Archive for November, 2009
Naked Time vs. Non-Naked Time (How Important is Sex?)
I was chillin’ at my boy Mike’s crib the other day and we got caught up in a conversation about life and male maturity. Both in our 30s (okay, technically just me since he’s 29-and-three-quarters, but work with me here), we were realizing how much our attitude towards women had changed over the years. Back [...]
Loose Threads, Vol. 10—Best of May ’09
Hey, Sock Heads. Apologies in advance to my international readers (what up, Elle?) but it’s still holiday season on this side of the globe. However, tomorrow is the last weekend of the month, which is when I do Loose Threads, my monthly recap of some of the best posts from the archives (aka the Sock [...]
How I Learned the Art of Making Love [REPOST]
Over the course of the past few months, my weekly erotica series, Wet Wednesdays, has become quite popular here on the blogosphere. It even won the judges’ vote this past summer in the 2009 Black Weblog Awards. Being that tomorrow is a major holiday in the States, I know a lot of folks in these [...]
What if Your Boo Smashed the Homie? (Sharing Lovers)
While getting my regular dose of reality TV the other day, I caught last week’s episode of For the Love of Ray J 2 (yeah, I watch it—sue me). If you’re not familiar with the show, there was this girl last season named Danger that it turns out had slept with one of Ray J’s [...]
Men That Cross Their Legs Like Girls (Does He Look Gay?)
On my way to the city the other day, I transferred at 14th Street to catch the R train. Since I was only going a few stops, I posted up by the door and didn’t make the frantic rush for a seat that the other commuters were. From the corner of my eye, though, I [...]
We Have To Break Up on FaceBook Too? (Unfriending Exes)
The other day my friend Liz reached out to me via IM with a problem. She had just broken up with her boyfriend Craig, who had taken the split pretty badly, and she wasn’t sure what to do about her FaceBook status. (Has it really come to this?). Liz felt that leaving her FB status [...]
Love Sick (Some Women Are Allergic to Sperm)
I discovered some shocking news the other day. I was reading Asylum.com and came across a disturbing article about a woman named Julie Boyd that was actually allergic to her newlywed husband’s (Mike) sperm. Yes, you read correctly, she’s allergic to the love juice of the man she just married. You’re probably wondering the same [...]
The Man Next Door (Would You Sleep With Your Neighbor?)
Celeste had enough of those bittersweet memories of her ex. She was ready for a change and that went for everything. She got a new job in a new city with a new place. She was ready for change in every sense of the word, but what she wasn’t ready for was the sweet sexy [...]