Can a Man Ever Love the Other Woman? (Mistress Distress)

1 Posted by - June 20, 2011 - Dear NWSO

the other woman

[dc]Dear NWSO,[/dc]

I’m writing to you because I’m in a complicated situation. I’m really not sure of how to get myself out of it or even if I want to so here goes: I broke up with my fiancé a year and a half ago. We were having a lot of trouble and a couple of months after we broke up I met this guy. When I met the new guy right off the bat he told me that he had a girlfriend and that they been together for four years. Honestly, I thought that it was going to be a fling but here I am going on two years and we are still involved with each other.

The “I love yous” started and we spend a lot of time together—we see each other very frequent, we talk on the phone every day and our connection is very strong. He has never once treated me like the “other woman.” We share the same interests, we go out and every time we’re together and “she” calls he never answers. He gives me that respect, if that make any sense.

We really make each other happy. Recently, though, I’ve been feeling like I’m missing out on something. I want to get married and be with him but his whole take on the situation is, “As long as we’re happy then what else matters?” I’ve asked him to break up with her and he wont do it.

I’ve since broken it off with him and he really came back strong. I truly believe that he is “the one” but clearly he’s not ready for a commitment to just one person. So this morning we had a conversation and I tried to break it off (again) but I couldn’t get the guts to do it; it was like I know I would feel miserable without him. So my question to you is do you think that he’ll ever commit to me or should I just quit while I’m ahead? Or, just be happy and deal?

[dc]Dear Badly Confused,[/dc]

The simple answer to your question is no. If it’s been two years of being the other woman—whether he treats you like that or not you are the other woman—why would he change anytime soon? Look at the other side of the coin also: He’s been with this other girl, correction HIS official girl, for four years when y’all met, which means it’s now six years. If he couldn’t commit to her in six why would you think he’d commit to you in two?

mistress in distressYou have to look in the mirror and make the best decision for you. If you don’t mind being the other woman and potentially opening yourself up to an unexpected pregnancy or diseases then go ahead and do you—you’re grown. But if you truly want marriage and stability in your future it’s very unlikely you’ll find it with him based on your track record.

I have a philosophy that how you met someone is usually how they’ll leave you. You met him cheating on his girlfriend, so should y’all wind up in a “real” relationship he’ll probably leave you cheating. It’s a pattern that you’ve set forth for him. If it was okay for him to cheat on his girl to be with you, you’ve already shown (subconsciously) that you’re willing to accept that kind of behavior from him. So when he sees a fatter ass or prettier face that he wants to have a “fling” with he’ll feel it’s okay.

Now, if you had met him and told him that he had to break up with his girl before things got physical he may have seen you in a different light and known you don’t play that. But now, after two years, how could you be mad if he cheated when he clearly showed you who he was and you willing accepted it?

Just think about it.

Besides that is this really the character of a man you want to spend the rest of your life with? Seriously, do you really think you could ever trust him 100%? He may treat you right and make you feel good in the moment, but all that is temporary to me. If he was really about you and plotting a happily ever after he’d have ended it with his girlfriend a long time ago and done right by you. The ball is truly in your court and it’s about you doing right by yourself. If you have no problem with where things are, then so be it. Just remember karma is a mofo.

If you want more out of the relationship and he can’t provide that for you then move on, cut all ties and find someone that can offer ALL of themselves and not just some warm dick in the moment and a cold pillow when he leaves to go back to his girl. Whatever you decide please stay protected because if he’s with you and her, there’s no telling who else she or he is with on the side.

Good luck.

Do you think a man ever chooses the other woman? Would you ever date someone that’s already in a relationship? Does it matter if you were on the rebound? Do you think a “fling” could evolve into a loving relationship? Have you ever been in a serious relationship with someone you thought wouldn’t last? If so, what made you fall for the person? Who’s more at fault, the person in a relationship that cheats or the one they’re cheating with? Do you agree with my philosophy that how you meet someone is usually how they’ll leave you? Could you ever fully trust someone that cheated on their last partner to be with you? What additional advice do you have for Badly Confused?

Speak your piece…

  • http://redboneafropuff.com Mariam

    I think this said it all: “But now, after two years, how could you be mad if he cheated when he clearly showed you who he was and you willing accepted it?” It’s about what we are willing to accept.

    Yes, men choose the other woman sometimes. Newt Gingrich has traded many a wife in a younger model, and he’s not the only man to do so. But for an UNMARRIED man to become monogamous when it hasn’t been required of him for six years? Why would he give that up? Badly Confused, let him go! You will feel miserable without him but this, too, shall pass.

  • Melz

    I agree with NWSO just let him go. You’ll always be on the back burner one way or the other. Even if he doesn’t pick up “her” calls because he’s with you is secondary, besides he can go home and say he was with the boys or working late. I was actually in a similar situation, I met someone who said he was single, seemed like he was, hell he was at all my family holiday functions once we were “together” for 6 months BUT I discovered he was married because I was holding his phone one day, it rang, I didn’t answer but I said oh ___ called you and by the pale black man in front of me facial reaction I knew something was up, and sadly he told me he was married like it went hand in hand with changing your underwear everyday. That was the end of that, because although we got along so well, I knew I couldn’t live that lie and know there’s someone out there for everybody.

  • Nita

    Unfortunately, my brother has a similar situation and people really do leave their significant others for the “side chick”. The reality still remains that they rarely are faithful. In his situation, he has left his wife for his two year mistress but still has an intimate & sexual relationship with his wife as well as random flings. So, essentially the mistress just switched places. She now has the burden of wondering where he is at 2 am, cooking meals he is late for, checking the call history/messages in his cell phone and most of all praying that he does not bring her home any diseases. So, Ms. Badly confused, is this really what you want and even more importantly, is this what you deserve?

  • http://ladyngo.blogspot.com Lady Ngo

    People leave their main for the side piece all the time, some are even faithful to the new main dish. People are fickle like that. But that’s an exception and not a rule. Personally, regardless of how happy this man is making you its still only temporary because at the end of the day he’s going home to his actual girlfriend. And its extremely selfish and foolish of anyone to try and gain their happiness at the deliberate expense of another. If the situation were reversed, you’d be mad as hell that your man was carrying on with some other chick so why even put your self in that situation in the first place. Why play second fiddle when you could be first chair with someone else? Don’t block your blessings boo. Keep it movin!

  • Up too late

    Karma is indeed a bad b!! I remember back in high school junior year. To break outta “my shell” I decided to start talking to a guy on the football team who’s gf was on the cheer squad. I used to go over his house as soon as his gf would leave, say if we had no school that day whatever. I ended up losing my v card to him without him knowing. Summer went by I had moved on. We started to actually date. (wish somebody woulda warned me). Lol. Long story short, I ended up fallin n love with him. He went off to airforce bootcamp. He came back 6 months later with a new gf who was there wit him unbeknownst to me til I called his phone and A bitch picked up…and I deserved every bit of what I got. I put his ex gf thru the same shit!! Publicly. I think we do things to ourselves that can be avoided!! Say u get what u want a relationship…right? And breaks ur heart and ur supposed “bond” u guys have… U gon b tore the hell up! And wanna blame HIM when he wasn’t being deceitful in who he was, you wanted to see something diff in him that doesn’t exist! He gon b who he’s gonna be! & babygirl he’s showing you exactly! Good luck!

  • GirlSixx

    All of This!!!! ^^^

    Cosign…. One Thousand!!!

  • Scorpio temptress

    I’m in a very similar situation as the writer. I broke up with my BF of 7yrs and started having sex with a very close friend. He comforted me through the whole ordeal but he has a girlfriend. The difference is I don’t want him to leave his girlfriend. I know I wouldn’t want to be with him in a committed relationship because I feel whats he’s doing to her he’ll do to me although he swears he wouldn’t. But I feel like he’s my friend with benefits.

    We have alot of the same interest, we truly enjoy each others company and we share the I love you’s and more. He’s so sweet and considerate with me and he’s like my best friend. However I would not want him as a life partner. I still date but I only have sex with him to satisfy my desires. I know it’s wrong and I feel bad sometimes but when I express to him how I feel regarding the fact that for hurting his girl we’ll have bad karma he’s says things like he’s not married, I’m not doing anything wrong and he’s the one thats gonna get bad karma not me and that he doesn’t care about karma and I’m not making him do anything he doesn’t want to. It’s a complicated situation and I do love him as a friend but I would not want him for a husband although he’s asked me to married him in 3 years. He has a child with his current girl and I also wouldn’t want to break that family up. but I’ve tried to just be friends with him but the sexual attraction is so strong it usually doesn’t last. Like the writer stated I’m in the same boat. we go out every weekend we hang out during the week I go to his family functions and he comes to mine.

