    I did have a Kappa Man that I knew was soooooooo WRONG for me but I loved his sex, it was amazing all the time and I pursued him more than a little bit. Until I had the strength to kick him out my life for good.
    I have never made out with anyone in the room, I prefer to keep it behind closed doors, or until I find someone who is willing to be that spontaneous with me.

    I am not sure if I could take an old flame up on a special offer because that puts me in a position to allow feelings to flow about this person once again, or I am concerned I might get something, or feel bad about it. So I guess overall for me that would be a no.

  • Ms_Philadelphia

    @ NWSO and DC

    NSA = No Strings Attached

    Hot post.. Im normally closed mouth on WW.. but I felt todays post to the bottom of my bottle..er heart...lol

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @ Ms_Philadelphia

    What does it mean you're closed mouth usually? Is that good or bad? lol

  • Avah Royal

    Love this post. I'me definitely going to miss Wet Wednesdays. Its gonna be soooo good when it comes back to me.

    I've surely had a lover that I knew was wrong for me, and yes I kept going back.
    Yea, I've made out in a crowded room. The audience made it sooo hot! ooow! lol
    Helllll NO. I wouldn't take an old lover up on a one time offer. That shyt would hve me re hooked! lol
    I think TIPSY sex is so ultra hot...drunk sex though? Negative. I do not want a drunk, sweaty, tired, out of breath ass dude .01 seconds form passing out on me.

  • DIVISION

    @ My concerned Peeps: NSA is "No Strings Attached" sexual rendevouz.

    One night stand.

    I don't flow with the touch and go.

    Why have sex with random people from a club when you can meet women in conventional ways who are looking for longterm?

    Sex in a committed relationship is better than alcohol-induced relations brought on by childish impatience.

  • Shay from L.A. (Los Angeles)

    Enjoyed...

  • Dc Man with a Plan

    @ Division....All alcohol related experiences written about today I guarantee you were not under the “NSA” rules, but don't let my childish impatience cause you to lose any sleep. I know tomorrow isn't promised and though I have plans should I still be here...If I die over night, I'm not going with any regrets, but thanks for your point of view. Discipline is a good thing, but a superior sounding tone is not. Be that as it may, you do you..I'ma work it my way; prayerfully, we'll both leave this world better than we found it, and when it's ALL said and done, that's what it's about........And remember, this is a blog that on Wed’s deals with erotic, sexual fantasies type of ish, all in good fun. You kinda put a damper on things….or, as some would say: U fu*ked up my groove….Take the stick outta your azz and chill……This is hump day, you almost got this week beat! (I hope you have a sense of humor bcuz I'm... lmao)

  • Anonymous

    @Ans....Great job as always, but I'm confused or maybe I just don't pay attention. I thought there was no sex, or profanity, nasty talking....am I missing something, if so PLEASE CORRECT ME! LOL I know it's just me probably.

    Ok so umm yes I have a couple of guys like that that I KNOW are bad for me and that's why I keep my distance because I can't resist them....LOL I would have to be totally out of my head to have sex in front of an audience, I'm too shy for that one. I think that sex is much better when under the influence but it shouldn't be that way because like to me it's not genuine, and I know maybe some people need drinks and such to get themselves in the mood, but it's much more true if you guys are just normal-just my opinion, yeah but really drinking enhances the sex itself.

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @anonymous

    the video promo and all the text at the end of the post says there's three more days till the fast & marathon start. So, yup, you don't pay attention (whoever you are) :P

  • DIVISION

    @DC: Far be it from me to crush your flow....

    If I sound condescending to you, it sounds like an interpretation issue on your end, bro.

    I speak my mind in my own time, on my own grind.

    That is me.

    I'm not religious at all, so the prayer and all that can rest...

    I don't do NSA or anything like that because I have principles and a surprisingly good control over my phallus.

    I'm not trying to get any converts.

    I will say this though.....even Tupac wisened up before he died, was going to marry Quincy's daughter. If THUG LIFE can commit to one woman, there's hope for you as well. Everyone has to grow up someday.

  • litrisha

    Hey Ans...LOL It's me Litrisha that was confused about the no cursing, sexing and all that.

    I'm so silly I didn't put my name on the post and didn't realize it.....typical me!
    LOL

  • Ms. Nikki

    Good Story...I can really relate. I think there is that one person everybody would be like, if I could just one more time.

  • Achaia

    Wow in that situation now. Its like his chocolate is enticing. It draws me in everytime I get a distance away. And it is like crack, even though I keep going back I cant get that high again. But it feels so damn good I dont want it to go away!!! I'm bout to call him now!!!!

