Do All Guys Want Anal Sex? (15 Men Respond Honestly)

0 Posted by - August 18, 2011 - Relationships, Love & Marriage

[dc]M[/dc]ost women seem to be opposed to anal sex. That’s really no big surprise but as I was reading the comments on “What You Won’t Do Sexual on the First Night” I noticed that a lot of women’s objections to that particular sex act tended to waver if there was a ring on their finger. For every woman who responded, “Oh, hell no!” was the statement, “I’ll only do that with my husband.”

I can understand this philosophy of saving something “special” for your husband but if I can be so frank that’s a pretty sh*tty gift (pun intended). More specifically, who’s to say that your future husband even wants to ride the Hershey Highway? I mean, are so many women saving anal for their husband as some sort of “special” fantasy gift that he may not even want to accept? Or do women just think all men want to do it in the butt and are willing to concede to it for the spouse?

That all sounds nice in theory, but once again I have to ask: Who’s to say your husband wants to have anal sex anyway? The more I thought about that I realized that anal wasn’t very high on my things-to-do-with-my-future-wife list and began to wonder if I were alone. So I polled a few anonymous friends to see how many men actually wanted to do their wife (or any woman for that matter) in the butt.

Here’s what I asked the fellas:

Do men really want anal sex from their wife? Is that even something most men (you) are even interested in as much as women think we are? Would you rather do that with a jump-off when you’re single and feel like the mother of your kids should not be THAT freaky?

[dc]“I[/dc] don’t think about anal at all actually. In my single days it’s always been a question asked by the women, I’ve never asked for it nor wanted it. It’s a muscle and I’m like, ‘Nah, I’m good,’ but women are more adventurous than men ever know. They’ll try things to keep their man interested and show their freak side.”

—Love Muscle Jones

[dc]“I[/dc] say a hole is a hole, so this notion to only have anal sex with that special someone is bull. With that being said, I never had anal sex. I’m curious but at the same time, why neglect ‘the love below?’ I feel porn is the reason why the interest is out there, which is why I also think that’s why the notion of doing it with a wife is there. Guys want their wife to be a porn star for one night. Still, unless your girl is doing an enema the day of the backdoor entry, I would avoid it. Unless you like shitty bed sheets.

—Money Shot Smith

[dc]“I[/dc]‘m probably missing out, but I don’t want anal sex from my woman or anyone else. The asshole seems too tender for me. I really believe it’s intended for exit only. I put my finger in there once (it was in my face so I said, ‘why not?’) and had a bit of trouble pulling it out. Plus, a few of my old jump-offs were scragglers. The stench while doing it doggy style made me rethink putting my joint in there. But I agree, women should NOT hold the freakiness ’til marriage. That just leads to NOT getting married.”

—Stanky Leg Johnson

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  • Paulette_bajan_gal

    rotflmbao @ Stainless Steel.Anyone who has attempted any type of anal play knows they is rarely a whole ton of sh*t to worry about.I have gotten it done with fingers and it was very pleasurable.Never had penetration done because I tend to attract dudes with big d*cks and I actually don’t want to go to the hospital with the anal stuff.lol.

    The Bible and religious nut jobs has turned a lot of folks’ minds off anal but it’s another body part.Lots of folk enjoy anal sex so it can’t be that bad.I will definitely try it one day …but it will have to be with a significant other like most ladies have said.It’s a whole other ball game to have someone that up close and personal with my assh*le.

    • http://wwwinmycomfortzone.blogspot.com/ southernpoise

      “I tend to attract dudes with big d*cks and I actually don’t want to go to the hospital with the anal stuff.lol.”

      Who wants THOSE problems?  lol

  • http://ladyngo.blogspot.com Lady Ngo

    I can understand this philosophy of saving something “special” for your husband but if I can be so frank that’s a pretty sh*tty gift (pun intended). More specifically, who’s to say that your future husband even wants to ride the Hershey Highway?
    And the misconception there is that women who are “saving it” are doing so because they actually wanna do it but don’t wanna do it with random people. FALSE. I’d venture to say a great number of women still saving anything (anal, oral, s&m, etc) probably don’t want to do it at all but are willing to bite the bullet in order to keep their marriage happy. Trust, there are plenty of women out there saving xyz that would be ecstatic if their husbands don’t actually want it or don’t care one way or the other.

    Your wife should be able to fulfill every desire you have. You know the saying, ‘Lady in the streets, but a freak in the bed.’ Your wife has to be a freak. You can trust wifey, not a jump-off. Any chick still holding out on given head in 2011 is fronting. If a woman is that into you, she’ll do whatever it takes to keep you from finding pleasure elsewhere.”

    Im sorry, and at what point does the wife’s desire to not do a particular something come into play? I swear folks are selfish as all get out sometimes. I understand sacrifice in a marriage, but just because you want something doesn’t mean your wife should have to lose her self respect to do so- especially when its just sex. You aren’t going to die if your wife is adamant about you not sticking your d!^k in her ear! I don’t know too many men that would be willing to cave to their wives fantasies if it involved something that was a deal breaker for them so why do you expect the reverse? And for the record, I’m holdin out on giving head and trust im not fronting about anything lol. Its something i genuinely have no desire to do at all, it actually disgusts me lol.  A man should be able to keep himself from finding pleasure elsewhere. I mean, what the actual f^*k?!?

    Long story short, people just need to find partners that they are sexually compatible with and stop making blanket statements about what men/women should be doing. Just because you think xyz is normal doesn’t mean everyone should/will think it is.