    I feel like we should have never taken it there and now I enjoy what we have but I don’t want to get caught and hurt his girlfriend but I really don’t want to lose my friend.

    • Dynrsantana

      I know exactly how u feel. I’m in the same situation. I have been w/this guy for 7years going on 8years. Three years ago he got this girl pregnant who he lives with & now since there’s a child involved he is willing to sacrifice his happiness with me to pretend he has a happy family. He grew up in a very disfunctunal family with parents who are verbally abusive and physically abusive to each other. I have heard from his grandma that my boyfriend has hit his daughters mother and is very disrespectful towards her. That shows me there is truelly no love what so ever there. He has always been very loving, respectful towards me and has never laid a hand on me. I really wish he would go to counseling cause I think most of his fears and problems were cause by his parents disfunctional relationship.

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  • GirlSixx

    Yes, I think the man can choose the other woman bUT the question is HOW does that come to be because a lot of times when the main chic/wife finds out she sometimes ends the relationship soooo the sidechic ends up with the man because he was kicked to the curb by the main which results in the man now creeping on the sidechic because he didn’t come to her on his accord.

  • Smilez_920

    Let it go, Take back from relationships in general and get your mind right. Don’t forget you left a situation where you already had the main spot (due to problems) and then started playing second field. Don’t let the movies fool you most men don’t leave their wives for their side chick. And you already brought the situation up to him and he seemed shaky about it so that’s your answer right there move on. Plus maybe he’s girl allows him to have an open relationship, hell maybe she knows about you and doesn’t care. If you switch places with her from what you wrote I know you wouldn’t want the relationship to be open and monogamy is not what he’s ready for.

  • JC

    I think it comes down to what type of relationship does she want. I’ve been in her shoes. I don’t know why this guy is cheating (ie sometimes we get a reason) I got the “we have grown apart and I am unhappy. Thankfully I didn’t entertain the idea of it becoming serious so this fling lasted a few months. My reason for not wanting anything with him were simple if he was so unhappy get up and leave. I didn’t care if he ended up with me I just wanted to see some backbone if he was truly unhappy. When I did ask if he was going to leave and I got excuses about “timing” I was like “he ain’t going no where”. I have a low tolerance for those that claim unhappy yet won’t do anything about it. Because that inability to change out of the comfort zone spills over to other aspects of life.

    Anyway, Badly Confused needs to move on…he isn’t going anywhere, other than back and forth. He basically said it with his “as long as we’re happy” comment. You’re not happy, if you were you wouldn’t be thinking about breaking things off. And try to remember…unless his girlfriend knows about you he is committed to HER. They have an agreement. For whatever reason he is sticking with his commitment to her or else he would have walked away. Forget about how it is when you are with him and think about the 6 years he has been with her.
    And as for the “being miserable without him” he is giving you snippets of a relationship. So you talk all the time, and go out, share the same interest you can do those things with a girlfriend, co worker. You aren’t his world and he shouldn’t be yours.

  • OSHH

    He will string you along forever if you allow it, and why not, he has the best of both worlds, his cake, cupcakes and is eating very good.
    Wake up dear, and learn to respect, love, and value yourself before you get involved with anyone else, cause if you don’t, who will?

  • Smilez_920

    Damn that’s hard because yall are friends but look at it this way, he’s basically treating his family as a backup plan/fall back plan if he can’t get with you or someone else. If he really didn’t want to be with her he would leave even if you weren’t ready to just be with him in a committed relationship. I know he has a child as you stated so that would make the situation a little more difficult but not impossible. But at least you know the deal and keeping it just at a FWB level. But you need to leave him alone completely b/c trust his girl knows something’s up and when she starts putting the pieces together you don’t want to be in the cross fire.

  • Lana

    This is a tale as old as time, As a young woman I’m surprised that some of us have not learned the lesson in these type of situations. It all starts with loving yourself cliche but true. The lw should definitely put an end to this relationship and find someone who genuinely wants to be with her without having to make her a sidepiece. And I definitely agree with NWSO as far as the unexpected preganancies and diseases go, so often women will be caught up in loving and wanting a man that they dont think about some of the negative things that man could be pushing into their lives.

  • http://realestdudeintheroom.com RDITR

    Women kill me. She knew the answer when she wrote the question. Find a new relationship, one that is worthy of all that you have invested. It’s ok to stay in your current relationship but please have an understanding of what your relationship is and isn’t.

    Scorpio Temptress has a good grip on what her role is and other than the guilt, she seems to be ok with that. I suggest you try playing your cards like she is until you find a suitable replacement.

  • Lisa

    I agree with everything stated by the previous comments & the way NWSO broke it down for her. Dude is having his cake & eating it too…why the hell would he change unless HE wanted to. He could also be ‘cheating’ on confused & his actual gf with a third chick..this is just a big ole mess…run Forrest run…get away from him….you deserve someone better…someone who really is single as in not dating anyone else, not sleeping with anyone else, not married to or separated from anyone else.

  • Rastaman

    Life is never black and white, there are shades of grey and so I have learned to never say never as every rule we live by as humans have an exception. So yes, people who cheat do end up choosing the other person. Generally no but it happens on the rare occasion. The truth of this situation is that she entered it with her eyes wide shut. I do not think anyone is at fault here; both adults entered this arrangement with full knowledge of what the situation was. She has now decided that the terms that she has operated under for the past 2 years are no longer acceptable and she wants to alter the terms of the arrangement he does not agree. She can either keep it moving or continue play her role, there is nothing confusing about this, what she needs is the courage to make a decision and live with it.
    Based on the evidence presented the only victim here is probably the GF of 4 years. There are no whys, wheres or how comes to further examine. LW knows what she is doing and knows very well what she is in, she now has to decide what her next move is and no one can determine that but her. My advice to her is: “Woman up!!”

  • http://nwso.net NWSO

    Not to attack, but this is just an observation. I found it odd how you say “HE took it there” to a physical level. The fact of the matter is you should say WE took it there. By your own admission you’re a willing participant in this affair. You (just as much as he) hang out and get YOUR desires satisfied. Regardless of whether he made the first move you still followed up and countered that move… Again… And again… And again…

    You know he has a girlfriend just as much as he knows he has one. Since you’re his best friend I imagine you’ve even met the woman and hang out with her at similar events. Yes, he’s the one who made the commitment but you play an equal part in his breaking of that commitment.

    If you feel bad (sometimes? SMH), then stop. It’s as simple as that. Other than that you’re being selfish despite how you don’t want to break up his family etc your continued actions have already put the potential for that to happen in motion.

    #RealityCheck

    Not saying you’re a bad person but you’re doing bad things and can’t play innocent about it.

  • Naomi

    What happened to the Sisterhood? Why are you with someone else’s man? Why didn’t you walk away the minute ge said he had a girlfriend? You’re being delusional if you think this man, who hasn’t married his girlfriend of 6 years, would leave her for you & marry you. He’s being dishonest. That’s all there is to it. Quit thinking with your heart/vagina for a minute & see him & this situation for what it is. He’s a cheater & that speaks volumes about his lack of integrity. Regardless of how he makes you feel…you’re not the one he’s going home to. She is.

  • TJ

    Well said, ’nuff said. Amen!

  • Scorpio temptress

    I didn’t say he took it there I said “WE” . I said I wish we didn’t take it there. I’m aware of what I’m doing and I know it’s wrong I’m not playing innocent. But to say I haven’t developed feelings for him would be a lie. And to say that its simple to just turn down his advances would be a lie as well. It’s a moral issue I struggle with and I will admit their is a great deal of selfishness involved on both our parts. We’ve had the discussion plenty of times to remain friends without the benefits but we both give in to our feelings rather than doing whats right. I’m in no way blaming him I know it takes two to tango. I’m not excusing my actions it bad and I don’t consider myself a bad person. But I feel like in order to end it I would have to completely seperate myself from him and I’m gonna lose a dear friend.

  • http://nwso.net/ NWSO

    I stand corrected, reading on train this morning on my BB email I swore I saw “HE took it there” and wrote my reply based on that.

