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That Sexy Phone Voice (Have You Ever Been Ear Raped?)

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The year was 1999. Her name was Erica. She was this fly honey I met on the bus one day coming home from work. She was an art major and made a comment about my backpack. She wanted to know where I got it because it looked like it’d be perfect for carrying all her art supplies. That off cuff comment led to an extended conversation that resulted in us exchanging numbers.

I was never good at making the first call. That silly rule about waiting a day or two always rattled around in my over-analytical skull. That wasn’t an issue this time, though, because Erica called first.

The conversation started off simple enough, as we discussed the all-important backpack and how she’d been looking for one like that for so long. Once that was out of the way, we trailed off into banter about each other—our likes and our dislikes; our goals and aspirations; and our favorite movies and shows.

We wound up speaking for hours.

Eventually, Erica and I went out on our first date. We met at the movie theatre on Jamaica Ave and she looked even better than I remembered. She was dressed casually in a pair of blue jeans and a white top. The most notable part of her ensemble, though, was a smile. She had the most perfect teeth and these juicy lips that I could only imagine how soft they were.

I forget what movie we saw, but we grabbed something to eat afterwards. The vibe we had built up on the phone was only solidified face-to-face. The conversation was free flowing and we didn’t leave until the restaurant was almost closed.

Since it was late we caught a dollar cab instead of the bus. Erica didn’t live that far from me so I walked her to her parent’s house before heading home myself. Even though I didn’t get a kiss good night, it was a perfect first date.

I was giddy as a schoolboy.

At that time I was in a bit of a slump and hadn’t had any action in a while. In addition to being a hot girl, Erica was also a good girl. We wound up going out a couple more times, but because of my hectic work schedule we wound up phone Jonesin’ a lot.

Remember back in the day when you were really feeling someone and you would just talk on the phone until the wee hours of the morning? It started with your first crush. You were young and really didn't have anywhere to be the next day so it was cool staying up until four in the morning just talking—about nothing.

It was during one of these marathon phone conversations that it happened. Erica was already an attractive woman, but there’s something about late night talking that changes your voice. You know what I'm talking about. Guys get extra bassy and all gravely, while chicks get this real whispery thing going on. It's sexy as all hell and is a major turn on.

After a month of dating Erica and almost a year of sexual inactivity, I was horny as a toad and the sound of her voice was driving me wild.

I was laying in my bed in total darkness, except for the red analog numbers on my clock glowing in the distance. It was a quarter past three on a Wet Wednesday night and I my eyelids were heavy. Still, there was no way I could fall asleep with my dick this hard.

It’s not that Erica and I were discussing anything sexual, but the sweet timbre of her voice was hypnotic. My hands slowly drifted into my boxers and I held myself for comfort. It wasn’t long before I was absentmindedly fondling my balls with my thumb and index finger.

Erica kept talking.

I got harder.

Erica and I hadn’t been physical yet besides a tender kiss the week prior, so the idea of asking her if she was into phone sex was too big of a risk. I didn’t want to think I was some sort of freak—so soon.

I was extremely horny, though, so I decided to take matters into my own hand. It’s not like I hadn’t fantasized about being with Erica before, but rather than “handle” it by myself, I was going to use her voice as my personal soundtrack.

Chalk it up to another case of a man not listening, but it didn’t matter what Erica was saying (or even me for that matter), all I needed was the sound of her sweet voice to get me off.

After gently stroking myself in my boxers until I felt that sticky droplet of pre-cum ooze out of my dick, I slid my bottoms past my waist and to the middle of my thighs so I could have more room.

I gripped my shaft tighter with my left hand and started working my way up and down at a slow steady pace. All the while maintaining a conversation with Erica, who was none the wiser, the whole time.

I was ear raping her and she had no clue. All she knew was that we were having another one of those in-and-out of consciousness late night conversations, so it was no big deal if I seemed “distracted” at times.

“You falling asleep on me,” she asked at one point.

“N-nah,” I croaked. “I’m awake… Trust me. I like hearing your voice.”

