Ugly Girls > Pretty Girls (Who’s the Bigger Freak?)

0 Posted by - October 12, 2010 - Relationships, Love & Marriage

Before I even get into this brutally honest convo, let me start by saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So when I use the terms “ugly” and “pretty” they’re all relative. Now that that’s out of the way, let’s begin…

The other day my co-worker and I got into a conversation about “pretty” girls. If you recall my “Are Pretty Girls Wack in the Sack?” post, you’ll know that when I use that adjective I’m not necessarily referring to someone’s physical attributes but a specific type of woman (or, in the case of the ladies, a guy).

Anyway, we had just finished interviewing former video vixen turned rapper Gloria Velez (two weeks prior we were doing the same with Lola Monroe f.k.a Angel Lola Luv #FTW) and found it refreshing that two beautiful woman could have such nice personalities.

I’ve actually had similar conversations with other guys before about “pretty” girls and the general consensus is that they don’t have the best personalities. So when you come across and extremely hot girl that’s cool as sh*t, it’s usually quite surprising. As much as we wish things would be different, most people judge a book by its cover and when that cover is a model-like body you’re usually expecting either an airhead or a stuck-up chick.

#JustBeingHonest

In fact, a while back my boy Carl did a post about how pretty chicks just aren’t funny (sorry, I couldn’t find the link), which furthered the belief amongst a lot of men that the more attractive the woman the less personality she has. The thinking is because of their looks, “pretty” girls never really had to do much to get attention, as guys always chased after them and things were just handed to her. Yes, it’s a big generalization but there’s probably some truth to it.

From there, my boy commented that, “An ugly girl has to have a good personality, otherwise she’s f*cked.” He was basically saying that if you were someone that was “genetically unfortunate” (© GangStarrGirl) and had a bad personality on top of that, there was no way people were going to mess with you. His theory was that “ugly” folks usually build up strong personalities (funny, nice, etc.) to compensate for what they lack in looks, while an attractive person with a bad attitude will get more passes because of their looks. (i.e. A “pretty” person getting out of a speeding ticket).

Think about that one for a second and you might see some truth. I’ve seen it plenty of times where a dime drops a tissue and men run from across the street to retrieve it for her, while the butter face chick drops her groceries right in front of a dude and he just stares as her oranges roll down the block.

As with any discussion about women amongst men, the subject of sex came up and I explained the counterpoint to my “Are Pretty Girls Wack in the Sack?” post and that’s the belief that the stereotypical “ugly” girls (and even BBWs) are usually the biggest freaks. I find that to be true for two main reasons:

1) Chances are they have sex less often and are backed up. Since they don’t know when next time they’ll get some again will be, they give it their all anytime they get laid. #Kudos

2) Again, they have to be good in bed because they’re making up for what they’re lacking in looks. Besides, if a dude is embarrassed by your looks or just that shallow, you better be putting it down in the bedroom for him to want to come back for seconds (and thirds…).

I actually had a conversation about point No. 2 during an interview with porn star Brian Pumper a few weeks ago. He agreed that “ugly girl pucci is the best” and said that he got a couple homeboys that “got a baby by an ugly b*tch.” (His words not mine).

I mean, we’ve all seen genetically unfortunate people walking around pregnant or with kids so somebody is sleeping with them and it’s obviously not for their looks. So that gives more credence to my belief that they’re either freaks in the bedroom or have great personalities.

At the end of the day, the latter is what matters most. Despite the shallow nature of this post thus far, it all leads to this point: Personality trumps looks any day.

After my co-worker and I discussed the pros and cons of “ugly” girls vs. “pretty” girls, I posed the following: Would you rather have a pretty wife that had a bad attitude, or a woman that wouldn’t win any beauty pageants but treated you right as your wife? The answer was a no-brainer: I’ll take the woman with the winning personality for a lifetime, Alex. #JeopardyReference

While men are generally visual creatures that think with what’s between their legs more than what’s between their ears, a true thinking man understands looks can last but so long. God forbid your arm candy wife with the stank attitude gets in an accident where her beauty gets taken away from her in a flash. All you’d be left with is an ugly b*tch—inside and out.

Have you found that “genetically unfortunate” people are usually bigger freaks than their “pretty” counterparts? Are you just as surprised when you meet an attractive person who has a great personality? Do you expect attractive people to be stuck-up and have stank attitudes? How often do you judge a book by its cover? Do you find that attractive people usually get away with things easier? Would you sleep with someone that wasn’t the most attractive physically but had a great personality? Would you be ashamed to have a child by an “ugly” person? Would you rather have a spouse that was attractive but had a bad attitude, or an unattractive mate that treated you right? How important are looks to you?