    When friends cross that line they run the risk of losing the friendship for the pursuit of a relationship. Friends can curse each other out or even come to blows and reconcile in hours, when things get romantic you could not say God bless you when the other person sneezes and that lead to a break up. Emotions are a fickle thing.

  • JC

    Why do you have to lose him as a friend? Not every friend needs to be the type you hangout with. In simple terms it can be someone you have deep affection for. Distancing yourself is the best thing. Hard ( I know ) but worth it in the end.

  • Scorpio temptress

    It’s cool. I had to re-read it like I don’t think I said that? LOL. It’s a horrible conundrum I’ve gotten myself into. And I agree with rastaman on the never say never rule because I wouldn’t have imagined I would build an emotional and sexual relationship with a committed man. However I was hurt about my break up and he comforted me as a friend would. Late night phone calls and going out drinking and divulging feelings led to what we have now. Besides seeing me he’s good to his girl and his family. He and I had a history before she even came into the picture. I don’t want to hurt her I just want to move on. what makes matters worse is he and I work together. I don’t believe he’s seeing anybody else but hey who knows. He’s a decent guy and I believe myself to be a good woman however like NWSO said we’re doing bad things. Emotions are definetly a fickle thing SMH

  • Smilez_920

    If his girl finds out that they are having sex with each other trust that friendship will be gone especially if he chooses to stay with the girlfriend. You don’t have to talk to someone everyday to be friends. Tell him as a friend you need some time to yourself, to get yourself together and when you are ready you will call him. Also if you plan on moving on you have to understand that if you bring a new man into your life that your “bff” might start acting funky. When you have sex with a friend, most of the time the terms of that best friend relationship changes.

  • Bee Bee McGee

    Well. My ex ended up marrying the womman he cheated on me with and having 3 kids with her. The whole time they were dating, he continued to date other women, and even went on a trip to Las Vegas with one. Somehow I became a confidante of sorts, and she was none the wiser. The week before they got married, he asked if he could come to my house to see me. I said no, because at that point we had not seen each other in over two years….just communicated on occassion via e-mail. A week later, I found out from a mutual friend that, he and the girl had gotten married. A week after that he met another “friend” on a dating site….So I dunno, he did end up “Wife-ing” the other girl, but what did she end up with?? In my opinion, exactly what she deserved, because she knew all about me and knowingly cheated with him. So now they’re both leading a story book life. She feels she got the man, and he has a wife, and a few girlfriends on the side….Ah…Well….

  • jaclynsd

    I swear it’s so true what I heard an older women say before. “Why do women need a co-signer on what their conscience, gut and mind is telling them.” We as women know what we need to do I mean for God sakes we’re over here giving advice to our kids, girlfriends, guy friends but when it comes to ourselves we need co-signers on our feelings.

    How do you get out of it? Same way you got into it by putting in some work and being open to the idea. You were without this person before and you’ll be more than fine after. As a matter of fact I guaranty you that after your over this whole mess you got yourself into you’ll be thinking “WTF was I thinking?!”

    I read once…

    “Some women rather have temporary pleasure and prolong long term pain, instead of withstanding temporary pain for long term pleasure”

    The sooner she starts the process of going through short term pain the sooner she’ll be able to move on. Get your mind right, forgive yourself, and move on is my advice to her.

  • Sherel

    It depends. I have seen guys break up with wives and girlfriends to go to the other woman. The Key is how long is the overlap , if any. Taking a few months to realize you care and wamt to persue someone else is one thing. Two years of dating is another. Also the person in the dark is at the very least the person he respects more. By virtue of him not telling them. Some women are contentbeing number 2 to a guy they care about as opposed to not having anyone. It would be different if you were dating others and at least considering other options.

  • Sherel

    It depends. I have seen guys break up with wives and girlfriends to go to the other woman. The key is how long is the overlap , if any. Taking a few months to realize you care and want to persue someone else is one thing. Two years of dating is another. Also the person in the dark is at the very least, the person he respects more. By virtue of him not telling them.

    Some women are content being number 2 to a guy they care about as opposed to not having anyone. It would be different if she were dating others and at least considering her options.

    More then likely this guy will contnue this type of behavior and alway find willing participants.

  • http://theworldoftiffany.wordpress.com Tiffany

    I agree with NWSO, it is your decision if you want to open yourself up to this type of behavior, but in your heart you have to know that he is no good for you. The ‘respect’ of not answering the phone when ol girl calls isn’t respect; it’s him saving his own a** from getting caught up. In some twisted damn universe he thinks it’s a nice gesture when really it’s a cop out to avoid facing his demons. And I will leave with this…trust & believe if it has been going on for two years she knows and is waiting to see what she’s going to do to either him or you.

  • http://www.nwso.net bizzyone718

    @jaclynsd u r 100% correct these women know the right answer but they try to rationalize and justify their behavior…The reason many of them need a co-signer is they are able to think with their head when it comes to other people when it involves them head disappears for emotions…every time I read wut u have to say Im impressed but this is the first time i commented…Im something like a fan

  • BrownSuga

    I have some old school players in my family and they talk to me openly so I ask. My Uncle was having problems with his “young side piece”. He said she was trying to get rid of his girlfriend, of over 25yrs. I asked him why did he cheat on her. He told me that she wasnt fun anymore and when they go out of town she is always complaining and it gets on his nerves, but with his other women they just go and have a good time. So I asked his why didnt he just break it off with her. He said “because she has been good to me and I will never leave her and any woman that cant understand that has to go”. He is serious about this point and the women have come and gone over the years when they try to claim him as their own.
    I know my Uncle is not right for cheating, but why do the womne think he will leave his girlfriend? Just like the poster said herself, he said he was leaving and he knows you want him and will make the transition easy for him so if he wanted to leave he would. I think you know that if you push him to hard and stand firm you know it will be over and that is what you havent decided to deal with yet. When you think you are strong enough to leave him you will.

  • Nikki

    His present behavior is an indicator of potential future behavior. I have been the main S/O whom was cheated on and the side chick had the audacity to contact me. When I informed her of who I was…the I am different card and he wasn’t going to do me the same way was played. She stepped out of her side chick box. NWSO said it all.

  • R.e.D

    You are soo right. I read this earlier today and my first thought was why the hell is she asking a question she already knows the answer to…We women must stop the garbage.
    NWSO’s advice was really on point…not much to add…

  • QuoteMan

    As great as all the advices have been, the shame of it is that, she has heard all this before. Cuz for 2yrs, y’all know her homegirls (and family) have been hammering her with the “girl, you need to leave him” talk. So my guess is she doesn’t have the strength to make that leap yet. But, she will one day, at least that’s my hope. But for now, she needs some degree of introspection to inspire confidence in herself.

  • Belve10

    All the other comments are based on the old axiom “If he cheats on her now, he will cheat on you later” and fair play to that.. but here is another issue I see.

    Through all this, has she (the other woman) been only faithful to him? He won’t commit to you. Not with his whole heart and mind. Why? How can I know this? Because if you will cheat WITH him, You will cheat ON him. While you are good friends, commitment to him would add weight to the relationship he isn’t looking for and has done his best to escape for a short time.
    I know its hard to hear and most won’t say it… But the truth is YOU aren’t any more ready to settle done than he is. You meet him and started it as a fling. Most men can’t accept the change you are trying to make.. regardless of the time spent. You wasted time. Simple as that. If you can’t leave him knowing you are losing time then you should do what you have been doing and wait for him to sabotage his relationship with the main chick. Or when he gets her pregnant and basically cuts u off to focus on being a father.

    Another thing that has not been focused on but only you can really answer.. Do you really love him enough as a person to marry? He might very well see you as more marriage material than her. But if that is the case, he has all the characteristics of being very weak as a person.

  • jaclynsd

    Lol…”I’m something like a fan” Well thank your for you comment my one and only fan (or something like a fan rather) =)

  • minejaz

    im not gonna say never cuz fuck if i kno everyone around this world; ive just never experienced it in my couple few years of life. i just got out of a very similar situation. to be honest NWSO is right, i broke that shit off and it hurt like hell but i ended finding someone ten times better. not only is he my bestfriend but he is the best boyfriend any women would be blessed to call her man. so step out on faith girl.