“Aww, that’s so sweet.”

“So what are you doing tomorrow,” I asked, in an effort to keep her talking.

Her words trailed off and I only focused on the sound of her voice.

Balancing the phone on my shoulder, I let my right hand join the love below, as I wrapped my fingers around the base of my dick with one hand, while I rotated the other over the expanding pond of pre-cum on my tip.

It felt good.

She kept talking.

It felt better.

Soon my gentle stroke began to gain momentum, as I got more excited. As my pace sped up, I gripped myself even tighter so that more blood could course through my dick. I could feel my heart beating through my veins as my free hand worked it’s magic.

I could have came at any moment but I extended the pleasure through controlled, steady strokes. My rhythm matched that of Erica’s voice. Soft, slow and steady.

Finally, I had reached the point of no return, where fighting the feeling was pointless. In preparation for this unstoppable nut I added more pressure to strokes, which were long, hard and rigorous until…

My hips started gyrating…

My dick started pulsating…

My muscles tensed up…

And then relaxed.

I came.

Quietly.

Erica was completely unaware.

She kept on talking as a warm glob of cum erupted from my dick in two sharp bursts and then one gentle aftershock.

I was relaxed and at ease.

If just the sound of Erica’s voice talking about acrylic paint could excite me this much, I could only imagine what it would be like to experience her firsthand. In my catatonic post-coital state, the thought put my mind at ease. So much so, that I soon drifted off to sleep.

I awoke the next morning to find my boxers still positioned around my thighs and my dry cum-covered hand stuck to my manhood. I must have fallen asleep mid-conversation with Erica because when I checked my cell phone, which had fallen to the side of my bed, there was a text message from her that read, “Call me later, sleepyhead.”

Yeah, that sounds nice.

Fin!

Do you find that people’s voices get sexier late at night? Did you use to talk on the phone for hours with someone new when you were younger? What did you talk about? Have you ever fallen asleep mid-conversation? Did any of those late night calls lead to phone sex? How do you normally initiate a phone sex conversation? Fellas, have you ever ear raped a girl? How often, if at all, do you fantasize about a woman you’ve just met and are really feeling? Ladies, would be disgusted or flattered if you knew a guy was pleasuring himself to the sound of your voice? Do you think you could tell if you were being ear raped? Do women ear rape men, too?

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  • PhoneMoainHunnie

    Yes..they do..My ex lived in memphis, and while we never had the chance to have sex before he moved, the only option was phone sex..He told me he liked masturbating and I told him I never did it..he introduced me to my first orgasm via phone...I think the sexiness in his words, and moans, and the excitement we get with imagining thing like this is overwhelming..I luv to hear him cum, becuz its poweful and makes my orgasm even more better..Think about it to hear what he is gonna due to this "pussy" is exciting..Phone sex usually starts off like a regular convo, and then his voice deepens becuz he is arouse and then I just slide my panties down and get tha rabbit..LOL...I think its healthy to bust a nut everynite if u can...

  • Elle

    Do you find that people’s voices get sexier late at night?
    - Never noticed.

    Did you use to talk on the phone for hours with someone new when you were younger?
    - Yup, not only when I was "younger". In a LDR the phone is all you have really.

    What did you talk about?
    - Anything that came to mind. That way we were able to be a part of each other's day despite the distance.

    Have you ever fallen asleep mid-conversation?
    - Yes, once.

    Did any of those late night calls lead to phone sex? How do you normally initiate a phone sex conversation?
    - Occasionally. I don't remember how the convo was being initiated. It kind of just happen naturally during the course of the call.

    Generally, a man's voice can go verrrrry far. Or it can ruin all.
    I know this little Greek guy who can easily talk any woman's pants off simply with the sound of his voice. He sounds like a cross between Barry White and ... umm... DMX maybe. Hot shit.

