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Archive for January, 2011

Are You Too Demanding in Relationships? (Man Up)

WORDS BY TIA They say most women subconsciously attract men that remind them of their first loves (Daddy) and I definitely attribute my desire for the Alpha male in the pack to my father. I remember as a little girl my dad sneaking past me in the early hours of the morning so he wouldn’t [...]

What If You Were Ugly For a Day? (A Question of Beauty)

Pretty girls have a warped sense of reality. Generally speaking, they don’t have to work for much. Because of their looks, people tend to do things for them or give them a pass. They get attention early on in life and are constantly given compliments and other things based solely on their outward appearance. It [...]

I Got Fired Today (My Farewell Address)

Two years ago today I got laid off from my old job. That led me to write an inspiring post entitled “I Got Fired & Got Inspired.” Overnight, I went from a gainfully employed editor at one of the top music magazines to a full-time freelancer writer—again. See, it wasn’t my first time getting laid [...]

4 People Women Need to Stop Listening To

Most relationships fail because of outside forces… Well, at least in my experience. I can recount several times where a woman and I were great one-on-one, but any time other people got involved in our relationship things went sour. Honestly, I sometimes wish I could just find my perfect woman and escape to a deserted [...]

What Do You Think About Tongue Rings? [VIDEO]

Care to guess what my most popular post is? The now infamous one about not dating “baby mamas” I did for MadameNoire?  Nope. Oh, the controversial one I wrote about Greek life “I Don’t Date Girls in Gangs (Sorry Sorority Sisters)”?  Closer, but still not it. Oddly enough, the post that I constantly get comments [...]

Do You Like Fried Chicken? (The Politics of Poultry)

Yesterday’s post about visiting my grandfather’s grave was emotionally draining to say the least. In fact, I planned to take today off just to mentally recoup, but I’m a glutton for punishment I guess. Anyway, piggybacking off the “What’s Your Favorite Stereotype?” post from last week, I want to key in on one in particular: [...]

The Last Time I Cried Was… (A Man’s Tears)

eek before last was the 24th anniversary of my grandfather’s death. In remembrance of him and that milestone I wrote about how sometimes I get this overwhelming urge to go back to the house I grew up in. My grandfather’s death has weighed heavy on my heart for some time now and I’ve always felt [...]

10 Reasons Why Men Won’t Date You – #Undateable

WORDS BY PREACH THE COMEDIAN Alright, ladies, it’s time for some tough love. It seems that some of you would rather tell a soft lie than a hard truth. That truth being that there are quite a few habits/personality traits that are keeping you from having a man. This post is not to make fun [...]