  • DC Man with a plan

    Back @ Division...An appropriate screen name. Anyways, things aren't always as they appear, especially through your own lens. I'm as grown as my journey has allowed and I’m in a very healthy monogamous relationship, but I can speak in present and past tense form. As far as your Tupac comment, a smart sounding guy like yourself probably knows wifing a woman does not make for a forever, happily married life, but I'ma leave this one for the flies. U feel free to babble on without me.

  • Elle

    Sheesh DC, it aint all that serious.

    Why do I feel like we all have to losely sleep around to be considered normal? Why is somebody said to have a stick up his/her ass if he/she doesn't let physical needs get ahead of principles?

    Damn.

    So be it. I am a prude then. I am messing up your groove too.

    I don't see the point in drunken, casual sex. Never have. Never will. Nobody is that freaking attractive to make me forget everything. I don't allow anybody in this world to have that kind of power over me.
    A man's physique doesn't get my panties wet, nor does the way he moves on the dancefloor or the voice he whispers into my ear with.
    If he can't brainfuck me, he'll never get close enough to shake my hand. Sawry.

    *goes to sit with Division on the party pooper couch*

    Popcorn?

  • DIVISION

    @Elle: I think I put a crimp in DC's flow. That wasn't my intention, but NWSO asked for opinions, so?

    I'm no prude at all! I'm actually sexually uninhibited and more of a dominant type guy, just that I don't share women. I think that's below me and I look down on men who share. If that makes me a prude, I'll be dat!

    I agree with Elle about needing that mental stimulation in order to get any type of lust for a woman. If she's offering no intellect, there will be nothing there.

    I don't see it as being a party pooper. It's called being smart about my sexual health, plus having higher standards.

    In terms of Pac, I find it amusing that anyone would question his maturity. He was writing screenplays and poems while people like Jay-Z and Puffy were planning their next meal, hand to mouth. Visionaries are only appreciated long after they have passed.

  • Elle

    Amen to that...and I'm not even religious...and no prude by any stretch of the imagination either :P

    *whistles*

    I can't believe there are still people who never managed to see past the THUG LIFE tatts and see Pac for what he really was.

    But I digress .... *continues munching on popcorn*

  • Organized Chaos

    NWSO Loved it, Loved it, LOVED IT!! To answer the questions, yes to all of the above. I would take my ex lover up on a NSA rendezvous just because that is all that we ever were, lovers, nothing more nothing less. Cut buddies in it's truest definition. There has always been a mutual agreement that when we run into each other, a look is given and we both know that the evening will be ending in a BANG, so to speak! We've done it in the bathroom, got touchy feely in a crowded club, public displays of affection, etc. Definitely no shame in our game, what so ever!! Most importantly, we have ALWAYS kept it safe, that is the best part! And, from a female perspective, sex is definitely better when impaired. Like everyone else stated, lowered inhibitions make for some very interesting and satisfying experiences.

  • DIVISION

    @Elle: Pac was alot of things, both good and bad. What he left us was a library of quality music and lessons learned. It saddens me that he never lived to learn from all of them.

    I think Pac wanted it that way, though.

    Jada Pinkett once said that she always tried to get him to understand that people did care for him and that life wasn't hopeless but he just never had faith in the goodness inside him, and he never believed that other people would like him for who he was.

    He was a lost soul trapped in time.

  • Angie O

    Last night! I had been resisting him for 3 years and bang got twisted on 151 and coke mixed in with the heat of the night, his sexy azz legs in some shorts and it was on and poppin. Drunk sex is the best sex. I feel like I let all my inhibitions go and just do the damn thing. We were like animals. He kept saying I miss this… I miss this. I also think the attraction is so strong because you haven’t been with that person in so long. I think I’ll wait another 3 years to do it again. Lol..build up the anticipation.

  • taylormade

    As a single man yes, there has been quite a few remy's, and i would have sex with all of my ex's again right now.(well maybe except one)....but yeah i havent had to many bad sexual experiences with them, that was pretty much what kept us together, even though we would be at each others throats on a daily basis, when it was sex time all that went away. the club thing, the people in the room thing, yes...Im single, those type of things are right there in your face. I was safe most of the time, Im nit going to lie, i gambled a few times. its not like it was a lot of womaen, but just the same women a lot of times.
    to answer about is sex better with alcohol? I say about 65% of the time alcohol was involved.

  • ms.j

    great piece! i loved it. i think i'm hooked on your writing. so to answer the question:

    before becoming celibate, i have to admit, it was better when i was intoxicated (not drunk, i like to remember what i did). sensations were more prevalent, i was more relaxed. but i do have a past acquaintance, which the timing always sucked for a relationship, but our attraction has never subsided. hell, it's been 13 years (1996) and still we've got it bad. . .can someone explain that? we like to blame it on that gemini fire. . .lol

  • Katlynne LaSalle

    mydownlowlifeblogspot I would definitely do one person in particular for old time sake. If I could only get in touch with him. Love this entry!!

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