  • BMW2K

    Hmm, I think this is one of the reasons I fell in love. My husband has the sexiest voice and we spent a LOT of time on the phone when we "dated". Even now, his voice alone is enough to get me all giddy and excited. Since travel is a part of our lives, we still can easily talk for hours when away from one another. Actual phone sex though? w/o camera and headphones? I think we did it once. Not really our thing.

  • ShirlSoSweet

    Well I must admit I have tried to ear rape my man but I can never get to the big O until after I hang up. That could be because I actually listen to what he’s saying. I love a man with a deep voice...thats what gets me into trouble LOL.

    And I’m pretty sure if whoever I’m on the phone with all of a sudden started breathing hard and moaning I would know something was up. But if he is silent with it I would never know.

  • sweetsexxybrown

    Cute story. Gotta say I'm not into watching a guy masturbate but that story turned me on. Nice description. Nope-I've never ear raped anyone, but I have definitely masturbated during ph sex, but couldn't reach my O. I never really noticed that a mans voice changes at night(over the phone). I definitely have done the numerous hours ph call when I was younger and as an adult. This is usually if its a LDR but I've also had those long convos when they've been local. It usually only happens up until we have sex. Then the convos shorten drastically to "Yeah, I'll be there in an hour." I would mine if I was being ear raped. Feels a lil perverted. I'd rather u tell me what u need and I'd gladly participate in gettin u there.

  • Shequita

    Love late night phone calls that last as long as the vibe is right. Had them when I was younger and still have them now...Only diff is they are few and far between.
    Voices do get sexier and raspier late at night. Ive noticed my voice changes when I'm in the mood. I would not feel disgusted if I was "ear raped"...I'd feel cheated lol...Next time can you let me know whats goin on so I can join the fun??

    I must confess I started to "ear rape" a man but when he asked what I was doing, i was bold enough to let him know and he joined me.

  • grownandsexy83

    Do you find that people’s voices get sexier late at night? Yes, I actually have noticed that.

    Did you use to talk on the phone for hours with someone new when you were younger? Yes I did, even now I do it sometimes.

    What did you talk about? Nothing important, mostly just listening to each other breathe.

    Have you ever fallen asleep mid-conversation?
    Yep, especially if I am sleepy.

    Did any of those late night calls lead to phone sex? When I was younger no, now that I am older and "experienced" yes.

    How do you normally initiate a phone sex conversation? Idk how they are initiated, it just happens.

    Ladies, would be disgusted or flattered if you knew a guy was pleasuring himself to the sound of your voice? Probably flattered. Let's me know that I have a sexy voice (that's kinda big for me).

    Do you think you could tell if you were being ear raped? If they are quiet, no. If I'm listening really hard, yes.

    Do women ear rape men, too? I am sure we do.

    Great post, gotta handle some business ;-)

  • TryLove

    I do think that voices get a little sexier at night. Maybe it's the darkness of night that helps to set the mood or the fact that the city is "sleeping" but late night convos can be some hot *ish that leads to phone sex. Even better ... dick that is live and direct!

    I would not feel digusted if a man "ear raped" me
    but I would want him to let me know ... Im sure I could help the situation greatly!

  • http://www.thesinglegirlsguidetomen.com NIKBANKS

    as always i love the post.

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @older & wiser

    Nope. It's the best descriptor for better or worse and it's written already so it shall be.

    Unless you want me to call you around 4am to discuss further. LOL

    jk

  • Mz. VooDoo

    Ear raped? I never heard of it called that. I have been told I have the voice of a "phone sex operator". Even at my job, (911 dispatcher/operator) I have had co-workers (males of course) tell me they love it when I'm working, dispatching them to calls, go figure, they say, especially when it's 2 or 3 o'clock in the morning.. Of course, I am very flattered by that, not digusted at all..I didn't know what phone sex was until I got older and 5 kids later.

    My present beau, lover and friend has that "Barry White" voice, I get wet everytimes he calls me and when we are making love, oh wee!!!! the volcano just explodes....

  • older & wiser

    The term ear raped has a negative vibe for me, I don't like it. Can you come up with a nicer term?

