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Do You Know What You Want in the Bedroom? (Birthday Sex)

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WORDS BY DAVE JACKSON

I'm sitting on my porch taking in the sights of Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn on a dusky summer evening when I see her car. The window slowly rolls down to reveal her face. I haven’t seen that face in quite some time. She smiles but doesn’t say a word. Instead, she reaches for her phone and starts typing.

Two seconds later, my cell vibrates as Veronica's text comes through, simple and to the point: "HI."

I look up and wave back to her in real-time. She giggles and leans forward toward the steering wheel, biting her lower lip. She reaches for her phone once more and continues our conversation via text.

"I have on a really short skirt. ;oD"

"Hmmmm, so in the car or upstairs?"

"Upstairs."

I don’t say a word. I ask no questions. I abandon my station on the porch, unlock my door and head upstairs, leaving the screen door ajar as her cue to come on up.

These were the grimy days, the Biggie “I’m fucking you tonight” days; one chair, an air mattress and no TV—just my computer and a set of speakers.

Veronica walks into my room, one hand on her hip, striking a powerful pose. Her other hand clutched a bag. She pulled out a bottle of Black Label and two red cups.

She takes a seat in my only chair, crosses her legs. Her "really short skirt" rides even higher up her things. With cups in hand, she shakes them in my direction. “Ice, please, good sir,” she says with a sultry smile.

I nod enthusiastically and walk towards her, taking the cups. Before I walk away she leans forward and presses her hand against the bulge in my pants, her palms riding from the back of the shaft down to the tip.

I sigh.

“How about that ice?” I ask.

“How about this dick?” she replies.

We stare at each other. Memories flash before my eyes.

"You know what," she laughs. "Hurry and get the ice.”

I do as I'm instructed and make my way to the kitchen and quickly return to the room.

We play catch up over cups of Black Label on the rumor mill, the gigs, the family and the love lives (or lack there of). Into the third round of drinks, I place my cup on the makeshift nightstand and remove Veronica’s cup from her hand.

“To business then?” she smiles, already leaning back in the chair. I slide in front of her and lift what’s left of her skirt.

“No panties, huh?” I smirk.

“When have you ever known me to wear any?”

I could I ever forget.

Without giving it a second thought I tongue kiss her pussy. Immediately, I could feel her warm and sticky juices invade my taste buds. As I swirled between Veronica's splendid slits, I could see her face, which looked like she was singing, one of those passionate notes, permanently stuck on “O.”

Veronica's hands slowly rest atop my head, her grip tightens as my tongue gets closer to her spot.

“Nasty ass,” she gasps, her voice teasing with passion.

She had good reason. I was licking her in two places at once and had two fingers sliding in and out of her. Veronica's mid-section buckled as she came on my hand and in my mouth.

“That’s all you got, punk,” she dared me, as she always did.

I smirked. I didn’t have anything else to say. All I could do was rise to the challenge.

Veronica went to put her leg down. I blocked her. I let my fingers massage her clit as I held her hostage in the chair and started to suck on her breast.

“Fuck… you…,” she moaned.

My two fingers played her like a piano, my tongue the accompanying symphony. Veronica was coming so hard, she looked furious. Her free hand, trembling, traveled along my belt line, down my zipper, looking for something. She tried to focus on getting my pants open, but I just drove my fingers in deeper and raced my tongue across her nipples.

She was grunting and cursing under her moans. Finally, she got a hold of my belt buckle and loosened it. I rose to her face to kiss her and she pulled me in closer. “My turn.”

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  • Kemz

    Well damn, if the sex is anything like that I might just let that be my birthday present every year.

    • Mz. VooDoo

      That can be my birthday present every day....

  • Anonymous

    Of course I would go collect my birthday goodies.  I try to keep all my break ups civil.  You never know when you are going to need someone or even better when they are going to feel like they need you.

  • http://wwwinmycomfortzone.blogspot.com/ southernpoise

    First of all…Bravo!! Beautiful! Loved, loved it. Very sexy… Fanning myself at work…Whew… ok, now on to business…. excuse me, while I go rinse out my panties out…

    Would you hook up with an ex for some "birthday loving"? Why or why not? Do you have an ex that you would go back to just for sex, perhaps on a regular basis?  If so, what is it about that person that makes you come back?   

    It depends. If he or I wasn’t in a relationship, I might consider it, however, only if I had no other options.  The reason I say no other options, is, first, what’s better than NEW NEW? I had the best birthday sex ever, and it was my homegirl’s birthday. Not with my homegirl though… no rainbow Lol.  And there’s history with your ex, you don’t want history to overshadow what it is you really want on your birthday, that’s sex. Period… Good sex maybe, but bottom line, sex is the ultimate goal.  Now, of course your ex might be the one that can give you that great sex, but it comes with baggage sometimes. After our breakup, ever so often we would reunite for sex only at times, no strings, no drama. So that would be no problem with hook up if it was my birthday, if that’s what I wanted.  The reason I would and did go back is that I know we still have physical chemistry, and two-fold, there is history, granted some good, some bad. You already know this person, so you already know if the sex is going to be GREAT!  And it’s not some random guy.  But a couple of years ago, I had the option of hooking up with my ex on my birthday, and glad I didn’t, because I had a night to remember, with someone else.  It would not have even come close with my ex.

