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Archive for November, 2010

Struggling With Step-Parenting (How Da ThRONe Copes)

WORDS BY DA THRONE Hello, Sock Heads, It’s been a minute since I’ve guest blogged so I figured it was about time you guys/gals get some ThRONe in your lives. As it’s been mentioned a few times around this site, God’s Gift (f.k.a. Shay from L.A.) and I are engaged (wedding date and all) and [...]

Do You Remember Your First Fight? (The Winner Was…)

I was supposed to post this last week but it was my final day at my old job, I went to a party at the last minute and by time I got home I decided to just start my vacation a day early. #SueMe Anyway, a couple weeks ago R.E.D. pointed out that I don’t [...]

Could I Be a Good Father? (Adventures in Babysitting)

I had to go back to my place in Queens over the weekend to deal with a pesky leak in my rental property. Needless to say things didn’t go too well, but I won’t get into all that. I bring up my Queens trek because being around the debris and contractor work reminded me of [...]

I Quit, Now What? (Reflections on the Day After Tomorrow)

I’ve never quit anything in my life. Maybe that’s an overstatement, but it’s pretty close to accurate. Solving things and seeing them through to fruition are just part of my stubborn Capricorn nature, so just getting up and walking away has never been easy for me. That’s why tomorrow is so different. I quit. More [...]

10 Things Every Women Should Have At Home to Get Laid

WORDS BY MIMA I wrote this in response to NWSO’s post last week about bachelors keeping the ladies happy when “sealing the deal” at their house. I thought it was appropriate to take a look at the things he listed from the bachelorette’s point of view. While I am no stranger to long-term relationships, I’ve [...]

A Woman Should Not Love Me (Are Your Priorities Straight?)

A woman should not love me…
Because of my job
My credit score
Or the size of my dick
A woman should love me…
Because of my heart
How I make her feel
And the way that I think
A woman should not love me…
Because of who I know

Can a Quickie Really Satisfy You? (Work Can Wait)

WORDS BY THICKE Natalie placed the toothbrush in her mouth. She rubbed the coarse bristles against her teeth, while watching the reflection of Chad in the mirror as he lay in their bed. It wasn’t his smiling and slumbering face that was pissing her off, but all the extra overtime that made for long hours [...]

Does Beauty Run in the Family? (She Get it From Her Mama)

When someone says, “She get it from her mama,” it’s usually in reference to the junk in a woman’s trunk or some other favorable physical attribute. The question, though, is what else did she get from her mama? Genetics are a crazy things and you never know what traits will get passed down (or, in [...]