  • messilife

    “never say never” huh? i was one of those..i grew up high on morals and with the sole idea that if i did good, only good things would come to me. somehow i lost grip on life. I had my best friend, the man i trusted and who knew me more than anyone, who helped me when i was destroyed. We were each others comfort. He was married although “unhappily” and miserable as he always told me. The only reason he stayed in his marriage was because of his kids who he adores. We started a relationship, and as many times i tried to end it, and he tried to end it we would always go back. It wasn’t just sexually it was a true connection. We would spend hours talking, txtng. He said he never have felt this way about anyone, neither have I. He said to me he was going to ask for a divorce which he did, and she got suspicious, she started digging and finally found out about me. But she forgave him as long as he promised to leave me. He did and needless to say i was devastated. I got depressed, i even left the state trying to forget and start fresh. He kept emailing, he said he had to do it for the kids, it was all about the kids and he said he had to sacrifice. for over a year we continued long distance communication. After a year a went back and we met..it was as if time hadnt stopped, I felt the same butterflies, he felt the same. he said he was unhappy, but he needed to keep the family together. I told him i felt the same way about him, but i didnt want to be hiding anymore. he asked me for time. I left for europe, he asked me to wait for him. Which i did. Is been two years..i haven’t been with anyone I feel as if i am cheating on him if i were..which is dumb i know. Here i am going to bed alone knowing he’s not. He swares he loves me, but his kids are more important. the wife found a txt i sent him and it happened all over again, she demanded me to leave her husband alone, all i heard from him was an email asking me to deny everything. I ended it for good. I know i did wrong…im not asking on advice on what i should do. I know what i HAVE to do. I just am still devastated not knowing how to cope with all this..everyone can acuse me of it being my fault, everyone can say that i deserve it because after all i went after a married man. But, this was different. We had a true connection. I loved and unfortunately still feel like i love him. for the rest of my life i have to live with this and knowing that i truly loved him, i believed in everything he said..He never answered my question as to WHY? why would he promise me that he truly loved me, when he didnt? Why can i not even hate him. we have common friends and i hear how his life is going so well now..he got everything that he wanted..his wife loves him and changed for him, he never moved out of his comfort zone and i lost everything i had for him. I left the state because i felt i couldnt cope without being with him, i lost my job, everything. I see his picture and after 3 years…I still love him. I truly am happy that his marriage is doing better, but at what cost? my own happiness?

  • JustSaying

    My philosphy is simple…individuals we arere involved with (be it just friends or love relationships)are either contributing to us becoming better individuals or hindering us from the same. You do not have to be a genius to figure out which role the individual is playing. So the solution to the problem is simple….if the person is contributing to your growth emotionally, spiritually, etc…by all means keep him/her around….if not… YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT YOU NEED TO DO!! Just saying…

  • Terri

    I am older and never replied to one of these sites so I hope this works. I have read every letter of every word that was written above and would like to share my situation and ask for advice as well. I guess simply put every situation looks so clear from the outside looking in but when you are living it and feeling it and hurting it is so cloudy. Maybe that means I am not a strong person. I was abused early in my life I am now 52. The hurt caused me to more than throw myself into work for 25 years because I vowed now man would ever ever hurt me again and I had no ability to trust. Still I made a comfortable living and minded my business was close to my sister and her family and help others. In hind site really helped others and now all that “help” has come back to me in the worst possible “karma” ever. I have been dumped, betrayed and estranged by everyone I did good for. Explain that one? The short version is late in life after working and doing for others I met a man, first real relationship at the age of 48 years of age. We connected, we made each other laugh, we supported each other, we had so much fun together, we were each other’s confidants and the intimacy was incredible. Well at least from my perspective and I say that only, only because of what was to follow. Looking back it all seem so genuine and fullfilling for him to but then how did this happen. We did not marry but talked about it and he shared with my family and his that we were thinking about our futures together and looking at rings. We were inseparable for almost 3 years even though we were not married. He had been thru and ugly divorce, emotionally, financially and he was scared. Because I was naive relationship wise my whole life was tax accounting before him, I didn’t see the warning signs and all of a sudden his house and business and cell phone was ringing all the time and a woman (customer of his) was leaving seductive messages on the business answering machine and house phone and I started to question him. When the calling didn’t stop he finally admitted that he had fallen in love with someone else but he “also” loved me. He hadn’t slept with her or taken her out she simply kissed him on the job site. As naive as I was y first instinct was to take my things and leave him, which I did but he begged and pleaded for me to stay and his girls loved me, my family loved him and his family and all of our friends loved us and thought we made a great couple. That was two years ago. I have tried to leave so many times, because he was my first true love I just can’t shake him. The other woman turned out to be extremely opportunistic (trust me he is 57 years old and this is his choice I totally “get” that). But I do have to say never in all my working or dealing with people have I EVER encountered a woman like this. She talked him out of giving his daughter away at her wedding because she didn’t want him to take me, I told him I would not go but managed to talk him into going to her wedding. This was not a stunt, he told his daughter right in front of me and made her cry, up to that point other than what he put us thru I had NEVER heard him say an unkind word about anyone or anything let alone do anything unkind, he is christian and generous. There are so many other hair raising things she has done to get rid of me it makes for a really bad movie and yet he can’t let go of me. I know we are soul mates if anyone buys into that and I know I love him and when we are together it is as though we haven’t skipped a beat but he won’t send her packing. People that know her refer to her as a leach or a barnacle. I will say this there are two things driving all this behavior, his normally successful business was hit very hard by the economy and so was mine, so we are both struggling financially which is what weakened the relationship to begin with and this woman’s ex husband handed over the house, alimony for life and his pension to her in a no fault divorce state so she is set financially and she buys him things constantly, secondly there is the theory that he did fall in love with me after being divorced for 10 years but got scared and doesn’t want to commit to anyone. He has never introduced her to a single friend or family member and all of a sudden her daughter that had just recently broken up with her boyfriend got back together with the boyfriend and married him. About a month after the wedding there were portraits of my boyfriend and this woman all over the house. I took them down as soon as I saw them and he agreed she had no right to put them up. He had our portrait taken the first year we were together and she didn’t like that. The kicker is that my only family believed his promises and my sister who has been married since 18, raised her family and was looking for a little freedom and enjoyment, kicked me to the curb too not after two years of my not leaving him, but as soon as she heard about it because she knew I was struggling financially and she didn’t want to have to care for me should I get sick. She was happy I finally met someone and believed as did I and everyone that we would be together for the long term. This after I bailed her out of a bankruptcy situation early in her life. I will say this Karma is hitting him very hard, from the mishaps and simple things going wrong to total financial devastation and serious illness a laundry list of bad things that date back almost to the day he decideded to emotionally cheat on me. I though likely because I didn’t walk away and stay away am also feeling the wrath of financial ruin, emotional hurt every day and actual threats and intentional hurt by this woman as she sits with her bank account dreaming up ways to harm others. Long long story, so sorry. I have to say this if Karma does exist this woman remains unscathed other than not being introduced to the family and friends, other than that she is enjoying the passion with him that seems to no longer exist between him and I. Many refer to her as an emotional vampire and perhaps money does not buy love and happiness but it does in fact buy people!

    • Anonymous

      Crazy story sis. Sounds like you’re hanging on to a dream and a prayer.
      Understand that no one can do anything to you that you don’t allow. This man
      continues to keep the other woman around because you haven’t shown any sign
      of leaving so he can have his proverbial cake and eat it too.

      Everything seems like a tit for tat competition where she has this but I
      have this, he did this with her but never did this with me… Whatever. In a
      true and solid relationship there is only two people and no competition.

      Good luck

    • Anonymous

      Crazy story sis. Sounds like you’re hanging on to a dream and a prayer.
      Understand that no one can do anything to you that you don’t allow. This man
      continues to keep the other woman around because you haven’t shown any sign
      of leaving so he can have his proverbial cake and eat it too.

      Everything seems like a tit for tat competition where she has this but I
      have this, he did this with her but never did this with me… Whatever. In a
      true and solid relationship there is only two people and no competition.

