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Archive for November, 2009

I'm Not Gay I Just Have Style (Can Men Decorate?)

One night during the summer I was chillin’ in the crib when my phone rang. It was my homegirl Vanessa. She was in the neighborhood and wanted to know if her friend Nicole could use my bathroom because it was an emergency. “It’s not a No. 2, right,” I joked. (Laughs) “No, silly, I just [...]

Computer Love (Have You Ever Had Cyber Sex?)

It was some time past 2am. Although I had just come home from a party and had a nice buzz going, I still decided to check my email. Sorry, I’m a workaholic and it’s a bad force of habit. As soon as I opened the laptop my iChat automatically logged me in. I didn’t expect [...]

Don’t Trust People in Love (Do Couples Share Everything?)

There’s a certain level of trust that comes along with being someone’s friend—in the true sense of the word at least. Generally, when you call someone your BFF they are your confidante; your personal vault; the keeper of all your deepest and darkest secrets. You tell each other just about everything with the understanding that [...]

Questions to Ask on a Blind Date (Good or Bad Icebreakers?)

Some of you might remember a while back when I went on my first blind/speed-date. It was part of a collaboration between Glamour magazine and Skype. The whole thing was recorded via Skype cam and posted on Glamour.com so people could vote on which of the three bachelors should go on a real-life date. If [...]