In the words of Chris Rock: if you haven’t contemplated on killing your partner, then you’ve never been in love. Lol

In all seriousness, I think being in love is something you can’t force nor fight – it just happen. You’d find yourself on cloud 9, at times doing “silly” stuff and wouldn’t care how it looks to others. For a guy, you basically becomes what we called a “sucker for love” lol

“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams” – Dr. Seuss

Until then, stay tuned

Steamy Darcy

The same way there are people who don't want to work or under perform at their jobs is the same reasons some don't want relationships. Every relationship requires effort. Some of us can't apply ourselves.

I will join the consensus and say that "Love at first sight is a myth". Love is not logical but it at least requires some knowledge we would hope. "Lust at first sight" is always true!!

The only reason any woman would not be able to attract men is only if she is dead. My grand ma was right when she pointed out that "dick has no conscience". Even the dead thing don't stop some freaks.

Most men's relationship weak spot is sex. We have a hard time resisting it form women we like or desire no matter how personally damaging it may end up being. Women's, they believe nearly every stupid thing a man they really feeling says. I can't tell you how many smart, accomplished intelligent women who are like an emotional pretzel because some big head fool they feeling says some dumb shit about their looks or some other amorphous thing.
I guess women must feel the same way about some dude who blew up his whole shit for some meaningless tail.

Do you appreciate flowers as a gift? - I love getting flowers and giving flowers. Yes I send flowers. I have sent them to female friends and male friends and lovers.

Do you think that most people assume “beautiful” people are stuck-up? -I've never gotten that vibe. What I have gotten is the "you're too beautiful to have insecurities"

What do you think of this FormSpring-based post? I think its interesting. It reminds me of "Until I Get Married's Poppin’ The Questions" It is part getting to know you and part I'll be your therapist...I like it better when the questions are geared towards the person and not advice. Just my opinion.

Flowers I always appreciate. I'm not real big on taking care of flowers or plants, or anything in general, but they're nice to get. It's a subtle gesture that says a lot.

I've been told that I'm beautiful by a lot of men and women over the years but in my opinion, I try to stay humble. That being said, I have few female friends and I find it so much easier to "click" with men (on the job, in my neighborhood, at get togethers, etc...). For a number of years, I thought that meant there was something wrong with me that women took offense to, that I came off a certain way. Then I started hearing things other women would say about me: "she's stuck up. a snob. snooty. thinks she's the shit." And these were women I never spoke to or shared a conversation with, ever. It hurt a little bit but then I realized that if they can draw a conclusion about me based on the way I walk or whatever they were using, then something was wrong with them and not me.

I've been reading for a couple of weeks now. I like the FormSpring idea!!!

My recent post Love Is A Losing Game

Dude, next year you better arrange YOUR party around MY schedule :p ... Muchas gracias

Then again...maybe that's not such a bad thing...*ponders*

*logs into Formspring*

I don't believe in love at first sight. It's great to be in shape and be physically attractive; I can catch a man's attention, but I want to hold his interest. Being who and what I am, that is easier said than done. That's okay; I don't mind.

I think for most men, it's all about timing. If a man isn't where he wants to be in life, the last thing on his mind is a relationship and best believe if a woman persists in wanting the relationship, he will live and pursue his interests as though he were single and she will resent it.

My husband was out of town when my car broke down. He'd called to check on me and I told him I was stranded and needed to call him back. Within an hour or two, he caught a plane out of Chicago back home, found me on the side of the road and had my car sent to the shop and got me a rental. Afterward, he took me to Massage Envy, where I got a back massage and when I came out, he had a dozen red roses and we went out to dinner. We spent a romantic evening together and the next day he had to get back to Chicago and he took me with him, booked a suite at a hotel downtown and left me the gold card and a limo and driver. Yes, he was good to me, which is why I can't lower my standards. Once you get used to being treated well, you can't go back to bullshit.

I get judged all the time. I think if people took the time to really get to know me, they might be pleasantly surprised.;)

I sure do! I love to receive flowers unexpectedly. Flowers on V-day, B-day, or because he messed up don't hold the same weight. I just received flowers yesterday at work (thank you babe) "just because."

Do you think that most people assume “beautiful” people are stuck-up?

Yup! If I had a dollar for everytime a person has judged my appearance before getting to know me, I'd have ten bucks!

On a side note...I love the new features! With the exception of the character limitations for the Name.