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Computer Love (Have You Ever Had Cyber Sex?)

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It was some time past 2am. Although I had just come home from a party and had a nice buzz going, I still decided to check my email. Sorry, I'm a workaholic and it's a bad force of habit.

As soon as I opened the laptop my iChat automatically logged me in. I didn't expect anyone to be on so late on a Friday night so I didn’t bother putting on an away message. The plan was to just check my messages and hit the sack.

That's when she hit me.

"Hey!"

Those were the three letters that popped up on the right hand side of my computer screen. I glanced over at the screen name and saw it was Yazmine.

Yazmine was this cute girl I met through one of my homegirls a while back. We had a real flirty relationship, to say the least, but for whatever the reason nothing ever came of it. We'd usually talk shit over IM but whenever we'd run into each other somewhere it was never anything more than cordial. I just chalked it up to her just being a cock tease and left it at that.

"Hey," I absentmindedly wrote back.

"What are you doing home?" she asked.

"Jst came in from my boyz party. A lil tipsy."

"LOL. Why are you online then?"

"Just checkin msgs B4 I head 2 bed & squeeze 1 out."

"Huh? Squeeze 1 out?"

"Jerk off. LOL"

"Oh, really?"

Before I could even write, "JK," she hit me back with, "Let me see."

"What! UR buggin."

"Why?"

"Bcuz.”

“How you going to say that and not let me watch?”

“LOL. UR funny.”

“No, you don't understand, I'm so horny right now."

"Word? Well UR all the way in the BX how da hell u supposed 2 C anyway?"

"You have a web cam don't you?"

"Yeah but..."

web cam panties

Before I could even finish typing, that little green light on my computer came on, signaling an incoming video chat request. I clicked accept and a tantalizing Yazmine was instantly right in front of me.

Yazmine flicked a strand of hair out of her face and leaned into the camera and said, “Hi.”

Even with her hair undone, Yazmine was fly as fuck. She was sitting on her bed in a pink camisole nightie with lace trim around the edges. The room was dimly lit but I could still see her big brown seductive eyes.

At first the laptop was laying on the bed in front of her, but then Yazmine repositioned herself against the headboard and adjusted the camera. She wasn’t wearing a bra so I could see the imprint of perky titties through her top.

Her nipples were hard.

As for me, I was half-dressed in a pair of boxers and a wifebeater, exposing the tattoo on my arm.

“I didn’t know you had a tat,” she said.

“Yeah, I got this for my birthday a few years ago.”

“It’s sexy,” she smiled. “Now let me see your sexy dick.”

“What? I’m not even messing with you right now ’cause I know you’re not serious.”

Yazmine’s voice changed into this soft seductive whisper and she repeated herself: “No, I’m very serious. I want to watch you play with yourself.”

My dick was hard.

As far as I knew Yazmine was just talking shit again, but damn if it wasn’t sexy. I laughed out of nervousness.

“What’s so funny,” she smirked.

“Nothing. I just never know when you’re serious.”

“Well, I’m very serious right now,” she said, biting down on her bottom lip.

In that same breath, Yazmine began feeling on her breasts through her top. Next thing I know she slid one spaghetti strap off her left shoulder until her breast was exposed and she started licking her own nipple.

“You like that,” she whispered.

I nodded in agreement as my dick got even harder and started poking out the front of my boxers. Instinctually, I grasped myself with my left hand and was tempted to grant Yazmine’s wishes, but part of me still wasn’t sure if she was for real.

Sensing my doubt, Yazmine took it up a notch.

She placed the laptop on the bed in front of her and lifted her camisole over her head, revealing her sublime naked body to me. With the camera positioned squarely on her crotch she began fiddling with the loose strands of hair in her nether region.

“I want to see you your sexy dick,” she repeated once more.

There was no more doubt in my mind by this point and I moved my laptop to the edge of the desk and titled the camera southward to reveal my stiff cock, which I had already been gently stroking ever since Yazmine started licking her own breast.

“I want to watch you jerk off,” Yazmine moaned, stroking her throbbing pussy even harder. “I want to see you cum.”

I was tipsy, horny and more than willing to oblige. As I watched Yazmine playing with herself on the screen and gyrating her hips as it got good for her, I also studied my own strokes on camera as I worked my hand up and down my shaft.

I was seeing exactly what Yazmine wanted to see—my sexy dick, while taking in the image of her pulsating pussy at the same time. It was like watching my own little porno starring me and the woman I’d been fantasizing about for months. The only difference was this was interactive.