Speak your piece…

SONG OF THE DAY: Jimmy Soul “If You Want to Be Happy (Ugly Girl)”

  • Distinguished Gentlewoman

    1) Chances are they have sex less often and are backed up. Since they don’t know when next time they’ll get some again will be, they give it their all anytime they get laid.

    Too funny. Just too funny.

  • http://www.themeanblackgirl.wordpress.com The Mean Black Girl

    LOL I’ve been waiting for something like this to pop up again. I think it’s an interesting paradigm: to be ugly with a great personality or pretty with a horrible personality. I am generally surprised to find pretty people who have nice personalities and are generally pleasant and relatable. I think, like you said earlier on in your preface, it’s all relative to who you’re talking to/about. As you referenced in the past (pretty sure it was the MILF mother’s day post), there are plenty of people that would say, “Halle Barry is cute, but…”

    Anyway, thank you for this. It was very entertaining.

  • sweetsexythang

    So ol’ girl on the top right is suppose to be a freak with a cool personality?

  • hellifiknow

    I come from a family of beautiful women all with entertaining personalities. I have a female relative who is a stunner with waist-length hair and a sick body and she still got cheated on. I realized that men who prize beauty will always be swayed by the next hot chick, while men who don’t will think the hot chick is too much maintenance. It doesn’t work this way with guys, either. Ugly dudes can often be worse, cause if they are sucessful, they use that to get back at all the women that have treated them like shit. But light-skinned men are almost always spoiled and selffish.

  • Lyndon

    Most women have some freak in em. Most women have an edge on their personality depending on the scene… Nightclub vs workplace will yield two different results.

    Down south women tend to have more engaging personalities regardless of how they look. But the men down here tend to be a little more straight foward took, so there’s not as much room for divas.

  • http://www.dashofreality.wordpress.com Dash

    ROFL. This is totally untrue as it applies in my life. Every single last person with a nasty attitude I have come across were bitter and genetically unfortunate. Please point me in the direction of the funny charming, nice, kind, smart, heart of gold unattractive people that seem to populate your life. I’m actually shocked you came to this conclusion since you meet a lot of intelligent attractive women in your line of work. Oh well. LOL

  • Tiggums McGhee

    Where you referring to this “GangStarrGirl” person as someone who was “genetically unfortunate”?? Just wondering….

  • http://nwso.net/ NWSO

    SMH

    Uhm, no. SMH. See that little © in front of her name and link? That’s a copyright symbol, just giving her her props for coining the term. LOL.

  • http://nwso.net/ NWSO

    You mean designer Donna Versace? I would pray she has a nice personality, but she has money so that could trump everything. LOL

    Yikes!

  • R.e.D

    I can see where you are coming from to a point. However, in reality, we should not talk about the outliers, i.e, severely unattractive people and impossibly gorgeous ones. B/c that’s 2 ends of the broad spectrum and it just makes the argument faulty.

    Let’s talk about the ones that fit under the bell curve b/c most ppl are somewhere in-between. Now in all seriousness, women that are 6.5-8.5 are average to above avg in terms of the looks dept. I rarely come across these women and they have nasty attitudes. What you presented here is not reality. In real life, there are many good looking women with great personalities. You know this. I am bloody sure you have dated- and slept with- a myriad of them. So while this is a well-written piece, it really doesn’t happen all that much in real life.

    How about talking about that 6 figure black man, you know, the with 2-3 degrees, who is 6 feet tall and just have women chasing.. This is the problem today..

    You see, us women are pretty much used to getting attention from the opposite sex. Really it just doesn’t even faze you anymore after u hit a certain age. It’s not that you don’t apreciate the attention, it’s just that there is so much more than the physical. For me at least, I appreciate quality over quantity. So I never even mention in conversation the guys that come on to me, b/c by and large, it’s not relevant. It’s about the TYPE of man..you know??

  • http://nwso.net/ NWSO

    Can’t we just lighten the mood every once in a while with a baseless theory that everyone knows can’t be 100% true yet a LOT of us still think it? I seriously had this conversation a million times with dudes.

    And you know that my conclusion in the post and your thoughts on quality over quantity are the same thing right? #JustChecking

    Where’s your gravatar pic by the way? #JustAsking

  • R.e.D

    Ok, ok, u are right…we can all lighten the mood sometimes. But I mean, your argument had an intro, it listed points, you had backing from others AND it had a conslusion..like it was some real-life scientific study you were conducting, lol!!! I just had to poke a couple holes in the argument…

    My gravatar pic?? NWSO, as soon as u put up your gravatar pic, I’ll consider putting up mine….