      Good luck

  • Terri

    I am older and never replied to one of these sites so I hope this works. I have read every letter of every word that was written above and would like to share my situation and ask for advice as well. I guess simply put every situation looks so clear from the outside looking in but when you are living it and feeling it and hurting it is so cloudy. Maybe that means I am not a strong person. I was abused early in my life I am now 52. The hurt caused me to more than throw myself into work for 25 years because I vowed now man would ever ever hurt me again and I had no ability to trust. Still I made a comfortable living and minded my business was close to my sister and her family and help others. In hind site really helped others and now all that “help” has come back to me in the worst possible “karma” ever. I have been dumped, betrayed and estranged by everyone I did good for. Explain that one? The short version is late in life after working and doing for others I met a man, first real relationship at the age of 48 years of age. We connected, we made each other laugh, we supported each other, we had so much fun together, we were each other’s confidants and the intimacy was incredible. Well at least from my perspective and I say that only, only because of what was to follow. Looking back it all seem so genuine and fullfilling for him to but then how did this happen. We did not marry but talked about it and he shared with my family and his that we were thinking about our futures together and looking at rings. We were inseparable for almost 3 years even though we were not married. He had been thru and ugly divorce, emotionally, financially and he was scared. Because I was naive relationship wise my whole life was tax accounting before him, I didn’t see the warning signs and all of a sudden his house and business and cell phone was ringing all the time and a woman (customer of his) was leaving seductive messages on the business answering machine and house phone and I started to question him. When the calling didn’t stop he finally admitted that he had fallen in love with someone else but he “also” loved me. He hadn’t slept with her or taken her out she simply kissed him on the job site. As naive as I was y first instinct was to take my things and leave him, which I did but he begged and pleaded for me to stay and his girls loved me, my family loved him and his family and all of our friends loved us and thought we made a great couple. That was two years ago. I have tried to leave so many times, because he was my first true love I just can’t shake him. The other woman turned out to be extremely opportunistic (trust me he is 57 years old and this is his choice I totally “get” that). But I do have to say never in all my working or dealing with people have I EVER encountered a woman like this. She talked him out of giving his daughter away at her wedding because she didn’t want him to take me, I told him I would not go but managed to talk him into going to her wedding. This was not a stunt, he told his daughter right in front of me and made her cry, up to that point other than what he put us thru I had NEVER heard him say an unkind word about anyone or anything let alone do anything unkind, he is christian and generous. There are so many other hair raising things she has done to get rid of me it makes for a really bad movie and yet he can’t let go of me. I know we are soul mates if anyone buys into that and I know I love him and when we are together it is as though we haven’t skipped a beat but he won’t send her packing. People that know her refer to her as a leach or a barnacle. I will say this there are two things driving all this behavior, his normally successful business was hit very hard by the economy and so was mine, so we are both struggling financially which is what weakened the relationship to begin with and this woman’s ex husband handed over the house, alimony for life and his pension to her in a no fault divorce state so she is set financially and she buys him things constantly, secondly there is the theory that he did fall in love with me after being divorced for 10 years but got scared and doesn’t want to commit to anyone. He has never introduced her to a single friend or family member and all of a sudden her daughter that had just recently broken up with her boyfriend got back together with the boyfriend and married him. About a month after the wedding there were portraits of my boyfriend and this woman all over the house. I took them down as soon as I saw them and he agreed she had no right to put them up. He had our portrait taken the first year we were together and she didn’t like that. The kicker is that my only family believed his promises and my sister who has been married since 18, raised her family and was looking for a little freedom and enjoyment, kicked me to the curb too not after two years of my not leaving him, but as soon as she heard about it because she knew I was struggling financially and she didn’t want to have to care for me should I get sick. She was happy I finally met someone and believed as did I and everyone that we would be together for the long term. This after I bailed her out of a bankruptcy situation early in her life. I will say this Karma is hitting him very hard, from the mishaps and simple things going wrong to total financial devastation and serious illness a laundry list of bad things that date back almost to the day he decideded to emotionally cheat on me. I though likely because I didn’t walk away and stay away am also feeling the wrath of financial ruin, emotional hurt every day and actual threats and intentional hurt by this woman as she sits with her bank account dreaming up ways to harm others. Long long story, so sorry. I have to say this if Karma does exist this woman remains unscathed other than not being introduced to the family and friends, other than that she is enjoying the passion with him that seems to no longer exist between him and I. Many refer to her as an emotional vampire and perhaps money does not buy love and happiness but it does in fact buy people!

  • Carma

    curious? how did it turn out? being the other woman, is tough stuff, especially if he refuses to leave his girlfriend. He must love her, or he would leave her.

  • Carma

    curious? how did it turn out? being the other woman, is tough stuff, especially if he refuses to leave his girlfriend. He must love her, or he would leave her.

  • SC

    Girl I’d never trust a man who I was in an affair with, there are some things that are negotiable and that is not one an affair is an affair it’s based on deception. It’s all about trust and if you can’t trust your man to be grown enough to deal with temptations and steer away from situations that could arise in cheating it’s a slam dunk kick his @@@ to the curb. Not worth it life is too short and there are good men out there who appreciate monogamy. And for those woman who choose to get and continue to be in relationships with cheating men whether you like it or not that is an issue with YOUR self esteem your self worth because any respectable woman who valued herself one wouldn’t do that to another woman and especially wouldn’t do that to herself….it only feels like your special lol I’m laughing because in the end you end up right where the one who is being cheated on is…..wondering if he loves you why he’s gone is he cheating ..your not some special person who he was looking for and now you are the one the soulmate ….Please people get real with yourselves…..

  • sc

    One more thing I believe in your philosophy 100% you hit it right on the head…..if you meet em cheating they will surely do the same and to the woman above leave that boy a real man don’t make excuses and how could you fall in love when your in love, people don’t know what love is that’s why they think they can be in love with two people love is something that grows over years …If you allow a man to cheat guess what the facts are ..he will cheat again you allowed him to do it he sees that you accepted it ..its not your fault he has issues don’t let his issues become yours be strong get the f…….k out. Raheem said it best ” A good woman knows when to leave.”

  • Lapuce

    Hello.  I am in a curious situation.  I was the step-mother on two beautiful kids, 3 and 6 years old for the past almost 3 years.

    Over the holidays, my husband of 7 months left the house and came back 3 times saying that he had to think about our future because I was not as good a step-mother as he expected me to be.  We ended up spending a few days together as a family for Christmas, I saw a shrink to help me out with the kids during that period and read on everything that I could to get through my issues.  

    Dec 31st, he came back home to “continue our last discussion.  He was really there to end it with me, but somewhat, he changed his mind, we talked about things that hurt us and he ended up telling me that he had “met someone” about 3 weeks ago and had sex one afternoon with her.  He fully expected me to leave him, because I had told him many time during our 3 year relationship that I had no patience for cheaters.  Somehow, I decided to take him back.  He cried, thanked me for taking him back, made me put his wedding band back on and then proceeded to tell that he had to go get his stuff over at HER place.

    He ended up leaving me officially by email the next day.  He could not face the consequences of him cheating.  I was (and I still am) destroyed.  He moved in with her a couple of days later, he does not have a place to go, and seems to enjoy her company for the moment.  But after 2 weeks, we secretly went for a coffee and talked like adults for the first time, ended up going for dinner, he texted his “girl” to let her know he needed to be alone for a little, and we ended up at the hotel, where we cuddled and had sex (we are good that way).  So I am now my husband’s mistress, while he is living with this girl, while I am in our huge empty house with our dogs, hoping for a sign from him.

    He is still quite confused, doesn’t know what he wants.  We still love each other, love was never the issue, he felt like an inappropriate father because of my “shortcomings” with them, started to believe that nothing would change and when this girl showed his empathy, he jumped the fence.  We work together, and with this girl, everyone knows that he cheated on me and that he lives with her (not about our “affair”).  This girl also has done this to at least 4 couples in trouble at work, and has never had a relationship longer than 8 months with any of them.  I am at home, feeling so horrible because he lives with her, but he thinks of me all the time and we both hope that with some time, we can forgive the other, believe in the other and that we can mend our relationship.  I miss his kids tremendously…

    has anyone here been the “ex” and “mistress” at the same time?

    Any constructive comments?

    • Anonymous

      This one’s so much that I’ll have to make a separate post out of it. In mean time I’ll email you my thoughts directly.


