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Do You See What I See? (This Picture’s Worth a 1,000 Words)

I’m going to try something a little bit different today. Hopefully, you guys/gals can dig it, but, anyway, here goes…

They say a picture’s worth a thousand words and I believe them. About a month or two back, I was on Twitter (@NakedWithSocks) when I noticed one of my online “friends” @ItsJustGoldie had (once again) changed her avatar. I couldn’t quite make it out in its miniaturized state, so I clicked on her name to get a closer look.

I was greeted by the following picture:

Simply put it was beautiful. I’m not much for visual interpretation but the image spoke to me in some way. While the average person might only see what appears to be a mother and her daughter, I took much more from the picture.

So, with Goldie’s permission, here’s my interpretation of the above image.

I see a mother and daughter sharing a day in the sun. I assume they’re at the beach, but based on the tall pine tree in the background on the left hand side of the frame I’m not sure if they’re near water or not. The seemingly endless stretch of sand that surrounds them further casts a shadow of doubt on their location being nautical, but I’ll go with my instinct and say that they are in fact beachside.

Mother and daughter share the same hairstyle—pulled back and up, blooming from the tops of their heads. It’s a cute sign of mimicry that children often engage in, wanting to be just like mommy and daddy.

Both of their gazes are downward, directed at something in unseen that lies directly between them. Is it a sand crab or sand castle? Mommy’s sandy feet obscure my view, leaving that to be their little secret.

At the center of the frame are mommy’s feet, which are layered in sand. From that infer that she’s caught up in the moment of the day and time with her little one. There’s no concern for getting “dirty” or ruining her manicure, only this precious time with her daughter.

The sky looks bright and blue, with only a few clouds in the distance. There must be a light sea breeze as the trees in the right of the frame look to sway under its power. The same whisk of air makes mommy’s skirt bellow up, revealing three tattoo stars on the back of her left thigh.

Humility, is no issue.

These three stars add depth and a sense of edge to this serene image. Of all the places to adorn her body with tattoos; why did she chose such a unique location as the back of her thigh? Perhaps, it’s a reflection of her free spirit and desire to do the unexpected. Why three as opposed to one or a matching set on the other thigh? I have no one clear answer for that query, the symbolism is lost to me, but I’m sure it holds some meaning to her.

There’s clearly more to this woman than meets the eye. Motherhood is only one facet of her being. There is another side, one that exists outside the norm of what is expected and colors outside the lines. There’s a sense of mystery and willingness to be different that will more than likely be passed on to her daughter.

The final part of this image is the one that remains unseen, the photographer. Based on the low angle of the shot, I can assume that the camera was placed adjacent to the sand—either by mommy herself or a third party (possibly the father or some other familial member or close friend).

Regardless of the shooter, the angle of choice speaks volumes for the image. Had this been captured from a seated or standing position, the composition would be completely different, opening up a host of other interpretations.

A few degrees higher and the object at the focal point of mother and daughter’s gaze would be exposed, while mommy’s three-stars would be obscured. Everything that made this picture what it is would still be there but its impact would be completely different and I wouldn’t have been inspired to write a thousand words about this specific moment suspended in time.

What did you think of my interpretation of this image? What did you see when you first saw this picture? Did your interpretation change after you read my take on it? Do you have any thoughts on the picture that differ from my own or additional interpretations you’d like to add? How important is it for parents to spend time with their children exploring the world? Does having or being around children make you let lose and forget about mundane things like getting “dirty” in the sand?

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  • http://www.twitter.com/quiethaylestorm keisha brown

    this picture is worth a thousand questions, but only one word: love.

  • Arie Rich

    Love the interpretation. Very observant.

  • StoryofaWoman

    lol Unfortunately, I simply glossed over the pic at first, but I probably would never arrive to any observation similar to yours, NWSO, very nice! I do think that it's very important to spend time with your kids enjoying the world without being concerned of "getting dirty." The one thing I love about kids is that they have no concept yet about being self-conscious and worrying about what others think. When you can let yourselves go, that's where the real fun begins! I work with kids, and a lot of the times "our people" (Black people) are the ones that fuss about their kids getting dirty and messing up their clothes and hair. Kids have the rest of their lives to worry about being and presentable, more parents should take advantage of this time while they still have it. I agree that it's refreshing to see the woman in the pic with sandy feet and not worried about her pedicure lol. A child's innocence is diminishing faster and faster everyday, we need to retain it as much as possible.

  • StoryofaWoman

    As a side note, my almost 8 year daughter told me yesterday that she wanted to wear makeup (we were in Target and we passed the make-up aisle). She said that she didn't think her eyes were pretty enough and that everyone else she knew wore makeup. I had to tell her that she didn't need it because she was already beautiful, but I had to say it with conviction so that she would believe it. At 8, it already begins......