    Why u asking anyway?? Tryna figure out if I am genetically unfortunate or not??

  • http://twitter.com/deeny Deeny

    Interesting read Anslem. I have this convo with my homegirls ALL THE TIME and I do beilieve it is very realistic in terms of people who are out here dating and living the single life. What me and my girls find is this:

    You will find 1,000 more FLY women, with great personalties sans the stuck up/entitled behavior before you find 10 FLY men with the same. Sad but true.

    Why? Well R.e.d. made a good point about extremely attractive women being unfazed by attention since they get it all the time, and realize that there’s more to forming relationsips than being beautiful…well at least the grown ones know (the young chicks are another story). And men, well…. sorry but if a Man has ANYTHING going for himself that his peers or the dudes he sees around him DON’T have, somehow this makes him a god. So imagine he is extremely good-looking, has a steady job/career, and has a car or his own place, you can pretty much count on him to be a bit of an a-hole. All because men cannot handle attention as well as women and feel that they don’t NEED to work on having a pleasant and dope personality since they get what they want anyway. They get the women, and the attention, and the “status”, so why be a “nice guy” when nice guys are only nice to get what they (the fine ones) already have!

  • bogart4017

    Who wants an attractive stuck-up chick anyways? They’re too far into themselves to know whats going on around them and they ain’t ’bout to get their hands dirty or nails broken in the kitchen. Most of these hotties have the filthiest apartments and refrigerators you can shoot a cannon through and not hit a damn thing.
    Thanks anyway but its whats on the inside that makes you attractive.

  • Starita34

    I cosign this theory 1000% #Maury.

    Fun read Anslem, I’m liking your jovial tone. ^5

  • http://tiffanybbrown.com/ tiffany

    “Down south women tend to have more engaging personalities regardless of how they look. But the men down here tend to be a little more straight foward took, so there’s not as much room for divas.”

    you’re wrong. that is all.

    no. i won’t say you’re wrong. i will say that your observations are highly dependent on your own regional biases, and not on an objective standard.

  • http://tiffanybbrown.com/ tiffany

    personality > looks all day long. for serious: a winning personality can turn an average-looking dude into a sexy one.

    i don’t know if it works the same way for women. but i’m pretty sure my scintillating conversation and occasional ability to crack a n***a up is what helped me land my boo.

  • Tiggums McGhee

    Oh ok. Didnt think so, didnt seem like your style to call people out like that, and I was right :)

  • http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

    Lord have mercy. Nice chuckle for the day.

  • The Duchess

    LOL Tiffany! You called him on that BS!

  • The Duchess

    LMAO!! LOVE reading you ReD!

  • imJUSTsaying

    I agree soley and completly with this commet.
    smh SO TRUE.

  • Starita34

    THANK. YOU.

    Ever heard of a Southern Belle i.e. Beauty Queens?

    and P.S. “i will say that your observations are highly dependent on your own regional biases, and not on an objective standard.” consider this STOLEN! ;-)

  • Preachthecomedian

    Less “attractive” women tend to be sweeter, cooler, better in bed and usually have bodies that’ll make u slap 5 with Jesus… Attraction is relative…a 5 to u might be a 12 to me

  • The Duchess

    True indeedy! Without a shadow of a doubt!

  • Preachthecomedian

    He’s right southern women tend to be warm and welcoming…northern women tend to be VERY aggresive…mid west and west coast usually be stunners …don’t hate the man for sayin what’s real

  • Lyndon

    I meant every word. You have every right to disagree. I’ve been around a bit, and this is all I can speak for.

  • da ThRONe

    I dont think you can judge a freak by their covers. I don’t know what effects a person “bedroom habits” ,but I have had a mixed bag. I have seen some very uptight extremely high maintenance model type ladies be huge freaks. Likewise I have had some very homely quiet chicks be the same in the bed.

    There is differently truth to a person looks impacting their personalities. To say otherwise is like saying a person up bringing has no impact on their personality.

  • da ThRONe

    This matter is a two way street. Males have things that make them assholes and the same goes for females.

  • Amber

    Interesting perspective but not always true.

