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Can a Tomboy Ever Be Sexy? (Da Brat Comes Out Her Shell)

Did anyone else see the pictures of rapper Da Brat that Vibe.com released the other day? Well, it was part of their summer chic shoot, where the notoriously hardcore female rapper showed off her more “feminine” side. It’s not the first time Brat’s shed the baggy jeans for a more girlie look, some might remember back around the time she was allegedly(?) messing with Allen Iverson that she came out at the BET Awards (or some awards show) in a skin-tight outfit looking right. I wrote something for The Source around the time, saying how A.I. must have tapped into her freaky side that Brat got mad about, but that’s another story for another time…

Along with the photos, Vibe.com also leaked a brief interview with the recently released MC. Here’s an interesting snippet:

  • VIBE.COM: Was it uncomfortable transitioning into a “sex symbol” or is this just another side of you that we never see?
  • DA BRAT: I’m such a f*cking lady. I loved to get glammed up. I love manis and pedis. I like to go to Vicky Secrets and La Perla because I like lace and bikinis. I’m such a P.Y.T. (Pretty Young Thug).
  • What type of message do you want to portray to women about their bodies.
  • Be who you are!
  • What type of clothes do you wear to make you look sexy?
  • It depends on the look and how I’m feeling that day.
  • What is your favorite body part?
  • I don’t have just one. I love all parts of my body! But on a man, I love the Adonis line. It’s just so sexy!

Although I’ve always thought Da Brat was an attractive woman underneath the patented braids and baggy jeans (she is after all LisaRaye’s half sister), but I’m not convinced she can pull off the whole “sexy” thing. She’s been too hardcore for too long. She went to jail for crackin’ a bottle over a waitress’ head for Pete’s sake.

Is it just me or does Da Brat not even look that comfortable in this shoot? And far be it for me to fall prey to rumors and speculation, but I couldn’t help but give a little side-eye when I read the whole “Adonis line” fetish in the interview. Whatever floats your boat, Brat—feminine or ferocious—all I care about is if the music is dope.

What do you think of Da Brat’s “sexy” photo shoot? Do you think Da Brat is an attractive woman under her hardcore image? How many guys would actually holla at her if given the chance? Or do you think she wouldn’t be interested? Do you think a tomboy can ever shed her boyish image? Do you think the right man can bring a tomboy out of her shell or is it all on her? Have you ever bumped into a tomboy from back in the day that blossomed into an attractive woman? What’s your favorite body part?

Speak your piece…


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  • http://conchsaladesque.wordpress.com/ Lovely

    The hair styling is horrible. That's what throws it off for me. I like the white look the best. The others are a bit awkward-looking. She probably does better in shorts and a cute top than in long dresses. She doesn't have to be a tomboy to have that preference either. Annnd I've always thought Da Brat was hot. Hahaha.

  • Justbeinc

    I'm with you Bro. Ans.. She looks quite awkward and uncomfortable. I think alot of studs will be very disappointed in her decision to bait and switch. She was the first real stud icon. And, you ain't hear it from me, Benita Butrrell, but my home girl strips in some of the best clubs in Atl and the stories she has on this particular gender bender are..ummm compelling and fully contradict that Adonis comment. (i twisted my lips on that one too homie). Let's see what she does musically though. Her last few efforts before jail were horrible so I hope she was digging deep in more than poon while she
    was away and can produce some quality work.

  • Pressrmt

    she still looks batty. she's a "lady" but acted savagely that nite when she injured that other  woman in the club.

  • Pressrmt

    she still looks batty. she's a "lady" but acted savagely that nite when she injured that other  woman in the club.

  • Pressrmt

    she still looks batty. she's a "lady" but acted savagely that nite when she injured that other  woman in the club.

  • http://www.facebook.com/morajandmahala Terri Moraj Newsome

    I think Da Brat looks pretty. And as far as the rumors and speculation about who she likes to get down with I would rather give her the benefit of the doubt. I don't believe most celebrity gossip because people are always willing to say so much stuff that isn't true but seems to apply to this person because of the way that they seem as a person. I had to roll my eyes at the person that said that has a stripper friend who said she seen this and that. Really? o_O hahahah I think she looked pretty but I don't think those dresses were suited her. 

    And this is a woman that has dressed like a stud and been a tomboy all of her life. Umm of course she will be bustin somebody's head. Regular girly chicks do it all of the time so what's the difference?

    I think men find her attractive and can bring that feminine side out of her. I have known so many women that are tomboys but are straight and men actually want to be with them despite their lack of superficial femininity. It's hard to believe sometimes but it happens.

  • Kim

    She looks alright, but yes, a bit uncomfotable.
     
    "“I’m such a f*cking lady.”Is she serious or ironic?In my book a lady doesn t use that word publicly, even less in Interviews.

  • G_love2deep

    Dolled up or thugged out the Da Brat will always be fine in my eyes She got that hood swag that's ride or die. Why compete with wholesome and sweet when most women are a beast in disguise.  

  • Bee Bee McGee

    I think D'Brat is a pretty girl!! She does look a little uncomfortable here, but I think whoever styled her for this shoot, was a rank amateur. If they had given her some better clothes and a better weave as opposed to the "Walmart Upscale" they have her in, in these pics, she would have had men's tongues wagging!! I too have heard some of those stories about her up in those "Gentleman's clubs" in Atlanta...though. Um...

  • Yaya

    I think she looks beautiful...I was a tomboy too....but that does not determined who you sexing...I think she still growing mentally and she have shown both sides....give the sista a break!

  • SassyNOLa

    The problem was definitely the styling (the hair is bad but the clothes... HORRIBLE! Ugly, ill-fitting, matronly, etc.) and the photographer. It's the photographer's job to make the subject comfortable and shoot them in the most natural, flattering poses/environment- this photographer looks like he didn't even try and gave her NO direction. She's clearly a pretty woman- she just needs better wardrobe options and a more comfortable setting. 

  • CaliDreaming86

    Well, DaBrat isn't a tomboy - She is a straight up dyke.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_LTOOKLD37ZPJFKRMXPKBDFWYVY Kara

    hell yeah a tomboy can be sexy because i sure am sexy lol....i was a "real" tomboy i was mistaken for a boy growing up all the time and look at me now lol