Archive for November, 2011
Is Liquor Ever a Valid Excuse for Sleeping with Someone?
I slept with a guy I work with last weekend at a company party. We hadn’t even spoken much before then. It’s just many drinks were had then… you know. I’m not sure what to do when I see him next? I’m not necessarily trying to take it “somewhere” but feeling kind of awkward. What [...]
Is a Woman’s Life Incomplete Without Having a Baby?
TICK, TICK, TICK. That’s the incessant sound of a woman’s biological clock. It’s there from birth just ticking in the distance but begins getting louder as a woman inches towards her late 20s. It’s around that time that most women seriously start thinking about making babies. They’re less concerned about career and homie-lover-friends and get [...]
Should Your Date Ever Ask How Many Partners You’ve Had?
I met this girl about three months ago and so far things have been going good until she told me that she had sex with seven guys since she became sexually active—she’s now 23. Four of these guys were guys she dated but three of them she says, “just happened.” I don’t have a problem [...]
Does Masturbation Make You Gay? – Naked Radio Show, Episode 0
Seattle pastor Mark Driscoll has caused a bit of controversy with his new book, Porn-Again Christian: A Frank Discussion on Pornography and Masturbation. It’s not just the title but [...]
Would You Help a Stranger Getting Attacked in Front of You?
I got some bad news last week. Apparently, an old colleague and writer mentor was shot. Thankfully, he’s okay but although I hadn’t seen or spoken to him in years the news kind of hit me. I found out when I logged on to Facebook and saw [...]
Should I Forgive My Father for Abandoning Me?
ve been getting calls from a blocked number for the past few weeks. I haven’t answered, not because I don’t know who it is but because I was scared of having the conversation. It’s my father. He typically calls from a blocked number. I usually answer and half-listen to whatever it is he’s saying because [...]
Would You Let Your Family Choose Who You Should Date?
WORDS BY JR THE WRITER Bringing home that special someone you’ve been seeing for a while is always a nerve-racking moment. Whether you’re close to your family or not, they know you the best (or at least the longest) and their opinion is usually an important one. But would you stop seeing someone simply because [...]
Are Independent Women Destined to be Alone Like Tyrese Says?
Looks like Tyrese is causing trouble again. The singer/actor/author/Twitter-relationship-advice-giver got women of color up in arms a while back for some asinine response about why he didn’t cast any dark-skinned models in his latest video: “So I’m getting tweets… Why aren’t any “Black women” in your video…