What It Feels Like to Kiss Me (Are You a Good Kisser?)

Posted by NWSO • October 7, 2009 • Printer-friendly

She wanted to know why I never kissed her. It wasn’t because I didn’t want to. It wasn’t because I didn’t desire to. It wasn’t because I hadn’t fantasized about our tongues being intertwined in a passionate embrace.

It was because I knew she wasn’t ready.

The truth is, I am not a good kisser.

No, I am a great kisser.

See, these lips, which were once teased by childhood tormentors for being…

Too full,

Too plump,

Too big…

Are capable of evoking unimaginable pleasure. The sweet caress of my mouth against yours would result in small quakes that would ripple down your spine and take residence in the warm crevices of your nether region.

See, when I kiss I do so with passion. I am not merely pressing my lips against yours and randomly letting my tongue trace the inner workings of your mouth. No, each subtle flicker of my strongest muscle is calculated and fixated on making you quiver. I don’t simply kiss a woman.

I make love to her mouth.

With eyelids encasing our pupils in total darkness, I lean in and penetrate your orifice.

Deeply.

Intensely.

Provocatively.

I imagine my tongue frolicking through the foliage between your legs until I target in on your sweet spot. Our bated breaths synchronize and I lose myself in your rhythm.

My kisses are about more than just what my lips, tongue and mouth can and will do to you. No, it’s about my right hand tracing your neck, while my left caresses your back. It’s about the soft yet forceful grip of my embrace. It’s about the sound of you moaning as what you’ve longed for so long is finally within your possession.

When I kiss a woman for real, it’s not about pecks on the cheek or perfectly pursed lips converging on the same spot at the same time. No, my kisses are an assortment of delectable dalliances.

Moistened mouths melting.

Lingered licks on your bottom lip.

Magnetic attraction exploding upon contact.

The combination of these lips, this tongue and this mouth are orgasmic. They would spell doom for any semblance of celibacy you would try to hold on to.

If I were to unleash them all upon you it would cause your nipples to harden and panties to cream. Before you knew it my passionate embrace would travel from your lips to your hips, where equal parts pleasure would be derived for us both.

My kisses don’t fade away into distant memories. No, they linger deep in your loins long after our lips have parted ways. There’s no way to have just one small peck without requiring another and another.

The desire for more becomes overwhelming like an unquenched fire bubbling just under the surface. My kisses are tiny kegs of dynamite that pulsate in your lap until all you want is to explode in your own pool of pleasure.

She wanted to know why I never kissed her. It wasn’t because I didn’t want to. It wasn’t because I didn’t desire to. It wasn’t because I hadn’t fantasized about our tongues being intertwined in a passionate embrace.

It was because I knew she wasn’t ready…

For a kiss like that.

For a kiss from me.

How important is kissing to you in a relationship? Could you be with someone that didn’t kiss with passion? Have you ever been kissed so good that you thought you would cum? Would you be scared to kiss a passionate person while you were celibate? Have you ever had to walk away from someone in the middle of a make-out session because you knew where it would lead? Are you a good kisser? How do you know? Who was the best kisser you ever had? What made him/her so great?

Speak your piece…

Tagged as: bad kisser, celibacy, good kisser, kiss, passion

http://necolebitchie.com Necole

If you are celibate I'd advise no kissing. Something's bound to pop off :-p Sex without kissing has no passion. You are being f*cked. That's just my opinion...
anonymous

i want to kiss you
shadow you jawline
against touch
longing
kiss you
scent of musk
salt water and seafoam
clean
kiss you
near god
amongst strangers
dare either to stop me
keep me
want to kiss you
bitter
tired of waiting
wondering
empty
want to kiss you
steady as forever
small as favor
kiss you
curve where shoulder
meets neck
silk of throat
perhaps rough of chin
inside elbow
wrists
then rest
smooth of chest
back
hip to hip
dip of belly
want to hold you
entwined like vows
palm against palm
fingers laced and waiting
wish to kiss you
Unbroken
Before too many hearts
Snap like dried and
Dead things
Still longing
like fire
like hunger
like nothing before or since
just one,
small
solitary
kiss
no questions
no worries
no words
just a kiss
Quiet and quick
Silent and subtle
I can only hope that it will
speak
volumes

-by Bassey Ikpi

This is the only thing I could think of the make you understand how that post made me feel...um, um, umph.
cake211

I used to think that song by Martha and the Vandellas was a crock of crap and just some old wives' tale.

But then I grew up.

I remember every single first kiss I've had with every guy I've ever kissed. And it really does tell you everything you need to know about a mate. Not just how they feel about you, but also how they operate. If a guy doesn't kiss me at all, he's either selfish or scared. There's also a difference between someone kissing you to try to coerce you to "cave in," and someone kissing you cuz they've dreamed about it, just having that intimacy rocks their socks off. Then you have the hesitant kisses that aren't really sure of what's going on or why, and then the ones that kiss like they do in movies because they're trying to imitate passion and they think you want them to kiss you.