  • Preachthecomedian

    That’s skewed logic …there’s nice guys everwhere..women want the Alpha male type and with that comes alpha male probs… The beta or gamma male can have the same things as the alpha without the probs…honestly some stuff yall want are traits DIRECTLY related to a cheating or butt hole man…
    #being real

  • menluvmysmile

    A funny read which we’ve all discussed! Love it Anslem!

  • http://twitter.com/deeny Deeny

    I never said women were not guilty of the same thing. The point I was making is that the ratio between good looking men and women who have pleasant personalities is extremely lopsided…and it’s not about the population of women vs. men (I know many play the numbers game), it’s about the way men take flattery and use it as a reason for their self absorbed behaviors waaaay more than women.

  • http://twitter.com/deeny Deeny

    So what your saying is a woman should not be attracted to or be interested in someone who is physically attractive and has nice things/accomplishments because she should assume he is a sub-par human being? If so, then you proved my point. I know a COUNTLESS amount of women who are drop-dead-gorgeous, have careers, are financially stable, AND ARE GENUINELY DOOE PEOPLE. No attitudes, funny as hell, grounded. Now yes, there are a few scallywags who only give a damn about their maani, pedi, and new weave, but WHO THE HELL IS TAKING THEM SERIOUSLY? Grown men should be able to spot stanks like that from a mile away.

  • preachthecomedian

    No you can be attracted all day..what im saying is that if 90% of women only want that top 5-10% of men then your going to meet a bunch of butt holes. When i refer to the gamma and beta males im saying the guys that usually get related to “friend” status… albeit because you like someone taller, wealthier, prettier or whatever. Also a good friend or person to you can be a complete booty hole to someone else… Ive seen mad beautiful women who are cool on a friend tip but try to pursue and its like a demon took over their body…Ive seen it with friends, in public, the club where ever…REAL TALK its like a good portion of good women (not all) go get with the butthole first and then they want the good dude…the logic goes both ways…if we should spot scallywags yall should spot walking sperm donors

  • Rastaman

    I can’t rationally ascribe to any of these theories because in my experience it is very often about how that person (pretty or ugly) see themselves. So I have met people of varying ranges of looks, so called “drop dead gorgeous to “distracting looking” and their personalities are probably as varied as their sexual performances.

  • Rastaman

    You want to gauge a person’s level of sexual “freak” talk to them about sex. As a rule women who are comfortable talking about sex, know their bodies and express an open mindedness about sexuality are in my experience best in bed. I have never seen any direct correlation to looks. When I say talk not necessarily in vulgar suggestive terms but more in a playful discrete exchanges.
    There are always undercover freaks of course but they tend to be more exception than the rule and if you paid close enough attention you will realize that many of them are incorrigible in many other ways.

  • R.e.D

    Deeny, you hit the nail on the head with this one..

  • http://twitter.com/deeny Deeny

    I see what your saying, but I don’t think that is the topic we are discussing. You’re talking about why women like guys or pursue guys for shallow reasons. Men do the SAME DAMN THING. Will be QUICK to “holla” or show interest in the “obviously” pretty woman up in the spot FIRST, strike out, and THEN go show interest in the average looking chick.

    Don’t wanna go off topic, I’m just making a point about a man with a pretty face 9 times out of 10 is so pleased with himself and the attention he gets that his personality is unfavorable. Women can be that way also, but I think it’s more of an apathy issue instead of arrogance.

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    I do have a gravatar pic, that nice spiffy NWSO logo. Who said a gravatar had to be of you? Just saying, that blank space is so blah why not spruce it up with something Red. A bull or something. Ha!

  • Sweetness

    Not funny at all…this post was wrong on so many levels…coming from a very attractive bbw who gets plenty!

  • http://twitter.com/deeny Deeny

    I agree with Rastaman in that comfortability with one’s sexuality is the best way to gauge “freakdom” lol. BUT, I do believe that there are SOME direct correlations.

    Now I can only speak on what I see/hear… but what I keep hearing is that a lot of “prettier” women have a tendancy to be more laid back in the sack. They kinda let the man do his thing and focus on being cute. NOW, while I find that to be kinda wack of them….. I BLAME a lot men for her lack of enthusiasm. Why? Cause men put pretty pucci on a pedestal too damn often. They spend all this time trying to bag this chick and try to impress her by “putting it on her” during sex. They don’t realize that they are giving these women the green light to be lazy. She is letting you do all the work screwing her in addition to all of the work you put in trying to get with her. :/ Next time u bag a fly chick, sit back and let HER take some intiative! Don’t let her think it’s a free for all in that mug!