    What are the pros of getting sex from someone you've been with before? What are the cons?

    I guess I kinda already answered this. Pros, obviously if the sex was great, you win! Cons, if there are still feelings on behalf of one of the parties involved, things could get sticky (no pun intended). It’s just hard to share something special with someone you still have feelings for, and not get that ‘old-time feeling’. These feelings may get misconstrued, and you start to convince yourself that because the other party agreed to it or you were the one being asked, then they must still have feelings for you, when it’s only familiarity.  If you can’t separate these feelings from this one time sexual encounter, then maybe you shouldn’t even be there.

     Is sexting a great form of foreplay?

    YES! Sexting is great! Love it. Get the juices flowing.   

       Do you know where to get it on a regular basis?

    ANY MAN I COME IN CONTACT WITH… If I chose to do so LMAO…

  • Tipster

    Boy you know I don't need candles or cake. I just need your body to make good bday sex. Yeeeeeeaaaaahhhhhh! And I like Valentine's Day, Christmas, Halloween, Easter,President's day, Labor Day, St. Patty's Day, Memorial Day, and Sunday - Saturday sex too!

  • Tipster

    Boy you know I don't need candles or cake. I just need your body to make good bday sex. Yeeeeeeaaaaahhhhhh! And I like Valentine's Day, Christmas, Halloween, Easter,President's day, Labor Day, St. Patty's Day, Memorial Day, and Sunday - Saturday sex too!

  • jaclynsd

    Would you hook up with an ex for some "birthday loving"?  Depends on the Ex. Sometimes if someone loved you they take it for more than what it is…when it’s just sex you want.

    Do you have an ex that you would go back to just for sex, perhaps on a regular basis? IF it wasn’t emotional for him (ego) I would. He was probably the best sex I had in years.

    If so, what is it about that person that makes you come back? How passionate he can be and of course his size.

    What are the pros of getting sex from someone you've been with before? They know all your spots and just what moves to satisfy you.

    What are the cons? Drama starting up again.

    Is sexting a great form of foreplay? Yes, it does a lot for the imagination. It intensifies the feeling when you imagine it and then you finally get it. Its like you cant believe it exceeded your expectations.

    Do you know what you want in the bedroom? Yes

    Do you know where to get it on a regular basis? Yeah, but nowadays what person, men or women, doesn’t know where to get it on a regular. Its really a case of what you really need. I’m looking for more than the physical, so till then the regular is not that important to me.
     
    What did you think of Dave Jackson's contribution to Wet Wednesdays? HOT

  • jaclynsd

    Would you hook up with an ex for some "birthday loving"?  Depends on the Ex. Sometimes if someone loved you they take it for more than what it is…when it’s just sex you want.

    Do you have an ex that you would go back to just for sex, perhaps on a regular basis? IF it wasn’t emotional for him (ego) I would. He was probably the best sex I had in years.

    If so, what is it about that person that makes you come back? How passionate he can be and of course his size.

    What are the pros of getting sex from someone you've been with before? They know all your spots and just what moves to satisfy you.

    What are the cons? Drama starting up again.

    Is sexting a great form of foreplay? Yes, it does a lot for the imagination. It intensifies the feeling when you imagine it and then you finally get it. Its like you cant believe it exceeded your expectations.

    Do you know what you want in the bedroom? Yes

    Do you know where to get it on a regular basis? Yeah, but nowadays what person, men or women, doesn’t know where to get it on a regular. Its really a case of what you really need. I’m looking for more than the physical, so till then the regular is not that important to me.
     
    What did you think of Dave Jackson's contribution to Wet Wednesdays? HOT

  • jaclynsd

    Would you hook up with an ex for some "birthday loving"?  Depends on the Ex. Sometimes if someone loved you they take it for more than what it is…when it’s just sex you want.

    Do you have an ex that you would go back to just for sex, perhaps on a regular basis? IF it wasn’t emotional for him (ego) I would. He was probably the best sex I had in years.

    If so, what is it about that person that makes you come back? How passionate he can be and of course his size.

    What are the pros of getting sex from someone you've been with before? They know all your spots and just what moves to satisfy you.

    What are the cons? Drama starting up again.

    Is sexting a great form of foreplay? Yes, it does a lot for the imagination. It intensifies the feeling when you imagine it and then you finally get it. Its like you cant believe it exceeded your expectations.

    Do you know what you want in the bedroom? Yes

    Do you know where to get it on a regular basis? Yeah, but nowadays what person, men or women, doesn’t know where to get it on a regular. Its really a case of what you really need. I’m looking for more than the physical, so till then the regular is not that important to me.
     
    What did you think of Dave Jackson's contribution to Wet Wednesdays? HOT

  • Sidnei

    Wow..note to self..dont read this at work!!! im feeling a bit jittery now

  • http://www.facebook.com/HUSHCEO Cecily Goldie Groves

    S.P.E.E.C.H.L.E.S.S...

