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Why a Man Will Sleep With You (The 2 Out Of 3 Rule)

Posted by NWSO • February 6, 2011 • Printer-friendly

Two out of three. That's all a woman needs to meet the I’ll-sleep-with-her criteria for (some) men, at least according to my boy Terrence. He told me this a while back when we were disagreeing about the attractiveness of a young lady we had just passed on the street. She was cute in the face and had ample breasts, but as a self-proclaimed ass man I was disappointed in her backyard dimensions.

"Well, she got two out of three," Terrence proclaimed. "And that's good enough for me."

"What's two out of three?"

"All I care about is ass, tits and face," he explained. "As long as a woman has at least two out of those three I'm good. If she just got one, I can't do it."

Male chauvinism at its finest, but you have to have guys like Terrence in your circle to say the things that you may have thought but never actually vocalized.

Women always hate on wonder why certain women they might feel aren't that attractive but always seem to have men flocking after them. The reason for this phenomenon is simple: two out of three.

Chances are if this woman is genetically challenged in the face, the reason she's still in the running to get play from a man is because she got body (T&A, and, for argument's sake, I'll add great legs or a washboard stomach). Let's be real, Buffie the Body is not called Buffie the Face for a reason. But like I confessed on Twitter the other day, I actually tried to befriend her on BlackPlanet back in the day, way before she was known by the masses for her assets. (She never replied, though, but that's okay).

Now, I won't go so far as to say Terrence's rule is true for every man, because I've dealt with a few one-out-of-threes in my day, which usually was a gorgeous woman with no T or A and in some case an aiight face with a ripe rack or bootyful back, but I might just be a more open minded individual when it comes to stuff like that. I'm sure I'm not alone, because I've seen enough dudes walking around with women that were 99.9% not cute—I mean, no bangin’ body or pretty face—but that's probably due to my theory that ugly girls are bigger freaks (CLICK HERE). The PC alternative to that theory is that she must just have a great personality that he loves to death.

#YeahRight

Whatever the case, the "men are visually creatures" argument generally holds true. There just has to be something there to get us riled up, whether it's a pretty face, perky breasts or a fat ass. Although it'd be nice, we don't really need the trifecta because most of us (whether they admit or not) are like Terrence and are cool as long as a woman has two out of three.

Disclaimer: Personally, I'll need three out of four with a great personality being the final piece of the puzzle. Besides, a 75% ratio is better than Terrence's 66.6%.

Fellas, do you agree with Terrence’s philosophy of two out of three being enough to meet your I’ll-sleep-with-her criteria? Or, are you searching for a woman with all three? What’s your favorite physical feature on a woman? Would you be willing to compromise on a particular physical feature for a woman with a great personality? Have you ever dated a woman that was busted with a bangin’ body? Ladies, would you be offended if a man approached you because you had two out of three? Does a personality mean more to you than physical features? Have you ever hated on a not cute woman with a man? What would be the female version of Terrence’s two out of three philosophy?

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Rastaman

There are a lot of things about women that I find sexy. Every time I think I have seen it all, I come across a new woman who makes the female body looks ever more appealing. Do I have a 2/3 rule, not that I consciously apply but I can’t disregard whether one exist just because I use a different justification.

There are some women who no matter what female physical feature you prefer will stop you in your tracks. I am no breast man but a woman with a nice rack will always draw my attention. I had a past GF who had the most beautiful tear drop shaped breast, a work of art that not even an avowed ass man like myself could overlook.

