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Archive for October, 2010

Will Your Marriage Fail? (Saying ‘I Quit’ Instead of ‘I Do’)

Dear NWSO, Although I usually don’t comment, I’m an avid reader of your blog. I have a question for you. When I hear single guys talk about marriage, they always start with the idea that it won’t work. They say things like, “And if it doesn’t work out, she gets half…” or “I’ll have to [...]

Would You Cyber Sex With a Stranger? (Computer Love)

WORDS BY SHAWNY OF EROTICMINDZ It was a joke, really. I decided to join one of those Internet dating sites just to humor myself. I hadn’t been having much luck with the ladies I was metting while out and about, so I figured I’d try something new and see where that takes me. I found [...]

Ugly Girls > Pretty Girls (Who’s the Bigger Freak?)

Before I even get into this brutally honest convo, let me start by saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So when I use the terms “ugly” and “pretty” they’re all relative. Now that that’s out of the way, let’s begin… The other day my co-worker and I got into a conversation [...]

Being a Baby Mama Is No Badge of Honor (Love Child Blues)

WORDS BY MS. WRIGHT It’s been a while since I’ve decided to write. I believe my last note was last year around this time, so it’s been about 365+ days since I last shared my thoughts publicly… WOW! So many things have taken place in my life since then—a new boyfriend, a new life, but [...]

4 Reasons Relationships Fail (A Male Chauvinist Perspective)

WORDS BY PREACH THE COMEDIAN Okay, ladies and gentlemen, let’s put it all out there. If you’re single, it’s likely for reasons and situations that are a byproduct of your environment and experiences. I, for instance, am a part-time chauvinist. I mean, I love and respect women but I’ll be damned if I’ma have to [...]

Would You Make Love in an Airport? (Mile High Club)

WORDS BY RONNIE6676 Melissa stepped off the plane looking like she was the lead vixen in a music video. At 5’8” with 3-inch heels, she was a gorgeous sight. Her honeyed auburn colored hair was cut into a shoulder skimming pageboy. She was “slim-thick,” as the boys on the block liked to say; rocking a [...]

6 Moments Women Are Sexy/Cute & Don’t Even Know It

During my daily travels I have a tendency to people watch and while headed to work the other day I realized something. Maybe I’m alone on this, but most times it’s not the chick that’s all dolled up that catches my eye but the low-key one. See, a lot of women think they have to [...]

Is It Okay to Be Gay Yet? (Nope, But Don’t Kill Yourself)

If you’ve been following the news the past few weeks, you’ll notice a troubling trend—young people committing suicide. At the root of the decisions to take their life is being outed for being gay. I have no idea what it’s like to live in shame of my sexuality and having to deal with the taunting [...]