Are Big Butts on Men a Turn Off? Hips Don’t Lie

If you’ve read this blog for a while you’ll know that I have no shame in admitting that I’m an ass man. Not sure why I’m drawn to this particular part of the female anatomy—and truthfully it doesn’t matter—I like big butts and I can not lie. Why would I anyway?

While it’s expected for men to be into derrieres, I always found myself stumped when a woman revealed a similar fetish. Not to be crass, but I can clearly see where a woman’s cushion can come in handy when it’s pushing time. But the other way around? Not so much. But, hey, I’m probably biased.

Still, I have been in conversations on the other side of the spectrum where a woman said a man’s but was too big. It was to the point where it was feminine. When it comes to what’s visually attractive to both sexes, it’s universally accepted that men are attracted to shapely figures and curves, while women are more drawn to more streamlines silhouettes like broad shoulders and slim waists.

I decided to test this theory by polling several of my female friends with a simple question: Do women like men with big butts or is a man with a booty a turn off? Why, because it’s a bit too feminine?

Here’s what the ladies had to say:

MS. BACKSIDE IN MOTION

I HATE men with big butts, but I'm disgusted by men with flat butts. If I had to pick one, I’d choose the big butt. My ideal is something that falls just under a big one. A nice toned football player-looking type of butt. I love it! Also need my men to have some type of thighs. Once again toned. No Nicki Minaj lookalikes LOL.

MS. FLAG ON THE PLAY

No way Jose! Don't you remember the joke on Girlfriend about “Girly Hip Marcus?” I am  a no butt zone kind of girl. I don't want a big butt on my man, don't want to see it, and no, no, no… If God gave it to him, he can't help it but I definitely prefer a flat bro.

MS. FRUIT LOOPS

I adore men with healthy booties, it's part of the reason I love my fiancé. He's got a fatty and I love it. But I've always liked a nice, round ass that sits up on a guy, have since I was interested in boys. In high school I ranked them by fruits, pineapples, watermelons, coconuts and so on. Watermelons are obviously too big but if you can find a guy with some nice coconuts, you're living the good life. Nope, don't think it's too feminine, everyone has a butt! Now if we were talking about man boobs, then yes, too feminine, but butts are universal.

MS. TO THE POINT

At first I thought that it doesn't matter. Like I'm not going around checking out men's butts to decide if I find them attractive or not. But then I started to think about it. And the truth is, that I am not attracted to men with really large shapely butts. Like a bubble butt. It just isn't my preferred aesthetic. It's not that I think it makes them look feminine. I just don't like it.

MS. HANDS ON DECK

My guy has a big booty and I love it. It sits up but not like a girl’s though. He hates that it's big. doesn't like it—period. I just like it because I can grab it.

MS. EXPERIENCED

OMG, I dated a guy that was SO fine, SO put together—driven, great career, totally had that “I'm from DC and proud I went to Howard” confidence. Everything looked great—then he turned around and BAM! His ass was huge! Could I get past it? Yes. Although I had feelings about his butt being bigger than mine. The kicker was I don’t know if the opposite side was small, or of his huge ass overshadowed his you know what. My friends and I nicknamed him BBLD. Big butt, little... To answer the question though, no. I'd prefer a proportionate behind.

MS. NO HANDS

Not big butts, but healthy ones. Women want something to hold onto in bed. If your ass is bigger than mine, you're definitely not an option. It's not so much feminine as it is it just doesn't fit the idea of a man's body. Lean and mean.

MS. TURNT UP

A total turn on! I LOVE a man with a big booty but no bigger than mine though—c’mon now! But seriously, I think it’s a total turn on because it’s something to hold on to. When we hug, I grab it. When we make love, I slap it, squeeze it. Oh, yeah I try to get all up in it too, but he kinda doesn't like the fact that I'm so into his booty like that though. He won’t let me get between the butt cheeks at all, but I’m still working on it! LOL But, nah, I don't think it’s too feminine, I feel like God made his body like that and he's a man so it’s masculine period. Maybe I'm a little masculine for liking his booty #ShoulderShrugs But, hey, it’s not like I'm not on the prowl for a man with a booty, it’s not that serious, but if he got a donk that’s what’s up!

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