Personality compatibility is now a must have in any prospective relationship for some NSA sex not so much. For an average looking guy, I have been very lucky that the women I have been involved with have all been rather attractive. But most men I know is attracted by a woman’s looks whether it be her pretty face or great body but only a few I know stays if that is the only thing she has to offer.
JRTheWriter

I agree with that theory only if I just want to SLEEP with her. There is a huge difference between sleeping and being in a relationship, and no offense but personality doesn't really matter too much in bed. lol
paulette_bajan_gal

I must be a 3 out of 3 cause dudes be buzzing round me like I'm honey.lol.I actually have the similar prejudices with men. Cute face...taller than me...can have a real conversation.I can't not have the cute face though...actually I need 3 out of 3.Can't mess with short dudes and any man who can't put 2 sentences together.I figure a short dude has a short dick.Mean but it happened with one short dude I hooked up with and I never wanted to experience that again.

I see how this list makes sense to men.Explains why I get so much attention.Face...tits...ass...check...check...check.
AliG83

Ladies, would you be offended if a man approached you because you had two out of three? - I would be offended but then again nearly all of the men who approach me comment on the way I look.

Does a personality mean more to you than physical features? - They are of equal importance.

Have you ever hated on a not cute woman with a man? - I don't 'hate' on people. I swear I wish that term would go away. I couldn't care less who someone else is dating.

What would be the female version of Terrence’s two out of three philosophy? - I don't know because I don't make lists or rate people.
Belve10

Just to sleep with on occasion - 2/3 or a superb 1 of the 3.
Relationship - 2/3

Personality and intelligence do not factor into those equations because if you don't have both I'm not going to risk it later down the line.
JC

Yes, NWSO, not everyone has list or rate people...what I find attractive on one man could repulse me on another. So why would I have a list if my attraction varies?
http://nwso.net/ NWSO

Response to last response: "Uh huh..."
JC

Since I'm usually not talking when I'm alone I assume that most men who approach me do so because they see something they like. That is fine and dandy but I have a low tolerance for those that like to make my looks a big deal.

Even in my NSA times I need to be with someone that has a personality I can relate to. If my mind isn't turn on I won't come out and play.

What some think as "not so cute" another will think of as beautiful. Not my place to hate (and I dislike that word) or judge. All that matters is what I think of the person I am going home with.
AsiFrio

@NakedWithSocks genetically challenged in the face! lmao
http://liferequiresmorechocolate.com Tiffany

I wouldn't be offended but I would be mad if they weren't open minded about other aspects of who I am. Yeas I have hated a many times on a woman, wondering WTF she has got going on to be with some guy. I'm not going to blow smoke up your ass, I am all about what you look like when I first meet you. As I talk to you if I don't find your personality and intellect appealing I am not going to continue talking to you whether you have a smile that makes me cross my legs, washboard abs, an ass I can eat breakfast on or guns that I will allow to hold me as tight as you want.
Wmofyr

I'm guessing a woman's list might be -- personality, dk, job/bank, looks, body. When I was younger, nearly all guys had dk and personality, now it can't be guaranteed, lol. Anyway..
A 4 out of 5 guy is a keeper (the first 3 are practical, I think).
But a 2 or 3 out of 5 guy is short term.
Sometimes, these can seem to improve: Like if he has a great personality, dk, or job, he would look cuter. But if the deficit is major, it wouldn't matter.

Why do guys think up these questions? Just be good to your woman. Think with the heart more. Lists don't really count.
Hazzardous

I have 3 things I look for physically in a man 1) A Great smile 2) Tall 5'11 and up 3) Handsome face. But if I meet a man who is handsome with a great smile but under my preferred height, I would still strike up a conversation with him and if his personality is clicks with mine then we'll see where it goes
I need a 3 out of 4 also
Yes I've seen some fugly women with a cute guy and wondered how did she get him but I I've also dealt with a man who was fugly and treated me with love and respect till the end. So I understand.
http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

Lord, you men..... My brain hurts. ROTFLMAO.

