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Are You a Cock Tease? (In the Heat of the Night, Pt. 1)

We were supposed to meet up in the city for drinks but our schedules just never lined up. The fact I was freelancing full-time and barely left my bat cave was a big part of the problem. In an effort to meet somewhere in the middle, Melissa finally asked, “Where do you live?” “Queens,” I [...]

How Sexy Can Cooking Be? (Turning Up the Heat)

They say that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. While that might not be completely true (you gotta stimulate the mind, body and soul), a woman that can work her way around a stove can be sexist sexy as hell. Over the years, I’ve discovered that the same holds true for [...]

A Picture’s Worth, Pt. 4 (Birthday Surprise)

PRELUDE: Sometimes you need to step back from a situation to see it more clearly. At the top of the year I posted a story called “A Picture’s Worth.” It was a three-part epic revolving around one long-ass day that resulted in “April,” the woman that the story was based on, to take offense (See [...]

Morning Monologue: I Had a Dream I Was Car Jacked

I couple weeks I posted about a bad dream I had. I don’t often remember my nocturnal thoughts so the fact I remembered it vividly meant something to me so I reached out to you guys to get some help on analyzing it. Well, I had another crazy dream and figured since you guys did [...]

A Picture's Worth, Pt. 3 of 3

PLEASE NOTE: This is Part Three of a three-part post, if you don’t want to be completely confused; I suggest you read PART ONE and PART TWO first before proceeding any further. As I waited on the desolate platform, I did everything within my power to stay awake because I was dead tired. I had [...]

DAY 30: The Break Up (Prequel) 89/90

PRELUDE: Early on in the 30-day blog marathon I told the story of The Breakup. If you don’t recall or didn’t read it, click the link above. Now this is what happened approximately 29 days earlier… It was sometime in mid-August of 1999 and Monica and I were about to celebrate our third anniversary. In [...]

Evening Epilogue: Day 26 (What Do You Miss?) 78/90

Good evening, Apologies for my tardiness. After swim class I went to check my homegirl’s photo exhibit she was curating for “A Great Day in Brooklyn” photo shoot she helped set up a couple weeks back. Afterwards a group of us got up for dinner, during which I came across mostly the same questions about [...]

Evening Epilogue: Day 24 (The Chinese Food Spot) 72/90

Good evening, The whole train ride home I was thinking, Damn, what am I gonna write about tonight? Well, that and, Damn, what am I gonna eat? The apple I had before I left work helped a great deal but I needed a meal. I finished the last of my leftovers last night and I [...]