The more Yazmine moaned the more turned on I got. That one droplet of pre-cum that dribbled out the head of my dick quickly multiplied and became a palm-full of lubricant that I used to slowly stroke my shaft and rotate around my tip.

I was so fucking hard I could feel my heartbeat through my dick. If I were by myself I would have long succumb to ecstasy, but I wanted to make sure Yazmine got off. As much as I wanted to explode right there in my hand, I held on to my nut and talked Yazmine towards hers.

I told her all the things I would do if I was in that room with her rather than a dozen miles away on the other side of a computer screen.

I told her how…

…I’d devour her pussy and slurp up every drop of her.

…I’d lick her cum-soaked fingertips dry.

…I’d suck on her juicy breasts and nipples.

…I’d take my soft lips and press them against hers as I plunged my sexy dick deeper inside of her.

…I’ve spent many lonely nights jerking off to thoughts of her.

I want her so badly and nothing would please me more than to see and hear her cum right now.

My words, coupled with the constant image of my hand stroking my swollen manhood on her screen, drove Yazmine wild. Her moans got more intense and her right leg began to quiver.

“Baby, are you cumming,” I asked.

“Yes,” she panted back.

“I wanna cum too. Can I cum, baby?”

“Yes, yes, you can cum. Oh, let me see you nut, boy. Let me see that sexy dick cum.”

Her wish was my command.

As soon as Yazmine got off, I let loose the most explosive nut of my life. We both watched the screen as a river of semen erupted from the head of my dick and rolled down my clenched fingers. As the euphoric sensation of my orgasm traveled through my body, I slowed down the stroke of my hand.

I was sensitive and didn’t want to move.

Shifting my gaze from my own sexy dick to the image box containing Yazmine’s fertile grounds, I saw that she too was frozen in place by afterglow. After what felt like a lifetime, she finally spoke.

“That was amazing.”

“Yeah, I guess you weren’t playing when you said you were horny.”

“Oh, I still am.”

“Word… You up for another round?”

“That’ll do for now,” she smiled. “But ain’t nothing like the real thing.”

Fin!

Have you ever had cyber sex? If so, how was it and whom did you do it with? Do you think that cyber sex can spice up a long distance relationship? Do you think something like that is sexy or lame? Why? Does masturbation actually make you more sexually frustrated or does it hit the spot for you when you have an itch that needs to be scratched? Would you be bold enough to initiate a cyber sex episode with someone you’ve never been intimate with in real life? After reading this would you consider using your web cam for more than just conversations?

Speak your piece…

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  • da ThRONe

    Yes I had cybersex before. It has to be on a webcam words alone dont do it for me. Much to my surprize it was very fulfilling. I would think it would work wonders in a long distance relationship.

    The only person I went the cybersex route with I have never met in person. Cant say with who though? ;)

    P.S.
    Maybe im looking to hard but in the bottom pic you can see the chick breast on the DVD.

  • mizze

    Have you ever had cyber sex? If so, how was it and whom did you do it with?
    I have not had it yet but it would only have to be with my boyfriend.. I know, I know..lame but he is the only person right now that is worth it in my opinion. I am not one who just goes and does that type of stuff with a random stranger..not my thing.. but to each its own

    Do you think that cyber sex can spice up a long distance relationship?
    YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean, there is no subsitiute for the real thing but its good for the times when you are away.. Or even tease him a little if he is at work and may have a webcam on his laptop..

    Do you think something like that is sexy or lame?
    SEXY

    Does masturbation actually make you more sexually frustrated or does it hit the spot for you when you have an itch that needs to be scratched?
    For me, it really just relieves it. I mean, I have never had to do it for a long period of time but I think that doing it for a long period of time seems to me that it can be frustrating.

    Would you be bold enough to initiate a cyber sex episode with someone you’ve never been intimate with in real life?
    Hell no! Im sorry but thats just not me.. In my opinion it has nothing to do with being bold.. I am not even going to continue on because someone who may do that will feel the need to defend themselves

    After reading this would you consider using your web cam for more than just conversations?
    LOL.. that is the ONLY reason I got this webcam on my laptop

  • YoungJay

    Never tried it before but if a chick like Yazmine initiated it I would not be hesitant to hop to it ;)

  • Elle

    1. Yeah ThRONe, you ARE looking too hard.

    2.
    Have you ever had cyber sex? If so, how was it and whom did you do it with?
    - Yea once with a guy I was "seeing" for a while. It was ok. Nothing I need to do more often.