Not really sure what to say except this: many times, what one wants in a partner (physically or otherwise), isn't usually what one ends up with.
JC

I have said the same thing to men, some will own up to just being focused on the physical others will try to get to know my personality but it quickly goes back to the physical and always at the wrong time...like in the middle of what could be a real conversation.
AliG83

You can "Uh huh" if you want to but I speak the truth. I am being 'real'. I don't make lists or rate people because I grew up being heavily judged for being a 'tomboy' and as a result I am hypersensitive about receiving compliments. Now that I am in my mid-twenties everybody wants to be nice and tell me that I am 'cute', 'pretty', and ask me if I remember them from school. I am too concerned with myself to be making lists and rating others.
JC

@NWSO, soooo it isn't any attraction per say is it? It is really just the assumptions that because of whichever said assets the woman has that she would be good in bed that has piqued the interest of hitting it?
That is how I read "See it rooted in same things. I never said “list” you called it a list. Just think Terrence (and some men) see two out of three and assume she’s bed-worthy. But I see how you could see that as a list."
Sort of like a woman having full lips and assuming she gives a hell of a blow job and I man wanting to find out?

This is how I read it.
juicy2b3

Well for fact a man has to be physically fit in most cases. Nice face and grill with personality, along with that a great firm ass. One who knows how to handle the ladies. As one can see there are more than just one to three. He goot to be bang in the front. So you see I have qualities for a man.
AliG83

I too have a low tolerance for those who make my appearance a big deal. I guess some guys think all women like to hear that they look good because I've had a lot guys say to me, "You know you cute, right?" whenever they realized they weren't going to get far with their lame conversation.

It's like if they can't get a conversation going then they default to telling you that you 'look good' over and over again.
Shequita

I had a similar encounter, only he was 6 foot 7 and it was the smallest I'd ever seen, I had to look down and spell RUN
juicy2b3

Girl tell it like it is. Men don't know what they are missing.
http://nwso.net/ NWSO

Just saying it's human nature to make an assumption based on what we see (i.e. judge a book by it's cover). Even the least shallow of us still form some sort of idea, even for a second, upon first laying eyes on something or someone. Is that idea true? No one knows until they dig deeper (i.e. have a conversation).

People see a tall guy like Shaq and assume he plays basketball or some sports, meanwhile he may be a scientist. Not saying you have to fall into this category of assumption, but most do and we all have that split second of perception. It's just nature.
juicy2b3

Ah come on. I seee a tear. Pucker up, soometimes it doesn't have to be the physical appearance of a woman or personality. It's the feel of the pus and knowing how to work the knob. Am I right! I declare.
JC

Don't worry I'm not taking any of this as gospel. I learned long ago that men are visual creatures. I saw an opening to differ and I...
blame it on being bored at work.
Shequita

I'd rather not know what he's thinking and if he wants to bed me I'd prefer its because I have 3/3 not 2/3. I don't know.. something about the 2/3 reeks of "you'll suffice for my manly needs... for the moment anyway"

He needs 3/3.Attractive to me, nice personsality and working in some type of way (does not have to generate income). Im not looking for a sugar daddy of any sort but something about a man that doesn't do anything turns me off. Even if we're just "kickin it." The face alerts me, the personality entices me and knowing that you dont play video games all day just might keep me interested.
blackloverules

I appreciate the peak into the male mind always! I've never hated on a sister for being with someone or thought someone was out of her league b/c of her looks. I believe I have 3/3 for most men, and truthfully, 4/4 for the alternate perspective. I must admit I'm a body snob with guys. I really love a beautiful body. So I wd say body, swagger, looks and height (5'9" is pushing it on short side but I'll do if coupled w/ at least 2 others). My views have changed over time but after being a bit of an ugly duckling kid-or at least not recognizing my outer beauty, as a 41-yr old recently single woman, I appreciate the appreciation of my assets (all 3 plus 1). There's something sexy about being the "subject" of "objectification". Of, course this is overstating a bit but bottom line sometimes shallow is quite alright! Thanks for the post.
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com/ Preachthecomedian

Let's make that a Double uh huh
AliG83

I didn't say I don't make assumptions. I said I don't rate people and make lists.
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com/ Preachthecomedian

That's just how we think..
We can fnd something to make us wanna hit it
now woman ...sometimes the list you have is a little long and difficult to attain
http://nwso.net/ NWSO

See it rooted in same things. I never said "list" you called it a list. Just think Terrence (and some men) see two out of three and assume she's bed-worthy. But I see how you could see that as a list.

