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What Are the Realities of Living with HIV/AIDS? #RealTalk

he statistics are scary, especially within communities of color. HIV/AIDS is a virus that has ravaged our community and claimed millions of lives in the process, still many people are unaware and uninformed about the realities of HIV/AIDS. To help correct that and impart knowledge on the people, the Naked Radio Show crew invited Verneda [...]

10 Things Every Women Should Have At Home to Get Laid

WORDS BY MIMA I wrote this in response to NWSO’s post last week about bachelors keeping the ladies happy when “sealing the deal” at their house. I thought it was appropriate to take a look at the things he listed from the bachelorette’s point of view. While I am no stranger to long-term relationships, I’ve [...]

10 Things Every Bachelor Should Have in His Pad

‘m not a player I just blog a lot, but over the course of my dating years I’ve picked up a few tools to playing the game. See, getting a woman to your crib is one thing but getting her to stay the night is another altogether. A lot of times guys fail to seal [...]

Which Birth Control Has Failed You? (The Price of Sex)

It’s funny, last week someone on the MadameNoire message board named “Wow” left an interesting comment on my now infamous “baby mama” post.  She suggested that because of my views on dating single mothers that “I’m sure you’ve paid for about 3 abortions… I pray to God you knock someone up. You’ll be singing a [...]

Customize Your Condom Size (How Men Measure Up)

As far as I knew condoms only came in two sizes. In fact, from what I read, the FDA doesn’t allow for condoms that are longer, shorter, thinner, or thicker than the average. So all you have are the “regular” rubbers and Magnums for the lucky bastards brothers that required a little extra room. If [...]

Your Place or Mine? (Sex With Home Field Advantage)

When it comes to sex there are a lot of variables that go into an enjoyable experience. Along with size, stroke, swagger, stamina, passion and rhythm, chemistry is ultimately the most important. It doesn’t matter how fat her ass is or how large his package is, it don’t mean a thing if that animal magnetism [...]

#40 Fellas, Do You Like it Raw? (Great, Let’s Talk)

I NEED YOUR HELP! I’m working on a story on condom usage—or the lack thereof—in the Black community and I’ve been having trouble finding folks willing to talk ANONYMOUSLY for this. I figured since I have access to a pool of open-minded individuals such as yourselves why not ask my dear readers for an assist. [...]

My Life’s Worth $1.08 a Nut (Plus Tax)

I have a confession to make: I hate buying condoms. Really, I do. Maybe it’s the fact that when I first started buying Jimmy Hats (ha, remember when we used to call them that?), the whole process was just embarrassing. Even though I was just trying to protect myself from STDs/STIs and getting someone pregnant, [...]