    • http://wwwinmycomfortzone.blogspot.com/ southernpoise

      “I understand sacrifice in a marriage, but just because you want something doesn’t mean your wife should have to lose her self respect to do so- especially when its just sex. You aren’t going to die if your wife is adamant about you not sticking your d!^k in her ear!”
      ^^^^THIS…  Thank you. Seriously?? I mean marriage is not JUST about SEX. Yes it’s a part of it, since the beginning of time. But why is it men think that EVERY request SHOULD be seen as a LAW? and you have no CHOICE or say in the matter? in my umfoo foo voice, “You don’t own me… I don’t see no”…Ok… but still.. 

      Men want us to sacrafice, but not willing to sacrifice. I mean how IS IT your desire means more than mine? That’s what it boils down to. You want it. I dont, if that’s my choice. So who’s supposed to sacrifice? SPEAKING TO MEN >>(and don’t go to the Bible on me).  And if you do go THERE, then you might search for the word Sodomy. So don’t even go there. 

      If we’re supposed to be equals, we should equally respect each other’s wishes, whatever that is. Yes marriage is compromise, but at what point does compromise become demoralizing, and it’s ok?

  • Ray.

    Anal is such a hassle for me that I usually get soft before she’ll actually let me get going or there will be too much “hold on, hold on, wait, wait”. And at the end of the day it doesn’t really matter that much to me. My fiance says better not even ask for that, but I don’t really care about that. If, and more than likely, when I feel like asking for it I will. We gonna have a long life together and I’d like for us to explore as much as possible

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_4MG5K7UOCYM7GN4TH462BH4BFI Clint Brantley

    Nope… not my thing.. Don’t understand the what would make a man want to go in the out door???

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_4MG5K7UOCYM7GN4TH462BH4BFI Clint Brantley

    Nope… not my thing.. Don’t understand the what would make a man want to go in the out door???

  • Deka

    Seems like way too much preparation. It’s definitely not a need or strong desire. I’m totally satisfied with the Vagina.

  • Deka

    Seems like way too much preparation. It’s definitely not a need or strong desire. I’m totally satisfied with the Vagina.

  • Rastaman

    “All” is too encompassing a word to apply but in my experience I think there the majority of women I have encountered do believe most men want anal sex.  I do think there are a couple of factors in play though: (1)As one of your responders noted is the influence of porn – even the most standard porn movie nowadays contain anal sex and with porn being so much more accessible even if you were not interested in anal sex once you are exposed interest will be piqued.   More and more women watch porn; (2) Women are themselves more adventurous sexually and they are gauging male interest in anal sex play by introducing it as a post marital prize.  Remember women are very wary of appearing too slutty and so they will introduce touchy subjects as a hypothetical in order gauge a man’s views on the matter. 
    Yes, I have known more than a few women who have expressed their enjoyment of anal play, some have even attributed orgasms to anal sex.   I am hopeful people are clear that anal sex is not just limited to anal intercourse which as a visual is probably the more deterrent aspect of the whole thing.  As far as what people want to reserve for their married life, I think that is their own call, especially if they consider certain sexual acts more intimate than others.  To paraphrase a popular sex columnist, people should strive to have a GGG sex partner: ‘good in bed,’ ‘giving equal time and equal pleasure,’ and ‘game for anything—within reason.'”
    One thing to be wary of for men whose who women tell that they are saving anal sex for their husband is that these women may potentially be “Diamondbacking”, consenting to anal sex in the hopes that doing so will inspire a boyfriend to propose.
    Sex is very much a commodity in the relationship business and as in any business transaction, buyer beware!!

  • http://wwwinmycomfortzone.blogspot.com/ southernpoise

    “if I can be so frank that’s a pretty sh*tty gift (pun intended).”   LOL literally @ work. STOP IT.. lol

    Going to comment on some of the poles first, then respond to your question.

    “say a hole is a hole, so this notion to only have anal sex with that special someone is bull.” —Money Shot Smith
    A hole is not a hole. Com’on son. Really? One was specially constructed for the purpose of chex, and if you want to be more specific, actual purpose, birthing babies. The other developed a secondary usage, someone’s twisted idea, somewhere down the line.
    “I really believe it’s intended for exit only.” —Stanky Leg Johnson
    THIS…which further proves my statement above.

    “I was a little traumatized. I actually might try it when I’m married because at least then, she can’t just leave the crib and have me scrub the kaka stains out.”—Stainless Steel
    DEAD..

    “Women need to stop it with all of that ‘saving’ sh*t. How about you ‘save’ some money instead of running to the mall every time you get
    paid.” ‘Saving’ something for your husband is not the move anymore.”—Upfront Frank

    How bout ‘save’ your breathe.  Who changed these rules? When did this movement cease? Why should a woman lower her standards or compromise her morals because it’s a NEW day. Because all of a sudden, a MAN said its okay to lie her panties down by the wayside to please HIM, Only to have him toss her to the left when he’s done with her. GTFOH…
     
    “In the end I ain’t mad if wifey was open to it but I think something in my mind always wants her to be reluctant about it. It’s kind of like how you respect the girl who holds out for a little while.” —Double Standards Rule

    “In the end” *chuckles*. But seriously, I get the double standard.  You want to experience all the ‘evils’ joys of sex,  deep down thinking they are dirty deeds, so you don’t want to know that your wifey-to-be did the deed with some uva(who says this?) dudes. Which is why, some women feel that some things, if they do go there, would be reserved for their husband, should he ever want to experience them.

