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Is the Pregnant Body Sexy? (Nia Long Goes Nude, Too)

In case you missed it Ebony recently released their November cover with a pregnant and naked (with socks on?) Nia Long. I’ve been a fan of the lovely actress since Love Jones and was excited when I got the chance to interview her last year for her role as a Muslim mother in the indie film, MOOZ-Lum. #GreatFlick When I saw the cover on my screen, though, the first thought I had was: beautiful.

There’s nothing on this planet like the female form and a pregnant woman is no different. While most people automatically associate nudity with sex, I see Nia’s cover as art. The photo isn’t gratuitous or raunchy, and celebrates the femininity and sensuality—which is different from sexuality—of a mother-to-be. Oh, and did I mention that Nia is just three weeks shy of her 41st birthday? #Winning

As I saved the image to my desktop and got ready to post it on my FaceBook Fan Page (do you “like” me?) a thought crossed my mind: Is this a beautiful woman taking a beautiful portrait of her pregnancy or just another celebrity baring all to sell magazine covers?

I’ve worked in publishing long enough to know that sex sells—even when it’s just the allusion of sex. While this is far from being a cover of King proportions (read: sexualized visuals) it’s still another naked (Black) woman on the newsstands. I wish I could say I was shocked by the image but the fact of the matter is I’ve seen it before.

To the best of my knowledge Demi Moore set it off way back in 1991 with her Vanity Fair spread, and several other pregnant celebrities have followed in her swollen footsteps over the years. Christina Aguilera, Britney Spears, Mariah Carrey, Paula Patton, et. al. Even non-pregnant celebs like Ciara, Janet Jackson, Keyshia Cole and even former “good girl” Kelly Rowland have bared some skin for a spot on that front page. Speaking of which, I wonder how long before Beyoncé throws her baby bump into the naked arena.

While I can’t speak for the artists that take their clothes off to sell sex appeal, for the most part I’d say the pregnant nudist come off more “artistic.” Maybe it’s because they’re cradling their unborn children in a such a natural and nurturing way that sex is the furthest thing from my mind, but I go back to the same word that came to mind when I saw the Nia cover: beautiful.

The question, though, is what do you see?

What was your first thought when you saw Nia’s cover? Is it classy or crass for a mother-to-be to bear all on a cover? Would you approve of your own mother taking a nude photo while pregnant? Do you think that pregnant woman can be just as sexy as a non-pregnant woman? Would you ever consider posing for a nude photo? Do you view the female body as a work of art? Is 41 too old to be showing off your body or do you believe if you got it why not flaunt it? Is the naked celebrity cover played out?

Speak your piece…

Bonus: The woman in the second photo is French model Tara Lynn. This photo has been floating around on FaceBook this week to show the beauty of a real woman. What are your thoughts on her confidence and beauty untouched and NOT PhotoShopped?

 


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  • Labelladiva31

    I think it absolutely tasteful and beautiful... She isn't posing in any obscene ways. Damn 41??!!! Go head nia!!! Who's gutful is she carrying anyway? The next chick's pic is nice as well but Miss Nia is killing it.

  • http://twitter.com/novelty718 JC

    I find nothing wrong with neither picture. Honestly I rather see more of the second photo...A woman in her everyday norm proudly and comfortably showing off her body.
    Nia looks fantastic but it is a shot that has been overdone... We need a new pregnancy pose for celebrities.
    Sad thing is...every couple of months photos and a media blitz pop up embracing "curves". As if this is the new thing...but nothing changes. Designers hardly have women of Tara Lynn's size walk down the runaway during Fashion Week unless it is for a plus size show. Magazine ads still show slimmer models unless it is a "for your body type wear this" article. Yes we should be proud of our curves...and after fighting an eating disorder I am slowly realizing what I have in my curves...I wish society would follow suit and stick with it...ok, done with my rant, lol

    41??? Black don't crack because she doesn't look a day over 30 IMHO

  • Chocolatier71

    The cover with Nia is beautiful, indeed. I do wish that such themes would not be treated like a fad.  Yes, the form of any healthy, naked (with socks on) body is a lovely sight to experience. 
    I despise how something only becomes acceptable or noteworthy when Hollywood highlights it. 
    I must say that I am more interested in the second photo of the model in the rattan chair.  I appreciate ALL of my curves and am up for such a photo shoot as a gift to myself for my upcoming 40th birthday. 

    It's cliche, but we all know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

  • Anonymous

    I'm guessing this picture below is NOT what we consider the pregnant mom shot, right?

    • Jaclynsd

      Oh my!! I just had breakfast...warn someone before posting things like this lol And to answer your questiong that would be a NO.

    • http://www.shesgottawriteit.com a.chigozie

      you are wrong for this lol

      • Anonymous

        Hey, i shouldn't be the only one that suffers. LOL

  • Jaclynsd

    I wouldn’t say sexy (that didn’t come to mind) but some women really pull of that beautiful pregnant glow. Nia looks beautiful and if she feels sexy then hey like they say MORE POWER TO HER.
     
    As for the women in the second photo she’s beautiful too and I love her confidence. No matter what shape confidence is always sexy/beautiful.

  • http://twitter.com/For_The_Masses For_The_Masses

    Beautiful, elegant, and classy.I do not see a problem with this, and she only enhance her level of sexiness if you ask me. She was already viewed as beautiful and to look that great at 40 is a plus! 

  • http://www.shesgottawriteit.com a.chigozie

    the first preggers belly I saw plastered on a mag cover was christina aguilera's and I bought it and I still have it as inspiration. so i can't wait to cop nia's copy. as a woman, there is something so beautiful about carrying another life in your body. healthy pregnant women really glow and the full nude really projects that in a positive light. i love it!  i think it is the reason we were all so happy that bey was pregnant. she's beautiful already, but pregnancy really brings out a happiness (in most women)

    its kind of inexplicable.

    but i will say that I remember a divorce court episode where the wife complained that her husband (now ex) only liked her pregnant, so he made sure she stayed preggers, but once she stopped and slowed down, he stopped finding her attractive. i've also heard that the sex is better which translates into sexiness, which is projected through the nude portrayal. its weird people are uncomfortable with this, esp since that is how the baby was conceived, with all that sexiness.

    i look forward to taking nude pics when I'm pregnant too.