The thing about kissing is that you can literally feel people's body language. That's the real intimacy of it. Being a good kisser is like being a good conversationalist; you gotta know when to listen and when to respond, and to have your response compliment the conversation. With guys I really like and really connect with, I don't dream about having sex (some of the time), I dream about kissing them, think about how they would move and how I would move.
Righteous Mama

Lovely post. Lovely poem, Anon!
Kissing...hmmm, incredibly important to be very good at that. (in my book in anyway)
Righteous Mama

Oh and best kiss was by my favorite lover. It's hard to explain what makes it so good. We are in sync. It just feels harmonious and luxuriously nasty. The kind of kisses you can't do in public in front of other people. lol. I love good tongue action and he is the best at it. There's never too much of anything. Never too little. His kisses have th perfect depth and perfect wetness. I just feel like he goes in me when in kisses me, on some deep cosmic/soul level. *sigh* smh. love it. lol.
http://www.french-kissing-techniques.com Righteous Mama

Oh and best kiss was by my favorite lover. It's hard to explain what makes it so good. We are in sync. It just feels harmonious and luxuriously nasty. The kind of kisses you can't do in public in front of other people. lol. I love good tongue action and he is the best at it. There's never too much of anything. Never too little. His kisses have th perfect depth and perfect wetness. I just feel like he goes in me when in kisses me, on some deep cosmic/soul level. *sigh* smh. love it. lol.
P.S. - Sorry, forgot to tell you great post!
Momof3

@ Necole kissing does not equal passion... Just becaiuse someone kisses you doesn't mean they give , pardon my expression, two fucks about you...

@ NWSO My husband and I aren't big on kissing... Never have been. I've kissed a few people and I've only had one, my husband, that's made me feel anything from it... Which is probably why he became my husband lol... Any man that could make me feel that way from kissing must be somehing special
Mz. Ashley

I love kissing. Now that i grew up, I am not so big on "french" kissing as they call it. We normally do that when we are "making love." Any other time it is just a long peck on the lips, or my man LOVES to suck my jaws. lol! Dont know why, but he has to get him some jaws everyday, or he will go through withdraws! LOL
CB

Kissing is very important to me. There is a different level of intimacy in kissing. Is it greater than sex, not necessarily but there are people that I would never kiss yet I might do something else with.

If I really loved the person and they couldn't kiss I would work with them to show them how I enjoy it and the pleasure you can get out of it.

Never been kissed til I came but did get moist from it. And I know how to walk away when I really mean it so I wouldn't be scared to kiss passionately if I were practicing celibacy. I have walked away before and may do so again because I either wasn't ready for it to go that far or didn't want to lead the guy on.

I have been told I am a good kisser. I like deep kisses, sme guys have to adjust to that but so far no complaints have been heard through either the guy or any acquaintances.

I love how my man kisses now but another that stands out in my memory was this guy Mike. We were kissing for the first time and something literally kind of "sparked" or clicked in our kiss (no braces, lol) and we both felt it, looked at each other and then it got crazy.
http://spinsterstravels.wordpress.com/ Spinster

I LOVE kissing. I've been told by all but 1 person (the 1st person I ever kissed) that I'm a good to great kisser.

Of all the WW stories I've read, this hit me the hardest... and it only has to do with kissing.

I LOVE those kissing pictures too.

*catches breath and walks away from the desktop*
Lonias

WOW
grownandsexy83

Great post!! I love kissing. Its almost up there with good sex (but nothing tops great sex!). I agree with Cake211, kissing does tell you alot about a person. For me, I haven't had the great kiss that would make me want to cum but things can happen. I believe that I am a good kisser because of what I have been told by guys that I have kissed. I haven't had any complaints thus far. I really couldn't be with someone that didn't like to kiss. It's like an addiction and I have to have my fix!!! Again, great post!!!
Lonias

WOW

A sensitive kisser...that's what I need...
da ThRONe

Kissing is great only if the person is great. I hate kissing chicks that I dont like that much.

@Necole

There is nothing wrong with "Straight Fucking" from time to time.
http://kingdomzx.net Thunder X

I Am Licensed In Every State Of The Union, As Well As The Developed Nations Of The World. My Reputation Remains Unmatched. Heh.
DC Man With a Plan

@ Momof3....Passion CAN BE associated with rage and anger as well as love, so as Necole said, sex without kissing is str8-up bonin, but as Da Throne said: Ain't nuttin wrong with a lil str8 up F*cking from time to time......kissing is a good, stimulating activity that increases closeness and stimulates the senses, increases the desire one has for their mate and generally enhances the bond two ppl have for one another. Sometimes there may be no kissing when you and your mate are str8-up horny...lol, but in general, if there is no kissing: somebody needs to leave a tip on the dresser, bcuz that is how you do it when it's cash for azz.........
Shay from L.A. (Los Angeles)

Very stimulating...I want to suck face now
Momof3

@ DC man With a Plan

So everytime people kiss during intimacies they're with in love of hate one another? Think about how many women fall for men who kiss them and don't really give a damn... Not saying they hate her but she's not in their future plans... Kissing DOES NOT define how much a person feels for you. ESPECIALLY when it comes to sex... Like Mz. Ashley said my husband and I reserve deep intimate kissing for making love. But does that mean we care any less the other times we have sex and dont kiss? No...