    Ans, Loved, loved, loved the Aliases. Killing me lol.  

    Ok, now back to the question
    “but once again I have to ask: Who’s to say your husband wants to have anal sex anyway?”

    No one ever said, or at least I didn’t say, that EVERY man expected it, including your husband. But I’ve had conversations with enough to know it’s something they think about or at least want to know if you’re into it, and some flat out said it was just another part of sex to them, so of course they are going to be expecting it IF they are into it. So, with that said, my response was saving it for my husband. So what if you did do it once in your life, and decided you wasn’t really feeling it. But because you feel, it might be something your husband might desire to do, you are going to please him in any and every way possible, so you might reserve the right to not ‘give a sh*t’(pun intended) lol, about it until you’re married, and your husband accidently, on purpose, slip and fall down the wrong hole. Then you’re ‘assed out’… ok that was corney.

  • http://www.facebook.com/mwclyburn Monique W. Clyburn

    Sex is the most natural activity that two people can participate in to show their deeper interest in one another.  Plainly, said there should be no constraints when doing so.  All things should be experienced.

  • Glendon Cameron

    I am cracking up, my first girlfriend in life at age 18, told me she was into it. This was the 80’s when so many chicks were fronting about not giving head. I think many women want to do it just as much as the men do. 1/3 of my ex girlfriends requested it. So I think it is more about presentation, than hesitation, hence the saving it for carats line you are reading. It has been my experience you treat a woman in the manner she feels loved , protected and secure she will do whatever ( married or not) ……also I think some of your boys are fronting because of the taboo aspect of it.

    • jaclynsd

      “feels loved , protected and secure she will do whatever ( married or not) “
      Very true! Sad thing is a lot of men don’t seem to know this or understand this concept, and then they wonder why women won’t do this or that…maybe, just maybe, she just doesn’t feel comfortable doing it w/YOU lol

    • jaclynsd

      “feels loved , protected and secure she will do whatever ( married or not) “
      Very true! Sad thing is a lot of men don’t seem to know this or understand this concept, and then they wonder why women won’t do this or that…maybe, just maybe, she just doesn’t feel comfortable doing it w/YOU lol

    • jaclynsd

      “feels loved , protected and secure she will do whatever ( married or not) “
      Very true! Sad thing is a lot of men don’t seem to know this or understand this concept, and then they wonder why women won’t do this or that…maybe, just maybe, she just doesn’t feel comfortable doing it w/YOU lol

    • jaclynsd

      “feels loved , protected and secure she will do whatever ( married or not) “
      Very true! Sad thing is a lot of men don’t seem to know this or understand this concept, and then they wonder why women won’t do this or that…maybe, just maybe, she just doesn’t feel comfortable doing it w/YOU lol

    • maneater

      oh the advantages of having a small to medium cock – right! no offence i think its good. i might even consider letting u do me and you can use a carrot for the front. only jokin…goodnight

  • Krystal light

    I don’t think all men want it just like all women don’t want it so I’m not surprised by these answers. Not everything appeals to everybody but I don’t see the big deal in waiting to have it with your husband. If you’re comfortable enough go for it. I’ve done it with my husband and I like it but its not something I could do everyday. It would no longer be novel if I did. I think there shouldn’t be limits between a husband and wife. That would be boring but if there are limits, I don’t think that’s a justification for cheating.

  • Krystal light

    I don’t think all men want it just like all women don’t want it so I’m not surprised by these answers. Not everything appeals to everybody but I don’t see the big deal in waiting to have it with your husband. If you’re comfortable enough go for it. I’ve done it with my husband and I like it but its not something I could do everyday. It would no longer be novel if I did. I think there shouldn’t be limits between a husband and wife. That would be boring but if there are limits, I don’t think that’s a justification for cheating.

  • ATLs.Marc.of.Excellence

    I’ve done it before, less than a handful of times actually, really wasn’t impressed by it.  It was with my girlfriend at the time and we had always had that “no holds barred” kinda sex.  As for the woman I marry?  If she’s into it, then fine, if she likes it then I’m all for it, but if she’s not, in no way is it near a deal breaker.  It’s not something that my wife should or should not be designated to do, it’s just something that either will or won’t happen based on how she feels about it. Fin!

  • Older & Wiser

    My response to the question of anal is this one, “Are you willing to let me put on a strap on and do you first?” I have never had “yes” as a reply so of course the topic becomes mute after that.

    My take on it is this, if you’re into anal and it’s a necessary practice in your sexual exploits then any asshole will do male or female and THAT makes you suspect for me. I’m out b/c I will never be able to compete with a man!

    • Bravetenebrous

       That’s stupid.  I’m a guy and have enjoyed anal with several partners, and I can tell you that the idea of anal with a man is very very very different than with my previous gf’s or my wife.  Its not something that everyone is into but to think that a guy would want to hook up with a guy because he likes anal with his gf or wife is just another form of idiotic thinking.

    • Randommayhem

      yes, sounds fun to me. :)  hit me up sometime sugar.

      • Randommayhem

        oh and it would be a “moot” point, not a mute point.

      • maneater

        okay im takin over, ten inch strapon, hope you like standing up

  • Older & Wiser

    My response to the question of anal is this one, “Are you willing to let me put on a strap on and do you first?” I have never had “yes” as a reply so of course the topic becomes mute after that.

    My take on it is this, if you’re into anal and it’s a necessary practice in your sexual exploits then any asshole will do male or female and THAT makes you suspect for me. I’m out b/c I will never be able to compete with a man!