      Anslem Samuel
      Writer/Editor/Relationship Consultant/Radio Host http://about.me/anslemsamuel

      Creator/Founder of Naked With Socks On [http://NWSO.net] @NakedWithSocks

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    • Anonymous

      In fact, here’s my full post response to your query:

      http://nwso.net/2012/01/26/my-wife-my-mistress/

      #ThankMeLater

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  • Anonymous

    NO guy will not choose the other women…….unless hes forced to (meaning his main chick left him because of you)! The fact that you knew he has a girlfriend and didn’t care just basically gave him permission to keep his main girlfriend around how ever long he pleases.  Plus him main girl is probably the nice, sweet, can bring home to parents and parents just LOVE her!! You are just a good time that he can keep on the side. You need to go find a single man who will put you in the true girlfriend role! Added plus you will make that guy crazzzzzy jealous (he deserves that…at least)

  • Anonymous

    What if its a married man and the relationship with the “other woman” its been over 5 yrs? The wife knows about the relationship but haven’t gone to a divorce lawyer. Maybe not to give the “other woman” free way? Nevertheless, he did everything with the “other woman”, nothing with the wife.
    Can he still love the wife? or just the comfort of a long marriage?

    • http://www.facebook.com/chrisdee.bowman Chrisdee Bowman

      Question for you – Why doesn’t your lover file for a divorce? What is he waiting for?

  • Guest

    What if when you first met him, he was single. What if he treated you like a queen, dates, talking for hours, texting, true intimacy, ext. Then he got promoted and had to move to a different state. So you have to end things because long distance never works. Then he comes back into your life. You try to make things work but its too hard with the long distance. The connection is still there and you feel like life just handed you a bad card. So you see him whenever he is able and comes into town. Then he tells you he met someone and needs to stop contact with you. You are heartbroken but totally agree because cheating is awful.

    Months later you run into him (when he is with his new gf) when he is in town and feel like it is a sign.( what are the chances, Chicago is a huge place) You text him and tell him he looks great and that you are happy for him. He responds respectfully and does not disrespect his girlfriend. So you try to move on. Then out of the blue months later he contacts you when he is in town and wants to see you. You both know its wrong but your strong feelings for him trump your morals. You see him. It is wonderful. Then you feel awful. but you can’t deny the feelings. The cycle continues whenever he is in town. Each time it happens you hate yourself for being a bad person. This is not you. You have never cheated on anyone yourself  and cannot fathom the thought of someone doing that to anyone. You don’t want him to tell her because you cannot live with the thought of hurting someone like that. You pray that she is never hurt. You pray to be able to not have feelings for him.  But the feelings continue… 

    I do not think I have low self-esteem. I am not an idiot either. Deep down in my heart I do not feel like this man is evil. If I thought he was some tiger woods, i would be gone is 2 seconds. How do I tell myself not to have feelings for someone? I do I stop the cycle? How do I do what is right? 

  • David

    Can a man ever love the other woman?

    It is possible yet so very rare that the relationship will become ‘ideal’.  What is ideal love to you?

  • jay

    Ok i been talking to this guy for 6 months now just found out he has a gf and i told him i will give him three months to decide who he want still no change still with her and i have had it ready to give any suggestion people

  • love of my own

    Seems I keep being the other woman. The last one after dating over 5 yrs, ended up marrying a old love that moved back to town. About a month in a half ago, I meet this guy that stops traffic to get my number. He texts and calls, we talk nonstop for the next few weeks. He’s talking a key to his place and come anytime and marriage after the few weeks. If you’v ever believed in love at first sight, I truly thought this was. Then he tells me of a trip he had planned and will be gone for 5 days out the country. When he does get back to town, he calls and tells me that he met someone else that he decides want to have a relationship with. Coincidentally, her name is same as mine and same astrological sign) (boy can he pick them). When I question I think she was in his life already, he finally states meeting her on a social networking site and having gone on 2 dates before the trip. I break it off then and wish him well. He insisted on keeping my number and us remaining friends. Well, mistake no. one trying to remain friends. We continued the texting and calling and have since spent 2 wonderful nights together. The chemistry and passion is(was) so strong. What else can you do but fall when a man awakes you to a stroll on beach to watch the sunrise hand in hand. Since then, however, i’v told him that I could’nt do the other woman thing anymore, I’m looking to have the starring role now in my life. I have not heard from him and its been 2 days now. I want so badly to call and say ok you win, but I am trying so badly to break this ugly cycle so finally get what I deserve. HELLLPPP.

  • MsScorpio

    Many times, men do not leave thier relationships. They are creatures of habits and comfort. They do not want the sweat, uncomfortability and the problems that come with break ups. they would like to have their cake and eat it too. And uh, men are not always the only ones that do this-many women, including myself, do it too.
    My story, in which I won’t go into detail, is not any different than many others other than we have not slept together (almost but it came to a screeching halt just in time) and we were boyfriend and girlfriend many years before who reconnected. We do not talk all the time, we do not “date” or anything else. But we both genuinely care for one another and do love each other. But we love our families and our lives much more. He does not talk about his wife to me nor I talk about my husband to him. Althouh I have heard his story from a family member, he does not use me as a sounding board. He just likes to have me in his presence from time to time. I voulunteer with a program he is over. I see him three times a week. Most of the time, it is a wave and a smile hello, but after than, during those two hours, his eyes are often on me and mine on him. It was also his idea for me to volunteer and he sent word through one of my friends for me to sign out. Before thant, the last time I sawor talked to him was nearly a year before. he wanted me to volunteer so he could see me more often. During these two months, he has not tried to get me alone. Inmy eyes, this makes it more sweeter. He just wants to see another face and hear another voice from time to time……mine. We don’t even have a chance to have long conversations,he just looks at me and I look at him. Remembering what it feels like to have someone who has loved you for many years and still does. It isn’t right, still. I think we like too keep contact with each other, just in case one day, we can try it again, the right way.

  • Irena

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  • Queency

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  • rose

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  • Catlin

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  • Prince Larry

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  • Dr solotion

    Oh my God, I’m so glad to tell everyone the real thing that happen to me…My name is JOAN. If i refuse to share this testimony it means i am selfish to my self and to people i love so much whom might have similar problems, March 16th about something 7:23pm after taken our dinner my husband got crazy started calling a lady name Melisa I love you, i was so mad and started crying like a baby…then my husband left home then for the idiot called Melisa, and never return back home then i believed when he understand his self he will surly come back to apology, but instead he left me So i complained to my friend she told me she was having such problems in her marriage until she was introduce to DR solutionwho specializes in bringing back broken homes and broken marriages DR solutioncast a spell for me in May 4th surprisingly my husband came home May 6th apologizing that i should forgive him that it will never happen again, i was so glad and gave the thanks to DRsolution who save my marriage, if you are having similar problem you can contact him and His email address is (solutionwhitmagicspell@gmail.com) you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband.

    Thanks Joan

  • nogoodnews

    How you meet someone IS how you will lose them. Hubby recently left me for another woman. She cheats too. Best of luck to both of them because they’ll need it when one or both of them cheats on the other.
    The affairs are fun because they are secret. When hubby divorced me, they got together (like they already hadn’t been) …. and they are still in honeymoon phase. But I know that will end. Why? Because I know hubby’s SECRETS. And to the other woman…. the SECRETS married men keep in an affair:
    Hubby owes 20k in back taxes (I always filed mine separate – I owe nothing) He’s YOURS OW (other woman). He owes me per divorce decree 11k to pay off my vehicle. He’s YOURS OW. He owes 19k on a truck. He’s YOURS OW. He owes 3k on credit cards in his name – and per divorce decree is his responsibility. He’s YOURS OW. Home is in foreclosure with refi denied. He’s YOURS OW. Per divorce decree he will reimburse me 2k in moving costs. He’s YOURS OW!
    And the real kicker…. He’s seeing TWO of you!!! You just don’t know it. He’s YOURS OW!
    So have your affair – you can also have his 50k debt (see above) – and help pay MY bills as well. Betcha want him still – huh? Affairs are fantasy. Live it up while you can.

  • illuminati

    Hello,
    I am mrs mary morgan from FINLAND, i want to share a testimony of my life to every one. i was married to my husband george morgan, i love him so much we have been married for 5 years now with two kids. when he went for a vacation to france he meant a lady called clara, he told me that he is no longer interested in the marriage any more. i was so confuse and seeking for help, i don’t know what to do until I met my friend miss florida and told her about my problem. she told me not to worry about it that she had a similar problem before and introduce me to a man called dromoba who cast a spell on her ex and bring him back to her after 3days. Miss florida ask me to contact dromoba. I contacted him to help me bring back my husband and he ask me not to worry about it that the gods of his fore-fathers will fight for me. He told me by three days he will re-unite me and my husband together. After three day my husband called and told me he is coming back to sought out things with me, I was surprise when I saw him and he started crying for forgiveness. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth for what this great spell caster did for me and my husband, you can contact dromoba on any problem in this world, he is very nice, here is his contact dromobaspellhome@gmail.com, He is the best spell caster. call him on +2348076826545.