  • lola289

    Ans, u are too deep for me! lol
    awesome idea!

    the love and bond between a mother and child.
    especially at an early age its very powerful! its the time when everything ur mother says is TRUTH. PERIOD. and the relationship in those years is what helps in the childs growth in maturity...

  • http://twitter.com/primarythoughts Melanie

    Love this... you're going to make me go into the photos - already have a couple in mind. Photos are wonderful tools that help our memories along.

    I like your analysis and agree that this picture is inviting. You immediately recognize the love... just as it seems the mother is fostering a educational-exploration session with her daughter; the picture sparks our inquisitive nature to explore what's taking place.

  • Jessica J

    Amazing Naked, you have a great eye for the unseen. I am a lover of beautiful moments and scenes and pictures also. Simply put, I see this picture from two views of life. A child's confused interpretation of whatever they're looking at, and mommy looking down with wisdom, letting her child make up her own mind instead of filling it with what she says it is. I love it! Continue this please!

  • http://www.pleasureprinciplepublishing.com Lesley Hal

    I think it was a lovely summation of what the picture represented. As we all have our own ways of interpreting things. Like you, I can look at a picture or a person and make an entire story so I love what you were able to draw out of this lovely image.

  • R.e.D

    @Goldie: Mother and daughter are just gorgeous! Keisha Brown's comment summed it up nicely.

    What struck me immediately about the picture is actually its' angle. I am still sitting here wondering who took it.

    For me, a well written book and a picture like this can initiate and maintain an entire discussion, but NWSO already did such an excellent job on that already.....

  • Preach the comedian

    Ok I know that the picture is suppose to be about the beauty of the mother and child relationship...and it is
    HOWEVER my first thought was "who is this fine ass milf with no drawls on?".

  • shola

    loved the post and ur observations.

    that pic is very evocative; when the little girl is a woman and looks back at this pic i'm sure she'll smile wistfully at the memories...

  • http://www.AConleyCreation.com karmagini

    I see some turmoil or sadness here... look at their eyes/foreheads scrunched up. They're looking downward so you wouldn't think it's from the sunlight. That is what led me to believe this is more than a leisurely day at the beach...

  • http://www.itsjustgoldie.com Goldie

    I loved your interpretations, @NWSO+sockheads.

    I won't tell what's going on in the photo, but I will say that I took the photo with the timer. I'm into photography+it was a new type of shot for me.

    Thanks. <:)

  • http://nwso.net/ NWSO

    you, sir, are a fool. Welcome to the family. LOL

  • Amber

    really nice interpretation...its a nice photo!

  • http://www.magz725.blogspot.com Maggie

    that was beautiful! It is so good to see that peoples minds aren't just filled with (the negative aspects of) single parenting. Diddy's video is absolutely adorable!

  • Othaniel Cruickshank

    that was beautiful

  • Preach the comedian

    and sir i thank you... glad to be part of the fam.... im sayin though...she does rate highly on my milf meter

  • http://undressingher.com undressingHER

    I must say sir, that was a great interpretation of what was going on here. Not to mention, this photo was one of the best I've seen in a long time. The only thing I noticed that I didn't like, and this just speaks volumes of how much I don't like tats, are the stars on the bottom of her thigh. What an odd place for three tats, but I'm sure like most people with tattoos, she has her own reasons behind them. Besides that, the picture is classic.

  • http://nwso.net/ NWSO

    Personally I think the tats add a little mystery and depth to the photo. As Preach The Comedian noted it adds a MILF factor. A little sexiness tucked in with the maternal tenderness.

    They could go or stay but they're there and bring a whole other "why" element to the visual story.

  • Tejan

    Based on the trees and the sand, I am guessing they may be at a lake rather than the sea. Something about the sand tells me that the sand was brought in and dumped there, and you are more likely to see evergreens up north, away from the ocean, but near the thousands of lakes that dot the countryside.

    What strikes me in the picture is the seriousness of the gaze of the woman. The child seems to be concentrating and asking to herself "what is that?" while I am wondering what the mom is thinking at that very moment.

  • bogart4017

    You and i observed almost the same thing. I also thought about the "balance" between mommyhood and the woman (freak?)who would tat the back of those beautiful thighs. How would she act after tucking the little one in?

  • Tancy

    It's really bad, but I would have seen the mother and daughter and love because that's what I see, I see deep into everything, but when you asked for the observation, and for some reason I must have been eager for Wet Weds, and I saw that mommy looked like she had no panties.

    My bad.

  • readerhi1234

    I see...

    love.