  • Anonymous

    I would never do it unless the girl specifically cleaned her bumhole. Like if she knew what she was getting into. Just penetrating the average girl with your fingers leaves a big, diapery-smelling mess… Other than that I have no desire for it, letalone get turned on by it.

  • Anonymous

    I would never do it unless the girl specifically cleaned her bumhole. Like if she knew what she was getting into. Just penetrating the average girl with your fingers leaves a big, diapery-smelling mess… Other than that I have no desire for it, letalone get turned on by it.

  • Anonymous

    I would never do it unless the girl specifically cleaned her bumhole. Like if she knew what she was getting into. Just penetrating the average girl with your fingers leaves a big, diapery-smelling mess… Other than that I have no desire for it, letalone get turned on by it.

  • Anonymous

    I would never do it unless the girl specifically cleaned her bumhole. Like if she knew what she was getting into. Just penetrating the average girl with your fingers leaves a big, diapery-smelling mess… Other than that I have no desire for it, letalone get turned on by it.

  • Anonymous

    I would never do it unless the girl specifically cleaned her bumhole. Like if she knew what she was getting into. Just penetrating the average girl with your fingers leaves a big, diapery-smelling mess… Other than that I have no desire for it, letalone get turned on by it.

  • http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

    Nope, not interested.  Any future partner who’d wanna do that will be very disappointed.

    • Dr. Flox

      Could that be why you are a… ‘spinster?’

    • Dr. Flox

      Could that be why you are a… ‘spinster?’

    • Dr. Flox

      Could that be why you are a… ‘spinster?’

    • Dr. Flox

      Could that be why you are a… ‘spinster?’

      • http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

        If it is, oh the hell well.

  • http://spinsterscompass.wordpress.com Spinster

    Nope, not interested.  Any future partner who’d wanna do that will be very disappointed.

  • Nickee

    I  have to agree with what Older and Wiser said, If a man is so hard pressed to get in the A hole and makes a big deal outta of it. I would have question as well like would any A hole excite him male or female?? Its one thing if someone ask and just let it go but if they put the pressure and act as if its an issue, then i have to give them the side eye. I am a women so i could be wrong but what man would want Ass over Pu$$Y ????

    • Randommayhem

      can’t I have my cake and eat it too Nickee?  I’d like a blow job too, but I promise I’ll always love pussy.

    • whitefoot

      Nickee, are you only 12-years old and just learning about sex since you left the convent?  it is an AND, not an OR !  they are NOT interchangeable or substitutional… you have BOTH… duhhh.  no wonder you sleep alone.

  • Dr. Flox

    You are correct.  You are a woman and therefore wrong.

    • Blibblehef

      That was immature and conceited. You must be a jerk.

      Or should I say “you are a man and therefore wrong.”

      I sincerely hope your idiocy comes back to bite you in the butt someday.

  • Shequita B.

    I dont get the “waiting till marriage.” I do however get “Im into it, but not with everyone.” You have to be comfortable with the person, I dont see what that has to do with marriage. Thats as silly as a person saying, “Im not cooking for him till we’re married” or “Im not fixing her car till we’re married”….really???? What if you promised said man your azz hole and he makes vows to love, honor, obey and wax said azz and azz hole and you don’t like it??? Then what?? Or he waited till marriage to get a decent meal outta you and the maccaroni is soggy, peas all mush and the chicken taste like wood?? Who get’s the brakes?? LOL

    Know what you like and link up with someone your sexually compatible with! If its a deal breaker (rarely it is) than your wasting time, on to the next one!  

  • Shequita B.

    I dont get the “waiting till marriage.” I do however get “Im into it, but not with everyone.” You have to be comfortable with the person, I dont see what that has to do with marriage. Thats as silly as a person saying, “Im not cooking for him till we’re married” or “Im not fixing her car till we’re married”….really???? What if you promised said man your azz hole and he makes vows to love, honor, obey and wax said azz and azz hole and you don’t like it??? Then what?? Or he waited till marriage to get a decent meal outta you and the maccaroni is soggy, peas all mush and the chicken taste like wood?? Who get’s the brakes?? LOL

    Know what you like and link up with someone your sexually compatible with! If its a deal breaker (rarely it is) than your wasting time, on to the next one!  

  • Wannabagirlnow

    I’ve only had it in the ass and oh is it great what I can remember anyway you see I’m a guy and each time we said it’d be the last time.  Sadly the last time really  was the last time.  I remember sucking his dick till he came and then jerking my own dick till I came and had both loads of cum in my mouth at the same time. And I even gargled with semen before swishing it around and swallowing.  Oh it was great.

  • Ronan

    Sex before marriage is fornication
    and
    Anal sex breaks the marriage
    read Bible all you christians ! 

    • Nikato Muirhead

      Anal was practiced in Jesus’s time and before. In fact there are jewish sex books that refer to it as “turning the table. ” It can be a normal part of marriage. The problem is when it is not discussed before the marriage, or it is promised and then the promise is broken after marriage.

  • Shepard147

    Is this loser central or what?  Those interviewed and responding seem to be clueless who know little about themselves or real life.  Why do you feel compelled to speculate about what everyone else is doing and why?  If you want to nail your chick in the ass and she is not into it, telling her everyone else is doing it will probably not help.  Dump her and find a chick who is into whatever.  Guys out there better figure out who you are, what you like and what kind of chick you need in the sack and go find her.  If you think you’re going to change her attitude after marriage, you’re in for a long, expensive, miserable life.  My chick is SUBMISSIVE and into what ever I want when I want it.  Most of you cannot imagine a life like that as you beg your girl for oral on your birthday!! LOL   Good luck.

