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How Will You Be Remembered After You Die? – My Grandpa’s 25th Anniversary

y grandfather died today. Not this actual day in 2012 but 25 years ago on January 11th. It’s a date I can never forget because my grandfather’s passing came a month to the day after my brother’s birth and two weeks and two days after my 10th birthday. Oddly enough, my best friend’s first born [...]

Have You Ever Broken Someone’s Heart? (Blog Cry)

Last week was interesting. Reposting “Are You Scared to Let Someone In?” made me reflect on a few things. I never claimed to be perfect. I’m human just like any other person, but I’d like to think that I’ve grown over the years. Still, I’ve made my fair share of mistakes in love and war. [...]

Are You Scared to Let Someone In? (Emotional Walls)

I can’t recall what exactly led to this point in the conversation, but here we were in a heated and emotional exchange. This was probably breakup #542 and I’m not ashamed to say that I felt the tears welling up behind my pupils long before I allowed them to trickle down my puffy cheeks. They [...]

The Last Time I Cried Was… (A Man’s Tears)

eek before last was the 24th anniversary of my grandfather’s death. In remembrance of him and that milestone I wrote about how sometimes I get this overwhelming urge to go back to the house I grew up in. My grandfather’s death has weighed heavy on my heart for some time now and I’ve always felt [...]

Do I Tell My Dad to Stop Calling? (Broken Family Values)

Sigh! My phone has been ringing for the past two weeks. Every time I look at the caller ID, no name pops up and I’m forced to decide between answering or letting it go to voicemail. I know who it is but I’m not in the mood to talk—at least not now. I’m sorry. Sam. [...]

Can An Ex Ruin You For Other People? (Moving On)

“I love you, Slim, we coulda been together, think about it/You ruined it now, I hope you can’t sleep and you dream about it.” —Eminem, “Stan” The funny thing about relationships is that they can feel absolutely perfect when you’re in the depths of love. The problem is when the good times come to an [...]

#37 First Day of School Blues (Mama Didn’t Warn Me)

Depending on what part of the world you’re in, today marks the first day of school for most kids—at least in the States New York. While it’s been over 11 years since I’ve had to step into a classroom, the unofficial end of summer made me think about how my mother bamboozled me on my [...]

#24 Would You Beat This Bacon-Loving Brat?

I’ve never watched ABC’s Wife Swap before but I came across a jaw-dropping clip from the show on Crunk & Disorderly today. All hell breaks loose when an African-American woman named Joy, from a family of fitness freaks, is sent in to head a White Southern family with bad eating habits. The youngest of the [...]