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Archive for September, 2011

Can You Have a Private Life on Social Media?

thought getting engaged would be “special,” however, over the course of the past two weeks it’s felt anything but. Before someone gets the wrong idea, let me explain. I proposed in my motherland of St. Lucia the day before I was supposed to fly back to the States. However, with news of Hurricane Irene barreling [...]

What if Twitter Was Around During 9/11?

t’s hard to believe that it’s been 10 years since the terror attacks on what was the World Trade Center. As a native New Yorker that made his way to work that fateful day after thinking the plane that hit the Towers was a merely a misguided two-seater, 9/11 is something I experienced firsthand. Thankfully, [...]

Is Being In Love Different than Just Loving Someone?

ove is a word people toss around all the time. Someone could love Michael Jackson’s music, love a certain restaurant or love an article of clothing. However, each of the aforementioned uses of the word love are different than being in love. While I’ve loved many women in my life and had love for certain [...]

Is There An Ex That You’d Take Back?

WORDS BY MISTYBLUE Charles was the love of my life. It had been 10 years since we had last seen each other, with I in Los Angeles and he in Virginia. He had married, divorced and was single again. When I heard the news of his marriage, devastation consumed me. I didn’t function properly for weeks. [...]

Do Sexually Abused Women Have Less Respect For Themselves?

I actually have two questions and hopefully you can help. First, I’m a 27-year-old female, independent, no kids, pretty good job… So why can’t I find a man? I’m sexy, down to earth, I think I’m funny, some times I’m freaky… I’m just wondering what am I lacking that men will have sex with me—even [...]

Does Race Only Matter When You’re Black?

WORDS BY DA THRONE irst, let me say this is not a blog about sports. It was reported recently that Michael Vick signed a $100 million deal. I’m a huge fan of sports. I visit sports forums all the time, and one hot button topic continues to be Mr. Vick and his “path.” A gentleman [...]

10 Rules For Women To Follow During Football Season

WORDS BY JR THE WRITER s summer comes to an end and fall approaches, men will finally be able to express their feelings to the one thing in life that matters, FOOTBALL! That’s right, ladies, it’s that time of year where men show no love to y’all on Sundays since 1920. The 2011 NFL season [...]