    • primalrage

      That’s why you’re here loser.

      • Guest

        you got it primalrage….i love assholes who think they are so much better. most chicks who love anal are prostitutes anyway. i am sure that is where shepard147 met his girl who will do ‘whatever he wants whenever he wamts’

  • Yummyslot

    It is chemical free birth control. If we want sex, this is the way we have it, more often than not. No waiting to see if she starts her period or all the stress that goes with it. When we are ready to have children, we will have them. Until then, this is for us, the only way to enjoy intercourse and not have to use something that could have long term affects for my wife.  

  • Andres

    Oh, hell no!” was the statement, “I’ll only do that with my husband.” is an excuse. After marriage, they use it as weapon. And treat you like a dog. Better use prostitutes.

  • Andres

    “a great number of women still saving anything (anal, oral, s&m,
    etc) probably don’t want to do it at all but are willing to bite the
    bullet in order to keep their marriage happy.”

    Some guys do the same with their wifes, and do things they don’t want to do at all, all the time.

  • Tasha

    I would like to see a guy make a “sacrifice” and stick a cock up their ass for me…see how it feels. No means no and men should respect that. If I was ever with a guy who kept suggesting anal sex when I clearly am not interested then he’s not worth keeping. And the “saving it for marriage” reason is completely valid…same as virginity, if someone wants to save themselves for marriage who’s to judge? it’s THEIR body so it’s THEIR CHOICE…LAY OFF IT and find someone else who’s consenting. There are many men out there who respect a woman’s choice NOT to have anal sex, because he respects you and cares about you and does not want to cause you any pain or other health implications and most importantly because he’s not a selfish jackass. These honorable men are the ones worth keeping and pleasing.

    • whitefoot

      i am sure YOU sleep alone.  keep at it, sweety, you might get a 2nd date someday but i doubt it.  keep your rosary beads handy in the bedroom – that’ll scare those bad boys away.  i’ll bet you own a cat.

      • Camichic1

        Yummy call me

      • Yep

        You are an asshole who has no respect for women.

    • maneater

      tash, yours is the first intelligent comment i have read, you sound like a decent female. I would be happy to have you as a friend. I hope you have an honourable man coz there are a lot of douch bags out there hey!

  • Randommayhem

    The majority of these post have been total BS, I almost feel like people were afraid of being honest.  The truth is that anal sex feels good, that is why men want to do it.  If it is done right, it can be great for the woman too.  As for the stupid argument of “how could you like ass instead of pussy?”  I’ll answer this with a simple comparison… I love pussy and I’d like a blow job too.  Just because I want my dick sucked, doesn’t mean I don’t love getting laid.  The same can be said about anal, just because I want to have anal, doesnt mean I don’t love pussy.  Sex is about intimacy and having fun. 

    • primalrage

      No it’s too tight, takes to much effort and is not worth it. The only men that want to do it are prob gay and obsessed with porn. The pussy is a F1 car and the asshole is a bus that stinks of shit.

  • Gursharn_matharoo

    if the woman is agree to anal sex then no sin .is being choice of some women day by day .although it is not a good thing . try to avoid such sex. cause of bad for helth

  • Gursharn_matharoo

    beware of bad impression of unnatural things .man`s soul being bad with bad thoughts.so plz avoid such bad thoughts

  • Bergspyder

    Like all guys, I guess, I enjoy watching anal porn but that’s for money — no problem with consenting adults — so was totally surprised when my partner, later wife, asked for it. I just assumed that the clitoris being so far away kind of ruled out pleasure. But what man understands what gives a woman pleasure? Yes, there are other considerations e.g. I’m sure she wouldn’t have asked had I a 10″ dick, and would I like her to do it to me? I conclude, again, that anything goes between consenting adults. Emphasis on consenting.  

  • Whitefoot

    are you guys on CRACK and still believe in the tooth fairy?  anal leaves a LOT to be desired since it does not “grab you” the way a better designed oriface does (mouth and pussy).  but (pun intended) try it once and get it off your list.  it AINT no big deal but WOMEN think it is.  anal or other, if it feels good it IS good.  the thrill in more between your ears than her cheeks.

  • Justin

    Anal intercourse is incredible, so is the act of swallowing. There’s nothing like some ass to mouth and a deepthroat swallow. No doubt, the sexual drive for anal play (or anything else that’s taboo) is often mistaken for a demonic and destructive force. We must always overcome any resistance because of the self inhialiating nature of the sexual act. It’s healthy, it’s good for the soul. You can’t knock it until you’ve forced yourself to try it. Other things can be healthy and stimulating as well, cross dressing, swallowing your own cum, playing with toys, etc. And no, just because you like anal, it doesn’t make you gay. You’re only gay if you like dudes. Go ahead and hate, It’s all good, if you don’t have haters you don’t have shit.

  • Ben

    “What would really suck is if she isn’t really into it and we do it and
    it’s completely horrible. That’s such a turn off, but they got to learn
    some time!”

    EXCUSE ME?? If the woman doesn’t want to do it, then she DOESN’T HAVE TO DO IT. She doesn’t have to ‘learn’, yes you two are having intercourse together but it’s HER body, not yours. If she’s giving you vaginal sex and oral and whatever else that you want/she is willing to give, that should be enough.

