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Archive for September, 2009

The Hot Intern (We Had Sex on My Desk)

They say you should never hire or rent to someone you’re attracted to. Things just have a tendency for getting complicated. I wish I had listened to that advice. Her name was Veronica. She was a college junior interning in my department for the summer. She was a natural beauty and I couldn’t help but [...]

OMG I Slept With Over 4 Million People (Sex Calculator)

Over the weekend I came across an article on F-Listed entitled “How Many ‘Indirect’ Sexual Partners Have You Had?” I thought it was going to be a similar post to one I did a while back on whether or not the number of people you’ve slept with should be private, but I was mistaken. British-based [...]

Is Alicia Keys the New Super Head? (Mashonda Speaks Out)

I mentioned this issue in passing the other day but due to recent developments I felt it necessary to really take a hard look at this whole Swizz Beatz/Alicia Keys/Mashonda love lust triangle. I’m really beginning to wonder why no one is calling out Alicia on some Karrine “Super Head” Steffans type stuff for her [...]

Why Do Big Girls Get a Bad Wrap? (Big Is Beautiful)

Now before I begin, let me clarify by saying that this is NOT a bash heavyset women/men post. I’m continually learning the PC terms and alternates to words I didn’t know were offensive (i.e. “chubby chaser” which I wrongfully used in my “Ode to the Big Girl” post last year) so forgive my ignorance if [...]

You Better Upgrade Me (Why You Should Listen to Beyoncé)

If y’all don’t mind, I feel like trying something a little bit different today. Bare with me and I think you’ll get the message. Consider this an answer blog. Here goes… Mic check, 1, 2. (Chorus) Uh huh, you better listen to Beyoncé, girl. I ain’t never been no block and I don’t be’z the [...]

Who Gets More Love the Wife or the Wifey?

Early on in the blog marathon (Day 03, actually) I found myself faced with a moral issue. The good folks over at StreetLevel.com asked me to compile a list of the Top 10 Hip-Hop Wifeys. Under normal circumstances this wouldn’t be a big deal, but during Ramadan—where my thoughts are supposed to be positive and [...]

#61 How Did He Do 60 Blogs in 30 Days? (Hit Or Miss)

Okay, I’m back with an overtime recap. I realize that reading 60 lengthy blogs in 30 days is a bit much. People have lives and things to do, so I understand that not everyone had a chance to follow the blog marathon. With that in mind, I decided to do a quick roundup of my [...]

Wet Wednesdays Returns 9/30/2009 @ Midnight