    Do you think that cyber sex can spice up a long distance relationship?
    - Generally speaking I guess it can. Personally, in my last relationship we didn't do anything along those lines. I guess I'm more the type for phone sex. It's something about a man's voice that gets me going. All this looking and typing BS would distract me too much to really get into it. With phone sex I can get lost in my own world without any type of distraction.

    Does masturbation actually make you more sexually frustrated or does it hit the spot for you when you have an itch that needs to be scratched?
    - My sex drive goes into hibernation mode when I'm not in a relationship. Don't know why it has just always been that way. I don't just get horny to be getting horny. For me it is linked to a person I can't get my hands off.
    *shrugs*
    I guess I'm the cliché female who needs to be in love to have sex.

  • Elle

    @ Jay

    WTF are you doing up at this time of day?

    *note to self: initiate cyber sex with YJ*

  • BMW2K

    Have you ever had cyber sex? If so, how was it and whom did you do it with? Yes, with hubby while traveling. We don't type though - we use headphones w/mics along with cams.

    Do you think that cyber sex can spice up a long distance relationship? If it is your thing, yes.

    Do you think something like that is sexy or lame? I think it is sexy.

    Why? I like it when he watches, and he likes to watch. Perfect union.

    Does masturbation actually make you more sexually frustrated or does it hit the spot for you when you have an itch that needs to be scratched? It depends on the deepness of the itch. Sometimes it works, other times it just makes me want the real thing more. It is definitely NOT better than the real thing though.

    Would you be bold enough to initiate a cyber sex episode with someone you’ve never been intimate with in real life? No. I don't think it would be any fun for me. I would need to know and trust the person on the other end. I mean really, do I want someone I know surfing and find a tape of me on the net? :-(

    I gotta stop reading this stuff so early in the am.

  • Momof3

    Since this my husbands third deployment we've become very accustomed to this. LOL... We don't do it often just when the pressure gets to be too much for one of us. He's the only guy I've done that with and the only one I'd ever consider doing it with. Webcams come with an option to snap a picture of the other person. Can't have images like that floating around :) . MAsturbation scrathes my itch when I need it to only because I onlly do it when he requests to see it or I just can't take the pressure anymore...

    VERY sexy story though...

  • YoungJay

    @ Elle

    I just got back from 2 weeks in China so my sleeping pattern is all jacked up.

  • YoungJay

    @ your note to self

    ; )

  • The Duchess

    WOW! I prefer the real deal BUT ya never know

  • Shequita

    Yes I have, no webcam though. With someone I had never been intimate with...aint nothing like the real thang baby!!...but for the moment it really did the trick. I think Cyber and phone sex, slutty letters or even the more recent sexting can spice up a long distance relationship! Don't knock it till you try it..

  • Elle

    @ Jay

    Your job doesn't require you to spend 2 weeks in Berlin, now does it?

    Maybe I should have a word with your boss ;)

  • da ThRONe

    @Elle

    It doesnt sound like your sex drive is in hibernation right now. LOL!

  • The Duchess

    I can't do long distance NOTHING!!

  • taylormade

    I had cybersex a few times, and it actually made things worse, afterwards, I would me scrolling through the call log, trying to find some company. Dont get me wrong the hand never fails, and can be the answer to a lonely night, or a quick fix, but there is nothing like the real thing.

  • Elle

    @ da ThRONe

    Dang, I can't have an innocent coffee with somebody?
    :P

    ok, ok, you caught me... touché

    *goes to corner*

  • Shequita

    lol @ EllE and da ThRONe aka The WARDEN!

  • da ThRONe

    @Elle

    You are going have to teach me how to put my hormones to sleep like that. It would save me a fortune in babyoil.

  • Elle

    @ da ThRONe

    My hormones are just extremely picky. It's a gift and a curse. Some people's hormones really just need a man/woman with a pulse so they can actually have a sex life. My hormones are divas and set the bar really high so I spend my evenings at home on the couch or working late.

    I doubt you want that.

  • da ThRONe

    @Elle

    Already there!

    My sex life is non-existent. :(

  • Elle

    @ da ThRONe

    LoL... welcome to my world then .... *hands you membership card*

    In case you wanna kill some time, feel free to hit me up via email or chat (lulut78@yahoo.com).
    That goes for everyone here. No worries, this isn't my primary email address :P

  • The Kiss

    I have had cybersex. I can't say with whom, but it was good. of course it was on webcam. masturbation can make it more frustrating or just relieve it for me. It depends on my mood. Cybersex can get old after a wild though

  • da ThRONe

    @Elle

    Nope nobody else can contact you but me! LOL

    I want big Elle's all to myself!