    Real men don’t pressure women into anything despite their own fantasies. You take what you get and get over it.

  • Anonymous

    As a woman of 41, no prude at all, but I would always say no to anal. Actually more like Hell No! I actually believe it is the men wanting to try gay sex but they are too chicken or homophobic to f**k a man!!! (That’s my personal belief and you can’t disagree with what I believe in my own head or try to convince me otherwise so you don’t have to agree with me, just post what your opinion on this subject is).

    • Jon

      I actually believe the sky is brown. Can’t persuade me otherwise.

      • maneater

        the sky is brown is u have ur head up ur own ass or someone elses

        • Edward Matson

          wow , maneater what a snappy, smart comment…….i better write that down you dumb bitch.

    • Anonymous

      I don’t agree with that. I respect your opinion but what does anal sex have to do with homosexuality? Yeah there are some gay men that do it. There are just as many heteros and lesbians though that do it… There are studies on this.

      Actually, if there is one thing that is NOT homosexual then its anal sex, imho. Every human has an a-hole regardless of their gender or sexual orientation.
      In other words: Men are not gay when they like a-holes, they’re gay when they like penis.

  • Tehawk11

    15 men respond honestly, really? My BS meter was pegging out reading these guys so called “honest” responses. Most, if not all, of my male friends would not hesitate for even a second if a willing female offered up her ass for anal sex. My wife tried it once for me and didn’t like it, even though I enjoyed it thoroughly, but I respect her desires and have not brought up the subject since.

    And JadeSimpson, I’m not the least bit gay, not even the tiniest bit curious, so I don’t know where you got that idea from. Look, it’s like this, guys like anal sex because the rectum is orders of magnitude tighter than a vagina, so if a guy has a normal working penis, it’s gonna feel good as hell if it’s done right.

    Guys that I’ve read on the internet that say they didn’t enjoy anal sex either aren’t doing it right, or the posters of such things aren’t really “guys”.

    Just my 2 cents.

    • maneater

      really pisses me off when people speak on behalf of the whole population. what makes u think u are a real guy just coz u like the hershey highway. maybr u r a filthy devo and real guys r into pussy fullstop. a real guy is in the eye of the beholder – or the pussy of the beholder. not the ass – u r a freak.
      just my 5 cents.m

    • maneater

      and how good does it feel when theres shit all over ur cock

  • john

    Women are very freaky, I even think they are more freaky than a guy. This is why women perfer thugs because with us we are going to try everything with you and they like that. I’m married now and i found out that my wife had anal sex with her Ex, so this is why i have anal sex with her to go the sam place where her ex boyfriend went. I believe if a women is going to try to have anal sex wait until marriage to do so.

    • maneater

      why the hell does ur wife have to let u ride the highway just coz she experimented wife a dude probably as a one off and he probly had a small cock. i would be interested to know if u r still together. u shouldnt be jealous of some fucker from the past – he is dead and gone. make magic in the present by giving her pleasure not punishment and guilt – i bet u werent a virgin either dude

    • maneater

      fuck you john. how dare you punish ur wife for what she did in the past. it was probly a one off with a small cock. ill bet u were no virgin either. i hate men who bring past relationships into the picture it is so wrong stupid meandisrespectful. i bet u broke up. i bet she hated anal sex wif u and u made her do it out of guily just to shut u the fuv
      ck up u whinging ho.

  • Adam

    I have tried this once and found it revolting, I am not homophobic by a long shot. Personally I found it horrible

  • Foxman2

    Anom.
    I am a guy who has had anal sex both with men and women, I have also had it done to me and  it was wonderful.  I thought my wife how to use a strapon, and where to rub to hit the G spot If any man has had his G spot hit correctly, he will have the greatest orgasim ever.  Try it, and I will tell you, you will love it when you women puts on the strap on,

  • Camphill21

    I really don’t get the appeal of anal sex at all. As a guy I am not into it. I do respect people right to experiment. At the same time, most of the guys on here sound ridiculous. It does not make you freaky or cool to experiment with sex. Sex is not even unique. Any mammal can do it. And this belief that your wife or gf needs to give in to all your desires is completely selfish and immature. When you are in a committed healthy relationship both people make decisions together. And no one in the relationship should ever be made to do something that they really don’t want to do. Some people are claiming that anal sex is natural. That is simply not true at all. And that is not a knock on gay men. You can be gay and not partake in anal sex. Regardless of sexual orientation, I don’t see it as natural. If it were a natural act, a woman or a man would not have to get an enema to clean themselves out and lube to make it less painful and easier to gain access. At the end of the day, people are allowed to experiment in anyway they see fit with a consenting adult. Although, anal is not my thing I understand why people participate and would like something like that. At the same time, I don’t think it is right to force your sexual needs on others. Find and marry someone who is sexually compatible with you in every way.

  • Wefd jones

    I am a 21 year old, male, new yorker, college student…I can honestly tell you 90% of the guys i know what to have anal sex with women…including me…its tighter, more intimate, taboo, fun, trust me (and im sure some of you know) ya get used to it…some women cum faster, no joke.

  • Bond Summers

    Pussy yes, anus no.  Just not interested in sticking it in the anus. I’m interested in pleasing the entirety of the woman’s body and mind, except the anus is pleased by leaving it be.

  • Anonymous

    Well :) had to comment on this! A few years ago i was crazy about getting some anal. Everyone of us humans has something (or several things) that gets him off sexually. Its different for everyone and i dont want to say one is better than the other.