  • Kite Monica

    my ex-boyfriend dumped me 8 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so I visited the INTERNET for help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problems to him….. he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my peter came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr Trust spell, you are truly talented and gifted contact his email: ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM

  • Jones Nicole

    I was married for five years without any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home lately and not spending time with me any more. and because of this my husband divorce me. So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my friend told me about dr.kumar from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him and he cast a spell to bring back my husband and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (boys) i am having a happy family with the help of Dr Kumar of spellcasttemple@gmail.com. Thanks to dr.kumar for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact him and testify this blessings like me, the great spell caster email address is:(spellcasttemple@gmail.com)tel.+2347051705853

  • Aneesa

    i am really short of words,i can’t finally believe i got my boyfriend back, this is my testimony about a man that brought back my lost lover dr ojuku, he gave me the heart and confident to trust in he within the period of 2days, right now we are living happily and getting very ready and set for our wedding, i am so much happy knowing full well there are real, through spell casters who can really make things happen within the shortest possible time. you can also contact him if you have any relationship problem with his via email address, (drojukuspellhome@gmail.com)
    All thanks to dr oyekpen Redargs…

  • wellity

    i want to share my great testimony on how i get my ex back in just 48 hours,after will have dated for good 8 years he left me and go for other for no reasons. i beg him i do all i can i to bring him back but he always refuse me, block me on fb and not picking my calls. i cry all day all night because of the love i have for him. i met DR kate love spell online and explain all my problem to him and he told me to believe him that after the casting of the return and love spell he must come begging so i have faith. after the casting of the spell in the next 48 hours my ex came back begging for forgiveness, again i must say a very big thank to Dr Kate love spell he is really a wonderful man reach him for help: katelovespell@hotmail.com

  • sandy

    i am Sandy I want to share my testimony and my happiness with you all in this site, last year my husband left me for another woman in his working place and he abandon me and my 2kids, everything was so hard for me because i love him so much, so i saw the testimonies of Dr.Ancient how he has been helping ladies in getting there husband back so i contacted him and he help me to cast a return spell for my husband and in 3 days my husband left the other woman and he come back to me with so much love and caring. i will never forget this help that Dr.Ancient gave to me and my children.if you are here you need help to get you lover back you can contact him through this email ancientbeninshrine@gmail.com

  • Amandeda Stephane

    I am Miss Elizabeth rosas.,From united states of America.I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also can’t do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster..AND AGAIN I WILL WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THAT THIS SPELL CASTER I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESERVE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman,And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was binging to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever,So i really gathered my courage and went to my boss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question,That my lover started cheating on me lately,When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her,She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me,The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her,And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT,POWER,DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER,she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster.SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME,THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS DR SAMBOLA TEMPLE.My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster,She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem,Really she gave to me this spell caster email and i contacted him and explained all to him,And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next two days, My lover that hated me so much came to house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now..I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile in there faces !! The direct email to get this man is : sambolatemple@gmail.com ,This is what i want to tell you all out there,That is thinking that all hope is lost ok..Thanks DR SAMBOLA VIAL email sambolatemple@gmail.com

  • joy

    Greetings to every body that is reading this testimony

    Me and my boyfriend were seriously in love for six years and we were planning to get married but one day he came to my house and told me he was no longer interested in our relationship simply because he was dating another rich lady who promise to buy him a car and to sponsor their wedding. And i suffer heartbreak for seven months and i was not tired of loving him.so i take a bold step by contacting a spell caster who help me bring my ex boyfriend back. he is powerful and great his contact is Kumalovespell@gmail.com you can also contact him for help

  • anonymous

    I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank Dr idielu for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found Dr idielu a male spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and she assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. two days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for long, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to devote the rest of his life with me. Priestessyewa released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have to share together. As I’m writing this testament right now I’m the cheeriest girl on earth and me and my fiancé is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.
    All thanks goes to priestessyewa for the excessive work that she has done for me. Below is his email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. idieluspiritualtemple@live.com

  • Matilda Morgan

    Hello,
    My name is Nana Freya from Houston,taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in April this year on a business summit. i meant a man called prophet lord.He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address solutionoflovespelltemple@gmail.com prophet lord, i thank you very much thank you in great much to you and the good work you did to me and making my family happy again .. if you are having problem like this or with your family you will have to contact him now on solutionoflovespelltemple@gmail.com he is a great spell caster. once again thank you vey much prophet lord of solutionoflovespelltemple@gmail.com.

  • Matilda Morgan

    Hello people in this forum
    My Name is Dan Anelos ..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i contact this man called prophet viky of victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com Execute some business..He is really powerful..My wife divorce me with no reason for almost 4 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she’s going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 4 years…So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos have tried so many spell casters and there is no solution…so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she’s with a man and that man is the reason why she left me…The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this…he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and my wife got pregnant a month later..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him here: victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com… CONTACT THIS GREAT AND POWERFUL SPELL CASTER CALLED prophet viky … HIS EMAIL ADDRES IS :victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com… CONTACT HIM NOW AND BE FAST ABOUT IT SO HE CAN ALSO ATTEND TO YOU BECAUSE THE EARLIER YOU CONTACT HIM NOW THE BETTER FOR YOU TO GET QUICK SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS…

  • Gracie

    I and Jeff has been together for 2 years. we have been living happily without any problem. I always discuss about marriage with Jeff but he replies me with, we will soon get married. I was surprise one Friday evening when I was in my sister’s house, Jeff called me on phone and told me that we can no longer carry on with the relationship because he has find himself somelse whom he want to get married to. I was shocked and hospitalize for some days. I was so tired and tried to get my life because without Jeff but it was impossible because i truly love him. One Sunday evening when i was searching online for help, I was directed to Dr.Grant whose email is grantingheartdesiresspell@gmail.com i contacted him and he was able to bring back Jeff back to me within 3 days. Reach Dr.Grant via email on ;grantingheartdesiresspell@gmail.com Dr.Grant brought back my happiness.

  • kima

    Am so happy today that God has sent this great man and there is one thing i believe as well that Dr samba of templeofpeaceandsurcess@gmail.com is not God sent but he his actually god,when i taught there was no more hope and agreed that i would loose my marriage because my love Davidson decided to have a divorce with me i was so unhappy and it was like the word has turned back against me but Dr samba made me smile again after 3 years in marriage my husband work up one morning and told me That Lisa i need a divorce it was like a joke i was like wow without no reason he said he wants to move on with his life that same day he said that i was going for an interview and also got a letter from the lawyer that i need to be in court on the 11th of June 2013 when i read this letter was so depressed i left the house and went to a friends place where i cried out my life where i was listen to some cool blues then this program came up (HOW I GOT BACK MY EX)i never really focused on the program but when the program went on it was like they where talking to me and it was similar problem with mine that they where giving testimonies how Dr samba helped them in bringing back there ex i was so happy i contacted Dr samba and share with him my problem he then told me that divorce will be cancelled within 36hours i was so happy believe my friends as the 36 hours was completed it was a call from the lawyer that the divorce has been cancelled that where am i that my husband wants to see me that he has been in tears then i told them he came over with the lawyer went on his knees and apologize to me which i forgive him and told the lawyer to file a paper and make me his next of Kin and make my name be on all his document am so happy today and am also thanking this great man/god and we are planning on bringing Dr samba to the USA to solve lots of problem here please you don’t need to be scared just contact Dr samba on templeofpeaceandsurcess@gmail.com

  • rebecca12

    DR OBOSIANZEN HELP ME GET MY EX BACK Thanks God i met Dr OBOSIANZEN to be my savior in my relationship Problem I was reading about an article in net stated that Dr OBOSIANZEN helping people improving marriage life and get there ex back so i request DR OBOSIANZEN to help me solve my problem because Actually i had break up with my boyfriend it has been 3 month due to someone we had misunderstanding with him but still i tried to contact him but he did not revert and neither responding back. i love him alot and he also our relationship was more than 2 years but all of a sudden why he is reacting like this i could not understand until Dr obosianze help me bring him back to me between 48hrs and things change better in my life , thanks to Dr obosianzen obosianzenspelltemple@hotmail.com , warm regards, Rebecca from United Kingdom