Let's just agree to look at it differently
Rastaman

Pobre sieto!!
We are men. Complexingly simple to most women but quite easy to understand if you allow yourself to not go too deep. For the most we are attracted by the physical but it does take more than that to keep us.
http://nwso.net/ NWSO

As RastaMan said a few comments down some are making this way more complex then it needs to be. This 2 out of 3 isn't about marriage and long-term relationship, it's based solely on an initial observation. Hey, she got X and Z, no Y, but she looks good, let me approach her and see what's up. And a shallow guy (aka Terrence) may say I'll hit that regardless of what the conversation is if I had a chance just because of the physical.

As for the lips thing, that's another male fantasy. I think I wrote about that on a big lips are ugly according to kids post a while back, where I remember this girl in HS who was not really that cute but had these crazy lips that all the dudes used to talk about like damn she must give a mean BJ. Was it true? Who knows. Was it right? Hell no.

Just lettin y'all into man speak and male train of thought as it were. For me, 2 out of 3 or any of the 3 actually will catch my eye, but like I said I'd need that 4th element to make it worth my time in the long run.
blackloverules

Well, Preach...it is what it is. I'm guilty on both--I'm a thick sista and a body snob (built DEF not skinny or fat) and I'm 5'7" which apparently is tall for a woman. And I don't attribute height to size/ability to please, that's silly, but I find that men who are shorter than me tend to have issues with my height. And I love my stilletoes...so I can be 5'11 easy on date night, nuff said? btw, what is so wrong with personal preferences? I don't begrudge brothers who like "athletic" or "slim" or "petite" sisters--regardless of their own size. We all need to get over the whole appearance thing...work what you're working with to utmost and there will always be those who appreciate!
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com/ Preachthecomedian

That can applied to women too
how many goods get passed up for being too short, too big , etc..men are visual creatures but we admit it..we can see a uga boogaloo bear and still say she got a phat ass
women tend to act like they don't hbe no list at all u till the dude not on the list rolls on you...lol
Wmofyr

Yeah, I found out tall don't mean long, too. lol So disappointing.
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com/ Preachthecomedian

Now LADIES
what is this obsession for tall dudes?..I understand a tall woman wanting a tall man
but I've seen some short short women only want a tall guy?
That's like these plus size or thick women ONLY wanting a skinny or built /cut guy

LQ

I'm 9 months late on this reply but I happen to be a thick, short sista who likes tall men only. Actually my preferences is because I am thick. Height makes me feel like the guy can "handle" a** & thighs appropriately... while I feel that a shorter man would have a harder time. lol

Wmofyr

I think certain men don't get serious about no women. But they got women thinking the other one got greener grass because of some attribute. Truth is he just not the serious type (the reasons have nothing to do with the woman).
blackloverules

hmmmm. Preach, sounds like you're being prejudicial..."slim" guys want "thick" women all the time...is that also hilarious? It sounds like either you don't prefer thick women and feel there's something wrong with us that should make us not have the same choices as others in society--or you're not a slim guy and you're hating on women not preferring you--or both. Nonetheless, not sure why you feel the need to bash thick women, or why it's "hilarious" if we have a preference for someone who I guess to you is not worthy of us? but like I said earlier for those who prefer something I'm not God Bless and more power to 'em, the world is way too big and full of interesting people of all shapes, sizes, hues and personalities...
jaclynsd

"For the most we are attracted by the physical but it does take more than that to keep us."