  • http://primarythoughts.net Melanie

    Funny post and of course, like any other discussion generalizations will drive some people insane. I’ve had this discussion before with dudes in social scenes and I always find it a fun topic. It really can give you some insight on the person, especially if you understand the laws of attraction… lol.

  • R.e.D

    Thx duchess,u know someone has got to give NWSO some lip, lol!

  • Tro

    I disagree. Many of the not so attractive ladies, get it on, (I believe, because they give it up more than a attractive lady would).

    Which I have notice, many of the not so attractive ladies would give it up without thinking about the consequences.

    Which is why I see a lot of them with STDs and such like Gonorrhea and mess like that.

    But hey the Attractive ladies are on the same boat some times. I just believe the less attractive ladies would be more likely to sleep with men that spread these STDs in the community.

  • Elle

    Makes me wander in which category I rather fall…pretty or nice?!

  • Elle

    wonder* … wth … I’m tired I guess

  • Lyndon

    Don’t be defined, Elle. Just do you BOOBOO!! LOL.

  • Preachthecomedian

    You fine as hell..that’s what you are

  • QuoteMan

    I agree with the post, but sometimes when a chick lacks clear identity being a freak would provide that… this go for both an ugly and pretty chick.

  • MissMe83

    UMMMMM seriously?! You do know that makes no sense at all right. Seeing as though STDs really don’t care about what your face/body looks like. I.E. Michael Vick… I guess skinny women wouldn’t sleep with him because he is spreading STDs in the community. Dudes who sleep with unattractive women, sleep with attractive women as well. ALOT of times, they have an unattractive woman as well as their “pretty lady” b/c the ugly chick gives him what he needs and his pretty chick refuses. I kinda want to know where you are noticing these unattractive women with all of the STDs….cuz I personally have had 3 very attractive women in my office and one had AIDS and the other 2 HIV…..and then I know a few “pretty girl” (sorority) that are rolling around with Herpes and HPV…..and a model (Literally a local model….no she’s not supermodel but still fits into the stereotypical category) who has had chlamydia 3 times! So your theory doesn’t fit.

    Just b/c you don’t fit into society’s standard of attractiveness doesn’t mean you lose all of your self worth so you sleep with everyone.

  • journeytowifey

    smh at the whole post
    but what about folks somewhere in the middle, a 7 seven will drive crazier than a 10

  • Lyndon

    WOW. Perceptive as hell. Ive tried to get to know the one-nighter and it’s virtually useless. They are either married to their career or straight up space cadets. May even talk alot, but say absolutely nothing at all.

    No I.D.

  • lisalee

    As a good looking woman I would say that I love being freak nasty that it can go both ways.

  • billybadazz

    There must be truth in this theory, its been a topic of discussion for several generations. Jimmy Soul recorded the 1960′s song and a full generation later -Millie Jackson- had a 1970′s hit of a females perspective…wherein she laments “Ladies, for some good sex Get you a Ugly MAN”…going on to explain all for the same reasons.

  • http://whatsonmymind09.blogspot.com Marcia H.

    Have you found that “genetically unfortunate” people are usually bigger freaks than their “pretty” counterparts? Are you just as surprised when you meet an attractive person who has a great personality? Do you expect attractive people to be stuck-up and have stank attitudes? How often do you judge a book by its cover? Do you find that attractive people usually get away with things easier? Would you sleep with someone that wasn’t the most attractive physically but had a great personality? Would you be ashamed to have a child by an “ugly” person? Would you rather have a spouse that was attractive but had a bad attitude, or an unattractive mate that treated you right? How important are looks to you?

    I’ve noticed it but I don’t fully agree w/ it. I’ve known some pretty girls who GET DOWN! But they are sterotyped as in not being “freaky”! Hell I’ve experienced it personally I’m a big girl and some males I knew swore up and down I was a freak. I also told them you don’t know and you damn sure won’t find out. Then I have a smaller prettier friend who people don’t call a freak but the things she’s done and are willing to do makes her a bigger freak then me! I’m not gonna act like when I see a very attractive person w/ a cool ass personality that I’m not surprised because I am. I blame society! Unfortunately I’m guilty of automatically thinking that. Maybe it’s because a good amount of the ones I meet are? #GoFigure. I judge a book by it’s cover 98% of the time! But I do give them the chance to prove me wrong. HELL YEAH prettier people get away with stuff! I’ve seen it happen before. Yes I would and have slept w/ someone who wasn’t that atractive but had a great personaliy! Led to a great time! No I wouldn’t be ashamed, They make pretty babies! I would rather have a man who wasn’t that attractive but treated me great. My happiness is more important than other people’s opinion. Looks are important I’m not gonna front.

