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Archive for September, 2010

15 Things Every [Black] Woman Should Know About Men

WORDS BY TAZZ DADDY Dear ladies, I hope this letter finds you well. While I’m not an artist, I am a writer. So I thought I would take this time to let you know things that I feel every Black woman should know about Black men. PLEASE NOTE: The views expressed below are those of [...]

Do You Appreciate the Little Things? (Flashes of Heaven)

Whether you believe in an afterlife or not, I think we all get flashes of heaven in different forms right here on Earth. It can be as simple as witnessing the birth of your first child, a smile from a beautiful person from across a crowded room, a kind gesture from a stranger, or a [...]

Disrespectful Roommate (Is It OK to Walk Around Naked?)

It’s no secret that I don’t like dating people with roommates. If you read my hilarious post “2 Guys, 1 Couch” (CLICK HERE) then you’ll know part of my reason why. Well, here’s just more fuel to the fire. I was watching one of those judge shows the other day and there was a case [...]

6 Things Women in Love Do (How Guys Know She’s the One)

WORDS BY MSBLACKMAN I was immediately intrigued by the title of NWSO’s post “6 Things Men In Love Do (Does He Really Like Me?)” when I first saw it via Twitter last week. Based on my own previous relationships I could agree with some of things that were written (i.e. the guy calling, listening, doing [...]

Could Antoine Dobson Have Stopped Eddie Long? #QOTD

This started as a random Twitter thought but since folks have been hitting me about the whole Eddie Long scandal I figured this would be an interesting way to address it. So I’ve resurrected my Question of the Day (#QOTD) series to ask: Could Antoine Dobson Have Stopped Eddie Long? It’s not a 100% real [...]

Would You Eat Somewhere the Board of Health Shutdown?

Anyone that’s ever been to a Chinese takeout spot pretty much knows what to expect: cheap food with a side of bad service. Still, if you live in an urban community, chances are you’ve ordered your fair share of General Tso’s chicken, fried rice or lo mein. It’s not the healthiest meal in the world [...]

Is It Wrong to Sleep With Two People in One Day?

I have a confession to make: I’ve had sex with two women in the same day. I know how bad that sounds, but it wasn’t my fault. See, what had happened was… This was back in my youthful days and I had made plans to hang out with two lovely ladies on consecutive days. Bachelorette [...]

6 Offensive Words That Shouldn’t Be (Why So Serious?)

During the course of my life (and doing this blog in particular) I’ve learned a lot about people and how sensitive they can be about certain things. The usual cause of most miscommunication comes from words, both written or spoken. I’ve always been of the belief that words have no meaning unless the person using [...]