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Archive for February, 2010

Do You Know What I Did Last Summer? (New Site & Videos)

Hey, Sock Heads, it’s recap time. Before I get to that, though, I have a few announcements and updates for y’all. First, if you’ve been paying attention for the past few months, you’ve seen me plug ThatsABadLook.com (Coming soon) from time to time. It’s still coming sooner but until then, me and my team have [...]

Do Aggressive Women Get More Dates? (She Asked Him Out)

A lot of women often complain about not being able to find a good man or only being approached by jerks. A while back I suggested that the ladies just flip the script and actually do the asking out. For the most part, female readers balked at the idea because they were just too scared [...]

Do You Keep Relationship Mementos? (Metal Memories)

“I don’t wanna get tucked away in your little metal box and forgotten,” My ex, circa 2001 Let’s backtrack a little… I have this little metal box that holds a lot of my memories. Not sure whom I got it from or when I got it, but I received a few years back as part [...]

Was It Worth the Wait? (In the Heat of the Night, Pt 3)

PT. 1 // PT. 2 My answer should have been yes. The question: “Do you still think we shouldn’t have sex?” But with my moistened dick barely out of Melissa’s mouth, any answer that wouldn’t result in me ravaging her cocoa buttery smooth body was out of the question. “No,” that was my answer. My [...]

Men Lie, Women Lie, But Do They Really Have To?

Adapted from “You Don’t Have To Lie to Kick It,” by Zach Davis I initially decided to write this after I had heard some troubling headlines in the news. One of my favorite football players was murdered, and another man had boiling water poured on his genitals. Both were done by women they were dealing [...]

Can Black Folks Be Racist? (I Wish the World Were Blind)

Sometimes I wish the entire world were blind. That way race wouldn’t be an issue because no one could see what color anyone was. Chances are, though, that wouldn’t make much of a difference. (See 2008’s Blindness). Based on man’s wicked nature and incessant desire to classify people, places and things, we’d probably find some [...]

Does [Breast] Size Matter? (What Real Men Think)

Week before last I polled my female friends to answer the age old question: Does Size Matter? (What Women Say Behind Men’s Backs). The end result was a very interesting and honest discussion on what women really think about a man’s packaging. At some point in the discussion, Da ThRONe—you’ve probably heard of him—said how [...]

Is Dating Your BFF a Bad Idea? (A Lesbian Love Triangle)

Dear NWSO, I need HELP! At 18, I decided to date my best friend. I had never thought about being in [lesbian] relationship and I didn’t know how my mom would respond so we kept it a secret. Well, needless to say we were HOT and HEAVY but only on the low! We were dating [...]