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Archive for December, 2009

Is Postpartum Depression Real? (When Mothers Attack)

Let me start off by saying, ignore the title. I know full and well that postpartum depression [PPD] is real. In fact, my mother revealed to me that she suffered from some form of it while my father was off fighting in the war, as she’d lie in bed for hours on end just cradling [...]

Do Men Respect Women That Swallow? (Deep Throat Divas)

Dear NWSO, I recently came across your blogs and I must say they are amazing!!! You’re an excellent writer and very entertaining—even the one’s that don’t have anything to do with sex! LOL. My questions is a kinda personal one, but I’m an open gal and not ashamed of anything. I was just wondering if [...]

Will I Be a Good Husband? (Loving A Workaholic is Hard)

A few weeks back I had dinner with an old flame named Tiffany. She and I went out for a few months but life got hectic for both of us and we wound up traveling down separate romantic paths. Call it bad timing. Despite our failed courtship, we still maintain a solid friendship and have [...]

Taste Your Love (I Want To Lick You Like a Ice Cream Cone)

Our love Was like a pint Of Häagen-Dazs Coffee ice cream Because her taste Was addictive Each time she touched my lips It was like a shot Of caffeine Hitting my bloodstream

Lying Tiger & Shaq Oh My (Do All Famous Men Cheat?)

For the past week and a half people have been hitting me up with the same question: What’s your take on the whole Tiger Woods scandal? Truthfully, I haven’t really been paying that much attention to it. Well, I have but there’ve been so many damn updates it’s hard to keep track. All I know [...]

Virgin Blues (Do Men Only Want Sex From a Woman?)

Dear NWSO, About two months ago I met a guy on the way to the grocery store. He approached me and we chatted for a bit and at the end of our exchange I offered him my number. He texted me later that day, and we wound up going back and forth on text for [...]

Your Mom Doesn't Approve of My Blog (I'm a Sleaze Bag)

No disrespect to your mama but she started it. For the most part, whenever I’ve met anyone’s mother (or father) they’ve generally liked me. I have home training, am well-spoken and display manners in the company of elders. Monday, however, I had a bad run-in with someone’s mama—on FaceBook. I was sitting at my desk [...]

Her Boyfriend's Down With O.P.P. (Are Wandering Eyes Ok?)

Dear NWSO, I’m 21 and have a boyfriend who I’ve been dating for four years now. Things have not always been in our favor, but we’ve managed to see it through. I’ve been noticing some changes in him that I’ve found upsetting. I feel as though these signs have always been there, but I was [...]