I've always felt like an outcast because while other girls loved to kiss and kissed whomever they were dating at the time no matter how long they'd been together. Often times I'd turn my head away from a guy because like I said until my husband I never liked to... Kissing is in the eye of the beholder just like everything else int he world I guess...
Duchess

I loved this one!!!!! So much because I can relate, reading this had me thinking of the best kisser I've ever experienced. I love kissing, if the kiss isn't right, you can forget the rest. If I don't have a desire to kiss you, then it doesn't go any further. As always, Wet Wednesday has done it again!!!!!!
da ThRONe

I would like to take a minute to shout out all the "Soup Coolers" out there!
single24

I love making out. Its the best. I can't be in a relationship with a person that doesn't kiss. Everything about a kiss is wonderful to me. I like the prelude to a kiss the most. When I know its going to happen and I know that his kisses will incite so many different emotions in me. I don't know about everyone here, but honestly I have had an orgasm from kissing. And I mean straight up kissing. No extra stuff. no dry humping. Just kissing. I definitely advice people not to kiss if they are trying to be celibate. I would definitely say I am a good kisser. After all, I have had years of practice (while everyone else has been practicing bedroom fun). lol.

My last boyfriend was the best kisser, but he didn't start out that way. I remember the first time I kissed him was a sloppy kiss. I remember thinking what was he trying to do. It didn't feel like he was trying to kiss my mouth. after talking to some friends about it, they explained that its because he is more used to kissing another part of the anatomy. I was grossed out and intrigued at the same time. But after a few months of my tutelage he improved greatly. What made his kiss so great? I guess because he started to use his lips. Some people get so focused on trying to shove their tongue down the other person throat they forget they have lips. My lips tingled after kissing him. All this talk of kissing really has me going.
chevroLADY

I luv kissing and would never date someone that wouldnt kiss. I've neva kissed n-e-1 that wasnt intranced by my kiss or stated how great of a kisser I am. Kissing is erotic and if done rite can be mind altering. Hence, the dont kiss if you are celibate as stated by Necole. (it's bound to be a thing of your past)
Julienne

I love the imagery. Kissing isn't for everybody either! Only a select few have mastered the art
Rastaman

Don't have sex man. It leads to kissing and pretty soon you have to start talking to them.

I wasn't kissing her, I was whispering in her mouth.

Teach not thy lip such scorn, for it was made For kissing, lady, not for such contempt.
Sdot

LOL @ "I wasn’t kissing her, I was whispering in her mouth."

I could never have sex without kissing. How you gonna drive if you can't even start the car?
Avah Royal

LOL @ Righteous Mama's phrase "luxuriously nasty"

LOVE IT!
distinguishedgentlewoman

Um..... Sexy sweet. Good kissing is right up there with good conversation.
menluvmysmile

With out good kissing there is no happy moments. Its critical and a cornerstone to relations...;)
XxXLady

Still falling with your words!
Mz. VooDoo

@da Thorne

I love my soup coolers.

Kissing is important to a relationship, it provides that bonding issue. I am a "great" kisser and love to kiss, especially if he "can" kiss back. My present lover doesn't like to kiss. I feel he doesn't like to kiss, because he doesn't know how to...but he is learning.

Great post!!
http://popinfresh26@yahoo.com popinfresh26

Wow Ans after reading your blog I feel like I have just been made love to.. Whew! If I smoked I would need a cigarette right now.. As it is I have to take a cold shower..mmm mmm mmm.

Fantasticly erotic blog.. Go on Ans with your bad self..
Michelle D.A.

Kissing IS important! I'm 21 and my first kiss was almost a year ago (yeah, I was a late bloomer).

It was awful and the dude was wack. To this day, I seriously come close to regurgitating when I think too much about that experience. So disappointing. ;-/
AuthenticQueen

I read this and all I could remember was one of the best kisses I ever had.. which wasn't even on the lips.. (No! Not there either. Ha!)

I can recount it now..

"Shit. Right now I sit here and remember that moment your lips spoke volumes.
You were sick. Under the weather. And I was leaving for months on end.
What to do? What to do? The obvious answer waited on the fringes
Hmmmm. An embrace. Warm. Not hot. Warm. I turn to leave.
Wait! Oh. Huh? I'm going to miss you. Smile. You too.
A kiss on my forehead. A kiss on both cheeks.
A kiss on my neck. Gawd.
Burning. Deep."
http://undressingher.com undressingHER

no woman has told me I sucked, but I think that's because by the time I kissed them, they were at the point that they would lie to protect my feelings. I rarely kiss either way, atleast that deep stuff, I just peck my main chick.
Anonymiss

I love kissing. Deep, long, passionate, uninhibited kisses. Deff shouldn't give those out to just anyone. It's really the only way I like kissing but sometimes you can give people the wrong idea by handing out those kind of kisses too early.
iranturave

dayum... makes me feel as if i have never been kissed!!!
Gethsemia

wow..
Anonymous

I've had only 1 of these in my lifetime....and yeah...it's just that dayum good.
KayBee

I haven't had one of these yet....but I need it!!! Dayum!

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