  • laure56

    Am so happy today that God has sent this great man and there is one thing i believe as well that Dr samba of templeofpeaceandsurcess@gmail.com is not God sent but he his actually god,when i taught there was no more hope and agreed that i would loose my marriage because my love Davidson decided to have a divorce with me i was so unhappy and it was like the word has turned back against me but Dr samba made me smile again after 3 years in marriage my husband work up one morning and told me That Lisa i need a divorce it was like a joke i was like wow without no reason he said he wants to move on with his life that same day he said that i was going for an interview and also got a letter from the lawyer that i need to be in court on the 11th of June 2013 when i read this letter was so depressed i left the house and went to a friends place where i cried out my life where i was listen to some cool blues then this program came up (HOW I GOT BACK MY EX)i never really focused on the program but when the program went on it was like they where talking to me and it was similar problem with mine that they where giving testimonies how Dr samba helped them in bringing back there ex i was so happy i contacted Dr samba and share with him my problem he then told me that divorce will be cancelled within 36hours i was so happy believe my friends as the 36 hours was completed it was a call from the lawyer that the divorce has been cancelled that where am i that my husband wants to see me that he has been in tears then i told them he came over with the lawyer went on his knees and apologize to me which i forgive him and told the lawyer to file a paper and make me his next of Kin and make my name be on all his document am so happy today and am also thanking this great man/god and we are planning on bringing Dr samba to the USA to solve lots of problem here please you don’t need to be scared just contact Dr samba on templeofpeaceandsurcess@gmail.com

  • laure56

    Am so happy today that God has sent this great man and there is one thing i believe as well that Dr samba of templeofpeaceandsurcess@gmail.com is not God sent but he his actually god,when i taught there was no more hope and agreed that i would loose my marriage because my love Davidson decided to have a divorce with me i was so unhappy and it was like the word has turned back against me but Dr samba made me smile again after 3 years in marriage my husband work up one morning and told me That Lisa i need a divorce it was like a joke i was like wow without no reason he said he wants to move on with his life that same day he said that i was going for an interview and also got a letter from the lawyer that i need to be in court on the 11th of June 2013 when i read this letter was so depressed i left the house and went to a friends place where i cried out my life where i was listen to some cool blues then this program came up (HOW I GOT BACK MY EX)i never really focused on the program but when the program went on it was like they where talking to me and it was similar problem with mine that they where giving testimonies how Dr samba helped them in bringing back there ex i was so happy i contacted Dr samba and share with him my problem he then told me that divorce will be cancelled within 36hours i was so happy believe my friends as the 36 hours was completed it was a call from the lawyer that the divorce has been cancelled that where am i that my husband wants to see me that he has been in tears then i told them he came over with the lawyer went on his knees and apologize to me which i forgive him and told the lawyer to file a paper and make me his next of Kin and make my name be on all his document am so happy today and am also thanking this great man/god and we are planning on bringing Dr samba to the USA to solve lots of problem here please you don’t need to be scared just contact Dr samba on templeofpeaceandsurcess@gmail.com

  • rebecca12

    DR OBOSIANZEN HELP ME GET MY EX BACK Thanks God i met Dr OBOSIANZEN to be my savior in my relationship Problem I was reading about an article in net stated that Dr OBOSIANZEN helping people improving marriage life and get there ex back so i request DR OBOSIANZEN to help me solve my problem because Actually i had break up with my boyfriend it has been 3 month due to someone we had misunderstanding with him but still i tried to contact him but he did not revert and neither responding back. i love him alot and he also our relationship was more than 2 years but all of a sudden why he is reacting like this i could not understand until Dr obosianze help me bring him back to me between 48hrs and things change better in my life , thanks to Dr obosianzen obosianzenspelltemple@hotmail.com , warm regards, Rebecca from United Kingdom

  • John Alber

    I’m out here sharing this Testimony because of this powerful and genuine spell caster. My names are J. Wright from Australia, and I don’t know how much to thank you for bringing my girlfriend who broke up with me 2 years ago back to me just as you have assured me in 12 hours, and also i was HIV positive, and this spell caster healed me from my sickness.I am so happy to say that when i went for the same HIV test, it was negative. I’m so Grateful sir for your help. And I will continue to share your testimony all around the world for people to know that you are a real and genuine spell caster, and that you can help them too. Once again Thanks for you help. Email: Miracletemple@live.com. Website: http://miracletemplespells.webs.com/

  • Juan Xinyi

    I have to keep you updated because I’m simply AMAZED at the results of the spell you performed for me in getting my partner back to me in good health. Everything is going so well and EXACTLY how you said it would be. Even though it took a little time to fully progress, it was so worth it because things are just about at perfection! How you took my situation and completely turned it around to give me exactly what I wanted is beyond me, but something I will never question and just be completely grateful for me coming across you. God Bless you for helping so many people get what their heart desires. You truly gifted! . you can also contact him for help as well (arigbospelltemple@gmail. com)

  • Juan Xinyi

    I want to use this golden opportunity and medium to appreciate a great spell caster
    Named Dr. Arigbo who helped me to get my ex lover back to me after he had
    turned back on me for a year and three months.
    One faithful day as i was coming back from shopping i over heard some
    group of people discussing about this Big thanks the great Dr. Arigbo who helped me in times of sorrow and
    difficulties.
    I want to thank a great spell caster,saying all the
    wonderful things he had done for them but naturally i don’t believe on
    spell but because of this i decided to go for a try and i contacted him
    surprising as i reached him he told me everything about me and this made me
    to be surprised.
    So he decided to and he will come back to me but i thought he was joking and i agreed to him.
    surprising on that day i heard someone banging on my door and when i
    went out i saw my ex kneeling in front of me begging for his return at
    first i was surprised but later i told him to get to his feet and i embrace
    him.That’s how i got my ex back.
    interested viewers should peacefully contact him on this email address
    (arigbospelltemple@gmail.com). Come and see the end to your problem.
    He is a man of power.

  • Juan Xinyi

    I have to keep you updated because I’m simply AMAZED at the results of the spell you performed for me in getting my partner back to me in good health. Everything is going so well and EXACTLY how you said it would be. Even though it took a little time to fully progress, it was so worth it because things are just about at perfection! How you took my situation and completely turned it around to give me exactly what I wanted is beyond me, but something I will never question and just be completely grateful for me coming across you. God Bless you for helping so many people get what their heart desires. You truly gifted! . you can also contact him for help as well (arigbospelltemple@gmail.com)

  • Garrison Berry

    My ex and I had been together 5 years and he left me with my 2 year old daughter all alone and moved to a different state permanently partially, because he does off shore drilling. But it hurt a lot. I found out that he got a girlfriend FFAASTTTer than i could say goodbye…and another…and another and that hurt me I was jealous that he could because i was the primary caretaker and more because i claim that my daughter needed her dad so bad, but in reality i wanted him to be there for me also……It hurts but you have to con fort the hurt loinesss sorrow and whatever you are dealing with and put all that energy into raisin your child. I didn’t have the best support group idk how yours was but i knew that i could just sit in the house all day so i gathered myself and I would put my all into my daughter now a little over a year later I have found the man of my dreams…through the help of great Zalilu, who help me in getting all i ever want in a relationship. i can now say goodbye to tear,you can get in touch with he at… greatzalilu@gmail.com

  • Jessi

    Amazing testimony of love caster who brought my love and happiness back, I’m jessi from Texas usa,This is a testimony that i will tell to every one to hear. i have been married for three years and on the fifth years of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until i met Dr Odi where so many people have been helped and i decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me i just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 1hours as he have told me, i saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why i am happy to make every one of you in similar to visit this man via Email odilovetemple1@gmail.com and have your lover back to your self

  • Tami

    am hear to testify to the world that i just found a real spell caster who has help me bring back my happiness by helping me get my ex husband back after two year ; I have been to many places but all to know avail ,but when i made a contact with DR stone he promise that i should stop worried that he will cast a spell that we make my ex husband come back to me immediately, realy he do my ex husband come back to me with so much love and apology i must thank spirituallove@hotmail.com who has play a vita part in my life making me a great person and the must happiest woman on earth you are a great man who is bless by God with traditional love spell caster, please i will advice you if you are having a problem with your relationship contact him spirituallove@hotmail. com your problem will be solve

  • annonymous

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