  • da ThRONe

    @Elle

    Nope nobody else can contact you but me! LOL

    I want big Elle all to myself!

  • Elle

    LoL ... greedy lil phucca

  • Mshollywood

    @ da throne .... Lmao yeah you can see the boob on the DVD I zoomed in lol ....

    Cyber sex is hot... But I cosign with Elle I gotta be feeling you intensely...

  • BMW2K

    LOL @ Elle "My hormones are just extremely picky. . . . My hormones are divas and set the bar really high so I spend my evenings at home on the couch or working late."

    My premarital hormones must have been in the same club as yours. ;-)

  • YoungJay

    @ Elle

    I was actually in Cologne (close but not cigar) for like 2 weeks in August lol

    @ Da Throne

    How in D hell you just gonna come through and steal MY Elle like that? Man I tell you ain't no honor among brothers anymore lol

  • Elle

    @ Jay

    :O Goodness you were in Cologne?!?!?!

    Next time, shoot me an email, send smoke signs, or whatever.
    :(

  • Elle

    PS: Nobody stole anything.

  • YoungJay

    @ Elle

    Next time I will make sure to do all three and whatever else it takes ; )

    @ Da Throne

    See Elle's comment above lol

  • da ThRONe

    @Young Jay

    Imma fall back on this one!(like I had a chance anyways LOL)

  • AnonyMiss

    I've tried the cyber sex thang w/o cam.... it can be fun but typing gets annoying so i suppose the cam wud be better. im not bold enuff to do the cam thing tho.... unless its with someone ive already been intimate with.

    masterbating is enjoyable but sometimes it jus makes me want the real thang badly

  • Elle

    @ Jay

    GOOD! All 3 and whatever else it takes. I'll take your word for it.

  • Elle

    @ ThRONe

    LoL ... puhlease ... I do not fall into your target group so hush

  • Mz. Ashley

    sorry i been MIA for a while! Work has been picky about our internet use. Wow never have cyber sex before, but this makes me wanna go buy a webcam INSTANTLY! lol

  • Righteous Mama

    Me too. You are soo gonna make me start using my web cam for all types of naughtiness. lol.

    I've been thinking about it for a while now. It's sooo gonna happen. Internet sex sometimes is just easier. Nobody has to drive anywhere. No atmosphere needed. No money to be spent. Just easy!

    Craiglist's used to be another good friend of mine for internet naughtiness. I'd create these crazy hypersexual, dominatrix, mean-bad ass chic characters and email the men whose posts interested me. Oh the things we'd write! It was fun. I got a couple freaky e-buddies from it too. Sometimes they still hit me up on a lonely night when they need some entertainment. I like to post my own crazy personal ads too! It was good for my writing and my imagination. ;) I get turned off though when men want to see ALL your goods and make freaky requests. Nah, dude. That I save.

  • Kate

    yes to cybersex and phone sex and dirty sms-es and pics!

  • WaterLove

    Have you ever had cyber sex? If so, how was it and whom did you do it with?

    Yes, with my husband when he was deployed. It was great and allowed me to be so carefree because it is with my husband whom I trust. Before we did cyber sex, I had actually video taped myself stripping and masterbating and emailed it to him.

    Do you think that cyber sex can spice up a long distance relationship?

    Definetly! It is fun and sexy. It is a way to keep the intimacy going when long distance.

    Does masturbation actually make you more sexually frustrated or does it hit the spot for you when you have an itch that needs to be scratched?

    It hits the spot for me everytime. I masterbate often.

  • yunish

    yeah baby its so good when your lover is away and the only way you can touch him or her is through your imagination of your web camera, and you can be a freaky as you want even bring out the freak they didn't know was there right on,

  • Anonymous

    yer but not on cam

  • SillySally

    Just finished, won't tell you with who. but sometimes it scratches that itch and sometimes its like beating your head against the wall. Personally I think it can be better if the person is imaginative.

  • Siantej

    Da Throne first post summed it all up. And since I love people who got pretty hands, feet, dicks, pussies and the like, seeing what I'm given my heat too, it's PAR for the course.

  • Tristan

    I was having it with someone I was "seeing" as well...and it was good...had fun...not sure if she enjoyed it...but she rather we talked on the phone...LOL!!!

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