  • Hayzel

    i've been told that i have the voice of girl 69, as a friend once called me...lol and i've caught one friend in the middle of his masturbation and hung up on him after telling him off.... something about a conversation about the Holy Bible and theology and masturbation that creeps me out....lol

    yea, i've ear raped a few friends... not intentionally tho. as far as phone sex goes-i'm a virgin in all aspects..lol

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    @Dragonfly

    maybe that's a guest blog?

  • DragonFly

    Nice story, "Mr. NWSO".

    I actually had phone sex with a stranger once. But yeah, that's a long and...interesting story, to say the least.

    Anyway, I find the morning just-woke-up voice sexier than the late night voice. You're more likely to get me into phone sex when I first wake up and I'm still lying in bed in a sleepy haze. Late night will likely have me convincing him to just come over.

    "Ear raped"...LOL

  • http://sweetnectar2480.blogspot.com Sweet Nectar

    Wow, ear raped that's a new one. I love having phone sex. I thoroughly enjoy hearing him talk in my ear in a low whisper turning me on. That deep voice makes me want to gently caress my lips, licking them slowly making them nice and wet. Sending him carmel kisses through the phone. Mmm, but I disgress must maintain my sexy and be good. Cause trouble is so easy and fun to get into.

  • pat

    I also do that when i call my girl.I Always do that to her by talking much about what i should be doing to her,If she was around.I like this program man,it is good.

  • Andrialynn

    Do you find that people’s voices get sexier late at night? - Sometimes
    Did you use to talk on the phone for hours with someone new when you were younger? - Yes Back in the day
    What did you talk about? - Anything
    Have you ever fallen asleep mid-conversation? - All the time Especially when school was in session
    Did any of those late night calls lead to phone sex?- No
    How do you normally initiate a phone sex conversation? -I don't
    Ladies, would be disgusted or flattered if you knew a guy was pleasuring himself to the sound of your voice? - It wouldn't matter to me
    Do you think you could tell if you were being ear raped? - No
    Do women ear rape men, too? - Not this woman

  • Neska

    `Do you find that people’s voices get sexier late at night? oh yeah, nite time warrants a sexy voice

    `Did you use to talk on the phone for hours with someone new when you were younger? the gettin to know you talks

    `What did you talk about? any and everything under the sun

    `Have you ever fallen asleep mid-conversation? plenty of times, i would tell him i'm tired but we'd still talk
    `Did any of those late night calls lead to phone sex? the good ol days
    `How do you normally initiate a phone sex conversation? when both voices change and the breathin gets a little heavy "what are you thinkin about" works like a charm

    `Ladies, would you be disgusted or flattered if you knew a guy was pleasuring himself to the sound of your voice? my man no prob someone else akward
    `Do you think you could tell if you were being ear raped? dont know
    `Do women ear rape men, too? possibly

  • Siantej

    Many times and every time was HOT HOT

  • Sexy Supergirl

    Do you find that people’s voices get sexier late at night? Haven't never noticed.
    Did you use to talk on the phone for hours with someone new when you were younger? Yep...not so much now.
    What did you talk about? Whatever came to mind
    Have you ever fallen asleep mid-conversation? YES
    Did any of those late night calls lead to phone sex? Yeppers
    How do you normally initiate a phone sex conversation? Don't remember, and haven't had it as an adult. I want to say he asked, because I don't remember ever touching myself, just being a help to him with sounds, moans, etc.
    How often, if at all, do you fantasize about a man you’ve just met and are really feeling? A lot..I have an over active imagination and I love sex :)
    Ladies, would be disgusted or flattered if you knew a guy was pleasuring himself to the sound of your voice? I would be flattered, but I would still like to know what's going on in case I want to join or just help him out.
    Do you think you could tell if you were being ear raped? Nope not if quite
    Do women ear rape men, too? Prolly so, but I can't say that I have...

  • Tripple H

    good luck lol!!!!!!!!!!!!! we are bitter sweet foe you know what's good!!!!!!!!!lol can we all just get alone.