I think that's true for most woman as well. The physical can only get you so far but to build something deeper your need a lot more than that.
Jessica J

My question is: What is enough butt for a man? Does he want a huge butt woman or at least a woman with enough butt for him to grab on to during sex? What are the butt requrements for butt men?
Harpista

@NakedWithSocks smh. I have 2 of 3. But one of the 2's needs to be a bit "stronger" I think. I'm mad @ you for this post.
http://nwso.net/ NWSO

you may get some answers from this male poll I did a while back: http://nwso.net/2010/01/29/ass-men-vs-breast-men/
jaclynsd

Ladies, would you be offended if a man approached you because you had two out of three? No, I mean everybody’s 2 out of 3 is dif. I know I’ve dated guys that weren’t as tall as I liked them to be but they had a great personality. I’ve also gone on some dates where dudes are so fine and sad to say that’s the only thing they had going. The 2 out of 3 may attract you but it wont keep you. When you look for deeper you’ll need more than the physical to keep you.

Does a personality mean more to you than physical features? I’d be lying if I said yes. There has to be something to attract me physically otherwise that guy would turn into a friend.

Have you ever hated on a not cute woman with a man? Heck no, my thinking is that woman has major game. Cause like people here said men are visual and if a woman who doesn’t have a lot going on in looks has a fine man then I’d have to say congrats to her.

What would be the female version of Terrence’s two out of three philosophy? My opinion and just based on physical. Height, face, and physique.
AliG83

I don't have an obsession with tall men. I actually prefer men who are as tall as me or slightly taller. I am actually turned off by tall men. And I mean that really.
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com/ Preachthecomedian

Nothing is wrong when it's reasonable
but ive met some women that are 5'3 and "fluffy" and they DEMAND a tall 6'4 man with a 6 pack. Prefrecea are cool but don't be a dick about it. Thick women that want slim guys kill me.. That shit is hilarious...
blackloverules

@shequita--hilarious and i totally agree!!!
@preach--toilet paper comment hilarious. double standards are a fact of life...why should i be forced to like some guy who doesn't have any attributes that i'm attracted to b/c in YOUR opinion I share one physical attribute with him? That's ridiculous. For the record, I've never cared about brothers dating white women, less fortunate looking women, poor women, uneducated women, thin women or any other type of woman that I am not...I guess that the bottom line for me personally, I have never felt a sense of lack in the men available to me with whom I share a mutual attraction. From your "lack" argument maybe if I couldn't find mates who met all of my needs, physical, spiritual and emotional I'd change my tune but until then...I'll be at the shallow end of the pool, me and ALL of my ass.
Preachthecomedian

Ok your taking this wayyyyy out of frame of reference. Im not "hating" (which i think should be retired as a word)...What i am saying is PEOPLE kill me when they have a preference they are apart of. Namely ANY big person excluding another big person for their size. When they are in the same boat physically. Its hilarious when i see people complain about not having a mate and then exclude good people regardless of shape,size , or hue because of a preference... You can date whoever but be serious... Im not hating on thick women at all. Im hating on those who have these preferences that accomplish nothing. Lets be real its more women than men in the world. Every woman is not going to get a mate.Nor is every man going to get a mate either. So when choosing mates and using exemptions take a hard look at YOURSELF first. Your kind of excluding yourself... thats all im saying,..noting about worth or deserve at all
Shequita

Whats wrong with that??? Im sorry but the fattest ass in the bedroom needs to be mine, not his!!
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com Preachthecomedian

because its a double standard... Women complain about skinny or built dudes not giving a chance but then will bypass a big handsome man at the same time....
its like when sistas where up in arms about professional athletes dating a snow bunny... nevermind in there OWN nieghborhood brothas only wanted the sistahs... just sayin keep it ALL THE WAY REAL...
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com Preachthecomedian

too much butt makes me wonder how much toilet tissue imma need to buy if your spending alot time at the crib..
blackloverules

i'm really not trying to have the last word but...i thought the whole point of the post was to talk about shallow shit that we may be attracted to and that physically attract us to someone? Even rasta did the screw vs. relationship analysis...so, yes if my husband lost hair, gained weight, shrunk 5 inches (in height--if peni not sure about--just kidding) of course I would love him and stay etc. BUT for fun, Hard Body, Hard D*ck, tall, swagger (which encompasses personality and intelligence) and beautiful face.
Jessica J