  • Maggie

    mine came a few days later but it was definitely worth the wait! :)

  • Krystal light

    Well this Wednesday was really really wet!
    Would you hook up with an ex for some “birthday loving”? No.
    Why or why not? Don't really have any exes unless you count high school and that's just one and we never did the do so no.
    Do you have an ex that you would go back to just for sex, perhaps on a regular basis? No
    Is sexting a great form of foreplay? YES!
    Do you know what you want in the bedroom? Not always. I just like to see where the night takes us.
    Do you know where to get it on a regular basis? Yes my hubby lol
    What did you think of Dave Jackson’s contribution to Wet Wednesdays? Epic and hot!

  • Dreaqtee

    Would you hook up with an ex for some birtbday loving? Why or why not? Yes, I would because he's already trained.
    Would I go back on a regular basis? Well actually, I'm in the proccess of that now, only because I'm home for the summer.
    What is it about that person that keeps you coming back? This man is lile my own personal crack, omg he is so addictive. He knows my body like he knows the alphabet. Where to touch, how to lick
    me, my favorite positions, how deep to go, omg!!!!
    The cons?! Sometimes I feel myself reminiscing
    about our 7 yr relationship. I always miss what we
    had and still to this day love him although we will

    never be together again
    Is sexting a good form of foreplay I enjoy it. And it is an easy way to tell the other person exactly what u want and how u wamt it! It can vet yojr imagination going, so when the time gets here we already know what's up!

  • Bel Ti Famn

    '“Can I cum, baby?” I asked her.' Best line! LOL The fact that he asked first just seemed really sexy to me. Anywho to the questions at hand:

    Would you hook up with an ex for some "birthday loving"? Perhaps, if I was having a serious dry spell.

    Do you have an ex that you would go back to just for sex, perhaps on a
    regular basis? Eventually yes. It's a fresh break-up so right now I can't stand his ass, but as time heals and I don't feel too emotionally attached anymore then I would DEFINITELY go back.

    If so, what is it about that person that makes you come
    back? It's just that good. He's got the whos, whats, wheres, whys and hows of my body down pat.

    What are the pros of getting sex from someone you've been with
    before? They may already know what turns you on and gets you off.

    What are the cons? Could get complicated if serious feelings are still involved.

    Do you
    know what you want in the bedroom? YES, and I make damn sure I get it too

    What did you think of Dave Jackson's contribution to Wet
    Wednesdays? Delicious.

  • Oshun320

    Oooohhh, that hit the G spot...
     
    Definitely will take on an ex for BDay sex. Not denying myself a special gift from a man who's proven he knows how to push my all buttons, set my soul on fire & take me where I need to go - repeatedly, in the flesh (& virtually). It's reciprocal, I'll do him for his birthday in a heartbeat too.

    I'd go back because he's just so damn talented & we have a masters in sexual simpatico. As long as we set history on the back burner &  can throw down without our baggage affecting performance, it's on. Not trying to rekindle anything, I just want the goods - "make it do what it do, Baby!"  

    The pros: Sexual familiarity - a certain level of comfort is built in for "no holds barred", totally uninhibited pleasure. THE been there, done that, no training necessary route to ecstasy. When talking, sexting or even thinking about each other, the reminiscing is so powerful it leaves us in frenzied state. He knows exactly how to make me purr, takes me cross the threshold to advanced level freak - we've got it like that :)

    The cons: emotional ties & yearning for more 'cause we're s-o-o-o damn good. To be honest, sex was what worked best for us. Everything else about our past experience was supremely F'd up. In other words, it really was ALWAYS about sex  LOL

    I know exactly what I want in the bedroom, yet I'm open to what the man & the moment may inspire. Nice to find out what the ex & I have learned since our last encounter. New moves with an old love = icing on the BDay cake!

    Dave, that was so good you've got me wanting more... 

  • Oshun320

    Oooohhh, that hit the G spot...
     
    Definitely will take on an ex for BDay sex. Not denying myself a special gift from a man who's proven he knows how to push my all buttons, set my soul on fire & take me where I need to go - repeatedly, in the flesh (& virtually). It's reciprocal, I'll do him for his birthday in a heartbeat too.

    I'd go back because he's just so damn talented & we have a masters in sexual simpatico. As long as we set history on the back burner &  can throw down without our baggage affecting performance, it's on. Not trying to rekindle anything, I just want the goods - "make it do what it do, Baby!"  

    The pros: Sexual familiarity - a certain level of comfort is built in for "no holds barred", totally uninhibited pleasure. THE been there, done that, no training necessary route to ecstasy. When talking, sexting or even thinking about each other, the reminiscing is so powerful it leaves us in frenzied state. He knows exactly how to make me purr, takes me cross the threshold to advanced level freak - we've got it like that :)

    The cons: emotional ties & yearning for more 'cause we're s-o-o-o damn good. To be honest, sex was what worked best for us. Everything else about our past experience was supremely F'd up. In other words, it really was ALWAYS about sex  LOL

    I know exactly what I want in the bedroom, yet I'm open to what the man & the moment may inspire. Nice to find out what the ex & I have learned since our last encounter. New moves with an old love = icing on the BDay cake!

    Dave, that was so good you've got me wanting more...