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Archive for February, 2011

Why a Man Will Sleep With You (The 2 Out Of 3 Rule)

Two out of three. That’s all a woman needs to meet the I’ll-sleep-with-her criteria for (some) men, at least according to my boy Terrence. He told me this a while back when we were disagreeing about the attractiveness of a young lady we had just passed on the street. She was cute in the face [...]

Are You Scared to Let Someone In? (Emotional Walls)

I can’t recall what exactly led to this point in the conversation, but here we were in a heated and emotional exchange. This was probably breakup #542 and I’m not ashamed to say that I felt the tears welling up behind my pupils long before I allowed them to trickle down my puffy cheeks. They [...]

Why I Got Divorced – Broken People, Broken Marriages

WORDS BY LYNDON JONES There was a time where if a man or a woman committed to something, it was going to be seen through to the end with diligence. It didn’t matter how they felt. Back then, a man’s word was everything, and for them, marriage was no different. It didn’t matter if a [...]

Can Words Make You Wet? (Arrogantly Erotic)

WORDS BY KAYE MICHELE Jayson weaved his words into intricate patterns of sensuality—sort of like me. I met him for the first time at a local coffee shop when my Netbook and I were on the outs. He walked in and ordered a tea and buttered bagel, while I was slamming my computer. Jayson, tea [...]