Peach that wS a whole sentence that didn't answer anything lol.
Jessica J

Naked, I read that post when you did it but I want an answer from you personally since you're an a** man.
http://www.gangstarrgirl.com GangStarr Girl

*Clears throat*

"Genetically challenged" -Copyright GangStarr Girl.

*sashays away*
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com/ Preachthecomedian

With all due respect because it's butt backwards retarded at times. Not nessicarily you but some people I've seen. My thing is at any point in time a fire can break out or a limb could be lost....does it matter then? Physicaly is what I mag look at but 99% of my preferences are about the inner person....weight can gained or lost, hair could leave at anytime....if that works for other people it's cool...I'm just saying it seems ridiculous to me that a thick/skinny/dark skin/lightskin man or woman won't date another because of such a minor interger of a person....but that's me
blackloverules

On the celibacy RESPECT. I'm also happy to hear you have your "shallow" preferences too--feet and hands--yay preach welcome to the dark side!! Absolutely no animosity or anger or offense at all...I love to debate these kinds of issues. Love your blog too. awww mutual admiration society.
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com/ Preachthecomedian

Well first let me say I'm not trying to argue nor make your invalid . I can be abrasive in that respect so ease know it's nothing against you.(love your blog by the way).
Due to how I came up and what I witness I honestly don't have alot of shallow stuff to go by. Hell I've been practiing celibacy for over 3 years now. It gave me a new thought process...but for fun I love a woman with manicures hands and pretty feet
http://thecanydshoppe.wordpress.com Ronnie6676

I find this interesting because for me physical attraction is so deeply entwined with mental/emotional attraction that I can't imagine being satisfied sexually by someone who didn't do it for me in the other two areas. But on the flip side. I have dated people that others might think were not exactly top 10 because of the way we connected emotionally or how they stimulated me mentally. I guess that means I also have a 2 out of 3 rule
http://nwso.net/ NWSO

I think it depends on the man and the woman actually. Like you can't be an Angel Lola Luv with a small ass waist and overall frame with five midgets hanging on to your backbone. It just don't look right. Well, that's in terms of keeping, cause a brother would still hit. LOL. I actually met her in person and she is a great person with a good head on her shoulders. But (no pun intended) that might be a case of "too much."

The max butt requirement again depends on the man, but for the minimum requirements all a woman needs is enough of a lower end to make a small cup crease and look great in doggy style. Equally if not more importantly is for the butt to look good a pair of jeans. Nothing worse than baggy tight jeans, that just don't make sense.

So i've given compact booties a pass for the right pair of jeans or looking good in the buff. But no pancakes allowed. And while I've had my fair share of donks (I feel stupid writing that) I've never traveled into ass-tronimical territories like some of the Buffie the Bodies of the world. I'm a slim dude looking like a hot dog in a bun. LOL
Rastaman

To answer your question, I would quote the poet, Robert Browning" "..a man's reach should exceed his grasp, or what's a heaven for?”
So I would say it is different for every man but if you can't get your arms around her ass, it is too much ass for you.
Jessica J

Lol, thanks Rastaman. It's always great to bring in a poet.
Jessica J

Thank you Naked, that completely answered my question!
http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

Are we related or something? Because for real, that's the story of my (younger) life.
http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

Complexingly simple, yes ROTFLMAO.

"For the most we are attracted by the physical but it does take more than that to keep us." >> For mature men, yes.
http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

Tall drinks of water always quench the thirst.
TheLeoGrl

I believe it was Monique who said something to the fact that "two big people shouldn't be together, makes for way too much sweatin' when it comes to sex" so maybe thick and thin is the way to go! *just a thought*
http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

Kudos to you for being a celibate man. Many people think that being a celibate man is impossible.

