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Archive for June, 2011

6 Summer Fails – Don’t Get Caught Out There Doing This

fter an extended winter we can finally trade in the boots and coats in lieu of lighter garments and brighter colors. But not so fast, as people begin to shed their layers in the warmer months, they oftentimes cast off their proper fashion sense as well. You know, that person that’s in such of a [...]

Have You Ever Thought About Someone Else During Sex?

WORDS BY RAE She had the softest, tastiest brown skin you could possibly imagine. She was a goddess of a fair-skinned Black woman with naturally long black hair—hair that was actually of her own.  I made sure of that. Her sensuous full lips were magnets for my own, pulling me in closer. Her brown eyes [...]

Should Your Parents Meet Everyone You Date?

I’m in a dilemma that I’ve been in since I started dating. I’m 23 years old and single, but I’m having problems with my parents. It’s not really my dad, but my mom; she’s too traditional. I’m not upset nor do I hate my parents for being parents because I know that they’re just doing [...]

Are Black Men Body Conscious? (Remnants of Slavery)

WORDS BY DREW-SHANE DANIELS Within the realm of Black masculinity, Black men are often associated with having a strong image of power. This power does not necessarily involve education, fiscal responsibility or even family ties, rather it often relates to having a solid and highly desirable physique. Somehow the idea of this power is innate. [...]

Can You Believe Da ThRONe’s Getting Married Tomorrow?

can’t believe it. In roughly 24 hours Da ThRONe is getting married. For those that don’t know Tron, he’s an O.G. Sock Head that’s become like extended family and he met his bride, Shay From L.A. (aka God’s Gift), right here in the comments section of NWSO. #TrueStory As the man partially, albeit inadvertently, responsible [...]

Can I Date Around After Seeing Someone For a Month?

I’ve been dealing with this female for about a month. She’s feeling me, I’m feeling her but we’re taking it slow—no sex yet, getting to know each other. I took her to a couple of nice places, which she liked because most dudes she dealt with didn’t do those things. She has the qualities I [...]

What Inspires You? (Why Fear is Necessary to Succeed)

What inspires you? That’s the question that was posed to me. There’s a million ways that I could answer that question—family, love, being a better father than the one I had, etc.—but what immediately popped in to my head was failure. That may seem like an odd response but let me explain my train of [...]

Are Black People Happy With Their Bodies? (Nip/Tuck WTF)

ave you ever written about plastic surgery?” That’s the random text my friend Heather sent me a few weeks ago. I’ve published over 900 posts here over the past three years (200 more if you include my MySpace days) so I can’t always recall what topics I’ve covered before so I shot back, “Don’t think [...]