  • Mimi

    This blog’s entry reminds me of a little saying that a friend of mine says all of the time: “I rather deal with a cool 6 than to hang out with a funny-acting 10″.
    If I had to disagree/agree with Ans’ piece, base on my experiences, I would have to agree with Ans’ opinions about ugly girls. But (and this is a big ‘but’) there are some ugly girls, who grows an unwarranted inflated sense of ego, if they are getting some pickle-tickle on the regular.
    Another thing: just because a woman is deem ‘ugly’ does not mean she doesn’t have a high self-esteem. I will admit, I consider myself a ’4′ (or a ’6′ on a good day), but just because I am ’4′ doesn’t mean that I will allow myself to be disrespected by a man, for the sake of having one in my bed.

  • P.H.A.T.C.A.T.

    WOW…REALLY? I’m in the BBW category now but i’ve been on the freaky side for many yrs. I’m a nice looking chick, no doubt, but i may not be everyone’s top choice and i’m cool with that. I’m not a freak or sexually experienced b/c i’m not a “pretty girl”. Some of us are birthed w/ this gift. Who does that? LOL I get it as often as i want it and i’m great b/c I’M GREAT. :-) I was great when i was small and i’m great now…lol…Come on now!

  • http://sweatpantsandlipgloss.webs.com Mistyblue48

    Now…this is one that I should by all intents and purposes take offense to! Not to toot my own horn but TOOT MUTHAFUKIN TOOT…I have been told that I am a VERY attractive woman and when most men meet and talk to me (after their initial fear subsides) they are pleasantly surprised to find that I am smart, articulate, funny and well educated-I am beyond the TRIFECTA of what men look for in a woman. I often get…you are not the average chick! I love to shatter the myths and thoughts about me! And to top it all off, I am a BONAFIDE, not ashamed to say it, freak in the bedroom! That kinda makes their eyeballs roll in the back of their heads and they never want to stop calling, texting or emailing me! Doh!

    With that said, that is a huge myth…but we say it about the brothas too…we always say the ugly brothas MUST put it down because what else do they have to offer-you have to have some explanation for the girls!? They aint fine…yet again I was proven wrong…bad dick can come in all packages! SMH!

  • Missy

    Looks are important to everyone.. even ugly people. I disagree that “ugly” girls are bigger freaks. There are plenty of ugly girls who aren’t giving up the cooter. Amongst the women who are freaks… it makes sense that the ugly girls may as a whole be bigger freaks just because they feel more compelled to say “yes” in areas where a more attractive woman will say “hell no”.

    I’m attractive and I’m a freak but I preserve and reserve my freakiness and I guess some ugly girls might feel insecure about their appearances leading them to do too much for too many men.

  • knighthonor

    I have noticed that its the Big Fat girls, that are the least attractive at times, who are getting the most Sex. They are nasty and bigger sluts than the cute women. Sorry for Stereotypes, but come on. Those Stereotypes dont come out of know where.

  • bossie13

    I totally agree with this pretty girl vs. good personality/freak theory!!  The best chick to find is the ugly duckling type who used to be chubby as a teenager, for example, so she developed the sense of humor and freaky side and then got hot as an adult.  Total package!!

  • bossie13

    I totally agree with this pretty girl vs. good personality/freak theory!!  The best chick to find is the ugly duckling type who used to be chubby as a teenager, for example, so she developed the sense of humor and freaky side and then got hot as an adult.  Total package!!

  • bossie13

    I totally agree with this pretty girl vs. good personality/freak theory!!  The best chick to find is the ugly duckling type who used to be chubby as a teenager, for example, so she developed the sense of humor and freaky side and then got hot as an adult.  Total package!!

  • Tray83

    I know this is old but I happened to catch the add now lol…. Being a female myself; I wasn’t anything special growing up, in fact I was the biggest tom boy in my hood. Plain, baggy clothes, and some messy ass hair lol. Its kinda like the ugly duck syndrome because now (not to toot my own horn) I’m a very attractive woman who works out, takes care of herself everyday, and has an amazing husband. I’m grateful that my younger years were filled with no dates in school and guys always liking my friends. Due to that I have a get sense of humor, personality and can do the fun “freaky” stuff if you get what I mean hahaa. You gotta work harder when guys aren’t interested in your apperance. I just relate to guys very well since I was always considered one of them for half of my life lol. So yeah I have to agree with you that pretty girls tend to be lame and “ugly” chicks are more fun.