Now on to this comment: "too much butt makes me wonder how much toilet tissue imma need to buy if your spending alot time at the crib..."

Bye.

*FAINTS*
MonaLisa

As far as just sleeping with someone, I would say that with most black men the chick would need to have 1 out of 3. If a black man were to see a chick with a fat ass but she was fat chested and not too cute in the face I think they would try to bang her. I also think the same goes for if a black man (or maybe any man) sees a pretty woman, she wouldn't have to have ass or tits for the guy to try to bang her. I will even go as far as saying that a pretty face gets extra points and a man will try to get to know the pretty girl and not just try to have sex with her.
I have 2 out of 3, a pretty face and boobs but I'm skinny so said to say I don't have much ass. But catch me on a good day with about ten extra pounds on me than I can say I have 3 out of 3 : )
MonaLisa

Oh yea...and for me to just want to have sex with a guy my 3 would have to be tall but not too tall, nice body, nice face. Ok so there's 4, and he has to charming, have swagger or whatever you want to call it.
And I meant *flat chested* not fat chested in my first post, oops
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com/ Preachthecomedian

That's a stereotype lol
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com/ Preachthecomedian

I wish I had 4 hands
I'd give that 4 thumbs down
http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

Awwww come on!

*trying not to laugh*
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com/ Preachthecomedian

Celibacy is not hard to do. My background I the church so I've always thought sex should either be for marriage or at the very least someone you care for.
I've never been the type to sleep around just because...
Plus I aim to please
I'm down to please my woman with whatever she wants done....but u can't
do that with every woman..so I'll wait for the right one...
Rather make 1 woman cum 1000 ways
than 1000 women 1 way
http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

Word. That's the way to do it. Respect.

I know at least 1 other man who's celibate for the same reasons (minus the church background). Contrary to what people think, it's not impossible for a man to be celibate. Uncommon? Yes. Impossible? No.
http://preachthetruthteller.blogspot.com/ Preachthecomedian

I'm 5'10 which tall enough to not be short
but short enough to not be tall
http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

That's not bad at all.
AliG83

People are just that terrible.
http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

Your story about your younger days mirrors mine. Sadly, you ain't never lied (about people being that terrible). SMDH.
Prettyfacegirl

I wish I had beautiful tear drop shaped breast. Wow, I never heard breast described that way. I'm a pretty girl and I think I do have a 3 out of 5 rule. Hypnotic eyes, I love to stare into a man's eyes, that is so sexy. Great Butt, Deep voice, Tall, and some Mystery to them.
WMnotaGYRL

Not necessarily a stereoytpe Preach. I'm a "big" gyrl and I choose not to be with a big guy because personal experience has taught me that we don't mesh well together in the sexual arena. You just don't get the full affect of it all. (I know. Wa-a-ay off subject)
TruthDivine1979

OMG!!!!! This is hilarious, yet so interesting!!!
Marcia H.

I run across short dudes all the time (I'm 5'4 on a good day) and I've met a man who was shorter than me who gave me some of the best sex I've had! So don't knock (some) short men!
Jara

This post and some of the comments is why I wish I were gay...and wonder why men aren't.
Elle

lmaoooo ... I begin to see a pattern which correlates to my personal experience. Tall dude seems to equal to short P. Just one more reason why I am not into tall men.
Treacle

No, I can honestly say that I wouldn't be offended if a guy told me I had 2 out of 3 (if he said it in a good way - not to bring me down to his level or anything strategic like that)..

I think I might want to adopt this trifecta for guys:
Face, body, height. The most important for me is the face since I'm 5ft 1, I'm not looking for a giant, just gotta be a few inches taller than me.

It's great to be petite
Burt Taylor

As a man, I think most dudes would go for the 1 out of 3.