Oh, boy! I guess it’d be wishful thinking to expect more from Cam’ron, but then again this is Cam’ron I’m talking about—the misogynistic MC leader of Harlem’s own Dipset. Not that that’s necessarily a bad thing if you can separate rap from reality, but here’s what happened…
Last week before a show in Las Vegas, Cam’ron apparently sent out an Instagram pic of his girlfriend in a compromising position (see above). According to The.Life.Files, the picture depicted the pair having sex. More specifically, it was what appears to be Cam’s lady giving some serious O-face in the bathtub. Was she really reaching her climax or merely getting a good stretch? Who knows. Either way it was an intimate moment that probably should have stayed private.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for treasuring the special moments but I still don’t get why so many celebrities choose to over share like this. In this case, I don’t get why a man would expose his woman in such a manner. It’s not like this was some random fling or groupie love, for all intents and purposes this is someone Cam’ron genuinely cares about. Or, at least cares enough to give her the girlfriend title.
Maybe I’m cut from a different cloth but there’s a certain respect factor that comes with having a title in a relationship. Long before I jumped the broom and was the consummate bachelor, I’d trade sex stories with my boys about the girls I didn’t necessarily see as wifey material. But it was a given that there would be little to no intimate details about the ones that were deemed keepers.
Every man wants to have a woman on his arm that other men would covet, but I’d be damned if I’m going to give you play-by-play highlight reels of what me and my woman do behind closed doors. Some things are just sacred when you’re in a committed relationship. And my lady’s sex faces are one of them.
The idea of sharing a picture of my woman in the alleged throes of passion is perplexing to me for more than one reason. Not only is it baffling as to why I would choose to share that on social media, but what woman would allow me to do so without serious repercussions? Furthermore, if I truly am getting it in like that, I doubt very much that I’d be focused on taking pictures. I’d rather live in the moment and focus on the task at hand.
As for Cam’ron’s picture itself, I have a couple of questions. 1) What is that in the middle; a pole in the bathtub or is she a serious squirter? 2) If this is indeed a picture of the couple having sex, where exactly is Cam’ron and how is he able to hit the spot while also hitting flash on the camera—all while not getting the camera wet? 3) But the real question is would you let your partner share a picture like this on social media?
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