    So i found out quite early that anal is one of those things for me. Receiving or giving doesnt matter. I can say that much from my experience: It CAN feel absolutely amazing. No matter if you are female (i trust the woman that told me) or male. But it can also hurt or get you nothing at all. Its basically the same with every sexual activity. If you’re in the mood for it – it makes you crazy – if you’re not, everything is kinda meh…

    So anyway i just wanted to share both sides as i experienced them and tell you what i found out is the best way to go about it with your partner.

    1. You’re the receiver: So you wanna try it. Make sure you really want it. You should be at the point where thinking about it already gets you horny. Then you need to find a way to relax. I found it best to receive anal sex on rainy sunday afternoons when i’m sleepy, after a bath and get a massage first. BREATHE alot. Also: You dont need something the size of a penis to find out if you like it or how it feels… And i really suggest stick something up your own butt before letting someone else on it. You will know what to expect, what you like, and in which situations you want it.

    2. You’re the giver: (A note: Homophobia really is a sad thing… Enjoying anal as a man has NOTHING to do with being gay! It just means that you except yourself for who you are and are ok with your sexuality. 2nd note: How can you think about sticking your enormous penis/dildo inside that little hole when you cant even take you own finger?)
    So if you’re the giver (hopefully there are also some anal-giving women out there :) ) – sorry to break it to you – the game really isnt about you anymore. Receiving can feel totally overwhelming at first. Don’t push in, let him/her push on to you. The moment you’re inside him/her its all about your partner. Yes you’re excited like shit now but you dont move. At first control belongs 100% to them. Dont move fast, move consistent. If you plan on having some more anal in the future make them orgasm like they never did before.

    3. How to break it to your partner: I’m sure there are many other ways that work just as well. But what i found to work really good: If you built enough trust in your relationship (why would you want to have sex or even more intimate stuff like anal with strangers anyway? – my opinion) just tell them that you fantasize about it and that you really love it. Dont tell or ask them to do it. Just tell them that you’re into it. Then give it time and worship you partners ass without touching the spot you wanna touch. Its gonna be hard but let that idea grow inside of your partner. If he/she loves you it will be on her/his mind anyway. The point is: If they want it for themselfs instead of doing it only for you – they are more likely to enjoy it – and you are more likely to make anal part of your sexlife.

  • http://twitter.com/Quantumphysica Quantumphysica

    I love anal, but my current partner is a bit hesitant… What I would like most are some tips on how to get a guy into the backdoor business, actually.
    Perhaps women think men all want anal because deep down they want it themselves but it’s easier to say “men are so freaky, they all want anal” than to admit that it’s actually they who want it…

  • http://www.facebook.com/vito.santucci.3 Vito Santucci

    I was very young and very foolish once. The thought of inserting my rigid manhood into a woman’s tight anus and plumbing the depths of her rectal cavern was overwhelmingly enticing. I tried it with a condom on & there was very limited sensation.
    My previously rock hard sazeech went limp and when, I pulled out of her
    wondrous vestibule, I was barely able to extricate my condom. I thought to
    myself, “fuck it, don’t be a just a hygienic impotent pussy-boy, fuck that
    ass bareback!” I worked up my hard-on back to rigidity and entered the
    woman’s KY-smeared anal Adventureland. Itwas heavenly! I felt her anal sphincter offer resistance and then yield to my firm pressure. The tightness of her butthole served to stimulate my cock to a state of rigidity I had previously never experienced. When I came, it was with suchgusto that it felt as if my brains had become liquid and shot out of my body through my pee-hole. I actually felt as if I had accomplished something worth accomplishing. Then, I pulled my proud phallus out of the young lady’s commodious rectum and, lo and behold, it had a big glob of shit attached to my glans. I was a romantic at heart and, for some crazy reason, had entertained the notion that a good-looking woman’s shit doesn’t stink like a man’s. Well, I lost THAT
    misapprehension right there and then. I ran to the young lady’s bathroom and
    wiped my stinking cock off with toilet paper and stood over the bowl praying
    that I would be able to piss out any shit that had penetrated into my urethra.
    I felt blessed, when almost instantly, I took a good hearty piss. I was shocked
    when initially my piss came out brown. “Oh, sweet Jesus”, I thought,
    “there’s shit in my cock. Will I be able to piss it all out?” My brown piss
    turned light brown and then assumed it’s regular yellow coloration. The young
    lady was sniffing amyl-nitrate when I exited her bathroom and ran in to take a
    shower without even a word of apology for having shit up her ass and ruining my
    lovely experience. For days I drank prodigious amounts of water and pissed
    prodigious amounts of nice bright yellow piss. I think the pleasure of pissing
    normally exceeded the pleasure I had felt stretching that young lady’s willing
    sphincter. I felt like I had avoided some dire misfortune and grew a little
    smug, almost as if I just might want to perform another rectal reconnaissance.
    Suddenly, after a number of days, I awakened and went to my bathroom to take my
    customary wake-up piss. My urethra burned like the fires of hell as I emptied
    my burgeoning bladder. My genital region burned all day at work as I strove to
    perform my job responsibilities. And it burned the next day and the next. I
    prayed morning and night promising God with all sincerity that, if I got over this curse, I would never, never, NEVER seek to penetrate another woman’s anus. I went to the first urolgist with whom I could get an appointment. He listened to my tale of woe
    and then stuck his finger up my ass and palpated my prostate until he forced me
    to ejaculate. Quick as a bunny, he got a smear of my afflicted cum on a glass
    specimen slide and observed it with a microscope. His diagnosis was that I was
    suffering from a urinary tract infection. He advised that these infections are
    extremely difficult to cure. He prescribed peridium which soothed the urinary
    tract but did not cure the infection. He prescribed the first of a series of
    antibiotics that didn’t accomplish anything and told me to take “hot sits-baths”.
    Every day, after returning to my apartment from a day of suffering at work, I
    would get my ass into a bathtub of steaming water. I had pleny of time, while
    sitting in the tub, to reflect on whether my anal excursion was worth the price
    I was paying. Eventually, over a period of several months, the burning pain
    subsided in intensity and then finally disappeared. I have kept my promise to
    God and, in all the years since this experience, I haven’t succumbed to anal
    lust again. There are times when I almost fell off of the anal sex wagon but
    the memory of that experience has served to keep me from succumbing. I hope
    this narrative will help others avoid the pain I endured.

  • Shesaid

    Duhhh. Men want anal sex because they get more pleasure from the tightness, bragging rights to their buddies and feeling like he has her completly while it is mostly pain for the woman. Guys are selfish and are especially selfish in bed. No mystery, here.

  • myself

    Once or twice I fucked my ex in the ass. It’s not fun because you have to use so much lube you don’t feel anything, and she had bowel problems. Plus, for me, it matters where I cum, in the vag, face, or mouth turns me on, up the ass really doesn’t.

  • dammit

    with a condom, yes

  • Brandon Hinkle

    I don’t now about to much of anal I’m more to the front of my wife I don’t like Havering my. Wife. To take it anal. I can do more to the front to pleasure her

  • secks

    The old saving yourself for marriage. First it was having anal/oral and saving pussy for hubby; now it’s having vaginal/oral saving asshole for hubby. Next you’ll do all that before marriage and save swallow for hubby, next you do all that and save ass to mouth for hubby, as you’ll go along with the trend. In the end there won’t be anything left for the hubby, so let the pet dog drill your ass and let your hubby watch! Good luck.

  • Number One guest

    Ladies don’t be I fooled! I have dated two guys who would constantly beg for anal sex, and when I refused then they would drop the subject until a later time. Watch out for these type of men because they are on the down low. One of the guys would always talk about gay men trying to pick him up. And the other guy made a similar reference. Follow the laws of GOD and your sex life plus marriage will be great and last a life time.

  • Anthony Woodside

    @Dead End Street ….Yeah these guys watch too much porno!…….And it ‘is’ ‘drunk’ for real guys, as in him feeling fully aroused- deep in love and love her enough to do whatever she says once because she asked, but, that’s not real love for guys to get whipped and refer to anal like that in wanting it bad….These guys think they are ‘Drunk’ and think they should always expect it….But, Mr Street: Those men among you are just whipped to the max …That’s no love they ‘show’ or ‘want’ to go take it as a calling to do anal……I just wish we could think like this about those type: Q: What if they just did their oral, got theirs, did their intercourse, maxed..and said yup its good because I did it the way I wanted with someone I love?…..If these guys wanted anal as a true and given fact then the other woman would just not say it don’t feel right…But you think that that’s what women want so what do you want?…Easy work! (If She accepts it-You feel like a porn-star) And You want her to scream and all that, I got ya, and You know already-screams help recondition doubt in mind about her leaving you, But in regards to this screaming-why not check this out?-Suppose You can have yourself a dirty mind and do dirty things if your heart could take it, but, You guys if you are just easy going, don’t want to be reminded poop stains are very like in anus? She’s hot yes? But with a condom and by her request you might then have to give it a try….If you love her, yup…. Lick it even if it gets her off…..But I am not sure that you should demand she accepts it the gay way….And There is law even that if a woman wants to stop sex at any point during is rape..So if you demand and she didn’t request first so you affirm when to stop, and you continue, that is rape…..Do not get law involved with your love and sexuality….You love your woman but if you like anal, you are whipped to the max…You want to put it somewhere soo bad and you don’t want to communicate much…but you may feel it’s easier if you ask for the wrong thing to get attention….(I am not a Doctor but I think there’s a 70% chance that that is fact.)..So like Mr Street says: It aint so much that ass is better than the “pucci”……If you do it the wrong way and don’t know the woman taking this anal pain is just making a show of effection, or even if you ‘do know’, both are the same result, And you should call that playing hard to get, not your waiting for your next anal…….It aint just like you get let inside the “pucci” but maybe if you show effection to it way before you get to fondle it then you should be able speak to it with something else…… Sharp mouth guys like ass and that’s why they get that….suckered in…….And so, You get held back from graduating to the next level with pucci, and the kids you both make are also hers so it’s no big deal if you’re still sharp mouthed, the children are all told your strengths and weaknesses just for you starting grudges and maybe not even hitting the pucci on time, even when pucci is available from her….. ….”Well guys”…I am no homo but I know you get this treatment as a fact even though I learn this from other news sources rather than myself……..And I trust my sources for many reasons, I just do not want to be in that same position……..If a woman cannot make you cry, she will give you the anal….That’s all it’s about…You get lost without her ever at some point, you’d know what I mean……thanks for reading!

  • A woman

    This whole thing is bs, don’t believe everything people say. They don’t intend to save it for anyone. “Saving it for marriage” is simply a good excuse to use, seeing as you don’t intend to marry them. If you’re not trustworthy enough, why should they go through pain for your pleasure?